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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now  )"
I don't think that I have ever seen someone in a dressing gown in the street.
I used to love going to Tesco at 02.00 or 03.00 in the morning, when it was empty except for the insomniacs and mum's walking around trying to get their babies to sleep. Did not judge people turning up in their PJs.
I do judge drivers who go through pedestrian crossings when I am crossing the road with my dog - more than judge, significant amount of abuse and gesticulating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )
I don't think that I have ever seen someone in a dressing gown in the street.
I used to love going to Tesco at 02.00 or 03.00 in the morning, when it was empty except for the insomniacs and mum's walking around trying to get their babies to sleep. Did not judge people turning up in their PJs.
I do judge drivers who go through pedestrian crossings when I am crossing the road with my dog - more than judge, significant amount of abuse and gesticulating!"
*** rogue apostrophe there after mum - implying it was only one mum (and possibly mine at that!) |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.
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Exactly. It doesn't mean you need to be a twonk with that but pretending you don't is daft. Not all judging is negative either.
I judge parents who scream at young children - toddlers.
I judge people who say expresso. |
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Littering, particularly when there's a bin a short distance away
All sorts of fashion choices (I don't say anything, I just note it and amuse myself)
Anyone who tells me they don't read
Those who like to show off that they aren't community minded (this seems to be an online phenomenon) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I went out in my dressing gown this morning, the cat was yowling at the whole street loudly, it was either I go out and stop her or the street has to listen to her. So I stopped her
If they want to judge me for it, they can, it tells me more about them than they saying about me, doesn’t it
Besides they’re all air bnb so I give no flying what they think tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.
I judge people who don't pick up after their dogs "
Agreed! I pickup after mine and it makes me angry to see all the dumps  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )
I don't think that I have ever seen someone in a dressing gown in the street.
I used to love going to Tesco at 02.00 or 03.00 in the morning, when it was empty except for the insomniacs and mum's walking around trying to get their babies to sleep. Did not judge people turning up in their PJs.
I do judge drivers who go through pedestrian crossings when I am crossing the road with my dog - more than judge, significant amount of abuse and gesticulating!"
There is a woman in my street whom I have never seen without a dressing gown! It's cos in in t'Norf I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.
Except Crocs.
People who wear those are sociopaths."
I knew crocs would feature  |
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"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.
Exactly. It doesn't mean you need to be a twonk with that but pretending you don't is daft. Not all judging is negative either.
I judge parents who scream at young children - toddlers.
I judge people who say expresso. "
That made me laugh. There are quite a few that say expresso, aren't they |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I judge those 'lowbrow' folk who drink Pumpkin Spice Lattes, especially those with sizeable cleavages who should know better.
One day you shall have your comeuppance."
Lowbrow. Low. Fucking. Brow.
Hope you realise you've just signed yourself up to receive photos of my ascent in to spooky season. And the photo of my first PSL of the year.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I judge people who say expresso.
That made me laugh. There are quite a few that say expresso, aren't they "
Yes! I try really hard to keep a poker face but expresso. Really? Ah well, at least hell will be warm.
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"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.
Except Crocs.
People who wear those are sociopaths."
I don't kink shame people for clothing.
I just have a giggle to myself |
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"I judge people who say expresso.
That made me laugh. There are quite a few that say expresso, aren't they
Yes! I try really hard to keep a poker face but expresso. Really? Ah well, at least hell will be warm.
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Especially if followed up with 'pronto' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's things I am judgey on and others I'm not.
If someone does something wrong. Drops litter, dog mess, the things not accepted by society.
However, I don't judge people for their individuality. What you wear, what you do, who you sleep with, what you believe, what you eat, colour, hair style...
Are none of my business. If I like you, I like you for who you are. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Forgive me Fabther for I have sinned.
I have judged and judged some more. I have spent my morning judging those that say they don't judge, all while they are judging too. Now I am feeling judged for my choices of judgement. |
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I have no judgement for those who give off hearty laughters.
But I will judge those who giggle, chortle, snort and titter. And please don't get me started on those who guffaw. For goodness sake, this is real life; it's not The Beano or The Dandy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?
