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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?

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By *mber81Woman over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

I am a dip in and out of the forum person. Am I liked? a few like me. A few don't. I don't think I am on enough to be noticed by most I haven't already met at a group social or something.

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By *eneralKenobiMan over a year ago

North Angus

I’m more a dipper in and outer of late, I figure some people like my terrible banter and others completely detest my existence

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By *mber81Woman over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

I always notice you OP and I like you.

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By *obin444Man over a year ago

Windsor

I think I’m basically invisible.

At best people are ambivalent.

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Dippers, and people watchers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I’ve become more of a dipper in just lately.

It seems to be a far less enjoyable place to hang out of late. I just like to act a bit of dickhead, and opportunities are seemingly shrinking for jolly japes and tomfoolery.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

I know I’m on here quite a lot. I say a lot.

I wouldn’t say I court attention so much. But I like to join in.

I have some friends…. And I’m very sure I get right on some people’s tits

C’est La vie

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Carlisle

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

I think it varies on both counts - some will find my posts funny - some maybe annoying… - I tend to dip in and out… depending how much time I have free

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I think I’m marmite. Those who like me really like me and those who don’t really don’t

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

im defo a dipper and diver,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

I'm not really on here and haven't been around enough for people to generally notice me to be fair. Plus I haven't been to any events either.....so really I'm not helping myself!!

But I'm a fits and starts person, so I'll comment a fair bit or I generally dip in or out and not comment, it all depends what the topic of conversation is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a dipper.I don't come here for attention just to amuse myself, so don't think I'm really noticed.

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

I'm a dip in and outer I don't post all that much, I've never really wondered how people see me on the forums tbh I suppose because I don't really post that much on here I'm not that bothered what people think of me.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

As a whole? Don't know, don't care.

I know some do, I have proofs!

I say what I want, when and how to say it. If that gathers attention then great. Awesome.

If it gets ignored/overlooked/skipped over then great. Awesome.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

"I think I’m marmite. Those who like me really like me and those who don’t really don’t

You are more like veggiemite

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By *lueDressWoman over a year ago

Bath

I don't really notice. But other people tell Me that they've been asked if I'm single. In other words I'm not very approachable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's a fora?

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

"What's a fora?"

Slang for Meli's quim

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think I’m marmite. Those who like me really like me and those who don’t really don’t

You are more like veggiemite"

Is that better or worse than marmite. I don’t do either

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I’m more a dipper in and outer of late, I figure some people like my terrible banter and others completely detest my existence

Yeah, that sounds about right.

No, I think most people are bordering on indifferent to others. Background noise but not offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I generally dip in and out lately and come in when I have time but I think being on here a while has allowed people to know my personality so I do feel noticed for the most part. Whether people like me on the forums or not isn't something I care about as much as I used to as I know some people that do like me which is enough!

I do feel sorry for newbies who may not feel noticed and can be put off as it can e a bad feeling but hope they stick it out as the more people involved, the better the forums are

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?

I always notice you OP and I like you.

I've always liked you. And I notice you a lot.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

"I think I’m marmite. Those who like me really like me and those who don’t really don’t

You are more like veggiemite

Is that better or worse than marmite. I don’t do either

Vegemite is thicker, more bitter and salty.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

I stopped worrying about what other people thought of me a long time ago.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think I’m marmite. Those who like me really like me and those who don’t really don’t

You are more like veggiemite

Is that better or worse than marmite. I don’t do either

Vegemite is thicker, more bitter and salty.

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By *erces LetiferMan over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Generally liked? Not really. Noticed? Sometimes. Tends to be by people who don't like me, gay men (or "straight" men), or more recently by something / someone I'm not allowed to mention or talk about here. But it involves being singled out / excluded.

I tend to dip in and out.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I think I’m basically invisible.

At best people are ambivalent. "

See, it was a chat with another forum user that inspired this thread. I don't think people are invisible. Not as acknowledged but it doesn't mean you're not seen, x

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

tbh i dont know if im liked on here it doesnt really matter,, but always a gent

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

I think naturally after being on here for a while you become more recognisable - I certainly don’t comment on threads for the purpose of being noticed and find I’m more drawn to those with a bit more substance than the ‘rate my profile/ass/tits’ or whatever. I like reading people’s thoughts and getting an insight into there way of thinking more than the mindless ones x

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I used to be on a lot and court attention all the time. It was fun when it was fun. So back then, people noticed. Some liked me, some really didn't, some didn't really care either way.

