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"I’d haaaaaate to be called that "
It’s childish and a throwback to the 90s. I called girls that in school.
But….., there’s some women in here probably act the way they did that earned that immature remark to them.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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From a random guy then it's a veiled insult as you don't show them any or enough attention.
From someone you know then you're probably just a cold hearted bitch.
Either or.
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By *odevilWoman 47 weeks ago
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"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions
I don't think it's a good or bad thing"
I've been called that too!
I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.
On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win. |
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"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions
I don't think it's a good or bad thing"
I think that’s the male equivalent? (Don’t really know.)
If someone called me an Ice Queen I’d feel accomplished.
Like Ice T. I fucking LOVE him.
Iceberg Slim was a good writer, too.
My point is… when men are called “Ice” anything, it’s usually a compliment.
I’d take it as one even if it weren’t meant that way  |
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"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions
I don't think it's a good or bad thing
I've been called that too!
I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.
On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win. "
BINGO. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.
There are two ice queen's in this thread already! "
Do you say that as a compliment? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions
I don't think it's a good or bad thing
I've been called that too!
I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.
On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win. "
This isn't it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I've been called a cold fish. Think it just means someone who doesn't show their emotions
I don't think it's a good or bad thing
I've been called that too!
I think ice queen was intended to be derogatory but I didn't really understand why.
On the flip side, if people are overtly emotional they're accused of being dramatic or irrational. So actually, you can't really win.
This isn't it!"
Oh that reads badly, I mean that I agree |
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"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.
There are two ice queen's in this thread already!
Do you say that as a compliment? "
Oh I hope I’m one of them. |
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"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.
There are two ice queen's in this thread already!
Do you say that as a compliment? "
Many times! Because they are |
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"Who has ever called someone an ice queen in a nice way? Maybe Elsa from frozen is the only one.
There are two ice queen's in this thread already!
Do you say that as a compliment?
Oh I hope I’m one of them."
Four of them now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him. "
..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem. |
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"Ok if EYE called someone an Ice Queen (which I wouldn’t because it’s a dead diss) I would be saying so as a diss. "
It's all in the intent vs the reception of the person. It's no different than slut.
The intent of somebody calling another a slut may be an insult, while the target person takes pride in and owns it. |
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"Ok if EYE called someone an Ice Queen (which I wouldn’t because it’s a dead diss) I would be saying so as a diss.
It's all in the intent vs the reception of the person. It's no different than slut.
The intent of somebody calling another a slut may be an insult, while the target person takes pride in and owns it."
I am a card carrying Heartless Bitch |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem."
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"An insult or a compliment?
Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?
What's the male equivalent?
I wouldn’t take it as an insult. I would just ignore them…
#blackheart "
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"An insult or a compliment?
Ladies, if someone called you this how would you take it?
What's the male equivalent?
I wouldn’t take it as an insult. I would just ignore them…
#blackheart
Pirate? "
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"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.
Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.
That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!"
*holding my fucking sides laughing*
At least your heckler was creative! |
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"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.
Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.
That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!"
I would take it to mean that you're super duper intelligent!  |
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"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.
Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.
That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!
I would take it to mean that you're super duper intelligent! "
Or super duper emotionally retarded!! |
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By *ddie1966Man 47 weeks ago
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him. "
Got it in one...
Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.
Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.
Just my opinion though. |
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By *odevilWoman 47 weeks ago
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem."
True story:
The big baby who called me a "dreadful cold fish" (which I do think is quite funny actually) is the same guy who got more and more irate because I was extremely collected during the break up and while he was moving his crap out of my house. He then completely lost his shit because the only time I got remotely emotional because he point blank refused to SELL me the Dyson (which was actually given to us by one of his mates who fancied me).
Spiteful bastard. |
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem.
True story:
The big baby who called me a "dreadful cold fish" (which I do think is quite funny actually) is the same guy who got more and more irate because I was extremely collected during the break up and while he was moving his crap out of my house. He then completely lost his shit because the only time I got remotely emotional because he point blank refused to SELL me the Dyson (which was actually given to us by one of his mates who fancied me).
Spiteful bastard. "
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
Got it in one...
Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.
Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.
Just my opinion though."
So it just needs a man to save the day to defeat the evil queen? |
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
Got it in one...
Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.
Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.
Just my opinion though.
So it just needs a man to save the day to defeat the evil queen? "
See to me it just means frosty bitch, but I could be wrong. |
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By *odevilWoman 47 weeks ago
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
..... or it's said by a man you were fucking, but they failed to get their claws in and control you, so they turn the blame to you because they cant be seen as looking the wanker and make you out to be the problem.
True story:
The big baby who called me a "dreadful cold fish" (which I do think is quite funny actually) is the same guy who got more and more irate because I was extremely collected during the break up and while he was moving his crap out of my house. He then completely lost his shit because the only time I got remotely emotional because he point blank refused to SELL me the Dyson (which was actually given to us by one of his mates who fancied me).
Spiteful bastard.
Diddums "
Oh I'm totally over it now
I just thought it was funny that he did that to spite me and then got super mad because I was mildly upset about losing the hoover rather than him.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. |
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"I've been called the Stephen Hawking of emotional retardation.
Possibly similar. Pretty sure it wasn't a compliment though.
That being said, it's nice to be a genius at something!
I would take it to mean that you're super duper intelligent!
Or super duper emotionally retarded!!"
Nooooooo. Intelligent! Was Prof. Hawking emotionally challenged?! |
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"It's a compliment. 99% of the time it's said by a sad bitter man who is crying because the "ice queen" won't fuck him.
Got it in one...
Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.
Personally I think the term is seriously demeaning and any person who'd use it should take a good hard look at themselves.
Just my opinion though.
So it just needs a man to save the day to defeat the evil queen?
See to me it just means frosty bitch, but I could be wrong."
But they are, well maybe not the bitch part. Frosty isn't directly bad though. Again it's all about intent and reception. |
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Got it in one...
Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.
Um. No.
Oh yes it will (come on.... join in, it is panto season after all)
He's behind you. !!"
That won't work on this one. Proper ice queen she is. |
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By *ddie1966Man 47 weeks ago
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Got it in one...
Even an Ice Queens heart will melt for the right man.
Um. No.
Oh yes it will (come on.... join in, it is panto season after all)
He's behind you. !!
Hiss"
PS.... love my Dyson too. I'd also be lost without it |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I'm not sure what the equivalent for men is but I've been called a "dark horse" a few times and I have the same query about whether that's a compliment or not  |
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