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"For me if woman has strap on in a pic .
Case of no thanks and keep your
Fucking hands away from my nipples .
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A profile full of gynaecological pics. We’re interested in the whole body, not just the hole! |
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
Same for us!!! *quickly checks profile for grammatical errors* 
Mr "
I would point out that most dylexics
Have very hi IQ . and not up their own arnt up their arses. Checking grammer
If that what turns you on fair play .
And I did ask for your turn offs to be fair . your is your right to have same as mine but I guess we both miss out with red flags |
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag. "
Sorry but why does someone having poor spelling and grammar a red flag?
Does that define a person? |
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
Same for us!!! *quickly checks profile for grammatical errors*
Mr
I would point out that most dylexics
Have very hi IQ . and not up their own arnt up their arses. Checking grammer
If that what turns you on fair play .
And I did ask for your turn offs to be fair . your is your right to have same as mine but I guess we both miss out with red flags "
What on earth has a high IQ got to do with it? The reason spelling and grammar are a turn off for us is because it’s hard to connect when you can’t understand a lot of what’s being said and it gets awkward.
It wasn’t a personal attack, simply stating what turns us off on a profile, which is what the threads about 
I don’t think it means I’ve got my head up my arse just because what I like and don’t like, doesn’t align with what you like and don’t like on a profile.
Think you’ll find it’s you who started to get a bit personal, talking about having my head up my arse. And before you start giving me a load of stick for not being understanding of your dyslexia, I’ve got 2 mentally disabled children so no judgement here for conditions at all.
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
To be fair they could be dyslexic  "
To be fair, the text written by someone with dyslexia is completely different to text created by someone with poor English skills. Many people use "Self Diagnosed" dyslexia as an excuse for their poor spelling & grammar.
Also, there is ZERO connection between IQ and Dyslexia. Dyslexic people don't have Higher (or Lower) IQs
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Ranty lists of demands (yes, I get it and understand that you’re tired and weary of receiving loads of shit in your inbox but it’s still not a good look)
Untidy / dirty / messy backgrounds, if your house / bedroom is like that then I’m definitely leaping to conclusions about your general cleanliness whether justified or not
Excessive close up genital pics. Ok, yep, I saw what your pussy looked like earlier, 40 pics later I’m kinda already a bit bored of it ..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
Sorry but why does someone having poor spelling and grammar a red flag?
Does that define a person?"
Because I’m a sapiosexual. |
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
Sorry but why does someone having poor spelling and grammar a red flag?
Does that define a person?
Because I’m a sapiosexual. "
I’d maybe go check you’re own profile for they spelling mistakes then  |
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
To be fair they could be dyslexic
To be fair, the text written by someone with dyslexia is completely different to text created by someone with poor English skills. Many people use "Self Diagnosed" dyslexia as an excuse for their poor spelling & grammar.
Also, there is ZERO connection between IQ and Dyslexia. Dyslexic people don't have Higher (or Lower) IQs
Cal"
Well I think youl find there a lot dyslexics with hi IQ. Who have become succeful just the same lot dsylexics in prison too
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A man's profile that is just 10 photos of different women and 'his' stunt cock... Bore off. Never sure who they are supposed to be impressing with that.
Same with couple profiles that are 10 pics of the woman and his cock appears in one of them.
Why are men so happy to show off the women they've fucked but never themselves? |
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
To be fair they could be dyslexic
To be fair, the text written by someone with dyslexia is completely different to text created by someone with poor English skills. Many people use "Self Diagnosed" dyslexia as an excuse for their poor spelling & grammar.
Also, there is ZERO connection between IQ and Dyslexia. Dyslexic people don't have Higher (or Lower) IQs
Cal"
Is correct. I struggle with spelling and grammar but was never told I'm dyslexic.
Manged to get a degree still... didn't get as good a grade as the guy with Dyslexia on my course so that speaks volumes. |
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"Many people have already said, arrogance and imperious attitude, sense of entitlement, destructive and abusive behaviour, lack of empathy for human kind, and extreme political/societal views. "
I think you get the ability from fab to look at a profile and just think "Dickhead"or is that just me? |
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"Many people have already said, arrogance and imperious attitude, sense of entitlement, destructive and abusive behaviour, lack of empathy for human kind, and extreme political/societal views.
I think you get the ability from fab to look at a profile and just think "Dickhead"or is that just me? "
not that harsh but close. |
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It's not so much turn offs, more things that indicate we're not compatible.
Mostly genitalia focused photos
Demanding or negative text
Dominant or S&M related profiles
Unintelligible blocks of text with no punctuation.
Smokers
Only looking for those who are hairless
People who have obvious discrepancies on their profile
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"Many people have already said, arrogance and imperious attitude, sense of entitlement, destructive and abusive behaviour, lack of empathy for human kind, and extreme political/societal views.
