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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
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What's to stop malicious bad reviews then |
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I don’t think I have ever really had a meet that would warrant a really negative review. Stuff has gone wrong but that is life and I am sure that others could say the same about me.
If I got to the stage where a meet went that badly wrong then I think the issue is more to do with my vetting beforehand. |
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
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She gave me the clap....
Avoid like like the plague |
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
She gave me the clap....
Avoid like like the plague "
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You would put yourself on the avoid list in the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
She gave me the clap....
Avoid like like the plague
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You would put yourself on the avoid list in the same time."
Didn't say I was smart 
Just a twat |
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Obviously negative veris are a bad idea, but … hypothetically …
I came down with a *really* crappy cold/flu thing after the last Glasgow social. I snogged three girls on that night. So I’d leave each of them a veri saying there’s a one-in-three chance she had me in bed for a week. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
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For example. Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
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Oddly specific  |
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I do agree the system would be rife for abuse and I understand why it isn't allowed.
Lotta bitter angry people out there, unfortunately.
And before anyone starts thinking this post is about them... I don't use verifications at all. Full stop. Good or bad. I do a video call ahead of time with any prospective meet. And I keep my business to myself, good or bad. |
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Time wasters! Like not actually turning up to a confirmed/arranged social or meet.
And anyone who's lied about their "situation" , age etc, to get round your preferences, because that removes your ability to consent, which is incredibly important on here. |
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
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Ooh exactly that!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
Ooh exactly that!!!"
Yeah I don't like this idea |
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"Time wasters! Like not actually turning up to a confirmed/arranged social or meet.
And anyone who's lied about their "situation" , age etc, to get round your preferences, because that removes your ability to consent, which is incredibly important on here."
This is the kind of thing I was thinking too. IF the system could exist without being abused. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
Oddly specific "
I think it would actually cover quite a high percentage of men on here to be fair. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
Ooh exactly that!!!
Yeah I don't like this idea "
Why not? It would be honest and would give others the ability to make an informed choice according their own moral compass. |
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
Ooh exactly that!!!
Yeah I don't like this idea
Why not? It would be honest and would give others the ability to make an informed choice according their own moral compass."
Obviously hit a nerve |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
I'm not smart enough for that. I need it spelled out to me in detail.  "
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You come across smart and (not fake) nice to me.
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I think this one would be common.....
Was fucking him for a while and it turns out he's married/attached, denied it several times despite strong evidence to the contrary. Lies through his teeth, is controlling, wanted exclusivity and was arrogant. Decent fuck though. |
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If I've not enjoyed a meet or felt they were deceptive in any way , I just don't leave a verification.
As said above anyone would be able to say things about people if they were spiteful & I'd worry how it would be policed. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"“His balls and ass smelt like chemical warfare…”
Her fanny smelt like gone off fish
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I use "smelt like dead rabbit".
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There's no way this idea would end well haha
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"If I've not enjoyed a meet or felt they were deceptive in any way , I just don't leave a verification.
As said above anyone would be able to say things about people if they were spiteful & I'd worry how it would be policed. "
That’s valid. |
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Accuracy of description…3 fannies
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Okay, this legit cracked me up |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"“His balls and ass smelt like chemical warfare…”
Her fanny smelt like gone off fish
Men can smell like that too you know
… and now I will be sick. "
Well how bad a mans private parts smell is not my issue thankfully |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Very interesting.... May I add a twist what if you taught or felt someone was nuts or dangerous..... I know you can't save the world. "
Then you go the police surely |
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Maybe a system only admin can see. That way if someone is persistently getting complaints or allegations against them they can be flagged. Or just a refused to give a verification after meet button. That would spell it out |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Boom
Nailed it  |
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
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I don't think his could ever work, but I'd give them for over stepping boundaries, pestering after meets etc.
It'd have to be inappropriate behaviour rather than just annoying, such as not turning up. |
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"Very interesting.... May I add a twist what if you taught or felt someone was nuts or dangerous..... I know you can't save the world. "
Oh wow. That goes beyond “didn’t show up” or “lied about being single” or even “gave me an STI”
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"Maybe a system only admin can see. That way if someone is persistently getting complaints or allegations against them they can be flagged. Or just a refused to give a verification after meet button. That would spell it out"
Now THIS seems logical.
The point isn’t to be vengeful. It’s to do our part to help others stay safe using this site.
I like this idea. |
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"“His balls and ass smelt like chemical warfare…”
Her fanny smelt like gone off fish
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I use "smelt like dead rabbit".
There's no way this idea would end well haha
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I never said to anybody and thankfully never experienced it.
Once I was close I guess with a young (18+) waitress.
