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I think when I realise people expect me to know they're minimising or hiding things they think I don't want to hear about the choices they make and adjust my expectations accordingly, I just stop associating with them at all  |
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"Going out for 1 pint = 4
Going out for a couple = Don't wait up"
God knows. I was very much a "you'll see me when you see me" responder to questions. Set the expectations and zero hassle.
However I would never have waited up full stop. |
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Women do understand. That's the source of the problem. If a person says one thing and does another other people understand perfectly that there's a dodgy relationship with the truth going on.
Its like women who buy new things and claim it cost less or they've had it years. Why? |
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"I know, its like men not understanding when we are getting ready to go out when we say won't be long, that can mean anything from 2hrs onwards, well it does for me anyway!"
This was very relatable. Maybe we'd understand more if you just said I'll be ready in about 2-3 pints time |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"I know, its like men not understanding when we are getting ready to go out when we say won't be long, that can mean anything from 2hrs onwards, well it does for me anyway!
This was very relatable. Maybe we'd understand more if you just said I'll be ready in about 2-3 pints time"
Noted, I'll try that next time!  |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?  
Obi 
Brave ain't he!! "
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy. |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy. "
My Nan was also there. Are you her  |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
My Nan was also there. Are you her "
If I was your ears would hurt ! |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
My Nan was also there. Are you her
If I was your ears would hurt !"
You don’t scare me!  |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy. "
He's not the Messiah, is he Granny? |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
He's not the Messiah, is he Granny?"
Not even a Demi with a Semi .... |
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"I think when I realise people expect me to know they're minimising or hiding things they think I don't want to hear about the choices they make and adjust my expectations accordingly, I just stop associating with them at all "
Incisive! |
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"Women do understand. That's the source of the problem. If a person says one thing and does another other people understand perfectly that there's a dodgy relationship with the truth going on.
Its like women who buy new things and claim it cost less or they've had it years. Why?"
Tale as old as time
Certain as the sun
Rising in the east
Song as old as rhyme
Beauty and the beast .
They come from different planets
So they say Mars and Venus
It will ever be that way With some.
A challenge to this day .
Let's hope that they will learn
To communicate the right way. |
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Me. "I want to divorce my wife."
Lawyer. "On what grounds?"
Me. "She's out all night, every night, going from bar to bar."
Lawyer. "Is she an alcoholic or do you think she might be cheating?"
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Me. "No, she's looking for me." |
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"Me. "I want to divorce my wife."
Lawyer. "On what grounds?"
Me. "She's out all night, every night, going from bar to bar."
Lawyer. "Is she an alcoholic or do you think she might be cheating?"
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Me. "No, she's looking for me.""
That's it in a nutshell |
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"Me. "I want to divorce my wife."
Lawyer. "On what grounds?"
Me. "She's out all night, every night, going from bar to bar."
Lawyer. "Is she an alcoholic or do you think she might be cheating?"
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Me. "No, she's looking for me.""
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"Why don't men understand to say what you mean?
It's not difficult.
Mrs
Cause it a trap!!!
Same as when they ask what time you got in last night. They know perfectly well."
The worst is when the say.....how do I look???  |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
He's not the Messiah, is he Granny?"
She remembers Jesus |
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"Why don't men understand to say what you mean?
It's not difficult.
Mrs
Cause it a trap!!!
Same as when they ask what time you got in last night. They know perfectly well.
The worst is when the say.....how do I look??? "
Or she's hot over there...
...Who?? |
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Neither men or women hold the monopoly on meaning what they say. If you're going to be late, or longer than you predicted - that's what phones are for.
Bess x |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
He's not the Messiah, is he Granny?
She remembers Jesus"
Steve!! |
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
He's not the Messiah, is he Granny?
She remembers Jesus
Steve!! "
She’s MY Nan. She knows I’m joking |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I feel like i've been transported back to the 50's
What was it like the first time round?
Obi
Brave ain't he!!
I'm non plussed? I WAS there the first time around.... which is why I said BACK to the 50's.
He's just a very naughty boy.
He's not the Messiah, is he Granny?
She remembers Jesus
Steve!!
She’s MY Nan. She knows I’m joking "
At least you've got me off the hook...... |
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