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Hello all  hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood 
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I've just gone with a general laugh on my profile. Most are put off, some get it.
Profiles are a window into how you wish to be seen however some humble brags about prowess are inevitable... |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women"
Do not touch this man with a ten foot pole. If he somehow thinks it's an accolade to break up marriages, then he's best avoided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hang on..he thinks being the cause of four marriage breakups is something to boast about?!?!?!..........Wow...just wow.
Maybe he's a divorce lawyer.."
He just cuts out the middle man lol |
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"I've just gone with a general laugh on my profile. Most are put off, some get it.
Profiles are a window into how you wish to be seen however some humble brags about prowess are inevitable..."
Your profile is funny |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I've just gone with a general laugh on my profile. Most are put off, some get it.
Profiles are a window into how you wish to be seen however some humble brags about prowess are inevitable...
Your profile is funny "
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See lots of posts asking for advice on profiles.
I'm guessing have a look at others (not that they are given any 5* reviews ! ).
But boasting about 4 x divorces !
Does that mean 4 x proposals as well? Same ring?
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it."
True, but ya know /shrugs. |
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You're free to feel whatever way you want to about the profile. Without any of us actually seeing it I don't think any of us can give a valid opinion of though. It could be written with tongue firmly in cheek and it's just a mismatch of sense of humor, it could be fantasist bs, or it could be true, who knows? I certainly don't. |
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Profile are there to see the vibe of someone. So in this case it worked perfectly, their vibe is absolutely not for you, or anyone I imagine.
There's no set way to do a profile, just do it in the way that you think represents you well.
I'm more drawn to profiles with good photography and have a strong sense of personality in them. |
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If it works for them I wouldn’t care what someone puts in their profile.
When I had my singles profile it wasn’t too everyone’s tastes but it attracted the people I wanted too and that is all that matters
Marc |
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"I've just gone with a general laugh on my profile. Most are put off, some get it.
Profiles are a window into how you wish to be seen however some humble brags about prowess are inevitable..."
I was thinking this also, isn't a profile meant to represent how you want to come across loool |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women"
It might just be a very tongue in cheek profile.
Sounds to me like he's just having some fun with his profile.
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
Do not touch this man with a ten foot pole. If he somehow thinks it's an accolade to break up marriages, then he's best avoided. "
Definately, I have never seen a person boast about putting married couples through divorce
That's nothing to be proud of one bit xx |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it."
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right |
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"See lots of posts asking for advice on profiles.
I'm guessing have a look at others (not that they are given any 5* reviews ! ).
But boasting about 4 x divorces !
Does that mean 4 x proposals as well? Same ring?
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Loool I won't even contact him to find out |
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"Surprised he could fit all that ego into a profile
My thoughts exactly. Best stay away from that kind of crazy. Shouldn't be bragging about destroying relationships. "
Exactly this, I like the few on here that have understood the main point of this thread is the sheer shock that someone is bragging about ending marriages that's a very happy narcissistic person |
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Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person. |
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"You're free to feel whatever way you want to about the profile. Without any of us actually seeing it I don't think any of us can give a valid opinion of though. It could be written with tongue firmly in cheek and it's just a mismatch of sense of humor, it could be fantasist bs, or it could be true, who knows? I certainly don't. "
Your one of those people who question what a person says has happened to them
People are grown enough to know what they have seen
I for one do not have time to make anything up if you do then reflect on yourself but don't bring that this way thank you |
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"The four divorces were probably his own marriages after his wives found out of his philandering ways…"
Loool nope he speaks of himself being booked for hen nights and he's claimed to have 150+ meets |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women"
Is it the Lamborghini / Ford fella ? You seem to attract the weirdos |
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"Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person."
I'm ok with that, arrogance is a straight dismissal for me and never would I want to meet a person with no shame to display publicly they have made marriages split
No thank you |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
Is it the Lamborghini / Ford fella ? You seem to attract the weirdos "
You seem to not remember what this site or have you not been on here long enough?
I have no interest with narcissistic humans |
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"Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person.
I'm ok with that, arrogance is a straight dismissal for me and never would I want to meet a person with no shame to display publicly they have made marriages split
No thank you "
Its fab take it with a pinch of salt. Its up to what you do with that salt |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
Is it the Lamborghini / Ford fella ? You seem to attract the weirdos
You seem to not remember what this site or have you not been on here long enough?