Wow.
Yes. We do. They are exceptional.
Heathen.
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Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.
If you know, you know. |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?
Wow.
Yes. We do. They are exceptional.
Heathen.
Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.
If you know, you know. "
I'm going to remain a heathen thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a letter go out at my children’s primary school once asking parents not to do the school run in pyjamas and dressing gowns
Big fucking oof "
And it wasn’t aimed at me  |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?
Wow.
Yes. We do. They are exceptional.
Heathen.
Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.
If you know, you know. "
Fancy as Marmite sesh?  |
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We all judge it's human nature, I judge the shit drivers probably more than anyone else and the personalised number plates, why you need everyone to know this Corsa belongs to Julie I don't know and it's strange when you mention their name along with their shit driving/parking they seem offended moreso that you know their name.
If you want to keep it private don't plaster it on your car.
Ok I've maybe road rage issues.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I judge those 'lowbrow' folk who drink Pumpkin Spice Lattes, especially those with sizeable cleavages who should know better.
One day you shall have your comeuppance."
 That is..quite niche. So glad I don't drink coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore
Oh, I'm so sorry  no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful"
I'm sure you're right. I'm still a judgmental cow sadly! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all judge it's human nature, I judge the shit drivers probably more than anyone else and the personalised number plates, why you need everyone to know this Corsa belongs to Julie I don't know and it's strange when you mention their name along with their shit driving/parking they seem offended moreso that you know their name.
If you want to keep it private don't plaster it on your car.
Ok I've maybe road rage issues.
Mrs "
Road rage is a WHOLE other thread! |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
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"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore
Oh, I'm so sorry no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful
I'm sure you're right. I'm still a judgmental cow sadly! "
cows only judge farmers wives who dont pull there nipples |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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"I went out in my dressing gown this morning, the cat was yowling at the whole street loudly, it was either I go out and stop her or the street has to listen to her. So I stopped her
If they want to judge me for it, they can, it tells me more about them than they saying about me, doesn’t it
Besides they’re all air bnb so I give no flying what they think tbh"
That’s something I’ve never understood; I thought that’s what dressing gowns were for: making you look presentable to others.
There! I’ve judged you. positively. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a letter go out at my children’s primary school once asking parents not to do the school run in pyjamas and dressing gowns
Big fucking oof
And it wasn’t aimed at me "
Of course not, that'd be a crocheted gown.
Totally different vibe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?
Wow.
Yes. We do. They are exceptional.
Heathen.
Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.
If you know, you know.
Fancy as Marmite sesh? "
Gotta have tea with it though.
Because it's a dangerous snack, literally coats the inside of your mouth with that black salty tar.
The rinse is essential.
OK I'm really selling this now I know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore
Oh, I'm so sorry no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful
I'm sure you're right. I'm still a judgmental cow sadly! cows only judge farmers wives who dont pull there nipples"
Kinky cows |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?
Wow.
Yes. We do. They are exceptional.
Heathen.
Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.
If you know, you know.
Fancy as Marmite sesh?
Gotta have tea with it though.
Because it's a dangerous snack, literally coats the inside of your mouth with that black salty tar.
The rinse is essential.
OK I'm really selling this now I know."
Er... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely we all are judgemental, I try not to be.
But fuck me some of the posts I've seen on the forums lately.... I wonder how many people they make as enemies with what they post. I've seen it and thought fuck I really don't like you. Yet this is supposed to be an inclusive environment. Is it fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have no judgement for those who give off hearty laughters.
But I will judge those who giggle, chortle, snort and titter. And please don't get me started on those who guffaw. For goodness sake, this is real life; it's not The Beano or The Dandy."
Damn it. I snort. My children cringe.  |
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We all judge or perhaps on many cases just disassociate. Some I can think of are people who are loud and inconsiderate how their behaviour affects others whether in public places or as neighbours. People who think you should be driving at the speed they want you to. Those waiting at the till behind you and have no social skills to know you should not breath at someone's neck unless in an intimate situation. There are quote a few more but as anything else what bothers one person is not always what bothers another  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring
I've not drank for 12 years my life is tragic 
But hey, I still find some things to do.