Gorgeous face with eyes, nose and lips absolutely perfect.
Natural breasts, but standing the same without bra.
Nice waist and a round full moon bum.
Not too small and not too big.
We were flirting with each other until I went closer.
She stunk as hell.
I took it as probably she went out and didn't shower before work.
So maybe a one off.
She was always like that, so I said: "I'm not single anymore and not cheating.
Sorry!"
I can imagine she smelt like dead rabbit down there.
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"“His balls and ass smelt like chemical warfare…”
Her fanny smelt like gone off fish
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I use "smelt like dead rabbit".
There's no way this idea would end well haha
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I never said to anybody and thankfully never experienced it.
Once I was close I guess with a young (18+) waitress.
Gorgeous face with eyes, nose and lips absolutely perfect.
Natural breasts, but standing the same without bra.
Nice waist and a round full moon bum.
Not too small and not too big.
We were flirting with each other until I went closer.
She stunk as hell.
I took it as probably she went out and didn't shower before work.
So maybe a one off.
She was always like that, so I said: "I'm not single anymore and not cheating.
Sorry!"
I can imagine she smelt like dead rabbit down there.
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Yikes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"People would probably bail and set up a new profile, totally negating the 'benefit' of such a system.
Due to the potential for abuse, the above and other things, I don't see it taking off"
I said the same. But this thread is the loophole where people can do it, without saying they’ve done it…,
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"“His balls and ass smelt like chemical warfare…”
Her fanny smelt like gone off fish
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I use "smelt like dead rabbit".
There's no way this idea would end well haha
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I never said to anybody and thankfully never experienced it.
Once I was close I guess with a young (18+) waitress.
Gorgeous face with eyes, nose and lips absolutely perfect.
Natural breasts, but standing the same without bra.
Nice waist and a round full moon bum.
Not too small and not too big.
We were flirting with each other until I went closer.
She stunk as hell.
I took it as probably she went out and didn't shower before work.
So maybe a one off.
She was always like that, so I said: "I'm not single anymore and not cheating.
Sorry!"
I can imagine she smelt like dead rabbit down there.
Yikes."
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I have an extremely sensitive nose.
Desperation or beauty can't override it.
Even the smell of Fish pie makes me gag.
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"The only bad review i would give is if they didn't turn up or they turned up d*unk. If the sex was bad it may just be a lack of chemistry and someone else might have a great time with them. "
Exactly, imagine actually leaving a negative public review of someone's sexual performance.... it would be a pretty horrible thing to do |
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"The only bad review i would give is if they didn't turn up or they turned up d*unk. If the sex was bad it may just be a lack of chemistry and someone else might have a great time with them.
Exactly, imagine actually leaving a negative public review of someone's sexual performance.... it would be a pretty horrible thing to do "
To be clear, that's not what I meant by a bad veri. I meant more like, if someone isn't who they say they are... I heard a story once about someone showing up to a meet having done their due diligence. instead of the woman he was talking to and had verified previously by camera, he was met by a man who he'd never heard of before and who wanted to have sex with him! |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I don't think I would unless they were really abusive or made me feel uncomfortable. Otherwise, I would just but a bad meet down to lack of chemistry and would hate for others to be put off as a result. |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
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Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!! |
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"But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!"
I think I’d be contacting modmin and getting them a lifetime ban for a trick like that. |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!"
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
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And reporting to the police for r*pe |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe"
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It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
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Accuracy of description…..4 dicks
Eagerness to ‘rise’……4 dicks
Stiffness……5 dicks
Anatomical compatibility………3 dicks
Stamina…….1 dick
Re-usability……..2 dicks
Overall dick rating……3 dicks
Fuck advisors 5 Fanny system.
Accuracy of description…3 fannies
Wetness…5 fannies
Roominess…4 fannies
Anatomical compatibility…5 fannies
Stamina….3 fannies
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
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It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
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In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Fab negatives.. Ewwww
So what you did not gel or it went tits arse up.
Move on block.
Veris are to say they are who they are on the tin and only that not to violate someone. Admin would ban you mind. Try it lol |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
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It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked "
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I actually didn't know that.
Your guy wasn't just nasty, but also an idiot.
What difference it would make to him?
I guess his mom and dad were cousins at least. |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!"
That's prosecutable. I'm so sorry that happened to you. |
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"Very interesting.... May I add a twist what if you taught or felt someone was nuts or dangerous..... I know you can't save the world.
Then you go the police surely "
Yep. Had to do that! Did also inform fab, he soon got removed. |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
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It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
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It's exactly that. "stealthing" |
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"Very interesting.... May I add a twist what if you taught or felt someone was nuts or dangerous..... I know you can't save the world.