I have no interest with narcissistic humans "
My bad, I’m new here. Which way to the sex ? |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
"Its however someone wants it different people like different things
Wrong is wrong there's no defending it "
it honestly makes no odds iv got laid using a comical write up, a depressing sappy heartbroken profile and one as simple as 5 kisses if i want to share likes and and dislikes i prefer to save it for chemistry building |
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"Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person.
I'm ok with that, arrogance is a straight dismissal for me and never would I want to meet a person with no shame to display publicly they have made marriages split
No thank you
Its fab take it with a pinch of salt. Its up to what you do with that salt "
I know but I wouldn't pretend to not see corruption when I do xx |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
Is it the Lamborghini / Ford fella ? You seem to attract the weirdos
You seem to not remember what this site or have you not been on here long enough?
I have no interest with narcissistic humans
My bad, I’m new here. Which way to the sex ?"
You do act like your new
Enjoy your day |
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"Its however someone wants it different people like different things
Wrong is wrong there's no defending it it honestly makes no odds iv got laid using a comical write up, a depressing sappy heartbroken profile and one as simple as 5 kisses if i want to share likes and and dislikes i prefer to save it for chemistry building "
That's not on the same scale as that guy.
Everyone's sense of humour differs but to boast about ending marriages ain't nothing funny about that |
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"You're free to feel whatever way you want to about the profile. Without any of us actually seeing it I don't think any of us can give a valid opinion of though. It could be written with tongue firmly in cheek and it's just a mismatch of sense of humor, it could be fantasist bs, or it could be true, who knows? I certainly don't.
Your one of those people who question what a person says has happened to them
People are grown enough to know what they have seen
I for one do not have time to make anything up if you do then reflect on yourself but don't bring that this way thank you "
I think you may have misunderstood what I have typed. I haven't questioned what has happened to you, what you have seen or accused you of making anything up.
All I was trying to so say is that no one knows the exact context of which the profile was written other than the author themselves. Everyone can have an opinion on the profile, you have stated your opinion and your opinion is as valid as anyone elses. I haven't stated an opinion on it, simply because I haven't seen it myself to form my own opinion.
You
seem to have formed an opinion of what type of person I am through a few typed sentences even though you don't know me. You have every right to do so. I would say I'm the type of person who is open minded. Willing to listen to other people's points of veiw. Accepts that people have the free will to do as they please. I'm far from perfect, I can accept that I can get things wrong or misundtand others but I do try to learn from that. Sometimes my instinct are right, sometimes they are wrong, but I'll always reserve judgement on people until I've seen things from their point of veiw.
You can agree or disagree with anything I have typed, that's your perogative, just as it is your perogative to take what I'm trying to say the way I have intended it to be or the way you see it yourself. Anyway, I hope you are having a good day, and all the other people here are too!
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over a year ago
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I actually thought this thread may be removed.
I can't comment on the profile because I haven't seen it for myself.
I'm intrigued though and want to see it. |
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"You're free to feel whatever way you want to about the profile. Without any of us actually seeing it I don't think any of us can give a valid opinion of though. It could be written with tongue firmly in cheek and it's just a mismatch of sense of humor, it could be fantasist bs, or it could be true, who knows? I certainly don't.
Your one of those people who question what a person says has happened to them
People are grown enough to know what they have seen
I for one do not have time to make anything up if you do then reflect on yourself but don't bring that this way thank you
I think you may have misunderstood what I have typed. I haven't questioned what has happened to you, what you have seen or accused you of making anything up.
All I was trying to so say is that no one knows the exact context of which the profile was written other than the author themselves. Everyone can have an opinion on the profile, you have stated your opinion and your opinion is as valid as anyone elses. I haven't stated an opinion on it, simply because I haven't seen it myself to form my own opinion.
You
seem to have formed an opinion of what type of person I am through a few typed sentences even though you don't know me. You have every right to do so. I would say I'm the type of person who is open minded. Willing to listen to other people's points of veiw. Accepts that people have the free will to do as they please. I'm far from perfect, I can accept that I can get things wrong or misundtand others but I do try to learn from that. Sometimes my instinct are right, sometimes they are wrong, but I'll always reserve judgement on people until I've seen things from their point of veiw.
