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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never done it find it a bit off a cleashy off swingers
Would I well I am always down for anything one’s to try
Dose it involve afterwards comeing though in to the social area with cum running down my legs to prove the deed was done sorry another cleashy joke  |
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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago
cambs/london/Norfolk |
"It's a bit of swinging history, but does it still happen?
Have you?
Would you?
No I haven't and it does sound apocryphal although I have it on good authority from some old timers that it did happen.. along with Pampas grass outside the House, and contact mags pre internet (yes there really was a time when swingers used to write to each other  )
Would I? Yes ;+)
(And I think I know a few others who would come too xx)
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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago
cambs/london/Norfolk |
"It really does sound like fun!
The reality may be far less fun.
Imagine having sex with someone unfamiliar to you who you are not attracted to either physically or mentally.
I think that's where you are reliant on the host to pick compatible people, have an ice breaker before hand and of course no always means no ;+)
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"Never done it find it a bit off a cleashy off swingers
Would I well I am always down for anything one’s to try
Dose it involve afterwards comeing though in to the social area with cum running down my legs to prove the deed was done sorry another cleashy joke "
I'm having my breakfast Nat! |
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I can imagine someone hosting this as a retro swinging night. Just as a giggle, without the pressure of ‘you must fuck the people you pick’. Y’know, do a whole theme night. Late ’70s outfits. Appropriate tunes. Retro party snacks. Some would definitely end up in bed together anyway …
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done it find it a bit off a cleashy off swingers
Would I well I am always down for anything one’s to try
Dose it involve afterwards comeing though in to the social area with cum running down my legs to prove the deed was done sorry another cleashy joke
I'm having my breakfast Nat!"
Sorry just thought it be funny ha ha |
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"I can imagine someone hosting this as a retro swinging night. Just as a giggle, without the pressure of ‘you must fuck the people you pick’. Y’know, do a whole theme night. Late ’70s outfits. Appropriate tunes. Retro party snacks. Some would definitely end up in bed together anyway …
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That sounds like fun  |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"It's a bit of swinging history, but does it still happen?
Have you?
Would you?
This is the one but of swinging I wish was still a thing. If so parties are willing to full swap then this would be interesting indeed.
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"It's a bit of swinging history, but does it still happen?
Have you?
Would you?
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Yes, would be nice. I’ve seen a movie and right away wanted to play kind of it. Maybe even host one someday once I finish my house renovation
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"I can imagine someone hosting this as a retro swinging night. Just as a giggle, without the pressure of ‘you must fuck the people you pick’. Y’know, do a whole theme night. Late ’70s outfits. Appropriate tunes. Retro party snacks. Some would definitely end up in bed together anyway …
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This sounds brilliant. I'm in. |
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"It's a bit of swinging history, but does it still happen?
Have you?
Would you?
I think it would be amazing fun, if it was run in a private hotel, the bowl was full of keycards, and all the women were sat in the rooms waiting, so the men chose a key card and went off to find the room……..?
Imagine; two bowls with assorted keycards in. So the ladies choose their card first, then off they go with their overnight bag. Half an hour later, the guys choose a card, then pick their overnight bag up and go off to find their room, and whoever they are spending the night with…..
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"This is how I was introduced to swinging back in 1994 by my then bosses
I need to hear all about this
Sounds like the beginning of a series of Novels "
Queue that shit and make some doller. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, not for me. I need to be attracted to someone's face to have sex with them. Sorry if that sounds shallow 
My parents, it turns out, did actually have 'keys-in-a-bowl' swingers parties back in the 70s. Them and four other couples would take turns to host once a month, plus invite the odd single F or M to spice it up. Oh, and all four couples had pampas grass in their front garden. Not that I knew what it meant back then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex female partner told me she was invited to a sex party and your keys were randomly placed in the doorway of a partygoer of the opposite sex, so you didnt see who you were getting together with beforehand . Don't know if l would like that ,l never asked what the guy was like ,too much information. |
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I think it's one of those things were the concept is hot in fantasy but the reality may potentially turn out to be a bit rubbish. We can be a little picky and fickle which isn't useful in such a scenario. |
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Keys in a bowl with an agreement that anyone who deems themselves not compatible takes themselves off for drinks, chatter and banter and enjoys that instead. Just make keys in a bowl a portion of the night and then anyone incompatible has a chance to find their perfect match later.
Iron Man keyring at the ready  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a bit of swinging history, but does it still happen?