Then you go the police surely
Yep. Had to do that! Did also inform fab, he soon got removed."
Glad he was removed. I’m still sorry you had to go through that, it’s awful. |
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"Fab negatives.. Ewwww
So what you did not gel or it went tits arse up.
Move on block.
Veris are to say they are who they are on the tin and only that not to violate someone. Admin would ban you mind. Try it lol"
… I am NOT talking about leaving someone a bad sex review.
As far as I’m aware, the veri system was set up for safety. Not for reviewing each others’ sexual performance.
The fact that veri is used on this site to review sexual performance is why I no longer use veris.
I don’t want a “good sex review” ahh more than I want a “bad sex review.” I prefer to keep my personal business to myself.
‘Cause that’s how I get away with giving such abysmal sex to all the forumites I fuck.
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Still quite new but how I understood is that a veri helps to lower the risk by indicating that the person behind the profile is legitimate. For me if there is consistency in the veris that's a good sign.
Negative reviews would have a risk malicious intent and would need probably quite a bit of monitoring.
From what I experienced some people do background checks (talk to the people who verified to find out more I guess) anyway which again lowers the risk.
I think there will always be a risk remaining, some are better in lying than others I guess. And some better in detecting lies than others.
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I don’t want a “good sex review” ahh more than I want a “bad sex review.” I prefer to keep my personal business to myself.
‘Cause that’s how I get away with giving such abysmal sex to all the forumites I fuck.
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I wish I had a good sex review, nobody has yet left me a good sex review …. Oh wait. Ahhhhh…. Now I get it.  |
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
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I’d love to warn others of things like
She/they Make a sh1t cup of tea and no sandwiches or cake was offered
But I need a meet first I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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A ‘safety’ veri is what needs to be put out there… poor performance or amazing performance could be momentary and vary from one to another…. But keeping folk safe is paramount  |
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"A ‘safety’ veri is what needs to be put out there… poor performance or amazing performance could be momentary and vary from one to another…. But keeping folk safe is paramount "
Everything will be like yell.
All you need is an asshole to abuse the ssystem.
And then all of a sudden somebody’s really good profile which is from a good person is completely spoilt by some ass, putting some dickish review because they’ve been peeved over something.
I hate the idea. Reviews, I’m sorry verifications currently are a positive thing it keeps the website with a good positive, vibe. Nobody shows a bad review, and why would you. Like everything it’s not what somebody says. It’s what someone doesn’t say.
Anyone who thinks in a negative way are just fun suckers. They just like causing trouble. |
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"A ‘safety’ veri is what needs to be put out there… poor performance or amazing performance could be momentary and vary from one to another…. But keeping folk safe is paramount
Everything will be like yell.
All you need is an asshole to abuse the ssystem.
And then all of a sudden somebody’s really good profile which is from a good person is completely spoilt by some ass, putting some dickish review because they’ve been peeved over something.
I hate the idea. Reviews, I’m sorry verifications currently are a positive thing it keeps the website with a good positive, vibe. Nobody shows a bad review, and why would you. Like everything it’s not what somebody says. It’s what someone doesn’t say.
Anyone who thinks in a negative way are just fun suckers. They just like causing trouble."
So you’re not a fan of safety then.
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"States he's single but actually has a wife and child but didn't tell me until after I agreed to a social. Can't verify as genuine. He got shitty when I backed out of the social, he complained I didn't show enough excitement in the first place and threatened to cancel anyway. Seems very needy.
You mean like that?
Oddly specific
I think it would actually cover quite a high percentage of men on here to be fair."
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You mean like:
After inviting her down for the weekend, it's emerges that she's really looking for a one on one long term relationship.
Or:
Wants exclusivity!
That's been a common denominator regularly for me. |
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"A ‘safety’ veri is what needs to be put out there… poor performance or amazing performance could be momentary and vary from one to another…. But keeping folk safe is paramount
Yes. Exactly "
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"A ‘….
Anyone who thinks in a negative way are just fun suckers. They just like causing trouble.
So you’re not a fan of safety then.
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Don’t try and twist my words!!! |
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"A ‘safety’ veri is what needs to be put out there… poor performance or amazing performance could be momentary and vary from one to another…. But keeping folk safe is paramount
Yes. Exactly
Care to verify me as safe ? "
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
I’d love to warn others of things like
She/they Make a sh1t cup of tea and no sandwiches or cake was offered
But I need a meet first I guess "
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" Good shag, but a crap host.
Better bring your own snack and drink for the night."
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
I’d love to warn others of things like
She/they Make a sh1t cup of tea and no sandwiches or cake was offered
But I need a meet first I guess
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" Good shag, but a crap host.