I think you get the ability from fab to look at a profile and just think "Dickhead"or is that just me?
not that harsh but close."
Exactly that, most time from profile and forums you can decide if that person is not for you |
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"A man's profile that is just 10 photos of different women and 'his' stunt cock... Bore off. Never sure who they are supposed to be impressing with that.
Same with couple profiles that are 10 pics of the woman and his cock appears in one of them.
Why are men so happy to show off the women they've fucked but never themselves?"
This. I'd want to see a variety of pics/ some info of the person/s who's profile it is. |
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Text speak (are you paying per letter???), arrogance, sense of entitlement, dick pics from every possible angle and nothing more, "gym bunny"- if you spend your every waking hour in the gym, how are you going to find time for me? Also, I prefer a little bit of flesh as it's nicer to cuddle into. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
To be fair they could be dyslexic
To be fair, the text written by someone with dyslexia is completely different to text created by someone with poor English skills. Many people use "Self Diagnosed" dyslexia as an excuse for their poor spelling & grammar.
Also, there is ZERO connection between IQ and Dyslexia. Dyslexic people don't have Higher (or Lower) IQs
Cal"
Have had a two day Dyslexia test carried out by the Dyslexic association , I can tell you that you do have to have an IQ test, as they have two determined if you have a low IQ or dyslexic. |
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As for turn off. My biggest is being called a Lady, so derogative.
As for profiles couples that have no/one picture of the male half.
Badly taken pictures as in blurry,out of focus, things in the background. |
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"Female genital close ups
Still say they are nicer than male ones
Not so sure, lol
Agreed I’ve seen some flaps on here that, worry me they’d take off if they ran down a nudist beach "
They can't help having big flaps to be fair. |
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Couples profiles that have only pics of the woman and one of his cock,when they're looking for couples.
Profiles full of cock/pussy pics or anything gaping.
Shadow profiles with barely any text and the Sydney warning is longer than what's been written.
Miss
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"Just socks with sandals x
I’m wearing Jesus Sandals as a tribute to the boss
No socks I hope?  x"
Sorry I was being sarcastic, you wouldn’t ever find me wearing sandals lol |
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"Just socks with sandals x
I’m wearing Jesus Sandals as a tribute to the boss
No socks I hope? x
Sorry I was being sarcastic, you wouldn’t ever find me wearing sandals lol "
Sandals OK without socks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being rejected 
If a guy rejects/ignores me I instantly respect them more. Which make me want them.
So treat them mean, keep them keen works!  "
It's not so much treat them mean no. It's the fact a man can say no to a woman on here. It's quite attractive. Also leaves me in a predicament of wanting a guy that doesn't want me though. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Being rejected
If a guy rejects/ignores me I instantly respect them more. Which make me want them.
So treat them mean, keep them keen works!
It's not so much treat them mean no. It's the fact a man can say no to a woman on here. It's quite attractive. Also leaves me in a predicament of wanting a guy that doesn't want me though."
In all seriousness though, I know what you mean. It's the integrity of it all I guess. |
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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago
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Back to the turnoffs:
-Overly orange tanned
-Too much makeup
-big lips (don't know why)
-Aggressive people
-People who use "f" instead of "th". (This is just a pet peeve in general)
-Rudeness for the sake of it.
-Certain accents
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Poor spelling and grammar on a profile. Immediate red flag.
Sorry but why does someone having poor spelling and grammar a red flag?
Does that define a person?"
This exactly ?? |
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On fab?
Gaping vagina pics.
Close up cock pics.
Bent over stretched open arseholes especially those with piles.
Dirty nails.
Toilet photos.
Dirty backgrounds.
Will fill in laters.
Names like pussypounder100.
Guys obsessed with cock size.
Guys who want to make you squirt?!
People moaning they can't get a reply and they have a blank profile.
I need to stop now....
Just a few
Mrs |
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'Nawty fun', kinky fuckery etc.
Medical close ups of things.
A loooong list of demands and minimum requirements followed by a short moan about previous meets. A meet with these people will not be fun.
Pseudo legalese. Insofar as I do declare the following, my pics are hereby restricted to whit and without prejudice by reference to the aforementioned etc.
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"On fab?
Gaping vagina pics.
Close up cock pics.
Bent over stretched open arseholes especially those with piles.
Dirty nails.
Toilet photos.
Dirty backgrounds.
Will fill in laters.
Names like pussypounder100.
Guys obsessed with cock size.
Guys who want to make you squirt?!
People moaning they can't get a reply and they have a blank profile.
I need to stop now....
Just a few
Mrs "
Actually, yeah, this. |
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