Then I took a 9 month break.

These days I dip in and out, have gone back to my lurker days more than anything. And mostly I'm not really noticed, except for the people who like me, or, I'd imagine, those who really don't.

Occasionally I'll seek attention in a significant way, but more often than not these days I throw in a thought here and there and go away again.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"Dippers, and people watchers

People are fascinating aren't they? It's a treasure trove for people watching.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dip in and out, rarely start a post, comment more often.

I've got some friends here who I know genuinely like me, and I'm sure there are plenty who don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been off and and these forums for 10yrs - pretty safe to say (in the nicest possible way of course) it’s all gravy

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I think I’ve become more of a dipper in just lately.

It seems to be a far less enjoyable place to hang out of late. I just like to act a bit of dickhead, and opportunities are seemingly shrinking for jolly japes and tomfoolery. "

It's interesting isn't it? There are far fewer "thinky" threads. Far fewer tomfoolery threads.

I know people have moaned about about both but I quite liked the opposite ends of the spectrum - the things they both brought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dip in and out, just for a bit of entertainment

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I dip in and out of here.

I post here and there but not as much as I use to. I don't get the impression I'm particularly liked or disliked I think I'm just lost in middle ground which is grand,but I do think there are a few who roll their eyes when they see me posting on here.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan over a year ago

stanley

I think I’m mostly invisible to be honest. However there are several forumites that I interact with quite often and their feedback has been largely positive. So I’m taking that as a positive

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I know I’m on here quite a lot. I say a lot.

I wouldn’t say I court attention so much. But I like to join in.

I have some friends…. And I’m very sure I get right on some people’s tits

C’est La vie

Ha! I use fuck it. Might try and add a bit of class and start saying that instead.

We all court attention to some extent - we'd just be writing in a diary if we didn't. I don't think there's anything wrong with that; some people are more... look at me. Some are more... look at my words. One isn't better than the other. Or worse.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Don't really know! Tbh! Like to join in! Liked by some and not others I spose! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's a fora?

Slang for Meli's quim"

Ah ok.

In which case, I'm a casual dipper in and outer.

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

I’m a bit of an attention seeker I guess, however I’m generally comfortable if I don’t get it.

I’d say I’m reasonably well liked although not necessarily fancied. Again that’s ok isn’t it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

Dip in and out now. I think the forums go through peaks and troughs and there’s certain people who I enjoy and certain people I roll my eyes at.

I’m not a controversial poster so I don’t think I stick out either way, which is how I prefer it. Our profile will be enjoyed by some and others don’t enjoy it as we don’t hold back for our feelings for each other or some of our exploits - that can be too saccharine for some to see people happy (

)

The forums are just like a pub, you’ll have people that you are friends with, some who you don’t get on with and some you’ve not chatted to yet.

I’m not tied to the forums so it wouldn’t matter either way whether we ceased contributing or whether others did.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Don't really know! Tbh! Like to join in! Liked by some and not others I spose! X"

I like you.

. You’re always kind.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Don't really know! Tbh! Like to join in! Liked by some and not others I spose! X

I like you.

. You’re always kind. "

Aww thank u that's nice

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I think I’m marmite. Those who like me really like me and those who don’t really don’t

I dunno. I don't think anyone is marmite really - there's a sort of erm... middle ground where people don't really care? Or notice you? I don't think there's a single person on here who evokes such binary feelings.

It's a plural you, just thought I'd clarify that!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I'm here when I want to be, not when I don't, whether I court attention or not that's a no, I speak my mind if that upsets others so be it, if it doesn't so be it

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman over a year ago

Essex

"I know I’m on here quite a lot. I say a lot.

I wouldn’t say I court attention so much. But I like to join in.

I have some friends…. And I’m very sure I get right on some people’s tits

C’est La vie

Ha! I use fuck it. Might try and add a bit of class and start saying that instead.

Fine. Ok, Meli. You win.

I am a massive attention whore

Happy now?

There was me trying to casually not draw attention to me drawing attention.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman over a year ago

Schitts Creek

"I generally dip in and out lately and come in when I have time but I think being on here a while has allowed people to know my personality so I do feel noticed for the most part. Whether people like me on the forums or not isn't something I care about as much as I used to as I know some people that do like me which is enough!