Were you in prison "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring
I've not drank for 12 years my life is tragic
But hey, I still find some things to do.
Were you in prison "
Nah, I took up Pokemon Go |
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"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring
I've not drank for 12 years my life is tragic
But hey, I still find some things to do.
Were you in prison
Nah, I took up Pokemon Go"
Could have been monopoly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring
I've not drank for 12 years my life is tragic
But hey, I still find some things to do.
Were you in prison
Nah, I took up Pokemon Go
Could have been monopoly "
Then I would go to jail |
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"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring
I've not drank for 12 years my life is tragic
But hey, I still find some things to do.
Were you in prison
Nah, I took up Pokemon Go
Could have been monopoly
Then I would go to jail "
Ha ha ha ha, very good.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This made me laugh as I saw someone this morning wearing a dressing gown to the shop.....like you I was a bit judgy lol"
IKR!! I have never and would never say a word. I don't know people's circumstances. But OMFG put a bloody jumper on. |
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"This made me laugh as I saw someone this morning wearing a dressing gown to the shop.....like you I was a bit judgy lol
IKR!! I have never and would never say a word. I don't know people's circumstances. But OMFG put a bloody jumper on. "
When red eyeshadow was all the rage, a friend of mine (overseas) had a lot of fun sharing thoughts about people deliberately adorning themselves like they had an eye infection.
Was I judging? Yes. Did it hurt anyone? No. |
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I am very judgy on one thing in particular.
The won't work people. Please do not confuse this with can't work due to medical condition, caring for family or young children. No, what I hate ate people who have no reason not to work, but still don't, and live on benefits.
Drives me nuts. I have been working since I was 16. Not a single gap in employment. If I was ever out of work my first priority would be to take any job, rather than sit about waiting on the right job |
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I would not judge anyone on what they do, who they are, where they live, whether the work or not, how they dress etc. I would only do so if their actions inpinge on me in some specific way. Otherwise it is just none of my business |
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We all judge other in someway be it for trying be posh when I know they owo me money for work I done or whatever I never look down on someone dirty work clothes etc I think a least there working or a tied looking parent etc. Last week was working in a terrace house looking out upstairs window car pull up lady in dressing grown came out house across road gave him money I think got small package off him. Ran back in, guess drugs I felt more sorry for her if it was than judged |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.
Except Crocs.
People who wear those are sociopaths."
I LOVE my crocs. Superlightweight when packing for travel. They float. They're comfy. Quick to dry. Easy to clean.
But I'm not a sociopath, and anyone who says I am goes on a very detailed revenge list with horrendous outcomes for them.
And I feel no shame in my crocs or the list.
Gbat |
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"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.
Except Crocs.
People who wear those are sociopaths.
I LOVE my crocs. Superlightweight when packing for travel. They float. They're comfy. Quick to dry. Easy to clean.
But I'm not a sociopath, and anyone who says I am goes on a very detailed revenge list with horrendous outcomes for them.
And I feel no shame in my crocs or the list.
Gbat "
Really depends on the colour |
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Yep I judge those who lie or use others .
Also anyone who hurts animal/older people or children .
We all judge others,it's human nature.Many do seem to like to use judge as an insult though when they don't like another's opinion.
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I agree judging is a part of human nature.
Not all things natural are automatically good though.
Some of it is about people not conforming to our belief systems. I Judge people for expecting others to do that. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"Also anyone who hurts animal/older people or children. "
Genuine question and ironically for a thread about judging, I'm not actually judging you, just keen to understand.
Do you really have less compassion for say, an adult victim of domestic violence? Or a woman who is stranger r@aped while walking home. What about victims of genocide and war?
Honestly, I'm not trying to start an argument, but wonder why you put some people and even animals on a higher pedestal than others?
Ta,
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )"
That, I judge that
I was away to say nooooo I’m not judgemental at all but no, seeing the PJs in the local coop does spark some level of judgement |
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"Also anyone who hurts animal/older people or children.
