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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what chat you mean op
If you mean general get to know how’s your day chat always open for that
If you look for a quick wank chat not for me unfortunately |
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Depends on the chat.
If it's interesting and engaging chat then it's fun to participate in and absolutely no work at all.
Slogging through small talk and things that are answered on the profile is hard work. |
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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
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"Why is chatting so hard for people.. It's only chatting  lol"
Because some people are really crap at it and expect us to do all the chatting.
Sorry “hi” just doesn’t cut the mustard at all.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I don't chat anymore as I'm not meeting anyone new at present and I found even when I have told people this at the very start (it's also on my profile ) and they ask can we just chat instead,once you do it usually only takes a few messages in before they decide well now we exchanged a few messages they are entitled to me meeting them. So after that happened numerous times I cannot be bothered chatting anymore. |
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Depends on the people I guess ?
I chat in private to several people. There's no ulterior motive my end and I don't think there is their end either.
They are interesting people, with stories and life experience to share, and I enjoy talking to them. To be honest, with no pressure to talk about sex, you can relax and just talk about other things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't chat anymore as I'm not meeting anyone new at present and I found even when I have told people this at the very start (it's also on my profile ) and they ask can we just chat instead,once you do it usually only takes a few messages in before they decide well now we exchanged a few messages they are entitled to me meeting them. So after that happened numerous times I cannot be bothered chatting anymore. "
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Because it's never just chatting.
If I am not interested in someone and they have begged me just to "chat", it inevitably turns to sex talk or trying to change my mind.
Can't be arsed with that crap! |
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"I chat to a few on here without sex , I also think people are guarded by past experiences ( some not all ) "
I think that's very true. Understandable as well. It should be fairly obvious though that if the profile says A, and their private messages say A, they're one-dimensional and focussed on one thing. No judgement on that.
If their profile says A, but they chat about B,C,D,E and every other letter, they are multi-dimensional and more interesting, in my book.
Some are shy and let their profile do the talking, and only answer about A when asked.
So long as folks are happy, that's what matters, IMHO. |
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"I chat to a few on here without sex , I also think people are guarded by past experiences ( some not all )
I think that's very true. Understandable as well. It should be fairly obvious though that if the profile says A, and their private messages say A, they're one-dimensional and focussed on one thing. No judgement on that.
If their profile says A, but they chat about B,C,D,E and every other letter, they are multi-dimensional and more interesting, in my book.
Some are shy and let their profile do the talking, and only answer about A when asked.
So long as folks are happy, that's what matters, IMHO."
Agreed |
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Isn't this just another version of why it's so hard for single men to get interaction, including message replies?
See all the other posts from struggling single men. Typically, their profile can be improved on, alongside going to clubs and socialsm view more of those postsz to see advice and tips etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is chatting so hard for people.. It's only chatting lol"
Is not chatting that is hard .
Is reading this little letters on this white screen
It gives me migraines really bad . Really hurts
On other hand , some ladies and their photos they do leave me hard   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay let's chat. What you doing? Just at the supermarket, needed a jar of pickles. Oh that reminds me, I have this fantasy about a damsel in distress unable to open a jar so I save her and she thanks me by sucking me off and putting a pickle in my arsehole.
That's why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay let's chat. What you doing? Just at the supermarket, needed a jar of pickles. Oh that reminds me, I have this fantasy about a damsel in distress unable to open a jar so I save her and she thanks me by sucking me off and putting a pickle in my arsehole.
That's why."
Or what you doing? I’m just at the doctors with my nan getting her blood test. Shame, you should be here bouncing on my cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because sometimes the person wanting to chat is not someone they feel they’d like to chat with, maybe a badly written profile, don’t like the profile pics, maybe they created a bad thread on the forum and that’s put people off  whatever the reason it’s completely up to them and should be respected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay let's chat. What you doing? Just at the supermarket, needed a jar of pickles. Oh that reminds me, I have this fantasy about a damsel in distress unable to open a jar so I save her and she thanks me by sucking me off and putting a pickle in my arsehole.
That's why.
Or what you doing? I’m just at the doctors with my nan getting her blood test. Shame, you should be here bouncing on my cock "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chit chat is essential, if people can't do that, then they go in the bin.
I am a bit of a chatty Cathy though. Usually about things you wouldn't quite expect, given where we are.
Still, yeah, good fun innit, being on the phone for hours, laughing, giggling, talking to dogs, horses and cows in between. Sing a little Take That and George Michael, maybe go back to the person on the line too. Eventually. |
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Because when people who aren't what your looking for on play meets, have chats with you, they usually think that because you have chatted that you will drop your preferences and it wil lead to a fuck meet. |
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I chat loads to people on here, bit of tongue and cheek and banter is always good, doesn't matter to me if they're down the road or in another country. I'm not expecting a meet to come from it either. In the modern world where a lot of people hide away its always good to reach out to people, a friendly message and a chat might just make their day. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
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"Okay let's chat. What you doing? Just at the supermarket, needed a jar of pickles. Oh that reminds me, I have this fantasy about a damsel in distress unable to open a jar so I save her and she thanks me by sucking me off and putting a pickle in my arsehole.
That's why.
Or what you doing? I’m just at the doctors with my nan getting her blood test. Shame, you should be here bouncing on my cock "
These two answers are the stupidest excuses for not chatting I ever heard. No one actually says stuff like that, besides, a good conversationalist would take that and make a good conversation out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because when people who aren't what your looking for on play meets, have chats with you, they usually think that because you have chatted that you will drop your preferences and it wil lead to a fuck meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay let's chat. What you doing? Just at the supermarket, needed a jar of pickles. Oh that reminds me, I have this fantasy about a damsel in distress unable to open a jar so I save her and she thanks me by sucking me off and putting a pickle in my arsehole.
That's why.
Or what you doing? I’m just at the doctors with my nan getting her blood test. Shame, you should be here bouncing on my cock
These two answers are the stupidest excuses for not chatting I ever heard. No one actually says stuff like that, besides, a good conversationalist would take that and make a good conversation out of it."
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