I do feel sorry for newbies who may not feel noticed and can be put off as it can e a bad feeling but hope they stick it out as the more people involved, the better the forums are

I’d say you’re very well liked - you definitely have some of the best pics on fab too which doesn’t hurt

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I am much like to the proverbial turd in a swimming pool; I bob up and everyone flees

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am much like to the proverbial turd in a swimming pool; I bob up and everyone flees

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aha! Brilliant (untrue!) analogy

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I’m loved by everyone who reads me comments. ( they all want to secretly wank me off )

Don’t really care if I’m noticed.

And I’ve never been one for attention, I just take the piss and move on.

The mr

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman over a year ago

Schitts Creek

I have no idea if I’m liked or not since I casually dip in and out of the forums and usually spend half my time reading untold posts then get too distracted to even comment. I do think some like my funny status updates though

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By *uke_silverMan over a year ago

London

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

Not sure, but it's probably split down the middle.

Sometimes, I've enjoyed interacting with people off here (even got to meet a few) so that's nice.

I'm a dip in and outer, but I dip in much more than I should!

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By *G LanaTV/TS over a year ago

Gosport

I don't feel that I am especially liked and often get no interaction with my contributions.

I also know some people take umbridge with me because they have felt that my often self deprecating answers were in fact an attack on their views.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m blissfully ambivalent about the fora. If I’ve something to add I’ll do so. Most of the stuff just passes me by though. I’d rather ‘rate my pack of own label ibuprofen’ than ‘rate my tits’, so much of the fora is like getting caught in traffic when I really need a piss. It’s all good though. Noticed or liked? Not clear why that would matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Universally liked and respected

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

Sounds like most men like to dip in and out whether they're liked or not.

You can't be liked by everyone, so not worth worrying about. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m blissfully ambivalent about the fora. If I’ve something to add I’ll do so. Most of the stuff just passes me by though. I’d rather ‘rate my pack of own label ibuprofen’ than ‘rate my tits’, so much of the fora is like getting caught in traffic when I really need a piss. It’s all good though. Noticed or liked? Not clear why that would matter. "

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

To be honest I genuinely don't think anyone likes me(Mr) at all.

Regular poster from serious to light hearted.

Don't take myself too seriously I certainly wouldn't say everything I say is correct, it's mostly just an opinion based on personal experience.

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By *ickshawedCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I used to spend more time on the forum than I do now.

I don't think anyone actively hates me. I know a few who like me - or are good at pretending they do. Though they might just be distracted by my breasts

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By *unnesscoupleMan over a year ago

Inverness

I just dip in and out but no one I've interacted with on the forums - either in the forum or by DM has given me a negative response, but the jury is out.

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

"I used to spend more time on the forum than I do now.

I don't think anyone actively hates me. I know a few who like me - or are good at pretending they do. Though they might just be distracted by my breasts

See I always thought I liked you, now I'm just wondering if it is just your boobs!?

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

I think I am generally tolerated. My profile helps me.

When people meet me in person they are pleasantly surprised. I’ve known several people who have me blocked, saw me, though not necessarily met/spoke to me in person and then unblocked me, haha. I have made this comment on the forum before, and a couple who did this actually blocked me again, LOL!

I am quite sweet, cute (would have never used that word for myself, but I get told it a lot!) chatty and above all: I am caring. So not too bad company.

On the forum I am always under the radar. It used to bother me in the past. Now it doesn’t. I am just one of the many fish in the sea of Fabness.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"What's a fora?

Slang for Meli's quim

Ah ok.

In which case, I'm a casual dipper in and outer."

Ha. You witty cad.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Erm I don't know if I'm liked or not by the majority. Know there are a few who aren't keen on me, but the few who truly disliked me aren't here anymore.

I used to be on here a lot more, but I find myself dipping in and out these days. So I'm not as recognisable anymore, which is how life works I think. It's neither a good nor a bad thing

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?

I'm not really on here and haven't been around enough for people to generally notice me to be fair. Plus I haven't been to any events either.....so really I'm not helping myself!!

But I'm a fits and starts person, so I'll comment a fair bit or I generally dip in or out and not comment, it all depends what the topic of conversation is. "

I do think socials, putting a face to the words can mean people are more likely to interact with you - friendships are cemented/formed etc. I don't think you have to attend events to be noticed though.

The forums go through peaks and troughs don't they? All depending on engagement levels, diversity of topics presented to ensure the aforementioned...

