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How do you feel about your birthday suit?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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I actually rather like my naked self... Definitely more than if I am wearing, supposedly, sexy underwear.... Makes me feel like an overstuffed sausage or sumin... If others are ok with seeing it, I am good ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to a nudist beach for the first time this year as I wanted to try new things.
It was one of the most liberating things I’ve done.
Always had body image issues and it did wonders for that.
I can highly recommend |
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"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "
I'm very happy in my skin and love being naked, especially on holiday, as photos show.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm feeling quite crap about myself naked at the moment if I'm honest.
And recent events have not helped the situation at all.
The thought of getting naked with someone else just makes me want to hide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am always happy to get naked and show my birthday suit. I've a dadbod built for comfort not speed.
I know it's not to everyone's taste which, concern me a few years ago.
However,now? I just don't care anymore! I am me and no-one else's opinion will make the necessary cosmetic repairs my body would need. My birthday suit is not perfect by any means. It shows the scars, wrinkles, cuts n bruises etc of life's experiences.
So i never stress how others see me because inside I am both content and comfortable. Now tbh,it took many highs and even more lows over a very lifetime to feel this way but I made it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "
It actually doesn't bother me.
I'm sure the sight of my body might bother others though ... nothing worse than looking at the scars of a grenade blast ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago
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having a bit of a love hate relationship with my body at the moment. i had put on a hell of a lot of weight due to not being well. i have lost nearly 7 an a half stone since march and i can feel the difference but still see the bigness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve eaten way too much ice cream whilst not being mobile. So it’s absolutely not being seen until it’s sorted. It’s not a pretty sight right now "
Yes, but the ice cream... |
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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago
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I don't care about being naked I'm generally naked as soon as I'm in my house apart from I wear lingerie pretty much everyday.
I wish I didn't have a Buddah belly but I cook and like food with flavor so....buddah stays around |
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This a great question.
I've done a lot of body positivity and work on my self confidence.
I greatly dislike hoe society and the media chooses to criticise our bodies and make us feel they're lacking in some way. Usually to encourage us to buy products we don't need.
I'm doing OK, with how I look naked thanks.
What about you OP?
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"I really enjoy being naked at a naturist club etc.
I honestly like my body better than ever these days, despite lumps, folds, wrinkles and scars. It’s a well lived-in body! "
Good for you I'm just getting used to having an older body with the lumps and bumps and the few extra lbs ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel comfortable when naked, not sexy but not unattractive.
I feel sexy when wearing lingerie I have chosen.
How I feel when wearing clothes is more hit or miss "
You’re hot naked, in clothes and in lingerie. ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do enjoy being naked but I'm not that comfortable around other people and feel more confident in pretty underwear. I don't think it's a pretty sight and would change a few things if I could. |
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We've naturist and it's just fairly normal for us to be naked around people. We spend a lot of summer at naturist resorts and many of our family and freinds are used to us being naked at home. So naturally as you can guess we are very comfortable in our own bare skin. That doesn't mean we always love everything about our bodies. But we are comfortable with them and accept them. Becoming comfortable in your bare skin is a real freedom.
We love socialising with other naturist. It's just feels a truer, more human and egalitarian interaction, especially with new people you've never meet. It's the great leveller and breaks down barriers. Without clothes we come to each others as equals, just as imperfect and vulnerable as the next person. It strips away many of the masks we use clothes for and removes the first assumptions, judgments and stereotypes people make when they first see a clothed person. It's such a beautiful way to interact with each other.
Naturism has been great for our self image and mental health. It's just a pure, natural, free and healthier way to live life. It may seem very strange and daunting to people but once people try it it's hard to get them to put their clothes back on. |
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I love being naked. I always have. I feel it is my natural state.
There's a lot I'd like to improve about it so I'm not a lot of people's cup of tea, but anybody who wants to see it is welcome to and anybody who doesn't mind seeing it is likely to end up with me naked around them. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like being naked by the way. I don’t love my body but I know everyone has insecurities. Being naked is being me. I like being me. "
My feelings on this For those have asked? |
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Being on the transgender spectrum and having gender dysphoria, I dislike being naked. And, currently, would never be nude when with another person. Would always wear something, even in a shared shower. |
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"I don’t know if that even makes sense but how do you feel about yourself naked. How do you feel being naked around other people (other than during the act of sex)? "
I generally feel pretty comfortable and more 'me'. I always go naked when I go to Chameleons, lots of people are keen to tell me I'm "brave" which I think is probably code for "if I had a body like yours I wouldn't be naked, yikes", but meh, I think that says more about their own hangups! I'm quite happy to exist being me and enjoying myself just being there, they can look away if they don't like it
I've also spent a little time in a naturist venue (clover spa) which is obviously a completely non sexual setting, and that was lovely, very freeing and relaxing, and obviously everyone else is naked too which is nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not overly confident about it generally but as I get older I find myself genera caring less and less about what other people think of me generally… obviously it’s nice to be appreciated but if not, well life’s too short to worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not overly confident about it generally but as I get older I find myself genera caring less and less about what other people think of me generally… obviously it’s nice to be appreciated but if not, well life’s too short to worry "
Plus if someone is going to judge me based purely on how I look in the buff they’re not worth the time of day |
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The nudest beaches in Portugal was an outstanding experience. No one was seedy , the atmosphere was horny. Fucking in front of everyone was mega and the invites to parties were endless. It doesn’t matter what shape or size you are, you will always be appreciated. The only possible complaint I have if you can call it that as I am struggling to find one was my dick went jet black over a fortnight and it did honestly look like I had a penis transplant. It’s not a complaint really as it was distinctive haha |
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