Have you?
Would you?
A good many years back we were invited to a party which was run on a variation of this. There was a draw with numbers on paper tickets, where a partner was established and a then a second draw for a room in the house (all of which had been numbered). After there was a second round and so more variation still. It turned out to be one of the most sociable and enjoyable nights we ever had in the swinging world. I can imagine that potentially there could be some downsides to doing anything like this, but with a bit of careful planning and selection of the right sort of folks (real swingers) it has great potential even now. Clean, pleasant, unpretentious and keen folks are all that’s needed; but they are a very rare commodity now; so probably not the sort of thing that would be easy to find on fab nowadays.
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
I have always tried to go with the flow etc at parties but have never been in this exact scenario but I can see the fun element. I suppose I would " cheat " by having a good look at participants first |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
These parties were my introduction to what is now known as swinging way back in the early 1960's, they were arranged at the local pub, no internet or mobile phones in those days, three or four couples all known to each other would be the norm for a party.
If you had the misfortune to pick your own keys you were given a second chance.
Alcohol played a big part in the success of these parties, no breathalysers in those days,
The parties which I organised usually took place at my parents house when they were on holiday and this was the case with many other parties.
Happy days, wish I could put the clock back 50+ years. |
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By *lcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Dingwall |
Remember those parties well from the 70s/80s! Strangely everyone there was fairly good looking and very sexy and the atmosphere was electric lol. So you didn't really end up shagging someone you weren't attracted to!
We have remained friends with quite a few of the couples. Ah where have all those years gone?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were invited to a similar party, with games where you may be expected to play with any of the other members of the party. I said I liked the idea of it, and sounded fun, but I would definitely need to pre-view and approve everyone there as I would need to know there wasn’t anyone I didn’t fancy.
My male partner was less picky!
Do you think men are less choosy about this sort of stuff (any hole is a goal?!?) |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
" I said I liked the idea of it, and sounded fun, but I would definitely need to pre-view and approve everyone there as I would need to know there wasn’t anyone I didn’t fancy.
My male partner was less picky!
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Lol
It’s like saying I want to be sure I am getting Aces when entering poker game, otherwise I want play.
It’s a game, the idea of any game is a risk to loose to make win sweeter.
The win in the game of bowl keys is to get the most desirable partner at the desk. If you don’t - you lost. Doesn’t mean you need to shag just because you pull the key. It is explained at the very beginning of the game.
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Do you think men are less choosy about this sort of stuff (any hole is a goal?!?) "
No, we aren’t. We are less risk averse than women.
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By *jay1975Man
over a year ago
London / Barcelona |
"I can imagine someone hosting this as a retro swinging night. Just as a giggle, without the pressure of ‘you must fuck the people you pick’. Y’know, do a whole theme night. Late ’70s outfits. Appropriate tunes. Retro party snacks. Some would definitely end up in bed together anyway …
That sounds like fun "
That really does sound like fun... |
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"There was a pineapple hedgehog and vol au vonts but everyone’s keys were kept firmly in their pockets.
There was carpet in the bathroom too…. "
Were you visiting my parents in their 1970s bubble?
Prawn cocktail with Marie Rose sauce? |
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By *jay1975Man
over a year ago
London / Barcelona |
There's a Spanish drama series on Amazon that i saw recently and really enjoyed called "El Juego De Las Llaves", "The game of keys", about a group of friends who decide to do this (now instead of in the 70s). They got two seasons out of it, it's got some good characters
https://watch.amazon.co.uk/detail?gti=amzn1.dv.gti.dab64643-6075-7b21-cf01-60366f9c962d&ref_=atv_lp_share_seas&r=web |
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"There was a pineapple hedgehog and vol au vonts but everyone’s keys were kept firmly in their pockets.
There was carpet in the bathroom too….
Were you visiting my parents in their 1970s bubble?
Prawn cocktail with Marie Rose sauce?"
 There was some groovy music playing on vinyl to |
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"Was it “The best of ABBA”?"
It was! Funnily enough, one guy wearing a wide collared shirt and medallion accidentally had his keys fall out his bell bottoms whilst we were all boogieing on down to Dancing Queen.
He hastily put them back in them for fear of anyone getting the wrong idea that he was trying to initiate lewd proceedings… |
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Yes it used to at parties I went to when younger. It was a lot of fun but a bit hit and miss if you got on with person. Not sure I would do now as like to chat first and make sure all want to take further. However be happy to get an invite and see and risk it |
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