And I'm going to stop there before I start going into stuff and reveal far too much about my real life.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

Some people like me.

I'm here to pass time and have interesting and amusing interactions, mostly.

I don't particularly court attention.

It's nice when a sexy man notices me though

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I don't really notice. But other people tell Me that they've been asked if I'm single. In other words I'm not very approachable."

Why would someone ask if you're single? I'm confused. It doesn't take much in all fairness.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"I used to spend more time on the forum than I do now.

I don't think anyone actively hates me. I know a few who like me - or are good at pretending they do. Though they might just be distracted by my breasts

Boobs are currency around here.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Recently I am not on here as much and dip in and out. It's not quite as fun as it used to be.

Noticed by some for my posts, usually friends. Noticed by others for the boobs.

I think and hope I'm liked.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

Am I noticed? Yes.

Am I liked. I think marmite is the word here...

I just like having fun! Some people don't like fun!

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

I do feel sorry for newbies who may not feel noticed and can be put off as it can e a bad feeling but hope they stick it out as the more people involved, the better the forums are

Wise words Joe. We do need new people, for one the majority of forum users are getting to a certain age. It's also good to have fresh ideas, new personalities and interactions. Else it becomes a stagnant inc*stuous pit and that's not really fun for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Answers are in the Telegram groups.

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By *lexm87Man over a year ago

Various

I'm mainly here for the jaffa cake chat these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope I'm liked.

I'm here often enough for a few people to know me.

I think we all seek attention at times and I'm no different.

Sometimes you do just want to feel visible, seen and if you're really lucky you might find some people who genuinely like you.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

"Am I noticed? Yes.

Am I liked. I think marmite is the word here...

I just like having fun! Some people don't like fun!"

Everyone likes fun. But fun is subjective. Sometimes people's ideas of fun overlap and sometimes they clash. One person's fun is another person's irritation/uncomfortable and vice versa.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Not on the forums much these days as its all too "samey" Same topics rehashed..same contributors. As for being noticed/liked/disliked by random strangers, I couldn't care either way x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Answers are in the Telegram groups. "

Let me know what they say!

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I dip in and out these days. More out than in really. But I have friends here that I hope like me! I’m not sure people that haven’t met me always get my humour. But that’s the problem with the written word. I’m just here to make myself chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Answers are in the Telegram groups. "
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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Answers are in the Telegram groups.

Let me know what they say!

What is this sorcery that you speak of?

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan over a year ago

Wigan

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

No idea if I'm generally liked, I don't think I post enough for anyone to really make an informed decision on me.

Being noticed is difficult to judge, going off replies I'd say I don't feel noticed, but, when I do occasionally post I do see my profile veiws go up, so I guess I'm noticed by some.

I dip in and out as it gets extremely repetitive, I don't court attention, but I do wish I felt more included sometimes.

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Am I noticed? Yes.

Am I liked. I think marmite is the word here...

I just like having fun! Some people don't like fun!

Everyone likes fun. But fun is subjective. Sometimes people's ideas of fun overlap and sometimes they clash. One person's fun is another person's irritation/uncomfortable and vice versa. "

I know. I like to have my definition of fun obviously

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By *heGateKeeperMan over a year ago

Stratford

When people meet me I’m surprised at how many people tell me they find me intriguing

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By *929Man over a year ago

newcastle

Mostly unnoticed I reckon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I browse the forums and sometimes post things but 99% of the time im just lurking.

I dont care if people like me or not to be honest, It wont make any difference to my day.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I dip in and out of here.

Fuck it if they do. I get the impression it doesn't affect you one iota if they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?

I am a dip in and out of the forum person. Am I liked? a few like me. A few don't. I don't think I am on enough to be noticed by most I haven't already met at a group social or something. "

I like you.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I’m disliked by more than liked based on interactions and blocks etc

But I am noticed. I honestly wish people would gang up less but it is what it is.

I’ll probably leave again but when I’m ready. Don’t want to get run off of here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dip and out more times than a penis. People probably dont even notice

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I don't really think about it to be honest, I know I'm liked by some and disliked by others but I guess that's the same with everyone.

Mrs

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"Dip and out more times than a penis. People probably dont even notice

I do. You're a proper yo-yoer. And that's not an insult. Some people yo-yo.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"To be honest I genuinely don't think anyone likes me(Mr) at all.

Regular poster from serious to light hearted.