You can agree or disagree with anything I have typed, that's your perogative, just as it is your perogative to take what I'm trying to say the way I have intended it to be or the way you see it yourself. Anyway, I hope you are having a good day, and all the other people here are too!
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That's fine
I'm mindful in how I speak to a person if I make first point of contact first.
I don't judge people however they we speak and treat a person leaves an impression by what they choose to show
That is what can be spoken of and usually is.
In life we can say what we please but not HOW we please without being self aware of how it can come over that is ignorance and lack of empathy for others.
If you would like, I can message you this person who I spoke of but I will not paste his username on the thread.
Enjoy your day too thank you xx |
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"I actually thought this thread may be removed.
I can't comment on the profile because I haven't seen it for myself.
I'm intrigued though and want to see it. "
Why would the thread be removed?
Have I body shamed? Discriminated him?
I'm speaking of a profile that is very dis tasteful
As previously said you can have a private message but I wouldn't paste his name in the thread xx |
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over a year ago
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"I actually thought this thread may be removed.
I can't comment on the profile because I haven't seen it for myself.
I'm intrigued though and want to see it.
Why would the thread be removed?
Have I body shamed? Discriminated him?
I'm speaking of a profile that is very dis tasteful
As previously said you can have a private message but I wouldn't paste his name in the thread xx"
I just feel it may be testing the rules is all, after having a read through them again. |
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I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women"
yes a pedal stood or stationary bike are not for the faint hearted, egotistical people aren't common here but obviously do exist, to say you've been instrumental in the breakdown of 4 marriages is a little ott mind, i mean who would consider him very few me thinks  |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I actually thought this thread may be removed.
I can't comment on the profile because I haven't seen it for myself.
I'm intrigued though and want to see it.
Why would the thread be removed?
Have I body shamed? Discriminated him?
I'm speaking of a profile that is very dis tasteful
As previously said you can have a private message but I wouldn't paste his name in the thread xx
I just feel it may be testing the rules is all, after having a read through them again. "
The rule do say something about discussing profiles, saying that it doesn't name them is weak. Whether its the rules or not, it's disrespectful. How would the OP or anyone feel if they came across the thread where their profile was brought up and mocked. Yeah, there's rules and there's somethings that are just decency. Treat others as you wish to be treated.
If you find content in a profile you don't like, big deal. The profile content is irrelevant here, it's the action of sharing for mockery and derision. |
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"I actually thought this thread may be removed.
I can't comment on the profile because I haven't seen it for myself.
I'm intrigued though and want to see it.
Why would the thread be removed?
Have I body shamed? Discriminated him?
I'm speaking of a profile that is very dis tasteful
As previously said you can have a private message but I wouldn't paste his name in the thread xx
I just feel it may be testing the rules is all, after having a read through them again.
The rule do say something about discussing profiles, saying that it doesn't name them is weak. Whether its the rules or not, it's disrespectful. How would the OP or anyone feel if they came across the thread where their profile was brought up and mocked. Yeah, there's rules and there's somethings that are just decency. Treat others as you wish to be treated.
If you find content in a profile you don't like, big deal. The profile content is irrelevant here, it's the action of sharing for mockery and derision."
The thread was not made to mock it was to gain clarification a profile is to carry out an impression and to represent ourselves.
I laugh with others not at others so if you can't comprehend my thread that's nothing to do with me.
Its wrong of you to take a person's thread completely out of context and dictate their intentions to mean opposite so take a leaf out of your own book instead of jumping to conclusions gain clarity on a person's intentions and reasons for something they have carried out
Everyone handles things differently to others and from your perspective it may look wrong until you see and understand their own |
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"I actually thought this thread may be removed.
I can't comment on the profile because I haven't seen it for myself.
I'm intrigued though and want to see it.
Why would the thread be removed?
Have I body shamed? Discriminated him?
I'm speaking of a profile that is very dis tasteful
As previously said you can have a private message but I wouldn't paste his name in the thread xx
I just feel it may be testing the rules is all, after having a read through them again. "
I'm not here to test anything
I was shocked to see a profile displayed in the way that is was and asked isn't the whole purpose about showing the kind of person you are and what you are looking for?
