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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences. |
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over a year ago
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I laugh regardless of whether I fancy you or not. Even people I don’t like can be funny.
Gervais is an example… some stuff is genius, but he’s a cockhead. 
Do I laugh just because I fancy them? Hell no. I kiss their ass instead.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences."
Humour is everything.
I'm more likely to find someone attractive if they are funny, not the other way around.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences."
I wouldn't say I'm funny. I have my moments but I'm no comedian.
I think attraction is simpler than that. I'm physically attracted before I've even heard a word. It's usually what comes out their mouths that decides if I pursue it or not.
If they are funny that's a bonus. Wouldn't want to be with a fun sponge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to be funny, it's the best way to start a conversation and break the ice. Thing is, my humour always goes above the majority of womens head. There are way too many serious women near me, think I need to move. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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I like silly humour, Aunty Donna etc. Also comedy club, the ones where they don’t allow mobile phones so nothing is off limits. I find it odd that film, poetry, music etc can tackle any and every subject but if comedy attempts it is is branded offensive. It’s just a other art form |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Am I funny? That's for others to decide upon.
I think I can be funny, it may not mesh with others humour though. Does that make me not funny?
If I see the opportunity to be funny I will (attempt) to be. Might fall flat and usually does but I laughed. Often times I've made others laugh without even intending to do so.
Reading the room is obviously important but as per fricking usual with me it's about the balance, so uplift those negative vibes with humour when possible.
Does that make me funny? |
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I would like to think I was at least humouress-ish. It's my defence mechanism and the mask I hide behind in awkward situations.
It's also a part of my flirting so if I'm not funny I really need to revaluate my life 
Laughter breeds a connection for me and helps to connect on a mental level so it goes back to the brains over looks debate where I would choose brains. No matter what someone looks like, if we get on, are on the same wavelength and can have a joke then it's thumbs up them from me  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I have a terrible sense of humour, possibly quite dark/sarcastic I guess.
But no, I'm more likely to find someone who maybe wasn't as initially attractive to me (on face value) a lot more attractive if they make me laugh.
Good humour is an aphrodisiac in my opinion  |
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"I have a terrible sense of humour, possibly quite dark/sarcastic I guess.
But no, I'm more likely to find someone who maybe wasn't as initially attractive to me (on face value) a lot more attractive if they make me laugh.
Good humour is an aphrodisiac in my opinion "
I have a 9 inch penis |
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My humour is very dry, ironic and often dark, subtle and sarcastic too. It normally takes some time to pick up on my humour, which is a problem on first meets.
Equally I can be sometimes smirky and brash.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I can't say my humour has helped my sexual appeal to any noticeable degree.
So it's either bullshit about being able to laugh somebody in to bed or I'm just not funny.
Either very likely probable.
Though my guess is, humour is not the grand factor. It is just a small snippet of having personality, of which humour is the more clichéd and forefront trait of personality. It's the personality (and physical appearance) as a whole which does the majority of the work, the humour is along for the ride and takes the credit. |
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I only laugh at lemon butter babe because I want to fuck her.
I’ve been publicly laughing at her jokes for over one years now and it still hasn’t got me or Henriette into her beautiful hairy vagina.
I’ve been laughing at her jokes for so long I’m not even sure what my point is anymore.
On the flip side I laughed at something you said over the weekend too op, it wasn’t at all funny… |
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I'm bloody hilarious Melster! 
I do tend to gravitate towards more lighthearted people in every walk of life, I just don't really gel with overly serious people. I wouldn't say that it has any bearing on how physically attractive (or not) I find them though, I just prefer to spend time with people that smile and laugh easily...even more so if their mind is warped and their wit is quick. |
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Humour is definitely the way to my heart, I think I have a quite dry sarcastic humour.
It wouldn't change if someone unattractive or attractive told me the same joke although good humour and connection for me can make someone who I wasn't attracted to attractive, I'm definitely more of a person who needs some personality attraction rather than just attraction to looks alone.
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A good sense of humour in both platonic friends and indeed, a partner is absolutely intrinsic for me.
In fact I would suggest that it is (for me at least) an essential pillar which will dictate if the friendship/partnership will ultimately work.
Said humour can take a myriad of forms; silly banter, wry and witty observations and even cynical, dry wit - I love it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seem to have the ability to make anybody laugh, but not in unnatural circumstances, it has to be spontaneous and not if there are others wanting to be funny too, then I stay in the background. But funny is funny regardless where it comes from so looks have nothing to do with it for me. Xx |
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An old profile bio said something like "if we can't have a laugh both out and in the bedroom, it's not happening!"