Don't take myself too seriously I certainly wouldn't say everything I say is correct, it's mostly just an opinion based on personal experience.

I like you. I know, I'm sorry, it's such a terrible thing to find out.

Most opinions on here are just that; opinions. Sometimes we forget we're not spouting the gospel truth nor are others.

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By *EAT..85Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm an in and outer with little care to how I'm viewed. I have a few forum folks that I'll chat with occasionally but am otherwise a non entity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all noticed and appreciated a lot more than we think. There are loads here I smile at when reading and recognise but Ive probably never told them so. Same for me, Ive been knocking around for a while so Im sure Im noticed, whether anyone smiles or not is upto them

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By *lleyCat1969Man over a year ago

Folkestone

I dip in and out, sometimes with a (I think) humourous comment and sometimes to agree or disagree with something.

Absolutely certain I am below everyone's radar and seldom noticed.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

Fora…

You don’t half talk some shite _eli!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The few i talk to I think kinda like me, the rest probably think I'm a bitch and I really couldn't careless.

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By *eneralKenobiMan over a year ago

North Angus

"The few i talk to I think kinda like me, the rest probably think I'm a bitch and I really couldn't careless. "

I think you’re a decent cunt if it counts

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

Yes of course I do!

Yes of course they do ! Silly question Meli.

No I am not Meli, I don't court attention.

More oft than not I dip in ... and then out, then in , then out then in then out ...... and so on and so forth.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

And I shan't be posting a serious answer

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think I might run down the thread though and thumbs up the folk I recognise ... I can't help name changers tho ... hiders gotta hide I guess.

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By *pforfun12Man over a year ago

Norwich

Good on ya darling

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

"And I shan't be posting a serious answer

Send nudes instead?

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By *apxxxWoman over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

I'm probably been on this site longer than most and come and go and although I use the forums I'm not one of the click lol

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By *obilebottomMan over a year ago

All over

I just post or start a thread if I like and not really worry much about being liked or not. I am always though measured in how I interact with people until I get the right vibe

as whilst most people are nice and inclusive, there are one or two that I rather keep away from based on their own forum comtributions. Arrogance masquerading as confidence in particular. Sadly there also a few people on here with extreme views that are certainly not my cup of tea. On the whole though it's great, passes the time, raises the odd smile and giggle and certainly informative and educational.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I might run down the thread though and thumbs up the folk I recognise ... I can't help name changers tho ... hiders gotta hide I guess. "

Dont let everyone do that to you though, there will be too many thumbs and not enough of granny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The few i talk to I think kinda like me, the rest probably think I'm a bitch and I really couldn't careless.

I think you’re a decent cunt if it counts

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"Fora…

You don’t half talk some shite _eli!"

Geez Sam, stop flirting with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont think i am

but i dont really care

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By *orneyloverMan over a year ago

Boston

"I'm a dipper.I don't come here for attention just to amuse myself, so don't think I'm really noticed. "

Oh, you are noticed, believe me.

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By *astandFeistyCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth

I'm most definitely disliked by many

Do I look like I give a flying?

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By *pforfun12Man over a year ago

Norwich

Il pm you ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Answers are in the Telegram groups.

Let me know what they say!

No idea. Only ever been in one for a week prior to a social. Deleted it and didn't go to the social because I was so disgusted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Answers are in the Telegram groups.

Let me know what they say!

No idea. Only ever been in one for a week prior to a social. Deleted it and didn't go to the social because I was so disgusted. "

Their little fingers will be going mad on those groups.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"The few i talk to I think kinda like me, the rest probably think I'm a bitch and I really couldn't careless. "

I don't think that's how it works - people either kinda like you or think you're a bitch. No. There's a grey area definitely.

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By *eneralKenobiMan over a year ago

North Angus

"I'm most definitely disliked by many

Do I look like I give a flying?"

I looked but got distracted

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By *ddkkk91Man over a year ago

fife

Dipper in and out here... hello

Defo not attention seeker.. some people might see, some might not.

They might like me or dont, or simply they dont care.. who knows for either of it.

Anyhooooo... i hope everyone is having a good day

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't really give it much thought.

I don't come in here to be liked, there's a couple of people I've connected with though, on different levels which has been a bonus.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Dip in and out these days, mostly unnoticed now as I’m more low key.

I daresay some don’t like me and maybe some do? I don’t mind - such is life.

