How many times do you have to stop yourself commenting on posts.
I think I'm having a bad month I've had to stop myself several times today from being a dick, well a dick for a reason but the drama just isn't worth it.
Is it just me or do you have to bite your tongue too?
Do you just comment & not care how they take it?
Do you do a me and not comment then log off for a while?
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"How many times do you have to stop yourself commenting on posts.
I think I'm having a bad month I've had to stop myself several times today from being a dick, well a dick for a reason but the drama just isn't worth it.
Is it just me or do you have to bite your tongue too?
Do you just comment & not care how they take it?
Do you do a me and not comment then log off for a while?
Mrs "
Now I really want to know what you deleted on my thread. Dam you woman!! |
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"How many times do you have to stop yourself commenting on posts.
I think I'm having a bad month I've had to stop myself several times today from being a dick, well a dick for a reason but the drama just isn't worth it.
Is it just me or do you have to bite your tongue too?
Do you just comment & not care how they take it?
Do you do a me and not comment then log off for a while?
Mrs "
I'm generally quite good at saying what I mean in an inoffensive way, so I am happy to just post.
The times when I choose not to post are usually when it requires too much typing but I "CBA".
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"How many times do you have to stop yourself commenting on posts.
I think I'm having a bad month I've had to stop myself several times today from being a dick, well a dick for a reason but the drama just isn't worth it.
Is it just me or do you have to bite your tongue too?
Do you just comment & not care how they take it?
Do you do a me and not comment then log off for a while?
Mrs
Now I really want to know what you deleted on my thread. Dam you woman!!"
 don't worry it wasn't exciting
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"I have to restrain from posting when I see really bad spelling and grammar. Which is often"
Bad spelling & grammar are annoying, but correcting is doesn't advance a discussion, so I don't see any value in doing it.
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Believe it or not I do have a filter - so you can imagine what doesn’t make it to the forum given the stuff I consider relevant!! But there are times when i see the whole point of a post being deliberately manipulated into an entirely different direction thats when i tend to leave the thread as i know its going to become a shitshow  |
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I refrain a lot from commenting and giving my opinion. Even if done in a nice way. I think sometimes it's best to leave it alone.
I will always remember my Sgt Majors advice.
"Opinions are like arseholes, everybody has one but nobody wants to hear it" |
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"How many times do you have to stop yourself commenting on posts.
I think I'm having a bad month I've had to stop myself several times today from being a dick, well a dick for a reason but the drama just isn't worth it.
Is it just me or do you have to bite your tongue too?
Do you just comment & not care how they take it?
Do you do a me and not comment then log off for a while?
Mrs
Now I really want to know what you deleted on my thread. Dam you woman!!"
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Oftentimes I will type up a response to something and delete it.
If I am in a bad mood that's my problem and not everyone else's.
I refuse to let the Forums be that big a deal in my life.
I don't want the drama as it is never worth it.
I'm not willing to get in to a war of words, one-ups and gotcha's with a bunch of people I don't know... especially on a swingers site of all things.
I am here (in the forums) for my own light-hearted amusement and that is all.
This is supposed to be fun...
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Stop myself, rarely. I will generally say it I have something to say and want to say it. I just adjust word usage slightly to avoid a ban.
Now, do I often stop because I just can't be arsed commenting. Often find I just have no interest where the convo may go, or no interest in its destination. |
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I do. Not necessarily as I will overstep (though there is always that temptation), but if I know it'd would become a long, drawn-out exchange, and I just don't have the energy for it.
Or when a post would require too much thought/effort for me to get my point across properly. That's also a point I think "nah, fuck it". |
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All the time. Most days I want to proper cuss someone out. But if I’m going to get a perma it’s not going to be for something as boring as telling someone to suck their [redacted] mum. |
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"Many a time, I have a response typed out and just refresh the page cause I don't want to be on the naughty step "
Same I've done it a few too many times today, think I need to step away from the forums
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"Many a time, I have a response typed out and just refresh the page cause I don't want to be on the naughty step
Same I've done it a few too many times today, think I need to step away from the forums
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Just out of curiosity OP - is it the same type of thread/message that causes you issues or do you find it is happening on all threads? |
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I've learnt to see if a thread 'dies away' or just gets deleted before I post on it now.
Like others, I occasionally something only to not post it.
I don't like misinformation though! I always have a huge urge to correct it. And other times just to show the other view (we live in a very polarised world), or simply have my say.
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