One of the worst parts of fab for me is when I recieve a message from a guy (I'm using guy as that's who I get most of my messages from but it has happened with woman/couples too), I read their profile, they sound nice enough, got some good body shots in public etc) so I reply, few messages of banter and they friend request so I accept to see the face pics in private, not one there... So then I have to ask.
Wait for the next message to come thru, here it is.... Pic attached and
 
Just no attraction there at all. Bugger x |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"One of the worst parts of fab for me is when I recieve a message from a guy (I'm using guy as that's who I get most of my messages from but it has happened with woman/couples too), I read their profile, they sound nice enough, got some good body shots in public etc) so I reply, few messages of banter and they friend request so I accept to see the face pics in private, not one there... So then I have to ask.
Wait for the next message to come thru, here it is.... Pic attached and
Just no attraction there at all. Bugger x"
I get that too - then you have to say no - which can become awkward. That's why - no face pic, no response. If I message someone first I send a face pic. If they decide they are not interested then that is ok - nothing lost. |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country "
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted |
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Just no attraction there at all. Bugger x"
it happens, were are only human, the question is how do you deal with it...
to be fair I have seen pics and thought OK, I'll go for that, but in the flesh after one fuck all the interest has gone, so pics are very deceiving... pics are just porn
reality is the flesh, I have had great sex with people who if I *only* saw a recent clear and in focus face pic first, would have passed on, and had the exact same thing said to me many a time |
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over a year ago
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Same old story over here. All the women that i get along with and turn me on like mad are out of London and miles and miles away i.e. even Wales or Scotland even
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is frustrating when you think you've come across someone perfect who then just falls short - or you just fall short of their standards, it really empties you when everythings been going so swimmingly and then you hear the dreaded 'but I'm just not attracted to you', especially when theres a brief pause afterwards and they go '...sorry', oooh thats a real knife twister! |
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over a year ago
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That's why we try and get the face pics swapped early. It's very awkward if you've had a few nice messages then the face pic comes and you don't fancy them.
But having said that one of our best meets was a couple who only had one pic up when we met. We've met them a few times now and they've gradually put up more pics on their profile. But if we looked at their pics now we probably would pass them by, they are very attractive in the flesh just not that photogenic. |
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over a year ago
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I've just had this happen to me, all way going well until he set a face pic, there wasn't actually anything wrong with it just that I'm the fussiest person on here |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted "
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Same here with me last year, banter was great eventually I asked him for a face pic, didn't fancy him at all and told him so, however we met up for a drink cos we'd been having such a laugh on line, got on brilliantly and ended up playing several times.
Unless they are really not attractive to ya, I do think a social meet can sometimes be a great surprise |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team "
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done "
Message sent  |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent "
see thats community spirit!  |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit! "
I'm nice like that |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit!
I'm nice like that "
Damn you got in first!
I was going to ask for that name  |
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unless ppl arent really that bothered about face pics early on in contact I dont see a problem...
I just wonder if someone holding back facepics(until they get the friendshippery) is timewasting and may actually not be wanting to get to the meet stage..and of course to grab a few good pervs at possible nakee pics(trust me it happens contrary to some peoples thoughts) |
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I don't have mine public but have never had an issue with sending it on request.
Some people do hold it back and it always makes me wonder what they have to hide. |
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"I don't have mine public but have never had an issue with sending it on request.
Some people do hold it back and it always makes me wonder what they have to hide."
Can I have a face pic!!!! heh heh..... Sorry, just couldn't resist it. |
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"unless ppl arent really that bothered about face pics early on in contact I dont see a problem...
I just wonder if someone holding back facepics(until they get the friendshippery) is timewasting and may actually not be wanting to get to the meet stage..and of course to grab a few good pervs at possible nakee pics(trust me it happens contrary to some peoples thoughts) "
Interesting because after much banter and then finally getting a pic, I sent mine back. Can only assume he's done what I mentioned in my OP!!! Lol xx |
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"unless ppl arent really that bothered about face pics early on in contact I dont see a problem...
I just wonder if someone holding back facepics(until they get the friendshippery) is timewasting and may actually not be wanting to get to the meet stage..and of course to grab a few good pervs at possible nakee pics(trust me it happens contrary to some peoples thoughts)
Interesting because after much banter and then finally getting a pic, I sent mine back. Can only assume he's done what I mentioned in my OP!!! Lol xx "
lol anyway..stop accepting friends requests until uve got a facial lol..thats my advice x |
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"unless ppl arent really that bothered about face pics early on in contact I dont see a problem...
I just wonder if someone holding back facepics(until they get the friendshippery) is timewasting and may actually not be wanting to get to the meet stage..and of course to grab a few good pervs at possible nakee pics(trust me it happens contrary to some peoples thoughts)
Interesting because after much banter and then finally getting a pic, I sent mine back. Can only assume he's done what I mentioned in my OP!!! Lol xx
lol anyway..stop accepting friends requests until uve got a facial lol..thats my advice x"
I don't normally. It's just I assumed (wrongly) that one of the private pics would be a face one so I wouldn't have to ask. Lol. Ill delete him as a friend if he doesn't reply soon x |
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I've got a face photo and this time it's a happy smiley one, just the colours are a bit washed out. I've had people message my 'nice profile and pics'...'yes we fancy you'....face pic of me sent then.....bluuurrrgggghhh from them |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit!
I'm nice like that "
I love this! |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit!
I'm nice like that
I love this! "
Someone should make the most of It He's a right hottie x |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit!
I'm nice like that
I love this!
Someone should make the most of It He's a right hottie x "
Have you found any in South East London?  |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit!
I'm nice like that
I love this!
Someone should make the most of It He's a right hottie x
Have you found any in South East London? "
Im always coming across them, next time I see one I'll PM ya x |
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"What is more annoying is when I see a hot stud wandering around the forums that lives the other end of the country
Yeah that happens a lot too! Latest one is Wigan. I'm near Dover. 5 and a half hours! He's good looking, has a body to die for and seems like a decent bloke! Gutted
PM me his username, I'm near Wigan and happy to take one for the team
Done
Message sent
see thats community spirit!
I'm nice like that
I love this!
Someone should make the most of It He's a right hottie x
Have you found any in South East London?
Im always coming across them, next time I see one I'll PM ya x "
Can you clean them up before you send them my way please
Nothing like a little team spirit, I'll do the same x |
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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago
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Snap,I met a guy after much messaging, at first i thought not my type..We still carried on speaking and now im going to meet him again - his personality has overtaken everything and im now attracted to him..Is that odd?
In fact i REALLY REALLY WANT to see HIM again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of nice guys up here in the north west lol
I do agree with the o p there's nothing so disappointing as there not being that spark ...
I just rub them on my sweater and get the static going instead
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