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over a year ago
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"Actually you're right. White men don't have sex. So strange.
They can't jump.
Damn it! Sorry 
White men can't jump or have sex
That's why they're on the endangered species list now. It's a worry."
Er isn't that the white rhino?
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"Everyone's always hunting for the BBC. No-one seems to want us paley white soulless gingers ??????"
No it's not 'always' BBC
There's a small majority of people on the site who want to meet black men
And so what? If that's their preference it doesn't affect anyone except them and those they want to meet  |
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"Everyone's always hunting for the BBC. No-one seems to want us paley white soulless gingers ??????
No people hunt at the BBC "
There are some predators though!
*for legal reasons I mean there were some predators which I’m sure were dealt with accordingly |
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It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve never been one to hunt people of any race. I’ve never met a black man off Fab, and do receive some of the crudest messages from black men.
The entire BBC craze is a bit weird to me. Not that someone has a preference for black men that’s not a problem. It’s the way the black men’s appendage is fetishised. Surely there’s a human attached to the cock and you’d be keen on the human not just their appendage. |
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"It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport"
This is the best part of being black tbh
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"It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport
This is the best part of being black tbh
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I miss when people didn’t talk to me in the staffroom
The good old days  |
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"It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport
This is the best part of being black tbh
I miss when people didn’t talk to me in the staffroom
The good old days "
Or when people make small talk with you while you're out like PLEASE |
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"It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport
This is the best part of being black tbh
I miss when people didn’t talk to me in the staffroom
The good old days
Or when people make small talk with you while you're out like PLEASE "
Like, Ma’am, my headphones IN  |
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"It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport
This is the best part of being black tbh
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"It’s about time there was some new privileges to being Black. Since George Floyd and Robin Deangelo’s book less and less people are afraid to sit next to me on public transport
This is the best part of being black tbh
I miss when people didn’t talk to me in the staffroom
The good old days
Or when people make small talk with you while you're out like PLEASE
Like, Ma’am, my headphones IN "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone's always hunting for the BBC. No-one seems to want us paley white soulless gingers ??????"
Great message - pity people take things so seriously on here |
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"Everyone's always hunting for the BBC. No-one seems to want us paley white soulless gingers ??????
Meghan does!"
That paley white soulless ginger was a literal Prince tbf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gingers are my absolute favourite! 
Not sure he’s 99 though
Not much ginger/hair left by that point in all fairness "
Well, I’m sure you still have fun with your 99 year olds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like attracts like... I'm also pale and soulless.
I quite enjoy a cute ginger, the first guy I ever met off here was one.
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2nd I ever met was ginger, and he was gorgeous |
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"Everyone's always hunting for the BBC. No-one seems to want us paley white soulless gingers ??????"
I feel sorry for itv channel 4 and 5 and the other 900 odd channels. People say on their profile don’t ask for or offer money yet we only pay our licence for BBC  |
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Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
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Honestly eye roll everytime. Like omg did you just think of that on the spot?  |
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
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Maybe because black guys have been in the UK since the Roman army 2nd and 3rd century AD. Apost on “Why BBC and not white cock?” Has has been posted and asked a little more than a few hundred times. It’s never bothered me that people meet black guys. It is what it is. You never see black guys asking “why BWC?” |
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
Honestly eye roll everytime. Like omg did you just think of that on the spot? "
Honestly |
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
Maybe because black guys have been in the UK since the Roman army 2nd and 3rd century AD. Apost on “Why BBC and not white cock?” Has has been posted and asked a little more than a few hundred times. It’s never bothered me that people meet black guys. It is what it is. You never see black guys asking “why BWC?” "
What's a black man asking "why BWC" got to do with my comment?
And there have been topics surrounding people who chose to exclude POC and people who are openly racist on the scene so not sure how you have missed them |
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
Maybe because black guys have been in the UK since the Roman army 2nd and 3rd century AD. Apost on “Why BBC and not white cock?” Has has been posted and asked a little more than a few hundred times. It’s never bothered me that people meet black guys. It is what it is. You never see black guys asking “why BWC?”
