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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden

Dear forumites, yesterday there was an all-encompassing thread about being called a Duchess, and other nauseatingly endearing hypocorisms and pet names. Names such as:

Honey, Hunny, Hunnie, Hun, Babe, Baby Girl, Little Girl, Girl, Lady, Trouble, Naughty or Norty, Sexy, Sweetie, Sweet Cheeks, Muffin, Love, Sugar, Sugar-Tits, Cutie, Dear, Princess, Mistress and Missy...

However, not one person was sympathetic to our plight or had the good grace to offer a more-than-suitable AND accepted alternative! Tsk!

So what is acceptable and what on Earth is wrong with "darling"???

I shall continue to use "fair maiden" because seems to have been spared from the gallows!

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Goddess?

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By *oo..Woman  over a year ago

Boo's World

My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I actually dont get into a fuss about it. Unless it's very creepy obviously.

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Treacle

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By *valanche1001Man  over a year ago

Leeds

I recall ‘wench’ going down well on a previous thread

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I actually dont get into a fuss about it. Unless it's very creepy obviously."

Me neither, I take it in the nature of the sentence, it's a term of endearment, it's not intended to be offensive, I don't take offence. (Unless as you say it is worded or gestured in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable)

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By *nitterWoman  over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

It really doesnt bother me my friends call me Knit or Knitter when Im in trouble.

Terms of endearment are just that unless used unwisely or unkindly.

KNIT

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Alreet pet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My name is apt. All those are for those you love.. I know veg man calls you darling, love, sweetheart.. Del boy said sweetheart. Or plonker.. Nick names are fine if you know someone

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By *uliette500Woman  over a year ago

Hull

My real name for friends who know me or my fab name for those who don't.

Pet names of any kind are to be used by close friends who I know well where the use of said name has come about naturally during our interactions.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo. "

Or Wench

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them "

Twatwaffle is fine

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some people can call me anything they want.

Some people should just avert their eyes from my magnificence. Never mind attempting to speak at me

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo. "

Oh, boo-have yourself!

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I normally use the term lovely. Not once has it been rejected or frowned upon.

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By *oo..Woman  over a year ago

Boo's World


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo.

Or Wench "

Thats just you that calls me that, brave man or stupid. One of the two...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo.

Or Wench

Thats just you that calls me that, brave man or stupid. One of the two..."

Or both

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them

Twatwaffle is fine "

It suits you too

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By *oo..Woman  over a year ago

Boo's World


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo.

Oh, boo-have yourself! "

Took you 10 mins to think of that reply, you not had enough Coffee today?

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I normally use the term lovely. Not once has it been rejected or frowned upon. "

Is there a male version of this??

Maybe Bloke?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them

Twatwaffle is fine

It suits you too "

I've been called worse tbf

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them

Twatwaffle is fine

It suits you too

I've been called worse tbf "

Mostly by me

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Luv

But only when you're attempting to patronise

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo.

Oh, boo-have yourself!

·

Took you 10 mins to think of that reply, you not had enough Coffee today?"

I'm slower than a bullet train today, BøøBoo.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them

Twatwaffle is fine

It suits you too

I've been called worse tbf

Mostly by me "

You and Boo tbf

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By *valanche1001Man  over a year ago

Leeds

Cock whisperer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just my name will do. If he constantly calls you a pet name, he doesn't have a clue what your name is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t like any of them but I wouldn’t be that bothered if someone I knew called me a pet name. It only feels creepy when it’s from a stranger.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends who it is saying what for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Someone who is a stranger and doesn’t know me calling me a pet name puts me off. It’s not so much the pet name itself. It’s the lack of acquaintance yet use of something that comes with familiarity that puts me off.

I find pet names to be something reserved for someone that has some meaning to me. I’m someone who uses pet names by the multitude, with those that I consider close. If I ever call someone whom I have a pet name (or fifty) by their real name, that should be concerning.

Equally, if someone with familiarity gave me a pet name I take it as I’m not just ordinary, but someone of some type of importance in their life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only my best friend can call me babe, and weirdly she's the only one I say babe to in a nice way.

I'm sometimes use it sarcastically.

I can see myself saying it to a fabber that says it.