Humour is very important to me. Not as the sum total of a personality, though. There has to be more below the surface than a performing seal.
Also, I regularly find myself hilarious, so if you do too then we're on to a winner 
Mrs TMN x |
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To people with a similar sense of humour, yes.
Humour is important to me. I come from a family of jokers and I need some silliness in my life to be happy.
I like some dark humour, puns, dad jokes, dry humor, a lot of it really. I don't enjoy humour at the expense of those less fortunate.
I personally find the opposite. I'm more likely to be attracted to someone who I find funny and not be attracted to someone who is good looking but we don't gel when it comes to humour. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I have a confession to make.
It has come to my attention that my power of overwhelming humour comes from my vast collection of gifs and memes for every situation, and the ability to produce it at the perfect moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Humour regardless of looks, no good being a miserable stunner in my book, I'm sure Dory would say the same after having to put up with my humour for all these years?? |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences."
Actually, it's the other way round I think. It's been reported that Dudley Moore (look it up millennials) used to laugh women into bed.
So an unattractive or a moderate looking person (such as yours truly) could become attractive because of their wit. |
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I'm not really funny, daft yes. So I probably am laughed at rather than with.
But I'm fine with that. It bothers me non.
We do prefer people with the ability to have a laugh, even at themselves.
Jo.Xx |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I'm not really funny, daft yes. So I probably am laughed at rather than with.
But I'm fine with that. It bothers me non.
We do prefer people with the ability to have a laugh, even at themselves.
Jo.Xx "
I specialise at laughing at myself.   |
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Keep trying to post today and getting interrupted. 
I wouldn't say I am funny per se or try to make people laugh. However, I am told that by the people who appreciate it that I have a wicked sense of humour. It's sometimes silly but usually dry, dark and sarcastic. It emerges in the flow of conversation and it's dependent on the person.
E.g.
I was just talking to a friend in the midst of a panic attack. Her dad is dying. Over an hour we cried together, laughed and joked about death. Also discussed seagulls and how death and grief are swept under the carpet socially.
I wouldn't say humour is a direct turn on. But when it's natural it fosters that we 'get' each other connection. It can convey intelligence and push boundaries. All of those things are a turn on. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences.
Actually, it's the other way round I think. It's been reported that Dudley Moore (look it up millennials) used to laugh women into bed.
So an unattractive or a moderate looking person (such as yours truly) could become attractive because of their wit."
Throw in a bit of fame and money too.
Most of those women would likely be gold diggers or trying to get a foot further in to the door.
Plenty of funny people I know, genuinely funny and quick wit, Good people, men and women struggling to attract others because they are by society standards unattractive or average at the very best. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"I have a terrible sense of humour, possibly quite dark/sarcastic I guess.
But no, I'm more likely to find someone who maybe wasn't as initially attractive to me (on face value) a lot more attractive if they make me laugh.
Good humour is an aphrodisiac in my opinion
I have a 9 inch penis "
Does it cum with its own custard too... |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences."
Hmnn, Humour is very important in so many regards. It's a two way thing, they have to get mine and I also have to make them laugh. My humour can be childish word play, dark, absurd or spontaneous.
I was in Burma a few years back and it was a joy to see people that didn't share a language be able to share laughter. Humour can cross cultures in a heartbeat.
Funny is funny. Being attractive isn't a multiplier. But funny can be a multiplier for attraction though. |
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"I have a terrible sense of humour, possibly quite dark/sarcastic I guess.
But no, I'm more likely to find someone who maybe wasn't as initially attractive to me (on face value) a lot more attractive if they make me laugh.
Good humour is an aphrodisiac in my opinion
I have a 9 inch penis
Does it cum with its own custard too... "
Coincidentally it does .. It's more the Vanilla coloured variety though |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive. "
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone. |
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over a year ago
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I mostly like dry, dark humour but I do love a dad joke. How attractive someone is has no bearing on how funny I find them but I could find someone more attractive if they are funny. |
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone. "
You don't have to x |
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The old adage of laughing someone into bed is so true for me.
A good sense of humour increases attractiveness tenfold.
And a lack of one can make a stunner very ugly, very quickly.
I like to think I’m funny  |
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"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences."
It definitely IS IMPORTANT..
Life is funny, sex is funny..
Can't beat great conversation & lots of laughs.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone. "
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people. |
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"The old adage of laughing someone into bed is so true for me.
A good sense of humour increases attractiveness tenfold.