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By *ake_or_deathMan over a year ago

Manchester

I go through phases of being on here quite a lot and then not posting much. I don't think people really notice me, which is fair enough as i'm not particularly funny or give fascinating responses. I seem to kill threads so I don't think people see my name and decide to check out what I have to say

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Do you think you're generally liked?"

Generally? From the kindness received via those "8pm this evening" threads, I'm given to that impression. Perhaps they're just being a tad polite!

"Do you think people notice you?"

Probably, some do, but whether they notice me for the good things or the not-so-good-things I'm not sure.

"Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?"

No.

I don't dip in and out; I'm permanently domiciled here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think you're generally liked?

Generally? From the kindness received via those "8pm this evening" threads, I'm given to that impression. Perhaps they're just being a tad polite!

Do you think people notice you?

Probably, some do, but whether they notice me for the good things or the not-so-good-things I'm not sure.

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?

No.

I don't dip in and out; I'm permanently domiciled here."

And are you declaring your non-Dom status?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No and no but that's fine with me, I'm hardly ever here now.

They wouldn't remember me from previous incarnations either

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By *heGateKeeperMan over a year ago

Stratford

"We are all noticed and appreciated a lot more than we think. There are loads here I smile at when reading and recognise but Ive probably never told them so. Same for me, Ive been knocking around for a while so Im sure Im noticed, whether anyone smiles or not is upto them

I think this is true and meeting people particularly at socials is a massive eye opener around perception and receptiveness

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By *tanley FunseekerMan over a year ago

stanley

Love for this to be true

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I don't tend to ruffle feathers so I'd be surprised if lots of people disliked me. It's impossible to know though, and also inconsequential - I'm more interested in who likes me than who doesn't! There's always going to be folk who aren't your people.

Attention? Yes, sometimes I seek it, and enjoy it. Usually with some ridiculously overt flirting nonsense. Other times I'm quiet on here.

WHAT ABOUT YOU, OP?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The people that matter like me. The people that don't, well.. Don't.

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"I don't tend to ruffle feathers so I'd be surprised if lots of people disliked me. It's impossible to know though, and also inconsequential - I'm more interested in who likes me than who doesn't! There's always going to be folk who aren't your people.

Attention? Yes, sometimes I seek it, and enjoy it. Usually with some ridiculously overt flirting nonsense. Other times I'm quiet on here.

WHAT ABOUT YOU, OP?

Mrs TMN x "

I'm not falling for another line ever again. In. My. Life.

Sorry NipNips.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan over a year ago

Bradford

Oh I'd say I'm marmite to many

Miss understood by a lot

And like by a few.

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By *ansoffateMan over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I'm generally likable, but I don't think I am generally liked.

Occasionally, a Nihilist urinates on my rug. And that rug - it really tied the room together. I try to stay dude and resolve it in a civilised manner, but you know this aggression will not stand... Sometimes I go full Walter; other times I can say fuck it - let's go bowling. Hey I may be a bum, but at least I'm house-broken.

I don't know Meli. What makes a man - is it the ability to cry or is it a pair of testicles?

I'm out of milk, I need to go to the supermarket.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Answers are in the Telegram groups. "

I've not been invited

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I'm a dipper. I read less than 10 threads a day and contribute to 2 or 3 on a busy day.

I don't use any other part of the site and spend less than an hour a day on here.

As far as I was concerned very little of what I have to say has stuck but surprisingly most of the messages I get are compliments for not being afraid to go against the grain so I'll take that.

Some dislike me for speaking the uncomfortable truth in relation to balance or lack of in the forums while others applaud.

I know for a fact that there are a few who get annoyed just seeing that I'm still here and contributing and that in itself makes me smile.

It's worth the subscription just for that alone.

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By *ellinever70Woman over a year ago

Ayrshire

I dip in and out

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer?

I'm probably hard to completely ignore me (though of people try I think lol) but as long as I feel I'm not actively disliked I'll continue to post here I think (so I feel I'm liked enough I guess).

Regarding courting attention I'd like my posts to be read for sure. I think few people will say "yes I court attention" even those who clearly do. I find it really hard to gauge if I've been read or not sometimes (and it's quite hard on a phone to read longer posts too I think), but I know lots of people here read without commenting too. I got a recent PM saying I'm FOS and "it's always about you".. it certainly isn't that, I just like to post here and I post how I post!

I 'dip in and out' enough to have almost not replied to this one.. it all depends how I'm feeling really. Some days I'm bit more chatty than others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since getting banned for 48 hours, I've become more of a dipper.

