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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A bit of both for me too 
But I don’t like to be chased literally; that makes me really uncomfortable; I often have nightmares about this scenario  "
I wasn’t meaning literally I was just meaning in like a dateing / sort off meet kind off way
Trying to spice things up here with stuff we haven’t seen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find running in heels impossible.
Ha ha it can be but I was meaning in terms off dateing and stuff
I know... 
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Ha ha you did give me a little smile with your comment though |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases "
Okay, I like being pursued and chatted up. I like the flirting and to-and-fro banter involved. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases
Okay, I like being pursued and chatted up. I like the flirting and to-and-fro banter involved. "
The back and forth can definitely be the best part off it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a balance between chasing and being chased. Obviously the balance can tip in either favour but it needs to be restored. If I feel I am putting too much effort into the chasing then I'm chasing the wrong person. Should anything develop after chasing too much then they will be expecting the same energy to keep their interest. When I sense the chasing is becoming too excessive I just back off and let the situation fizzle out. I believe if you keep putting others before yourself then you will always be second in their life.
Therefore a nice balance between chasing and being chased is important to me. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I like being chased but not if it's just a game. "
Ahh, I actually enjoy flirting and being pursued within itself. It doesn't bother me if it isn't leading to anything. Most flirting doesn't, anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer a balance between chasing and being chased. Obviously the balance can tip in either favour but it needs to be restored. If I feel I am putting too much effort into the chasing then I'm chasing the wrong person. Should anything develop after chasing too much then they will be expecting the same energy to keep their interest. When I sense the chasing is becoming too excessive I just back off and let the situation fizzle out. I believe if you keep putting others before yourself then you will always be second in their life.
Therefore a nice balance between chasing and being chased is important to me."
A nice balance can be wonderful it is a good feeling when it’s both ways |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer pretending to run away, falling over and the chasing lady to pounce upon me and then sitting on my face until I submit 
But this is just between us right? "
Ha ha it’s out in public space now |
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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago
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I don't really like either. I like conversation and clarity. I have definitely scared people off by being upfront so that might sometimes come across as chasing and I may occasionally misinterpret the other way too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really like either. I like conversation and clarity. I have definitely scared people off by being upfront so that might sometimes come across as chasing and I may occasionally misinterpret the other way too. "
Dam right!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases "
Bit of both. If they appear uninterested I get bored and bin them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't really like either. I like conversation and clarity. I have definitely scared people off by being upfront so that might sometimes come across as chasing and I may occasionally misinterpret the other way too. "
Can be a fine line and hugs on scared people off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate the chase. Love frank and honest conversation.
A long while ago on a night out, a friend point blank said to me that we are having sex tonight. No games, great sex  "
Honsty is the best way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases
Bit of both. If they appear uninterested I get bored and bin them."
Yes it can get that way at times if they play to hard to get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases
Bit of both. If they appear uninterested I get bored and bin them.
Yes it can get that way at times if they play to hard to get "
I also get put off if they are too keen though.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases
Bit of both. If they appear uninterested I get bored and bin them.
Yes it can get that way at times if they play to hard to get
I also get put off if they are too keen though. "
That can be my problem completely I can come across like that |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Neither. I don't really do chasing. I also don't like feeling like I'm being chased. I like mutual, reciprocated energy. You know when they're interested and make the effort to show that? I can do the same without overthinking. Yep, that.
I will say though recently I'm exploring the joy of having others organise things. For someone who's always done it, whether it's booking hotels, working out when... it's just really nice to take a step back and let someone else do it. I'm not sure he's chasing me as such. More giving me a chance to feel more feminine*?
*yes, I know this is problematic. I'm not sure how else to describe it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Neither. I don't really do chasing. I also don't like feeling like I'm being chased. I like mutual, reciprocated energy. You know when they're interested and make the effort to show that? I can do the same without overthinking. Yep, that.
I will say though recently I'm exploring the joy of having others organise things. For someone who's always done it, whether it's booking hotels, working out when... it's just really nice to take a step back and let someone else do it. I'm not sure he's chasing me as such. More giving me a chance to feel more feminine*?
*yes, I know this is problematic. I'm not sure how else to describe it!"
Can be a fine line and ooo sounds wonderful hopefully it gose well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To chase or be chased
For me I like a bit off both
Love the thrill off chaseing but also love the feeling when someone chases
I prefer sardines  "
Ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer a balance between chasing and being chased. Obviously the balance can tip in either favour but it needs to be restored. If I feel I am putting too much effort into the chasing then I'm chasing the wrong person. Should anything develop after chasing too much then they will be expecting the same energy to keep their interest. When I sense the chasing is becoming too excessive I just back off and let the situation fizzle out. I believe if you keep putting others before yourself then you will always be second in their life.
Therefore a nice balance between chasing and being chased is important to me.
A nice balance can be wonderful it is a good feeling when it’s both ways "
Agreed |
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