And a lack of one can make a stunner very ugly, very quickly.
I like to think I’m funny "
Totally agree...but hasn't happened........yet.. |
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"I'm not really funny, daft yes. So I probably am laughed at rather than with.
But I'm fine with that. It bothers me non.
We do prefer people with the ability to have a laugh, even at themselves.
Jo.Xx "
What about those who don't let their partner forget when they've done something embarrassing |
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone.
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people."
Pickle, I get ya and hear ya about fitting in on the forums, I feel the same....but fuck em
....who gives a shit.... |
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone.
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people.
Pickle, I get ya and hear ya about fitting in on the forums, I feel the same....but fuck em
....who gives a shit...."
You’re so right. I’m learning to let go |
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone.
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people.
Pickle, I get ya and hear ya about fitting in on the forums, I feel the same....but fuck em
....who gives a shit....
You’re so right. I’m learning to let go"
Pickles mate, if you glean anything from the forums, take its one sycophantic place that is so far removed from reality, just use it as a giggle |
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I try to be serious when in the forums - there are serious issues that need to be discussed - humour has no place in my life or the forums… im too busy being serious and impressive - and I just remembered im in Waitrose typing this - with my cock painted green hiding in the courgettes!! |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No as you know Meli I'm bland like blamange. No wit, humour or banter. Struggle to seeing a sentence to together in person "
Ha, you're really not! I enjoyed talking to you in person. Heck, I even enjoy our interactions on here. I like wit a lot. And heart. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone.
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people."
Sorry Pickle but that's an ishyou. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I'm that funny but I like all sorts of humour as it's all about the delivery. I'll also laugh a joke by anyone unless it's from someone I don't like, then I'll just internally groan and wish they would FOAD |
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I think "funny" is subjective. I've been told I'm funny as often as I've been told I'm a cheeky bastard.
It's incredibly important to me in all of my relationships. I find humourless people quite boring and hard work. My partner makes me laugh most days and is one of the reasons we've been together so long.
If someone is funny, they're funny regardless of their physical beauty. But a funny person instantly becomes more attractive to me. |
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"I try to be serious when in the forums - there are serious issues that need to be discussed - humour has no place in my life or the forums… im too busy being serious and impressive - and I just remembered im in Waitrose typing this - with my cock painted green hiding in the courgettes!!
Sugar snaps! "
Hey!! I self policed myself down from marriw for that!!! |
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"No as you know Meli I'm bland like blamange. No wit, humour or banter. Struggle to seeing a sentence to together in person
Ha, you're really not! I enjoyed talking to you in person. Heck, I even enjoy our interactions on here. I like wit a lot. And heart. "
Arr Meli you just made me precum |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No as you know Meli I'm bland like blamange. No wit, humour or banter. Struggle to seeing a sentence to together in person
Ha, you're really not! I enjoyed talking to you in person. Heck, I even enjoy our interactions on here. I like wit a lot. And heart.
Arr Meli you just made me precum "
Yeah, you've been Meli'd. Enjoy it Ghandi. And that's something I didn't think I'd ever type. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone.
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people."
Your people. You've found them so that's something. Far better that than some generic crap. :D
Look Pickle, I really do get the code switching. It's a minefield to navigate at times isn't it? I do it on a daily, nay hourly basis. At least.
I think I'd rather have someone I like, who gets my humour laugh genuine glee than a forced fake laughter where they have no idea what I'm talking about.
You're a good 'un Pickle. Code switching is an interesting thread in itself.  |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
I love a good sense of humour whether I'm attracted to someone or not. I do tend to tone my own sense of humour down on here alot, on the forums and when msging getting to know someone, I have a quite dark sarcastic sense of humour which people who know me know but, it doesn't go over so well with someone who doesn't know me I have found! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I think I am. My mum and my kids do too. We can’t all be wrong
But seriously, I find humour very important. Not “funny” humour though. Dry humour I like. John Candy etc. Sarcasm but not mean sarcasm - more like observational humour. I don’t find jokes or pranks funny, but tell me a true story of how you went to Tesco and your knicker elastic broke and your knickers ended up on the floor in front of everyone and I’d probably laugh till I cried.
And I find a person funny whether they’re attractive or not. |
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I been told by others that my sense of humour is good and I think it’s a key part of my personality!
I try not to take myself to seriously and am able to laugh at myself which I think is important also.
I think humour is a key part of forming a connection and someone I can have a laugh with is instantly more attractive I think.