What's a black man asking "why BWC" got to do with my comment?
And there have been topics surrounding people who chose to exclude POC and people who are openly racist on the scene so not sure how you have missed them "
I’ve probably missed them as I come into the forums occasionally. Plus in this lifestyle I think racism is a useless as jealousy |
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
Maybe because black guys have been in the UK since the Roman army 2nd and 3rd century AD. Apost on “Why BBC and not white cock?” Has has been posted and asked a little more than a few hundred times. It’s never bothered me that people meet black guys. It is what it is. You never see black guys asking “why BWC?”
What's a black man asking "why BWC" got to do with my comment?
And there have been topics surrounding people who chose to exclude POC and people who are openly racist on the scene so not sure how you have missed them
I’ve probably missed them as I come into the forums occasionally. Plus in this lifestyle I think racism is a useless as jealousy "
Doesn't stop POC from experiencing it though does it? |
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BBC here. Bexley's Best Cock!
It's not exactly pale, either, nor am I attracted to pale myself.
Allcock and Brown were my boyhood inspiration, so I had no choice but to become a naturist and also hang weights om it in my formative years.
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
Honestly eye roll everytime. Like omg did you just think of that on the spot? "
Ah, but it is a perfectly reasonable association of ideas.
I can never read 'ITV' without thinking of 'In the vagina'. Let the eyes roll, or water, as the case may be.
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"Why is it whenever there is a "bbc" topic people make comments about the BBC channel/itv etc
It was probably funny the first few hundred times, not so much now
Honestly eye roll everytime. Like omg did you just think of that on the spot?
Ah, but it is a perfectly reasonable association of ideas.
I can never read 'ITV' without thinking of 'In the vagina'. Let the eyes roll, or water, as the case may be.
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People can just think things. Like "why can't I meet women on Fab" - it doesn't need to be said. |
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People can just think things. Like "why can't I meet women on Fab" - it doesn't need to be said. "
But nobody will take the bait and read the unfortunate's profile if they don't post their thoughts! |
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I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism "
Is this about the OP? |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP? "
No |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
No"
So who is it about them cause it doesn't seem to be relevant to anything that has been said on the topic |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP? "
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed |
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"I've never had a partner with black skin. But I do find some BBC's very attractive."
I know in straight but what could be very attractive about a cock they are ugly. |
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"I've never had a partner with black skin. But I do find some BBC's very attractive.
I know in straight but what could be very attractive about a cock they are ugly. "
Probably doesn’t help that we have something that resembles a small brain attached to them |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed "
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk. "
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation? |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?"
Good individuals don’t negate a wider societal issue of racism. Pretending it does does absolutely nothing for anyone but the ego of the person asserting that they’re good. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?"
No it's not  |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
Good individuals don’t negate a wider societal issue of racism. Pretending it does does absolutely nothing for anyone but the ego of the person asserting that they’re good. "
I don’t deny it’s an issue I just choose to not involve myself with it or listen to negative uneducated information promoting it from either side. If you capitalise on negative energy you become your own worst enemy as it will consume you. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?"
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in. "
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
Good individuals don’t negate a wider societal issue of racism. Pretending it does does absolutely nothing for anyone but the ego of the person asserting that they’re good.
I don’t deny it’s an issue I just choose to not involve myself with it or listen to negative uneducated information promoting it from either side. If you capitalise on negative energy you become your own worst enemy as it will consume you. "
Oh man. OH MAN. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind. "
So then how do things get better? Do they get better? This revolutionary advice should be told to all groups that are talking about their experiences in the hope of a step toward equality. |
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"I've never had a partner with black skin. But I do find some BBC's very attractive.
I know in straight but what could be very attractive about a cock they are ugly. "
Some are very pretty. Yours is. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
Good individuals don’t negate a wider societal issue of racism. Pretending it does does absolutely nothing for anyone but the ego of the person asserting that they’re good.
