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Who do you think you are?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following a comment on another thread about personal brands. I wonder what this is for you?
Do you actively portray certain parts of your personality to attract like minded souls?
Do you just say whatever pops in to your mind?
Do your photos or bio have a certain theme?
Obviously we all want to show ourselves in the best way we can but is there more to it?
Do you have a bit of a persona or an image that you try to maintain or that you've accidentally been given?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm exactly how I come across. Slightly witting. Sometimes I'm monochrome other times, I turn my brightness down. Other times I pop.
But I'm human, and authentically original, and I'm happy with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following a comment on another thread about personal brands. I wonder what this is for you?
Do you actively portray certain parts of your personality to attract like minded souls?
Do you just say whatever pops in to your mind?
Do your photos or bio have a certain theme?
Obviously we all want to show ourselves in the best way we can but is there more to it?
Do you have a bit of a persona or an image that you try to maintain or that you've accidentally been given?
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That all sounds like far too much effort. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I dont put forward every single part of me, but the parts I do, are 100% true to me in the moment.
Sometimes I'll go with no filter, sometimes I'll hold back. I'm not a one trick pony with a single minded attitude. I'm complex and confusing. People may see different parts of me differently, but I won't adjust myself to please somebody elses perception of me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't think this post through properly before I did it!
I'm not talking about a pretence as obviously we don't want to meet people and have them think we are totally different.
It was more playful than that. What are you known for?
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I think people think I'm a miserable man/sex hating bitch.
I can't really argue with that.
Only on the inside!
And the outside...
And the middle..."
I refuse to believe there is not a tiny little bit of you that is warm. One of your random hairs I bet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think people think I'm a miserable man/sex hating bitch.
I can't really argue with that.
Only on the inside!
And the outside...
And the middle...
I refuse to believe there is not a tiny little bit of you that is warm. One of your random hairs I bet. "
Meh, I'm cold hearted all the way.
Even the hairs have icicles on them. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I think people think I'm a miserable man/sex hating bitch.
I can't really argue with that.
Only on the inside!
And the outside...
And the middle...
I refuse to believe there is not a tiny little bit of you that is warm. One of your random hairs I bet.
Meh, I'm cold hearted all the way.
Even the hairs have icicles on them. "
All part of the charm! Like Alaska |
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I think I am as I am on here (you can probably answer that), I tend to post and ask awkward inquisitive questions because I'm fascinated in the whole lifestyle and all the different kinks people have.
I speak my mind people will like it or they won't that's upto them not me.
I love erotic art and I guess my photos follow that theme, all our pics have us both in because we come as a pair and I don't like it any other way, same way as I've written our profile both included.
I'm probably slightly more flirty on here in real life I'm a little shy but noted on the profile too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s a lot to answer op
I’m me, I’ve tried to be someone else but they wouldn’t let me.
But I do t think my profile does project who I am, it’s two paragraphs long (I think) how the hell do you show who you are in a short easy to read blurb?
I’d say I’m a lot more friendlier than I might appear here, more intelligent and I don’t cry as often as I appear to (anymore). And my cock is much more amazing than my photos show.
It’s much less trouble being yourself than acting another persona 24/7.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say what I feel. I am honest. And I know people hate me for it. And sometimes it sucks of course. But at the end of the day you’re always going to be the villain in somebody’s story. That’s the game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say what I feel. I am honest. And I know people hate me for it. And sometimes it sucks of course. But at the end of the day you’re always going to be the villain in somebody’s story. That’s the game. "
My brand on here, like in life, is being loudly and unapologetically black and loving and seeing the beauty in my blackness. In posts. In reference. In pictures. That’s me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say what I feel. I am honest. And I know people hate me for it. And sometimes it sucks of course. But at the end of the day you’re always going to be the villain in somebody’s story. That’s the game. "
And yet I always feel like an NCP! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say what I feel. I am honest. And I know people hate me for it. And sometimes it sucks of course. But at the end of the day you’re always going to be the villain in somebody’s story. That’s the game.
And yet I always feel like an NCP! "
NCPs/ NPCs  the worst |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I say what I feel. I am honest. And I know people hate me for it. And sometimes it sucks of course. But at the end of the day you’re always going to be the villain in somebody’s story. That’s the game.
And yet I always feel like an NCP!
NCPs/ NPCs the worst"
Npc!!! *phone   you got it! |
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Unashamedly myself, happy to go against the grain and say what ever it is i want to say, i wont censor or filter myself, due to others sensitive dispostions if that's not to people's liking, then that's not my business and ill not worry about it.
One of the rare ones on the forums that actually meet, I know others do as have met them. |
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I’m not going to be flippant and say that I’m just myself on here. Because that’s overly simplistic.
I’m not playing a character, not pretending to be anything I’m not. But I *am* taking some care over what I say and what photos I share. Don’t we all?
I’m self-aware, is all I’m saying. I recognise what appearance I’m putting out on Fab. This is me, but it’s the version of me I want you to see. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I think my profile and pics summarise me quite well - eclectic and probably a pain in the ass
On the forums I generally just say what ever I think. There are occasions where I may not post for the fact it's already been said a multitude of times or if I feel that it's not going to be of particular benefit to the thread etc. I wouldn't post something that I thought would upset or hurt someone but that because I genuinely wouldn't want someone to be upset by my comments whether I know them or not  |
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"This is me, but it’s the version of me I want you to see. "
Having said that, when I’ve met people they’ve told me I’m exactly what they expected from my profile. So I must be doing something right.
*shrug emoji |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Way too many questions.
I do whatever I like. I don't treat the place like my own therapy blog so don't care what's left behind. If you think a lot of what other people think about you or write on here and constantly analyse it or make threads about it - what is missing in your life to replace it with this? Bad school experience where you were left out and now need to make up for it? Validation drive after bad relationship? One can easily drive themselves crazy in that pursuit. I'd rather watch and smirk these days
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I do like your threads Wyld.
I don't think too much about it. I post what I like, whether on here, photos, on my bio. I'm becoming increasingly comfortable in being who I want to be.
I talk about a myriad of subjects because I find them interesting - I guess it's like a stream of consciousness for me at times. I find it interesting to interact with others, find out their viewpoints.
I don't mind/care/think about if I'm showing the "best" me at all times - as long as I'm not hurting others or doing something illegal, I'm good just being me. I think those I'm compatible with will find me, those I'm not? Well it doesn't really affect me.
My fab experience for the most part is an incredibly enjoyable one and a nice enrichment to a rather fortunate and blessed life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always tried to be me! I’m not bright enough or have enough time in my life to play a role.. lol I am who I am. That may come across differently to some people. Opinions will always vary.
I try to be honest with my opinions and thoughts. I try to always be up beat and friendly, I would say I’m always more positive than negative. I’m very protective by nature… to much at times.
But I can fail at times and be pig headed, but I’m a good listener and will apologise if I’m wrong or feel I’ve offended someone.
Do I have a theme? I guess I come across as I am adventurous, outdoor driven, friendly I hope. and mildly intelligent and fun |
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