Now this is where you all tell me I’m a dull and humourless idiot |
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"No as you know Meli I'm bland like blamange. No wit, humour or banter. Struggle to seeing a sentence to together in person
Ha, you're really not! I enjoyed talking to you in person. Heck, I even enjoy our interactions on here. I like wit a lot. And heart.
Arr Meli you just made me precum
Yeah, you've been Meli'd. Enjoy it Ghandi. And that's something I didn't think I'd ever type."
Well I like to change people's perspective of me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so humor is important to me.
I like that thing about men thinking a god sense of humour is a woman that finds him funny.
I think being with someone that makes me laugh is extremely important. I have a sense of humour that I think doesn’t land with anyone on fab really but amongst my friends and with my gf they get it. I guess it is sarcasm and Lots of memes and (often Black) pop culture references.
Being attractive doesn’t make you funnier. But being funny makes you more attractive.
Ah this ties in with a thread before about not feeling like you fit into the fora I think? I can understand that, humour is a way we can connect, relate and understand another person more.
I try and keep my dorky nerd jokes out of here because... elves aren't relatable.:D
I was curious about the attractive/humour thing. I know that without a shadow of doubt if a hot woman posted a juvenile gross out comedy style of joke and Bob the trucker wearing a stained vest and with his penis out over the toilet bowl, one would receive attention and emotes, the other would be ignored or people would think "bleurgh".
Anyway, it's another thread where I've got distracted by real life and not nurtured it. I don't think you have to but sorry if I don't reply to everyone.
I hear you Meli. Though that example is also just hilarious.
Anyway yes it’s a main reason I feel like I don’t fit in in the forums. It’s just interesting, it’s an extension of code switching in here. But it’s life. I’m used to it. Some of the men in here get me. And Estella. So I post jokes for them. Shout out to my people.
Your people. You've found them so that's something. Far better that than some generic crap. :D
Look Pickle, I really do get the code switching. It's a minefield to navigate at times isn't it? I do it on a daily, nay hourly basis. At least.
I think I'd rather have someone I like, who gets my humour laugh genuine glee than a forced fake laughter where they have no idea what I'm talking about.
You're a good 'un Pickle. Code switching is an interesting thread in itself. "
It is! I did a code switching thread on a previous profile. We should do another! |
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I have a day sense of humour. I also like intelligent humour.
If i find something funny it really doesn’t matter who says it. It wouldn’t make someone more attractive for me.
On the flip side people who constantly make jokes and try to be witty AND interrupt conversations really get on my nerves.
Marc
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
I think I appear a bit dull on here, but in real life I have a quick, sharp wit, which can be quite dark sometimes. A girl I work with has a similar sense of humour to me and we enjoy working together as we make each other laugh. Lots.
She's often told me that her partner is a bit boring and never makes her laugh, and how she wishes he was more like me. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Humour is super important to me. I think I'm reasonably funny - but then humour IS subjective.
I find lots of people funny, but without physical attraction they're just funny. And funny alone doesn't result in naked twister. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Once i thought i was but now not so much
Don't be so hard on yourself my man - you've seen the terrible jokes that fly around here these days. "
Yeah 'cept you have to last at least a week this time. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once i thought i was but now not so much
Don't be so hard on yourself my man - you've seen the terrible jokes that fly around here these days.
Yeah 'cept you have to last at least a week this time. Good luck."
Judging by this shit there is no chance.
I'm up for the challenge though if I have time. |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
"Once i thought i was but now not so much
Don't be so hard on yourself my man - you've seen the terrible jokes that fly around here these days. "
thats not me feeling sorry for myself |
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Humour is very important. It's a big part of our marriage.
I don't think I'd laugh at something that wasn't funny just because a cute person said it. But if someone can make me laugh, I'll probably find them more attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you? Is humour important to you? What sort of humour do you like?
And the final question... are you more likely to find someone funny if they're attractive? Say for example an absolute stunner made a joke - would you still laugh at that joke if it was made by someone you find less than desirable?
Circle time recommences."
I'm more likely to find someone attractive if they are funny rather than the other way around |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sarcasm is an important metric, followed by imagination to draw one from the situation. To be objective, whilst understanding one is really the butt of the joke. To never take one's self so seriously to be taken as seriously as one would like. Because we is pathetic in reality. |
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I am more likely to find them attractive if they are funny. Humour though can be so subjective. Everybody says they have a good sense of humour but they have to match.
I can definitely be laughed into bed. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I am more likely to find them attractive if they are funny. Humour though can be so subjective. Everybody says they have a good sense of humour but they have to match.
I can definitely be laughed into bed."
And then you'll see me naked and leg it.  |
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