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By (user no longer on site) OP 51 weeks ago
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A man last in bed is 5 and a half minutes according to a study done on fac*book. Apparently most men aren't happy with the amount of time they last. They are referring to actual fucking. Not including fourplay. Most men apparently feel a lot of pressure to last long.
So my question is guys how long do you last ? Do you think you last long enough? Do you feel a pressure to last longer than you do ?
Ladies how long do you expect a guy to last ? |
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20 mins or so if it's just a "standard/default" sex session, kinda timed in the sense that the Ms has music on most of the time and you kinda notice how many songs have played.
If we're in for a varied time though, an hour or two easily!
The 5 and a half minute thing really shocks me honestly, I'd assume the average was longer |
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By *eliWoman 51 weeks ago
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There's not a set amount of time. Until they're ready and want to come? I like when an orgasm catches a man by surprise, like he's so turned on he can't help but say fuck and come hard.
I like sex which is more free-flowing. When you can relax and enjoy it and get lost in each other. However long that is.
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If we’re talking penetrative sex, I can make it last for a good amount of time but it requires me to slow the pace or even pause the motions if I feel that orgasm is imminent (and I’m specifically wishing to delay it)  |
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"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge 
Oh shit can mean a multitude of things....  "
And that is why they invented waterproof sheets |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"I love it when you hear the 'oh shit' and you just know that one squeeze will send them over the cliff edge
Oh shit can mean a multitude of things....
And that is why they invented waterproof sheets"
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"I have never timed it but I’m sure it’s longer than 5 minutes haha, get past that initial urge to cum and normally you can last as long as want too"
Pretty much this..
What's your go to thing to stop thy urge so thy you can carry on? I'd be interested to see what other guys do for this too. |
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"I last long anyway. I ain't easy. You gotta work too gurl.
Just FYI Brucey, when you are white and you spell 'girl' like 'gurl', it means your 'gurl' likely has a penis, just an FYI pal.
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Gurlll what you chatting about it was just a big clit! |
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By *929Man 51 weeks ago
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"I have never timed it but I’m sure it’s longer than 5 minutes haha, get past that initial urge to cum and normally you can last as long as want too
Pretty much this..
What's your go to thing to stop thy urge so thy you can carry on? I'd be interested to see what other guys do for this too. "
Usually doesent take long for it to go away so sometimes changing position and taking time kiss for a bit between changing other times (and preferably) stop and go back to giving oral for short while it normally tastes better after being fucking for a bit. Also helps to have a go to for making self cum as it can be harder after subduing the urge early on |
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Depends. My partners who find themselves exhausted after they cum tend to make it last for hours. I feel bad that they only tend to get a maximum of two orgasms when we have an evening together but they're very happy and satisfying ones when they eventually arrive.
The ones who aren't phased by it cum pretty quick but carry on. And I love that probably more  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Men put way too much pressure on theirselves to embrace their inner Lionel Richie but most women don't want it 'all night long'. As long as we both finish up satisfied, how long really doesn't matter. |
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"Men put way too much pressure on theirselves to embrace their inner Lionel Richie but most women don't want it 'all night long'. As long as we both finish up satisfied, how long really doesn't matter."
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Your musings are often so delightfully convivial and philanthropic. If you were a pudding you would be a heartwarming Cherry Pie with Crème Anglaise. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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The medical diagnostic time for premature ejaculation is under 1 minute of penetration. And it is quite common, estimated at 20-30% of men. So that would make the 5 minute average probable. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I don't have any expectations about length of time.
I think as long as the people that I'm fucking and vice versa are enjoying then it really doesn't matter. Sometimes they might be quicker than others. Some people are more sensitive than others, depends on mood, stress levels etc. Too many factors come into I think, much more than the just the physical sensation of the sex. |
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"A man last in bed is 5 and a half minutes according to a study done on fac*book. Apparently most men aren't happy with the amount of time they last. They are referring to actual fucking. Not including fourplay. Most men apparently feel a lot of pressure to last long.
So my question is guys how long do you last ? Do you think you last long enough? Do you feel a pressure to last longer than you do ?