Better bring your own snack and drink for the night."
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How could you out me that way?
*sobs*
I’m very much a “get it yourself* kinda gal.
In fact I’m a shit hostess AND a shit shag.
Oops.
Maybe I don’t like the sex reviews cause I know what people would say about my lacklustre performances |
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"A ‘safety’ veri is what needs to be put out there… poor performance or amazing performance could be momentary and vary from one to another…. But keeping folk safe is paramount
Yes. Exactly
Care to verify me as safe ?
Sure, I’ll do it for a soggy biscuit."
Hobnobs don’t go soggy do they?  |
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"To give out negative verifications that couldn’t be hidden…
Would you give someone a bad veri?
What sort of offenses would make you want to warn others about the person or couple?
I’d love to warn others of things like
She/they Make a sh1t cup of tea and no sandwiches or cake was offered
But I need a meet first I guess
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" Good shag, but a crap host.
Better bring your own snack and drink for the night."
How could you out me that way?
*sobs*
I’m very much a “get it yourself* kinda gal.
In fact I’m a shit hostess AND a shit shag.
Oops.
Maybe I don’t like the sex reviews cause I know what people would say about my lacklustre performances "
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You could get away with it.
You are interesting, nice and wouldn't criticize my haircut.
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Having only good verifications is total nonsense. I reckon people just lie
BUT BUT BUT
Wouldn't people just give bad reviews if they got turned down and knocked back.
I still think just no veris is the way forward if you can meet without them |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
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It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked
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I actually didn't know that.
Your guy wasn't just nasty, but also an idiot.
What difference it would make to him?
I guess his mom and dad were cousins at least."
Cunt is actually the word I'd use to describe him... |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
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"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
***
It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked
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I actually didn't know that.
Your guy wasn't just nasty, but also an idiot.
What difference it would make to him?
I guess his mom and dad were cousins at least.
Cunt is actually the word I'd use to describe him..."
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It would be pointed out and blown out of proportion, if I'd write that.
I tried to be more subtle.
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
***
"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
***
It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked
***
I actually didn't know that.
Your guy wasn't just nasty, but also an idiot.
What difference it would make to him?
I guess his mom and dad were cousins at least.
Cunt is actually the word I'd use to describe him...
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It would be pointed out and blown out of proportion, if I'd write that.
I tried to be more subtle.
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Lol.. I don't use that word lightly.. but it's appropriate |
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
***
"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
***
It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked
***
I actually didn't know that.
Your guy wasn't just nasty, but also an idiot.
What difference it would make to him?
I guess his mom and dad were cousins at least.
Cunt is actually the word I'd use to describe him...
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It would be pointed out and blown out of proportion, if I'd write that.
I tried to be more subtle.
Lol.. I don't use that word lightly.. but it's appropriate "
You are correct
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
***
"Had a guy secretly remove his condom"
That one would deserve a bad review for sure.
And reporting to the police for r*pe
***
It's nasty, but that's a big stretch.
In English law deliberate removal of a condom r*pe... I only discovered this after a guy I had been planning to meet said in a message to me he would have deliberately torn the condom.. suffice to say he got blocked
***
I actually didn't know that.
Your guy wasn't just nasty, but also an idiot.
What difference it would make to him?
I guess his mom and dad were cousins at least.
Cunt is actually the word I'd use to describe him...
***
It would be pointed out and blown out of proportion, if I'd write that.
I tried to be more subtle.
Lol.. I don't use that word lightly.. but it's appropriate
You are correct
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"People do leave some bad verifications, if you can read between the lines.
Exactly, I may have written 1 or 2 like that myself
If there was ever a way of stopping it being abused (never going to happen) then I'd like see the feature...my time keeping would very a red flag to almost haha
But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!"
I'd be contacting admin and the police for that. |
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"But warning others of bad behaviour would be welcome...i.e. had a guy secretly remove his condom once, all future partners should be aware!!
I think I’d be contacting modmin and getting them a lifetime ban for a trick like that. "
I did report and blocked, no idea if they're still on here!! New account could be possible, it's another reason why negative posts wouldn't work |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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No, I wouldn't. Just become someone isn't right for me doesn't mean that they wouldn't be great for someone else. I never read verifications because I don't care what other people think about someone. All that matters is what I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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When I first started swinging I had some negative experiences but they still wouldn't have warranted a negative review. I don't think that I would leave one, just because I didn't like it doesn't mean that another person wouldn't. I do find people put far to much stock into others opinions about things. I'm not watching that film been told it's crap, no that gadget doesn't work well etc. People would do the same with others ha. |
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I mean wtf, I thought I was good enough to get a Viscount or something ??? 