Hearing my name sounds odd. People don't generally call you anything when you're around them all the time. And I'm so used to being called mum my actual name sounds weird, but please don't use my name during sex that weirds me the fuck out.

I quite like PW though as I'm so used to it now.

Or relic will do.

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh, but I like treacle tits.

F

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By *oo..Woman  over a year ago

Boo's World


"My name is what's acceptable, if they don't know it, then they can call me Boo.

Oh, boo-have yourself!

·

Took you 10 mins to think of that reply, you not had enough Coffee today?

I'm slower than a bullet train today, BøøBoo."

Thats those short legs of yours Nero, get no where fast.

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Only my best friend can call me babe, and weirdly she's the only one I say babe to in a nice way.

I'm sometimes use it sarcastically.

I can see myself saying it to a fabber that says it.

Hearing my name sounds odd. People don't generally call you anything when you're around them all the time. And I'm so used to being called mum my actual name sounds weird, but please don't use my name during sex that weirds me the fuck out.

I quite like PW though as I'm so used to it now.

Or relic will do.

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

"

I’m pretty sure I’ve called you babes and darling

I do it all the time

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Just my name will do. If he constantly calls you a pet name, he doesn't have a clue what your name is "

But, Gertrude, you keep changing your name! Some of us seasoned seducers aren't young any more!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Just my name will do. If he constantly calls you a pet name, he doesn't have a clue what your name is "

I fucking hate it when they say my name to me

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I normally use the term lovely. Not once has it been rejected or frowned upon.

Is there a male version of this??

Maybe Bloke?"

Good question!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My own name feels weird when somebody calls it me, because I am just Mum at home, and not called upon at work by name really. That would be exotic enough if someone whispered my real name in my ear.

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Goddess? "

If we were Olympians then there would be mass confusion amongst all the goddesses!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How about just their name?

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"How about just their name?"

You won't tell it!

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"How about just their name?"

I would like to write "Raven" all over your back with my lip balm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How about just their name?

You won't tell it! "

You have sooooo many to choose from now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How about just their name?

I would like to write "Raven" all over your back with my lip balm."

Sure

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"How about just their name?

I would like to write "Raven" all over your back with my lip balm.

·

Sure"

Thank you. Much appreciated.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like something personal to me, or ones that we've come up with for each other.

Red has been used a number of times.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

"

That definitely is weird.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

That definitely is weird."

Oh my god I had a guy like this, he had a go at me because apparently I never called him by his name.

Get a sexier name than fucking Neil and I might have!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only my best friend can call me babe, and weirdly she's the only one I say babe to in a nice way.

I'm sometimes use it sarcastically.

I can see myself saying it to a fabber that says it.

Hearing my name sounds odd. People don't generally call you anything when you're around them all the time. And I'm so used to being called mum my actual name sounds weird, but please don't use my name during sex that weirds me the fuck out.

I quite like PW though as I'm so used to it now.

Or relic will do.

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

"

Maybe they remember back to the early 2000s and constantly have an ear worm.

“Say my name, say my name…”

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"I recall ‘wench’ going down well on a previous thread

"

Wenches usually go down well lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only my best friend can call me babe, and weirdly she's the only one I say babe to in a nice way.

I'm sometimes use it sarcastically.

I can see myself saying it to a fabber that says it.

Hearing my name sounds odd. People don't generally call you anything when you're around them all the time. And I'm so used to being called mum my actual name sounds weird, but please don't use my name during sex that weirds me the fuck out.

I quite like PW though as I'm so used to it now.

Or relic will do.

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

I’m pretty sure I’ve called you babes and darling

I do it all the time "

It was you I was referring to.

But I love your voice so you'll get away with a lot with with me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

That definitely is weird."

It definitely stood out to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Question though, is it weird or of any meaning if someone insists on you saying their name or makes a real point about it????????

I've recently had someone do that and it didn't die off either. Never had that before from anyone.

That definitely is weird.

Oh my god I had a guy like this, he had a go at me because apparently I never called him by his name.

Get a sexier name than fucking Neil and I might have!"

Is it some kind of bullshit thing that you WILL address them how they say you should!!!!!

I didn't get that from the man I'm talking about, he just consistently said he liked it when I said his name, like every single time I did he would say how he loved it.

Never felt like I should address him or else type bullshit but wasnt something I'd come across before.