Genuine question and ironically for a thread about judging, I'm not actually judging you, just keen to understand.
Do you really have less compassion for say, an adult victim of domestic violence? Or a woman who is stranger r@aped while walking home. What about victims of genocide and war?
Honestly, I'm not trying to start an argument, but wonder why you put some people and even animals on a higher pedestal than others?
Ta,
Gbat "
No there are lots of people I'd judge for things,including those you've suggested.They just came to mind as I see them as unable to defend themselves as much as others.
If I listed everything that made me judge/sick I'd probably be here a while .
It's not a case of putting anyone/thing on a pedestal.Im a big animal lover & I guess I get fed up of seeing constant cruelty.
Maybe we might judge differently depending on what we regularly see online and social media etc .
I despise any type of bullying or needless violence to anyone regardless of gender /age etc.
Hope that helps
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.
Except Crocs.
People who wear those are sociopaths.
I LOVE my crocs. Superlightweight when packing for travel. They float. They're comfy. Quick to dry. Easy to clean.
But I'm not a sociopath, and anyone who says I am goes on a very detailed revenge list with horrendous outcomes for them.
And I feel no shame in my crocs or the list.
Gbat
Really depends on the colour "
Or if they're fleece lined  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )
That, I judge that
I was away to say nooooo I’m not judgemental at all but no, seeing the PJs in the local coop does spark some level of judgement "
See! It's not just me! I took one of my kids to the dentist after school and a lady walked past in her dressing grown. I judged internally so HARD I nearly squirted. |
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )"
Dunno if I judge that kind of thing necessarily. I'd maybe feel a bit sorry for them as they can't have a great deal of self respect...which is quite a judgey thing to say I suppose.
I do judge people based on how they treat their children though. We can all have a bad day and lose the rag but I've been close to drop kicking some cunts across the car park when I've heard how horrible they can be to their kids out shopping for example. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )
Dunno if I judge that kind of thing necessarily. I'd maybe feel a bit sorry for them as they can't have a great deal of self respect...which is quite a judgey thing to say I suppose.
I do judge people based on how they treat their children though. We can all have a bad day and lose the rag but I've been close to drop kicking some cunts across the car park when I've heard how horrible they can be to their kids out shopping for example."
Yeah it's the lack of self-respect I'm judging. But then I've done things that show little self-respect at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who ride bikes with child seats in busy areas.
Similarly, people who take their kids shopping at night, can't control their kid's screaming and generally shouldn't be breeding.
Also, people in general, meh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )"
What? The integrity of top level footballers. The cheating bastards!!!! |
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I judge the life out of some people on the forums. Where I should remain objective and judge them as they are In person. But there just so cuntish. But is that really a reflection of me. Here I go judging myself for being judgey of others |
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Do you judge?
Judgement can be assessment (in relation to yourself and perfectly permissible - ie preferences) or it can be condemnation. Silent condemnation is harmless, ie you keep it to yourself. Verbalise it and someone may conden you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh yes, I think we all are in different scenarios
It’s all about knowing when to say something out loud & when to just shut up & move on with you day   "
Sometimes it's written all over my face even if I say nowt! I try not to say anything because it's not my business. |
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"Yes; it’s one of my personal favourite pastimes
Is there anything specifically that gets your judgey pants tingling? "
In accordance with the rather charming phrase; ‘Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes.’
….See, no way am I trying on that decidedly coarse looking dudes shoes; he might have veruccas or some similarly highly contagious fungal infection. Not only that, but I’ve seen those shoes on eBay - they’re clearly knock offs…. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes; it’s one of my personal favourite pastimes
Is there anything specifically that gets your judgey pants tingling?
In accordance with the rather charming phrase; ‘Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes.’
….See, no way am I trying on that decidedly coarse looking dudes shoes; he might have veruccas or some similarly highly contagious fungal infection. Not only that, but I’ve seen those shoes on eBay - they’re clearly knock offs…. "
But at least not crocs. |
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Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth."
