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By *KTim61 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else  "
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question |
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question "
Suggest she books a hotel |
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question "
Sounds like she entirely wants the sex to me. Tell her you have a sofa she can sleep on if she must stay. |
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"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.
Mrs
I like the thought of hoovering up penises in our sleep  "
That'd teach me for leaving it laying around on the floor! |
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel "
I would suggest she books a hotel as well . |
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"I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.
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I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.
It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.
A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me. |
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"I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.
I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.
It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.
A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me."
I thought we agreed on a nod of the head?
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well . "
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair |
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"I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.
It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.
A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me.
I thought we agreed on a nod of the head?"
I'm keeping that just for you. There's eye contact involved and stuff. Feels sacred. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It seems like a funny question, but I suppose to those who haven't even had the opportunity then they don't know.
Obviously sex is not an obligation or even an opportunity when you sleep in the company of someone else. The concern would be if your significant other did so and the circumstances around why they did so. |
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"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.
Mrs "
Mine does  I definitely have a magical vagina
OK so If I am really into someone then I struggle to keep my hands off them so tend to constantly fuck. But that's rare and I've slept with loads of people all genders and just slept. Either it was platonic in which case its off the table anyway or I had gone off them like when I was married |
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By *KTim61 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel "
I'm thinking of saying that, as she hardly gave me money last time for food, I even suggested she stop at her brothers, but said no room, |
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By *KTim61 OP Man
over a year ago
Tipton |
"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well .
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair"
She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of |
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well .
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair
She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of "
I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life. |
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By *KTim61 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well .
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair
She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of
I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life."
Thanks as she doesnt have a lot to say either, trying g to get blood from a stone as the saying goes, as far as conversation went with her, no banter at all !!! With either a yes or no answer or words with 1 syllabub in them !!! |
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"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them. "
Yes.
I dunno what you do with your time, Tim but sounds like you need to live a bit more.
Just the other day, I was on Brighton nudist beach dozing off surrounded by a bunch of naked men and women who were also dozing or sleeping and nobody was boinking anybody.
There was a gay couple having a kiss and a cuddle which I thought was cute but no porn sex. |
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"Could you sleep with the opposite sex without having Sex with them.
Nope, absolutely not, I have no self control and men are just too good damn irresistible not to fuck at every given chance!  "
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question "
For Christ's sake. No. This right here is mind fuckery manipulation. You don't need this, especially at your age...I'm younger and I didn't even let my sibling from overseas come around to stay because I get burnt out by people.
Let her be a fucking adult and go stay in her own bed somewhere.
Strong boundaries OP. |
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"Of course, my vagina doesn't magically just eat penis because it's next to me.
Mrs
I like the thought of hoovering up penises in our sleep
That'd teach me for leaving it laying around on the floor!"
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"I wouldn't want to. Sleeping with someone is a lot more intimate for me than sex and I don't do that level of intimacy anymore.
I do that level of intimacy but only if I'm in a relationship/are headed that way with someone.
It's the same reason I try to operate a no cuddle policy after coitus. Casual sex is one thing. Cuddling? That's a gateway to a whole other level of feelings.
A firm handshake and subjective critique of the experience will do me."
I can cuddle without developing a whole level of feelings.....Yeah due to my mental health, I have to keep strict control on my feelings....on a daily/hourly basis.
I'm more likely to develop commitment-level emotions if I spend a lot of time with just one person which rarely happens now. |
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"Yeah. I currently enjoy sleep more than I want sex "
I was like this for most of the pandemic..and then it started to get weird in my brain...disconnected from my body and from the world...started going to clubs in November despite being on the site for ages.
Best thing ever. That and nudist/naturist partaking. |
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"Please, OP don’t do it. This situation is just gonna slowly destroy you within and anger and hate will manifest itself in something else in your life. so please just don’t do it."
Agree with this.
Shudders at her emotionally manipulating you OP. |
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well .
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair
She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of "
As a mentally unstable person, I think I have the authority to say that she is unstable and she will create chaos in your life if you let her sleep in your bed with you. Don't do it.
Boyfriend and brother know this other wise they would give her money for an Air B n B instead of dumping her on someone else!
I've slept on friends' and families couches, sofas, floors happily. I never assume that all my friends and family will share their bed with me. Especially adults! |
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"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well .
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair
She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of
I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life.
Thanks as she doesnt have a lot to say either, trying g to get blood from a stone as the saying goes, as far as conversation went with her, no banter at all !!! With either a yes or no answer or words with 1 syllabub in them !!! "
Flogging a dead Aussie horse here mate and you don't need it to come and decompose in your bed either. 
She sounds like a chaos creator and/or a shit-stirrer...especially if she can't communicate with more syllables.
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Yes.
Slept (literally) with quite a few girls when I was at Uni. Sharing a bed/floor/sofa with a friend after a nighty out wasn't impossible.
Since then, most nights when I had a a partner, all the nights I've shared in bed with my daughters as they have grown up, and a few other occasions.
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By *KTim61 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Please, OP don’t do it. This situation is just gonna slowly destroy you within and anger and hate will manifest itself in something else in your life. so please just don’t do it."
Many thanks, she has already done that on how she took advantage of me, she doesnt do BJ either when we did have sex, but loved me to give her plenty, the last time she stayed ove, for e weeks, we only had sex twice, the 1st week & the last week infact on my birthday, |
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By *KTim61 OP Man
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Tipton |
"Op has never been married. You are lucky to get a bit of the bed and duvet nevermind anything else
Correct !!! But I don't clas myself as Lucky !!! Quite the opposite, as my X FWB who now lives in Australia, is coming back, over next year to see her mom who is in a home, but wants to stop with me, & sleep in my bed, without the sex, as she doesn't want to chest on her boyfriend now ! Why I asked the question
Suggest she books a hotel
I would suggest she books a hotel as well .
Yeah I thinks it’s kind of mean her suggesting honestly x recipe for disaster and you would be the villain x not fair
She was cheating on her Husband before, but wasnt getting any from him, but hardly gave me money for food when she did stop !!! Fed up of being taken advantage of
I take back the last advice. Maybe just say no, block any move on with your life.
Thanks as she doesnt have a lot to say either, trying g to get blood from a stone as the saying goes, as far as conversation went with her, no banter at all !!! With either a yes or no answer or words with 1 syllabub in them !!!
Flogging a dead Aussie horse here mate and you don't need it to come and decompose in your bed either.
She sounds like a chaos creator and/or a shit-stirrer...especially if she can't communicate with more syllables."
Her favourite words are Tes No & ok she has no banter at all, we went on a coach trip, it was the longest & most boring trip I've ever been on, I pretended to be asleep some of the time, with her not having nothing to talk about, the sex wasnt the best either. |
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