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

I think it's not that easy here to simply just say you liked a post (and uncommonly there is no 'like'). Half of our allotted 175 posts could be just approvals if people really went for that! (Well that's what I tell myself anyway!) Threads can fill with fluff and crumbs sometimes, but even then and on the whole I think Fab is one of the most concise forums out there. In some of the more political threads I can find a certain terseness to be a bit of a pain sometimes (ie the Truth is Simple kind of thing), but on the whole I like it here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since getting banned for 48 hours, I've become more of a dipper.

First rule of ban club...

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

I quite like the forum. I quite like a lot of the folks on it. Liking me is a matter for them which I don't concern myself about

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"I'm generally likable, but I don't think I am generally liked.

I don't know Meli. What makes a man - is it the ability to cry or is it a pair of testicles?

I'm out of milk, I need to go to the supermarket.

If you engage in politics it can feel a little like that. Try and think of Fab as a whole though? Certain issues are well championed here, others are left well-alone by most people, and can thus get top-heavy with certain view points. Contribute and you can be quickly-informed of your supposed 'unpopularity' by the ever-terse 'spade is a spade' brigade. Truth Telling these days is very much of the 'cruel to be kind' variety.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Dipper for sure

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By *entlemanFoxMan over a year ago

North East / London

More of a reader than a poster. I enjoy the thoughtful, clever and zany.

Posting, I am a confirmed thread killer, so indifference seems to be the main reaction. Indeed I fully expect this post to go entirely unremarked all the way to 175.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do feel sorry for newbies who may not feel noticed and can be put off as it can e a bad feeling but hope they stick it out as the more people involved, the better the forums are

I’d say you’re very well liked - you definitely have some of the best pics on fab too which doesn’t hurt

Awww thank you, and here I thought I was liked because of my charming personality and witty sense of humour

I tease

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By *avinaTVTV/TS over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I dip in and out as the mood takes me. I suspect anyone paying attention to me mostly thinks I'm weird.

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By *ersiantugMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"More of a reader than a poster. I enjoy the thoughtful, clever and zany.

Posting, I am a confirmed thread killer, so indifference seems to be the main reaction. Indeed I fully expect this post to go entirely unremarked all the way to 175.

lol

(whoops)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do feel sorry for newbies who may not feel noticed and can be put off as it can e a bad feeling but hope they stick it out as the more people involved, the better the forums are

I agree, the same people will tend to stick to those whose opinions they agree with as you start to understand their personalities so any new opinions or topics are always welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody notices me, I’m fine with that

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Nobody notices me, I’m fine with that"

Same here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What's a fora?"

Italian margarine

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By *ellhungvweMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have stopped coming here as much as I used to. It has got tedious with the same old threads being rehashed again and again.

I am waiting for the next clear out when everyone falls out with each other and then we can all start again.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"I dip in and out as the mood takes me. I suspect anyone paying attention to me mostly thinks I'm weird. "

Your certainly not weird! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Since getting banned for 48 hours, I've become more of a dipper.

We've all been there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a dipper in and outer - I've no idea if I'm liked, never crossed my mind.

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By *oggoneMan over a year ago

Derry

"Since getting banned for 48 hours, I've become more of a dipper.

First time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Answers are in the Telegram groups.

Let me know what they say!

No idea. Only ever been in one for a week prior to a social. Deleted it and didn't go to the social because I was so disgusted.

Their little fingers will be going mad on those groups. "

O M G did you see what she said?! What a beeeatch!

Tap tap tap how dare she! It's sooo not true! We don't message on Telegram chat groups!

Hot group chat.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

I dip in and out. Sometimes it's only short, sometimes it's a long swim. Generally I'm pretty attention whore-y, I'm not sorry. And I think I'm liked by those who know me, more won't know me, and there'll always be some who won't like me

LvM

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By *ruceyyMan over a year ago

London

"Answers are in the Telegram groups.

Let me know what they say!

No idea. Only ever been in one for a week prior to a social. Deleted it and didn't go to the social because I was so disgusted.

Their little fingers will be going mad on those groups.

O M G did you see what she said?! What a beeeatch!

Tap tap tap how dare she! It's sooo not true! We don't message on Telegram chat groups!

Hot group chat.

I'm still not invited into any groups. The snakes!

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman over a year ago

London

I am a dipper. Not a double dipper though as where is the etiquette in that.