Ok Judgey McJudgeson
No but I didn’t actually know that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth."
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread! |
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!"
Oh the irony |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!
Oh the irony "
Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Do you judge?
Judgement can be assessment (in relation to yourself and perfectly permissible - ie preferences) or it can be condemnation. Silent condemnation is harmless, ie you keep it to yourself. Verbalise it and someone may conden you "
I get ask for my professional judgement all the time & I make assessments & decisions all the time but I think ‘Judgy’ means seeing someone do something - wearing pyjamas in a supermarket or not picking up dog shit - and letting your mind create a scenario about them and why they did it.
Some people might need that ,but it’s certainly not human nature |
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!
Oh the irony
Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated. "
I did wonder at first if it was a trap |
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!
Oh the irony
Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.
I did wonder at first if it was a trap "
Yes, but for Cornucopia |
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!
Oh the irony
Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.
I did wonder at first if it was a trap
Yes, but for Cornucopia "
Getting much better at spotting traps, the Missus once asked me what Mansplaining is, we stared at each other in silence for 20 minutes. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )"
I agree dressing gowns should never be seen in public |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Did you...did you just judge me?
PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!
Oh the irony
Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.
I did wonder at first if it was a trap
Yes, but for Cornucopia
Getting much better at spotting traps, the Missus once asked me what Mansplaining is, we stared at each other in silence for 20 minutes."
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )I agree dressing gowns should never be seen in public "
On a mannequin in a shop is acceptable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I judge those who talk about ‘the great reset’, the Covid ‘hoax’ and other stupid conspiracy theories.
Also anyone who believes that Nigel Farage is on their side. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth."
grinding your teeth is bad for you don't do it...... Dentist trips are expensive |
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.
Ok Judgey McJudgeson
No but I didn’t actually know that "
Why u like dis? Lol!  |
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"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.
There's no such word as Judgey.
It's Judgmental.
Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.grinding your teeth is bad for you don't do it...... Dentist trips are expensive "
Facts..wear your mouth guards people!! |
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"I judge those who talk about ‘the great reset’, the Covid ‘hoax’ and other stupid conspiracy theories.
Also anyone who believes that Nigel Farage is on their side. "
Interesting...I spent most of the pandemic in bottles of wine and/or in crisis meetings and/or training outside in the snow and in my essential worker job...all in an attempt to maintain my sanity.
I definitely stopped watching the news. I definitely didn't watch Boris's daily torture briefings .. something about that man...and Nigel triggers my anxiety. Lol! |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Honestly, I'm not trying to start an argument, but wonder why you put some people and even animals on a higher pedestal than others?
Gbat
I despise any type of bullying or needless violence to anyone regardless of gender /age etc.
Hope that helps. "
Thank you for taking the time to answer,
cheers,
Gbat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )"
Where the hell do you live, to see people in their dressing gowns Wandering the streets |
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )
Where the hell do you live, to see people in their dressing gowns Wandering the streets "
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Luton. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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(I already know this one makes me a superficial bitch, so no need to come at me!)
I judge sunglasses. Sites like this and Tinder are full of snaps of people looking 'cool' in their fave shades and lots of them are fucking awful. |
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"(I already know this one makes me a superficial bitch, so no need to come at me!)
I judge sunglasses. Sites like this and Tinder are full of snaps of people looking 'cool' in their fave shades and lots of them are fucking awful. "
Oooh, good one. Heels, as well. Women who think their high heels are all sexy, when they don’t even fit properly. How hard is it to buy shoes that fit you? Most of us master that at a pretty young age. |
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"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!
What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now )
Where the hell do you live, to see people in their dressing gowns Wandering the streets "
Chavsville, it would seem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really do try not to judge as you never know what is going on in people's lives, but yes I do find myself judging when I see people in McDonald's in their pyjamas. I really can't think of any reason not to be in clothes. |
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"I really do try not to judge as you never know what is going on in people's lives, but yes I do find myself judging when I see people in McDonald's in their pyjamas. I really can't think of any reason not to be in clothes. "
I'd just use the drive thru if I was in my pjs! |
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