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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if you arranged a threesome - male and female (couple) and another female. Both females start playing with each other then the male joins in but only plays with one female (and its not his partner). Would you stay and watch or leave and let them get on with it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you arranged a threesome - male and female (couple) and another female. Both females start playing with each other then the male joins in but only plays with one female (and its not his partner). Would you stay and watch or leave and let them get on with it? "
ok now im confused...if the two females play, and the guy joins in...thats a 3some..who is the extra one who may stay and watch or let them get on with it???? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"if you arranged a threesome - male and female (couple) and another female. Both females start playing with each other then the male joins in but only plays with one female (and its not his partner). Would you stay and watch or leave and let them get on with it?
ok now im confused...if the two females play, and the guy joins in...thats a 3some..who is the extra one who may stay and watch or let them get on with it????"
I was just thinking the same thing lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All we know is that when Trace and I meet another couple, we seldom if ever play with eachother, we can do that anytime.
To us the whole idea of swinging is to have sex and fun with others but probably thats just us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should have been a 3some but when the male joined in he turned his attention to 1 female, so they were playing with each other the other female was forgotten about - would you stay and watch and leave??"
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Like the others have said, I would have pushed my way in and have some fun!  |
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"It should have been a 3some but when the male joined in he turned his attention to 1 female, so they were playing with each other the other female was forgotten about - would you stay and watch and leave??
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Like the others have said, I would have pushed my way in and have some fun! "
Fully agree! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you arranged a threesome - male and female (couple) and another female. Both females start playing with each other then the male joins in but only plays with one female (and its not his partner). Would you stay and watch or leave and let them get on with it? "
Where there are only three people we'd have thought there was plenty of room for all to get involved.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think her partner played with the other single fem and not her?
At least I think thats what shes saying "
yes, sorry - the male played with the single female and left his partner out of it. Would ou stay and watch or leave them to it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like Trace & Ric say I can play with my husband at any time so when we meet new people we rarely even touch each other since the playmate is the new person whos likes and dislikes need to be found out.
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have to admit if i was in a 3sum situation and the other 2 was playing and excuding me id take it as a hint and leave, i wouldnt try and join in if they was making it obvious they just wanted to play together |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time"
You need to sit and discuss what rules you wish to abide by, if any.......
The point of swinging is not to be left out unless you are happy with that.... the point of swinging is to have fun,.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time"
Not suprised hun,its all about enjoyment for both of you not just one of you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time
You need to sit and discuss what rules you wish to abide by, if any.......
The point of swinging is not to be left out unless you are happy with that.... the point of swinging is to have fun,.
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Rules, dead easy to set out and dead easy to stick to, if you can't do that then this is not the game for you |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time
You need to sit and discuss what rules you wish to abide by, if any.......
The point of swinging is not to be left out unless you are happy with that.... the point of swinging is to have fun,.
Rules, dead easy to set out and dead easy to stick to, if you can't do that then this is not the game for you "
Totally agree.
And if anything else 'hurts'....... NEVER do it again, unless you are 10000% sure you can cope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time
You need to sit and discuss what rules you wish to abide by, if any.......
The point of swinging is not to be left out unless you are happy with that.... the point of swinging is to have fun,.
Rules, dead easy to set out and dead easy to stick to, if you can't do that then this is not the game for you
Totally agree.
And if anything else 'hurts'....... NEVER do it again, unless you are 10000% sure you can cope."
That is spot on |
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time
You need to sit and discuss what rules you wish to abide by, if any.......
The point of swinging is not to be left out unless you are happy with that.... the point of swinging is to have fun,.
Rules, dead easy to set out and dead easy to stick to, if you can't do that then this is not the game for you "
This is good advice but i have felt a bit put out a couple of times, can appreciate how the op felt - sometimes you are a bit more sensitive or touchy in a situation - the day after the same scenario wouldn't present a problem - put it behind you and have fun xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yes - afterwards - I suppose he got carried away with a new toy xx did hurt a bit though at the time
You need to sit and discuss what rules you wish to abide by, if any.......
The point of swinging is not to be left out unless you are happy with that.... the point of swinging is to have fun,.
Rules, dead easy to set out and dead easy to stick to, if you can't do that then this is not the game for you "
I agree - it was our first meet, so neither of us knew what to expect. Looking back, I would have prefered to just watch the two of them and not got involved at all, then I would have enjoyed it. We have moved on since then and had some great meets with some really great people xx |
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