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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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A woman might take it as a compliment if you finish early …. But I guess as long as you don’t just pull your pants up and leave straight after 
Foreplay for her…while you’re getting ‘ready to go again’ for round 2 ….
Or make sure you give her the Ooooooooooo haha before you….
Ignoring all that… just have a wank before the meet  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"A woman might take it as a compliment if you finish early …. But I guess as long as you don’t just pull your pants up and leave straight after
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Oh no, please do |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"A woman might take it as a compliment if you finish early …. But I guess as long as you don’t just pull your pants up and leave straight after
Oh no, please do"
Only if you insist |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Well, I don't want to say it but I will. I would recommend closing your eyes and picturing your nana shouting BINGO and it's the fucking jackpot would you believe it she has waited her whole life for this moment. 10k cash in her hand. She's crying her eyes out screaming BINGO BINGO BINGO and everybody is clapping and the man is running over to check her tickets and her friends are offering Werther's Originals to everyone in the hall she is so happy you've never seen her smile so much and her mouth can't can't hold her dentures she is so blessed today didn't your nana always deserve that? I know she did it is a universal experience we all go through but guess what it's just a fucking dream it never happened life is cruel and life is not fair but honestly thinking these kind of things really helps you to last so much longer. |
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"Well, I don't want to say it but I will. I would recommend closing your eyes and picturing your nana shouting BINGO and it's the fucking jackpot would you believe it she has waited her whole life for this moment. 10k cash in her hand. She's crying her eyes out screaming BINGO BINGO BINGO and everybody is clapping and the man is running over to check her tickets and her friends are offering Werther's Originals to everyone in the hall she is so happy you've never seen her smile so much and her mouth can't can't hold her dentures she is so blessed today didn't your nana always deserve that? I know she did it is a universal experience we all go through but guess what it's just a fucking dream it never happened life is cruel and life is not fair but honestly thinking these kind of things really helps you to last so much longer. "
Well I'm off... To have a wank over this |
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By *RWoodyCouple 47 weeks ago
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"I can honestly say I've never wanted to last longer, or for the guy to last longer either!
If its quick then you're doing something right 
J x
And there's always round 2, 3, 4.....  "
You know how this goes
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"I can honestly say I've never wanted to last longer, or for the guy to last longer either!
If its quick then you're doing something right
J x
And there's always round 2, 3, 4.....
You know how this goes
J x"
It's been a while, but.......
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises 
Slow down? 
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!! "
You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes, its not right to do
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!! "
Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Try reverse psychology and think you have to cum as fast as you can.
Add some orgasm control games to your play.
The opposite works for ladies who struggle with their orgasm. Telling them they're not allowed to takes the stress and focus off of trying to cum and they can relax. Then enjoy some punishment for being so naughty too. Win win.
Most research in to guys who want to last longer says it's made worse the more performance anxiety they have. So make it a race. See how quickly you can do it.
Then take the focus off penetration and enjoy all the other parts of sex. Get the toys out and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum "
Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum
Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control."
Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us  |
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes, its not right to do
MrsAbz "
Sometimes you've got to make some lurve  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum
Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.
Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us "
Don't slow down! the cheat code I found was to tell him just as I started to orgasm and we would cum together, which is the hottest thing anyway. Then a little breather and a cuddle and round 2 or 3 or wherever we had got to, or just passing out exhausted... damn. This nostalgia almost makes me want to text him haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum
Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.
Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us
Don't slow down! the cheat code I found was to tell him just as I started to orgasm and we would cum together, which is the hottest thing anyway. Then a little breather and a cuddle and round 2 or 3 or wherever we had got to, or just passing out exhausted... damn. This nostalgia almost makes me want to text him haha"
Ooooh noted! you should definitely text him and if he doesn't reply, I will |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes, its not right to do
MrsAbz "
I was talking about me.  |
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"Have a look at the clock (discreetly) at the start and when I feel close to cum.
Then willpower, slowing down or changing position.
If there's no clock, then wing it."
This is excellent advice
Bonus points for wearing either a Casio calculator watch or some kind of cartoon watch! |
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"Have a look at the clock (discreetly) at the start and when I feel close to cum.
Then willpower, slowing down or changing position.
If there's no clock, then wing it.
This is excellent advice
Bonus points for wearing either a Casio calculator watch or some kind of cartoon watch! "
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The clock, not the watch.
I like to start with doggie, so I usually get away with it.
It's for everyone's benefit.
I didn't wear a watch since 2001.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Practice edging while wanking, deep breaths, slow down, kegel exercises
Slow down?
Harder faster bang bang bang bang!!
Fun fact, saying this along with "please keep going" automatically makes my stupid body want to cum
Haha. An ex playmate of mine banned me from telling him I was about to cum as he would lose control.
Oh my God same! But then I can't slow down because I still want her to cum so it's over for both of us
Don't slow down! the cheat code I found was to tell him just as I started to orgasm and we would cum together, which is the hottest thing anyway. Then a little breather and a cuddle and round 2 or 3 or wherever we had got to, or just passing out exhausted... damn. This nostalgia almost makes me want to text him haha
Ooooh noted! you should definitely text him and if he doesn't reply, I will "
Haha thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Just go again "
A solid option. Round 2 almost always lasts longer. I've had a couple of partners who would call the first time they cum the foreplay or warm up. That's easier for some than others though. |
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