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I like wench, maid, treacle... and other things... from certain people.

People who don't know me should use whatever name I've given them.

Mind you, I'm guilty of calling lovely people "lovely". Also chick, chuck, dude, twonk, spaffbucket, honey... I call two people darlin, and one Moose.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I like wench, maid, treacle... and other things... from certain people.

People who don't know me should use whatever name I've given them.

Mind you, I'm guilty of calling lovely people "lovely". Also chick, chuck, dude, twonk, spaffbucket, honey... I call two people darlin, and one Moose."

Ffs

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

Everyone is 'Love' up here. Doesn't bother me at all. There is a great clip of Sir Ian McKellen talking about is being gender neutral aswell

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Treacle "

Quite apt, when things get sticky in the bedroom.

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I recall ‘wench’ going down well on a previous thread

"

I love the term "wench". It's universally accepted..

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By *dalisqueWoman  over a year ago

land of make believe


"I normally use the term lovely. Not once has it been rejected or frowned upon. "

Lovely is my actual nickname so I am always a little perturbed when I see it.

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By *ycanNightsMan  over a year ago

Workington

Princess, cumdumpster, Muppet...

She's earned them all

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By *izzymonkeyMan  over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

From where I am from its normally along the lines of......Ayup Duck

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Princess, cumdumpster, Muppet...

She's earned them all "

I'd like to rescind my some people can call me anything comment please.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"I recall ‘wench’ going down well on a previous thread

I love the term "wrench". It's universally accepted as a very handy tool.."

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Princess, cumdumpster, Muppet...

She's earned them all "

I've heard the rumours, my dear chum. I've heard them all... ...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Princess, cumdumpster, Muppet...

She's earned them all

I've heard the rumours, my dear chum. I've heard them all... ..."

Watch it Néro

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden

She ^ just gave my a love heart. My quest is complete.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"She ^ just gave my a love heart. My quest is complete. "

Lol ...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple  over a year ago

Southampton

On a side note I don't mind being called lovely, or gorgeous but hunny, hun etc no thanks

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By *ustamanMan  over a year ago

weymouth


"I use darling in everything and to everyone. If someone doesn’t like it they only have to tell me and I will happily change it to twatwaffle for them "

I think I'll change my fab non de plume to twatwaffle

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan  over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m awful for doing this. I use names when talking with someone. Especially if I like them.

Some people like it. Some don’t. (Some even get, shall we say, *excited* when they hear their name in intimate moments …)

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman  over a year ago

Essex

Is “you bitch” a pet name?

I don’t generally attract them.

Can’t think why

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan  over a year ago

Glasgow / London

‘Misty’ counts as a pet name though, right?

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

.

I don't mind pet names. Rather like them. I also don't mind terms of endearment used colloquially, that's fine.

I think you have to know your audience for pet names. Those ones which might be seen as being more intimate.

Failing that, call me Meli. Or a twunt.

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By *amie HantsWoman  over a year ago

Atlantis


"I don't mind pet names. Rather like them. I also don't mind terms of endearment used colloquially, that's fine.

I think you have to know your audience for pet names. Those ones which might be seen as being more intimate.

Failing that, call me Meli. Or a twunt. "

Trash bag

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"‘Misty’ counts as a pet name though, right?"

At this point it’s almost my actual name

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Duck

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I like pet names.

My favourite is sugartits.

I also like: Floss, Lovely, Beaut (Welsh term of endearment), petal, flower.

My step dad used to call my mum “ugly” and she used to call him “dogs breath” as their terms of endearment. It worked for them……

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By *izzymonkeyMan  over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush


"Duck "

Apologies, it's the local colloquial greeting, from where I come from ....it just slips out....I can't help it

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By *imply DeeWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

I like to be called Dee, or my real name by those I’m closest to.

But Nero, it bothers me pet names in your OP are not listed in alphabetical order!

Disappointed

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

Mr and I don't even use pet names with each other. Makes us both cringe.

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By *eroLondon OP   Man  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I like to be called Dee, or my real name by those I’m closest to.

But Nero, it bothers me pet names in your OP are not listed in alphabetical order!

Disappointed

"

Disappointed that I've left a lady disappointed. My nectar cup of love fillith over the brim of my eternal shame.

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