Others on this thread have dismissed I stated it was a profile which shocked me and have tries to turn into me trying to laugh at a person
Two complete different things but if a person doesn't understand something and doesn't ask questions for clarification they understand what an OP has said better to say nothing than falsely accuse a person of something |
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present."
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?  |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to womenyes a pedal stood or stationary bike are not for the faint hearted, egotistical people aren't common here but obviously do exist, to say you've been instrumental in the breakdown of 4 marriages is a little ott mind, i mean who would consider him very few me thinks "
thank you for going to the top of the page.
Hopefully people who claim to treat others as they wish to be treated and have some level of intelligence will see the post doesn't laugh at the profile it's showing pure shock
Its wrong in all ways to take a person's words out of context and also try to twist the context too |
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock? "
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem) |
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem)"
People like to find faults and jump to conclusions too much instead of seeing something for what it is.
Assumptions are what people often do yet don't like it done to themselves
The profile can not be recognised its not a profile that uses the forums and theirs hundreds of users on here
The pictures are not described, people just like to complain instead of empathise and show understanding or ask for understanding |
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem)
People like to find faults and jump to conclusions too much instead of seeing something for what it is.
Assumptions are what people often do yet don't like it done to themselves
The profile can not be recognised its not a profile that uses the forums and theirs hundreds of users on here
The pictures are not described, people just like to complain instead of empathise and show understanding or ask for understanding"
OK.
I can see both points of view on the issue |
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"Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person.
I'm ok with that, arrogance is a straight dismissal for me and never would I want to meet a person with no shame to display publicly they have made marriages split
No thank you
Its fab take it with a pinch of salt. Its up to what you do with that salt
I know but I wouldn't pretend to not see corruption when I do xx"
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I think people should be able to write whatever they want on their profile without being ridiculed about it. As I prefer to see a true representation of that person and what they want others to see. It makes it easier to either interact or avoid them.
I've seen people on here who have had profiles that are a massive red flag as they are into things I avoid like the plague,get absolutely slated because of their profile,so they changed it to a way more sanitised one which is the complete opposite of what they actually wanted from fab. Luckily I use notes so I won't forget.
But why others feel the need to point out what they see that they don't like is beyond me. Just make a note, block or at very least just move and forget about them and concentrate on others that you do like. It makes everyone's journey so much easier I find. |
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem)
People like to find faults and jump to conclusions too much instead of seeing something for what it is.
Assumptions are what people often do yet don't like it done to themselves
The profile can not be recognised its not a profile that uses the forums and theirs hundreds of users on here
The pictures are not described, people just like to complain instead of empathise and show understanding or ask for understanding"
Read what you've posted here, that could very possibly be a post aimed at this thread you've begun.
Did you not find fault, possibly jump to a conclusion and make assumptions on the profile?
I get it, he comes across as an idiot, to you, but as we're not allowed to name and shame, then we can't make a judgement for ourselves.
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I feel that my profile gives a cruelly honest picture of myself, the bad and the good. The oldest part of it is an attempt at self description and details of what I was then hoping to get from the site. To this I have gradually added annual or biannual "diary" type notes which show how my expectations have changed, and hint at the soul aches that I feel.
It's probably anything but a self-promotion piece, it doesn't make any false promises. I hope though that it will allow people to gain a realistic view of what I am like as a person. Hugs, Polly xxx
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem)
People like to find faults and jump to conclusions too much instead of seeing something for what it is.
Assumptions are what people often do yet don't like it done to themselves
The profile can not be recognised its not a profile that uses the forums and theirs hundreds of users on here
The pictures are not described, people just like to complain instead of empathise and show understanding or ask for understanding
Read what you've posted here, that could very possibly be a post aimed at this thread you've begun.
Did you not find fault, possibly jump to a conclusion and make assumptions on the profile?
I get it, he comes across as an idiot, to you, but as we're not allowed to name and shame, then we can't make a judgement for ourselves.
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The thread is what the thread is, ego boosters and arrogance puts off many.
If you can not see or understand I said it was a such to see such a profile then that's you.
