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Some messages are only fit for instant deleting.
Among the, "hey" "Available now" "Now?" "Need to unload" messages this week, We received one that at last showed some effort, "can I fuck her now"
Needless to say that they didn't get a reply lol.
When will single guys realise that to get anywhere with the majority of couples and women on here, they need to put some effort into their messages. Otherwise its just an instant delete  |
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Um, usually they realise a while after they start getting all vitriolic in their followup messages / statuses / forum posts. Stay venomous for a while. Then either fuck off or actually learn and try to be real people  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Some messages are only fit for instant deleting.
Among the, "hey" "Available now" "Now?" "Need to unload" messages this week, We received one that at last showed some effort, "can I fuck her now"
Needless to say that they didn't get a reply lol.
When will single guys realise that to get anywhere with the majority of couples and women on here, they need to put some effort into their messages. Otherwise its just an instant delete "
Sometimes the man is entirely at fault for the "can I fuck you now" messages.
Other times, not so much.
You get back what you put out.
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We do wonder sometimes if people even bother reading what’s on our profile. We clearly state what we want and what our response will be to messages that are rude blunt etc.
Maybe they just message with the hope that someone will reply with what they want to hear. |
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Couples can be as bad tbh
On my joint profile we've had one couple ask me to go wake my partner up as they were horny and he was in bed, block.
Some of the messages they send are really unimaginative and show they've not read our profile too.
I'm sure some women are the same, but i/we're not interested in meeting ladies.
I don't think lack of effort and assuming you're free cos they're horny is justa thing men do. |
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"I think a lot of people aren't very good at communicating, and they haven't quite worked out that you need to imitate (but adapt) some of the norms of communicating in person."
For sure communication is important, in both reading and then using what they've read to modulated an empathic response.
However, it beggars belief on some people's lack of self awareness or how to market themselves... They think a picture of a shoulder with text that only says "fill in later" is somehow, appealing? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I’ve become immune to them at this stage.
Will say though that it’s not only single guys. Women, couples, TV’s all guilty as well.
I block, delete and don’t give them another thought. |
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By *oxy jWoman 48 weeks ago
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i find it a great filter any messages like that are a instant block ..so please please carry on guys dont hide it at least then its easy to work out who the numpties are ... and if guys a fed up of seeing these post then tough really we have to put up with this crap daily ... 95% of my messages on this my single and our couples account are pure rubbish...
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I have often wondered if this approach ever works for the guys. Because despite all the threads about it, it doesn't stop them. So am sure some people respond positively to them.
I had one where the guy said why blur your face. If he had read my profile he would know why.
When I replied at least I have public photos ( he had none, no friends only ). He replied that he was shy..pml.. |
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By *ucka39Man 48 weeks ago
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"I keep getting a repeat dm "Horny Now? "....no other words just "Horny Now?" From a so called couple....like WTF  "
I see few statuses like that I'm sure if they both started to have sex with each other it would help  |
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By *axo25Man 48 weeks ago
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"I’ve become immune to them at this stage.
Will say though that it’s not only single guys. Women, couples, TV’s all guilty as well.
I block, delete and don’t give them another thought."
On a completely separate note I would come at you like a parched spaniel Red!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Couples can be as bad tbh
On my joint profile we've had one couple ask me to go wake my partner up as they were horny and he was in bed, block.
Some of the messages they send are really unimaginative and show they've not read our profile too.
I'm sure some women are the same, but i/we're not interested in meeting ladies.
I don't think lack of effort and assuming you're free cos they're horny is justa thing men do. "
They even do it to other men which is why I have stopped meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I imagine this is the same people who rush to the bar to drink as much as possible in case it gets busy later, or need the approval of 7 mates before buying a t shirt. |
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"Some messages are only fit for instant deleting.
Among the, "hey" "Available now" "Now?" "Need to unload" messages this week, We received one that at last showed some effort, "can I fuck her now"
Needless to say that they didn't get a reply lol.
When will single guys realise that to get anywhere with the majority of couples and women on here, they need to put some effort into their messages. Otherwise its just an instant delete "
We get the same from couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I keep getting a repeat dm "Horny Now? "....no other words just "Horny Now?" From a so called couple....like WTF
I see few statuses like that I'm sure if they both started to have sex with each other it would help "
Maybe next time I'll just reply...."Horny Horny Horny"....!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Can it be changed to when will SOME single guys realise, because in the defence of some single guys its not all single guys.
Some make an effort in the approach.
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When will #some single guys! realise that to get anywhere with the majority of couples and women on here, they need to put some effort into their messages. Otherwise its just an instant delete "
FIFY, just to be fair to those single guys who actually do make an effort, but yet get bundled into the majority, and get the pleasure of carrying others behaviour.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Some messages are only fit for instant deleting.
Among the, "hey" "Available now" "Now?" "Need to unload" messages this week, We received one that at last showed some effort, "can I fuck her now"
Needless to say that they didn't get a reply lol.
When will single guys realise that to get anywhere with the majority of couples and women on here, they need to put some effort into their messages. Otherwise its just an instant delete "
You aren't conversing with the right guys .. I've never sent any such messages to anybody and I get almost zero hellos or replies..
You actually get more responses if you are cheeky and rude ..  |
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"I think a lot of people aren't very good at communicating, and they haven't quite worked out that you need to imitate (but adapt) some of the norms of communicating in person.
For sure communication is important, in both reading and then using what they've read to modulated an empathic response.
However, it beggars belief on some people's lack of self awareness or how to market themselves... They think a picture of a shoulder with text that only says "fill in later" is somehow, appealing?"
Agreed.
And I'll note that I said "people", not "men". |
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By *ustBoWoman 48 weeks ago
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When will people realise they are not entitled to anything on here and that includes dictating what others write.
It's very easy to just delete messages that are of no interest to you. Yes there can be some ridiculous ones,but in saying that I wonder how many people who slag off messages they get have actually ever written a first message themselves it's not actually that easy to write one to a complete stranger.
And if messages do annoy people so much there's a funny thing called filters that can be used and people could actually send first ones themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Anything that has "hey mrs" or some permutation of it - grinds my gears no end. Anything where they go "hope that's okay" cos that also deeply irritates me.
Boring 'heys' with nothing else.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"When will people realise they are not entitled to anything on here and that includes dictating what others write.
It's very easy to just delete messages that are of no interest to you. Yes there can be some ridiculous ones,but in saying that I wonder how many people who slag off messages they get have actually ever written a first message themselves it's not actually that easy to write one to a complete stranger.
And if messages do annoy people so much there's a funny thing called filters that can be used and people could actually send first ones themselves."
I messaged a person..(note I said person not a woman)
Who replied with a snotty message saying I was too old.
I replied "we'll set your age range preference"
Another stupid reply so just blocked |
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"...When will single guys realise that to get anywhere with the majority of couples and women on here, they need to put some effort into their messages. Otherwise its just an instant delete. "
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I've adopted the same approach when I've received messages from women. They can be equally vacuous. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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They may well have scripted a most articulate message and realised that shock horror it didn't instantly result in the invite they desired, so they went back to "hey bbe" |
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