I dip into the nocturnal lounge sporadically so that Nero knows I am still alive.

I will see if there is a Meli post as it will normally be something I care to post on.

I think I was appreciated during the horrid period when most of us would be kind and tolerant of each other.

Now I doubt most, but the old hands, would not have a clue who I am.

Like me or loathe me that is life. The older I get I don't actually give a fig. There is nothing I can do about that and the world will not stop if people hit a block button.

So anyway this is my 6 week drop into the fora. I am off to the shops to see the PSL merchandise at Starbucks which always makes me think of you and Jamie Hants

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By *eli OP Woman over a year ago

"More of a reader than a poster. I enjoy the thoughtful, clever and zany.

Posting, I am a confirmed thread killer, so indifference seems to be the main reaction. Indeed I fully expect this post to go entirely unremarked all the way to 175. "

You're not that much of a thread killer; it's still ongoing.

I do think that no comments being made on a post doesn't mean that people haven't read it and agree. Heck, even disagree. If there was an upvoting/downvoting system, whilst it could be abused, it would mean would realise their comments aren't unnoticed, x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dip in and out. I’m not overly fussed if people like me or not, but I try to just be me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Liked. No idea. Noticesd. Rarely. I go through phases of being on a lot, and then tap out for a few weeks

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple over a year ago

Southampton

It's nice to think I'm noticed and liked but I just go with the flow..I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea, coffee or glass of gin lol

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By *MattyMan over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

Humans are like marmite, you are only liked by the ones that appeal to oyu for whatever reason, I like to interact and laugh, does it mean am liked, more than likely not

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"I dip in and out as the mood takes me. I suspect anyone paying attention to me mostly thinks I'm weird. "

Nothing wrong with weird ! Who wants to be " normal " anyway

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By *heArrowsCouple over a year ago

"Do you think you're generally liked? Do you think people notice you?

Are you one to court attention a lot or are you a casual dip in and outer? "

I know we got our first meet from me talking on the forums.

I think some people notice me (my wife has no interest in talking, she's more of a Doer)

When I first joined fab and if I believed something I would argue my point but I quickly realised that was mental suicide. So now I say my piece and move on. I don't feel the need to talk on every thread. But I do love good conversation and seeing different perspectives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know some people like me and that’s enough for me.

I post when I feel like it. Some days I like getting more involved than I do others.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple over a year ago

Debauchery

I've become a dipper more recently, I just don't have the time really, I'd rather be gazing at Hades the way Meli does from her avatar...

Am I liked? Yeah by some I'm sure! I wouldn't want someone to dislike me based on an online presence! Meet me then decide! We can't all get along!

Cherry x

Ps Meli, your avatar makes me want to have a penis...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dippers, and people watchers

People are fascinating aren't they? It's a treasure trove for people watching. "

I wonder why we want to watch people on a swinging site. We should be mating with others and watching ourselves in a pool of wetness and everyone feeling joyous.

As for being liked op, do you mean in here?

Joining fab swingers I am not here to be liked by the same forumites year on year off.It would feel like being in playround op and finding your likes but actually no one likes you. which sometimes it is in forums.

I believe in fab swingers family whether virtual or in real life.

Forums or chat or messages be kind to one another.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

I dip in and out, depending on my mood. I try not to venture into the threads that will annoy me, but doesn't always work.

I feel liked by the people I like, and I hope they know I like them too (and I don't just mean fancying).

I don't go out of my way to be noticed, but I think I am noticed by some, like most of us. But equally could vanish without too much of a ripple either...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been more active recently, but overall a dipper with flurries of real busy posting.

I think people don't know me enough to like me but hopefully that means I'm also not disliked.

I'm only starting to notice the regulars myself. Xx

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I'm a dipper. I read less than 10 threads a day and contribute to 2 or 3 on a busy day.

I don't use any other part of the site and spend less than an hour a day on here.

As far as I was concerned very little of what I have to say has stuck but surprisingly most of the messages I get are compliments for not being afraid to go against the grain so I'll take that.

Some dislike me for speaking the uncomfortable truth in relation to balance or lack of in the forums while others applaud.

I know for a fact that there are a few who get annoyed just seeing that I'm still here and contributing and that in itself makes me smile.

It's worth the subscription just for that alone. "

always worth staying for

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By *mily36CWoman over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

As long as folk like cake

that's all that matters, surely?!

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