Why would you need to see the profile instead of just responding to what is said :/ grown people know what they are talking we're not kids that need a grown person to see a make sure the child is being truthful :/
I wouldn't do that to anyone and it's quite amazing some people here take a person's words out of context and make them seem as a person who is laughing at a person
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem)
People like to find faults and jump to conclusions too much instead of seeing something for what it is.
Assumptions are what people often do yet don't like it done to themselves
The profile can not be recognised its not a profile that uses the forums and theirs hundreds of users on here
The pictures are not described, people just like to complain instead of empathise and show understanding or ask for understanding
Read what you've posted here, that could very possibly be a post aimed at this thread you've begun.
Did you not find fault, possibly jump to a conclusion and make assumptions on the profile?
I get it, he comes across as an idiot, to you, but as we're not allowed to name and shame, then we can't make a judgement for ourselves.
The thread is what the thread is, ego boosters and arrogance puts off many.
If you can not see or understand I said it was a such to see such a profile then that's you.
Why would you need to see the profile instead of just responding to what is said :/ grown people know what they are talking we're not kids that need a grown person to see a make sure the child is being truthful :/
I wouldn't do that to anyone and it's quite amazing some people here take a person's words out of context and make them seem as a person who is laughing at a person
If someone is shocked by a presented profile to them they can be kmt"
Seriously, go back and read all of your own posts here.
You may see how the context may appear.
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"I feel that my profile gives a cruelly honest picture of myself, the bad and the good. The oldest part of it is an attempt at self description and details of what I was then hoping to get from the site. To this I have gradually added annual or biannual "diary" type notes which show how my expectations have changed, and hint at the soul aches that I feel.
It's probably anything but a self-promotion piece, it doesn't make any false promises. I hope though that it will allow people to gain a realistic view of what I am like as a person. Hugs, Polly xxx
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Hugs pills back my profile shows the annoyance of those who have dismissed things stated on my profile and the amount of people that waste time and also don't care how they come across.
If a person wants to get ignorant with me then I can go there too.
Also if a person is civil respectful and just kind natured we will last a lifetime.
In life its best to have the bare minimal of quality friends and FWB's saves a lot of unnecessary stress and headache xxx |
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"I don't think the thing you describe is a good look in general.
But it depends on what you're trying to achieve. My profile is about me plus a joke, but given what I'm clearly looking for (it's in the header, it's two words, it's not hard), I feel it's appropriate under the circumstances, and matches the image I'm trying to present.
Exactly it's dependent on what a person was trying to achieve.
If people look at what I originally posted they will see I said I was shocked to come across a profile like that and also asked isn't a profile also supposed to show what someone is looking for in others.
What's wrong in requesting clarity and displaying concern or shock?
I suspect it would depend on how identifiable the profile is and whether there's a risk that you're indirectly shaming them in a way that's not anonymous enough. (I'm not saying you have or you haven't, I'm just saying why people might have a problem)
People like to find faults and jump to conclusions too much instead of seeing something for what it is.
Assumptions are what people often do yet don't like it done to themselves
The profile can not be recognised its not a profile that uses the forums and theirs hundreds of users on here
The pictures are not described, people just like to complain instead of empathise and show understanding or ask for understanding
Read what you've posted here, that could very possibly be a post aimed at this thread you've begun.
Did you not find fault, possibly jump to a conclusion and make assumptions on the profile?
I get it, he comes across as an idiot, to you, but as we're not allowed to name and shame, then we can't make a judgement for ourselves.
The thread is what the thread is, ego boosters and arrogance puts off many.
If you can not see or understand I said it was a such to see such a profile then that's you.
Why would you need to see the profile instead of just responding to what is said :/ grown people know what they are talking we're not kids that need a grown person to see a make sure the child is being truthful :/
I wouldn't do that to anyone and it's quite amazing some people here take a person's words out of context and make them seem as a person who is laughing at a person
If someone is shocked by a presented profile to them they can be kmt
Seriously, go back and read all of your own posts here.
You may see how the context may appear.
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I know what I wrote and also know many don't see things from another person's perspective but their own.
So seriously leave it alone you said what you had to say and I wish you a lovely day xx |
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over a year ago
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"I think people should be able to write whatever they want on their profile without being ridiculed about it. As I prefer to see a true representation of that person and what they want others to see. It makes it easier to either interact or avoid them.