Ladies how long do you expect a guy to last ?"
i used to last for 8 hours but now 2 or 3 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 50 weeks ago
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"Men put way too much pressure on theirselves to embrace their inner Lionel Richie but most women don't want it 'all night long'. As long as we both finish up satisfied, how long really doesn't matter."
Love this |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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Personally, I last way too long
I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex
Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish
I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay. |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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"Personally, I last way too long
I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex
Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish
I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay. "
Positive Input Ventilation? I'm not sure how relevant that is in this context, but whatever floats your boat. |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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"Personally, I last way too long
I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex
Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish
I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay.
Positive Input Ventilation? I'm not sure how relevant that is in this context, but whatever floats your boat."
It’s a suckjob not a blowjob !! |
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Massively variable, anywhere from 30s to 20-30mins (sometimes longer). It all seems to depend on the foreplay, insufficient and it'll be short get it right and I can ride the feeling allowing it to build and subdue and then back up again.
However if it goes on too long then I desensitise and im unlikely to climax.
It's a tricky balancing act occasionally  |
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Never timed myself but I'll be genuinely honest here and say it's probably about 5 to 8 ish minutes of actual penetration before I cum but in saying that I'm usually ready to go again in the same amount of time as well I genuinely can't help when I cum it just happens I think Im just one of those that get extremely turned on |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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Last time I had sex we started a out 2 and finished at3:07.. I remember it well we, it was the night we turned the clocks forward an hour 
If someones got a watch out I'm leaving
If we've got time to be clock watching we're both doing something wrong  |
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Yes and no. I've learned there's a lot I can do to make myself last longer.
Slowing down, changing positions etc. But what works best for me is to stop and return to foreplay. Giving oral, using my fingers, toys etc to give my self time to calm down whilst still making sure that the fun continues for her. And when I'm ready, I resume sex and repeat this cycle. I've lasted 45mins like this or until she cums, whichever happens sooner. |
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"Yes and no. I've learned there's a lot I can do to make myself last longer.
Slowing down, changing positions etc. But what works best for me is to stop and return to foreplay. Giving oral, using my fingers, toys etc to give my self time to calm down whilst still making sure that the fun continues for her. And when I'm ready, I resume sex and repeat this cycle. I've lasted 45mins like this or until she cums, whichever happens sooner. "
what a thoughtful guy |
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"Yes and no. I've learned there's a lot I can do to make myself last longer.
Slowing down, changing positions etc. But what works best for me is to stop and return to foreplay. Giving oral, using my fingers, toys etc to give my self time to calm down whilst still making sure that the fun continues for her. And when I'm ready, I resume sex and repeat this cycle. I've lasted 45mins like this or until she cums, whichever happens sooner. what a thoughtful guy "
Aww thanks!  |
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"Personally, I last way too long
I struggle to cum fairly often with just straight PIV sex
Some guys think it’s a blessing, but it really isn’t. It can really upset a long term partner when you consistently struggle to finish
I’d much rather be able to finish in 5 mins, then spend extra time on foreplay.
Positive Input Ventilation? I'm not sure how relevant that is in this context, but whatever floats your boat."
It's relevant to the topic? I don't know what you're arguing here for. Sorry, that 5 minutes is your standard lol |
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"Last time I had sex we started a out 2 and finished at3:07.. I remember it well we, it was the night we turned the clocks forward an hour
If someones got a watch out I'm leaving
If we've got time to be clock watching we're both doing something wrong "
Your sex life must have drastically reduce since the invention of smart phones! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 50 weeks ago
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"Last time I had sex we started a out 2 and finished at3:07.. I remember it well we, it was the night we turned the clocks forward an hour
If someones got a watch out I'm leaving
If we've got time to be clock watching we're both doing something wrong "
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"A man last in bed is 5 and a half minutes according to a study done on fac*book. Apparently most men aren't happy with the amount of time they last. They are referring to actual fucking. Not including fourplay. Most men apparently feel a lot of pressure to last long.
So my question is guys how long do you last ? Do you think you last long enough? Do you feel a pressure to last longer than you do ?
Ladies how long do you expect a guy to last ?"
Maybe they should have increased their test pool, as I am sure if the average was 5 1/2 minutes, Fab wouldn't even exist. |
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