I don’t deny it’s an issue I just choose to not involve myself with it or listen to negative uneducated information promoting it from either side. If you capitalise on negative energy you become your own worst enemy as it will consume you. "
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind. "
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind. "
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind. "
Ok let me just remove my non white skin to separate myself from racists.
Perhaps if I walk around thinking thoughts of rainbows and a world full of equality and justice for all, I will find it magically exists too.
I truly hope you stop to think about all the nonsense you’re spewing. You may think you’re a good person but your thoughts are extremely hurtful to those who don’t have the privilege you do of their skin colour complicating life in diverse ways that you’ll never experience.
If you’re truly keen to educate yourself and read educated thoughts about this, I implore you to read some books. One brilliant one is ‘Why I’m no longer talking to white people about race’. |
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind.
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
Please give us an example of when you have been racially abused and managed to separate yourself from it x"
Sorry this isn’t just to yourself but I don’t know how to multi quote through phone.
My dad, a racist that classed himself as a WASP if you don’t all know what that is google it. Took exception to my mixed race son. Under duress I sent a picture of my daughter who was also the same mixed race but fair in complexion to my dad. His reply was “Congratulation you’ve finally joined the Arian race. There’s my white privilege. Absolutely broke me. I have never spoken to my dad since and my children know nothing about it and live happy lives.
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind.
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
Please give us an example of when you have been racially abused and managed to separate yourself from it x
Sorry this isn’t just to yourself but I don’t know how to multi quote through phone.
My dad, a racist that classed himself as a WASP if you don’t all know what that is google it. Took exception to my mixed race son. Under duress I sent a picture of my daughter who was also the same mixed race but fair in complexion to my dad. His reply was “Congratulation you’ve finally joined the Arian race. There’s my white privilege. Absolutely broke me. I have never spoken to my dad since and my children know nothing about it and live happy lives.
So yes I never got a white privilege card. "
So you reckon you don't have white privilege because you're children are mixed race?
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind.
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
Please give us an example of when you have been racially abused and managed to separate yourself from it x
Sorry this isn’t just to yourself but I don’t know how to multi quote through phone.
My dad, a racist that classed himself as a WASP if you don’t all know what that is google it. Took exception to my mixed race son. Under duress I sent a picture of my daughter who was also the same mixed race but fair in complexion to my dad. His reply was “Congratulation you’ve finally joined the Arian race. There’s my white privilege. Absolutely broke me. I have never spoken to my dad since and my children know nothing about it and live happy lives.
So yes I never got a white privilege card. "
This is absolutely awful but it doesn’t mean you don’t have white privilege at all. And it also, as painful as it is, is not your experience of racism.
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind.
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
Please give us an example of when you have been racially abused and managed to separate yourself from it x
Sorry this isn’t just to yourself but I don’t know how to multi quote through phone.
My dad, a racist that classed himself as a WASP if you don’t all know what that is google it. Took exception to my mixed race son. Under duress I sent a picture of my daughter who was also the same mixed race but fair in complexion to my dad. His reply was “Congratulation you’ve finally joined the Arian race. There’s my white privilege. Absolutely broke me. I have never spoken to my dad since and my children know nothing about it and live happy lives.
So yes I never got a white privilege card.
This is absolutely awful but it doesn’t mean you don’t have white privilege at all. And it also, as painful as it is, is not your experience of racism.
If someone is racist about me in the presence of my partner, that’s not her experiencing racism. "
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind.
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
Please give us an example of when you have been racially abused and managed to separate yourself from it x
Sorry this isn’t just to yourself but I don’t know how to multi quote through phone.
My dad, a racist that classed himself as a WASP if you don’t all know what that is google it. Took exception to my mixed race son. Under duress I sent a picture of my daughter who was also the same mixed race but fair in complexion to my dad. His reply was “Congratulation you’ve finally joined the Arian race. There’s my white privilege. Absolutely broke me. I have never spoken to my dad since and my children know nothing about it and live happy lives.
So yes I never got a white privilege card.
This is absolutely awful but it doesn’t mean you don’t have white privilege at all. And it also, as painful as it is, is not your experience of racism.
If someone is racist about me in the presence of my partner, that’s not her experiencing racism.
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I don’t even know how to respond. My dad was racist to my child through me. You only understand if you have children I guess."
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
In essence you’re saying racism only exists because those who experience it are choosing to surround themselves with negativity?!
You can’t be that delusional.
Racism exist full stop. Those who negate its existence are part of the perpetual problem. The same for people who say ‘I don’t see colour’. Unless you’re colour blind… and even then there isn’t a brown colour blindness type, red, green, blue, yellow all which humans don’t come in.
No I’m saying there is racism out there. But if you consume yourself with thoughts of it you become your own worst enemy. You can separate yourself from a racist you can’t separate yourself from your own mind.
How does one separate themselves from being racially abused?
Please give us an example of when you have been racially abused and managed to separate yourself from it x
Sorry this isn’t just to yourself but I don’t know how to multi quote through phone.
My dad, a racist that classed himself as a WASP if you don’t all know what that is google it. Took exception to my mixed race son. Under duress I sent a picture of my daughter who was also the same mixed race but fair in complexion to my dad. His reply was “Congratulation you’ve finally joined the Arian race. There’s my white privilege. Absolutely broke me. I have never spoken to my dad since and my children know nothing about it and live happy lives.
So yes I never got a white privilege card.
This is absolutely awful but it doesn’t mean you don’t have white privilege at all. And it also, as painful as it is, is not your experience of racism.
If someone is racist about me in the presence of my partner, that’s not her experiencing racism.
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I don’t even know how to respond. My dad was racist to my child through me. You only understand if you have children I guess.
I have a mixed race child "
I’m over the moon for you mixed race children are a great. So you can understand where I’m coming from then. If your child was racially abused surely that would hurt more than if you or I were. Racism isn’t bred into us it’s taught or learned and we can go either way with those lessons |
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People can just think things. Like "why can't I meet women on Fab" - it doesn't need to be said.
But nobody will take the bait and read the unfortunate's profile if they don't post their thoughts! "
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
Good individuals don’t negate a wider societal issue of racism. Pretending it does does absolutely nothing for anyone but the ego of the person asserting that they’re good.
I don’t deny it’s an issue I just choose to not involve myself with it or listen to negative uneducated information promoting it from either side. If you capitalise on negative energy you become your own worst enemy as it will consume you. "
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"I’m gonna say it. Bringing race into into anything about swinging then questioning people’s reasoning behind picking you up on questioning your reasons for that makes you small minded and part of the issue behind racism
Is this about the OP?
It’s about what it says it’s about. Highlighting on racism then questioning someone when disagrees to then try to cause an issue that isn’t required or needed
Really struggling to make sense of this.
I think you’ve said- highlighting racism then questioning someone that disagrees with you is part of the issue behind racism?
That is absolutely hilarious talk.
Ok, either you don’t understand what I’m trying to say or I’ve interpreted it badly. So let’s say you as a black man have experienced racism in your lifetime. You put that point across but you say all white guys have a hang up with black guys.
I then come along and say “Hang on, I think you’re incorrect. I’m not racist and have no hang ups about black guys in everyday life or swinging.”
Now you have a choice. You can either think “maybe this guy’s genuine and the world isn’t against us” or you can think “bollox you’re just saying that and I’m right in my initial statement “
You choose to either surround yourself with negativity or positivity
Is that a better explanation?
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"So yes I never got a white privilege card.
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It's not a card, it's a comparative (hence the word privilege) *fact* to do with racial inequality.
This is all about what I call the struggle for parity imo. Some people (often men but not always) cannot handle others even-potentially having anything worse by any default.
And it's sooo easy to concede that racism does exist when you clearly have no idea what it is or entails!
BTW, I couldn't have kids, and I've always found the line "you only understand if you have children" to be exceptionally rude in itself. God knows what some women might think of it. Please try to be less clumsy in life sir! I just hope your kids don't grow up to defy-deny like you, it happens for sure but is such a painfully unhelpful sight to so many out here.
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