I've seen people on here who have had profiles that are a massive red flag as they are into things I avoid like the plague,get absolutely slated because of their profile,so they changed it to a way more sanitised one which is the complete opposite of what they actually wanted from fab. Luckily I use notes so I won't forget.
But why others feel the need to point out what they see that they don't like is beyond me. Just make a note, block or at very least just move and forget about them and concentrate on others that you do like. It makes everyone's journey so much easier I find."
Measured reasonable response. 10/10 would read again |
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"My profiles not the best as no messages haha unless im just a ungly duckling hahaah "
Are you asking for profile advice or just stating you don't get messages ?
I wouldn't say anyone is ugly but I am sure you have attracted women, you wouldn't be every woman's type which should be ok
Isn't it best to attract those you genuinely attract rather than a person that leads others on and who in the long term wastes your time ? |
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"Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person.
I'm ok with that, arrogance is a straight dismissal for me and never would I want to meet a person with no shame to display publicly they have made marriages split
No thank you
Its fab take it with a pinch of salt. Its up to what you do with that salt
I know but I wouldn't pretend to not see corruption when I do xx
How's it corruption, if he's telling the truth it's not corruption. Corruption comes from underhanded tactics "
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"I think people should be able to write whatever they want on their profile without being ridiculed about it. As I prefer to see a true representation of that person and what they want others to see. It makes it easier to either interact or avoid them.
I've seen people on here who have had profiles that are a massive red flag as they are into things I avoid like the plague,get absolutely slated because of their profile,so they changed it to a way more sanitised one which is the complete opposite of what they actually wanted from fab. Luckily I use notes so I won't forget.
But why others feel the need to point out what they see that they don't like is beyond me. Just make a note, block or at very least just move and forget about them and concentrate on others that you do like. It makes everyone's journey so much easier I find."
Do you understand what forum means?
Why others feel the need to tell a person how to handle something that has nothing to do with them personally is beyond me.
A person is allowed to share an experience they have encountered bad or good it makes others aware of what is going on
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"Ask him he FAF....
His profile is his, profile he can present it however he wishes. The perception or judgement calls you make from said text. Is down on you, but bare in mind this fab ppl embleish and ham up. You could be potentially failing to see the whole person.
I'm ok with that, arrogance is a straight dismissal for me and never would I want to meet a person with no shame to display publicly they have made marriages split
No thank you
Its fab take it with a pinch of salt. Its up to what you do with that salt
I know but I wouldn't pretend to not see corruption when I do xx
How's it corruption, if he's telling the truth it's not corruption. Corruption comes from underhanded tactics
Yeah yeah ok "
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I think people should be able to write whatever they want on their profile without being ridiculed about it. As I prefer to see a true representation of that person and what they want others to see. It makes it easier to either interact or avoid them.
I've seen people on here who have had profiles that are a massive red flag as they are into things I avoid like the plague,get absolutely slated because of their profile,so they changed it to a way more sanitised one which is the complete opposite of what they actually wanted from fab. Luckily I use notes so I won't forget.
But why others feel the need to point out what they see that they don't like is beyond me. Just make a note, block or at very least just move and forget about them and concentrate on others that you do like. It makes everyone's journey so much easier I find.
Do you understand what forum means?
Why others feel the need to tell a person how to handle something that has nothing to do with them personally is beyond me.
A person is allowed to share an experience they have encountered bad or good it makes others aware of what is going on
Goodness me girl "
Thank you but I perfectly understand what a forum is about and I gave my opinion on it,just like everyone else who posts on here.
I didn't tell anyone how to behave. I said I don't understand why people have to point out what others have on their profiles just because they don't like or agree with it.
Of course people are allowed to share experiences but I don't know how what someone I wouldn't have any interest in, could be considered to be a bad experience on here. But then neither would I agree to share their user names in pms either just because I don't like a profile bio.
But everyone does fab their own way and it's doesn't really matter in the long run as we will all just connect with like-minded people anyhow.
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"I think people should be able to write whatever they want on their profile without being ridiculed about it. As I prefer to see a true representation of that person and what they want others to see. It makes it easier to either interact or avoid them.
I've seen people on here who have had profiles that are a massive red flag as they are into things I avoid like the plague,get absolutely slated because of their profile,so they changed it to a way more sanitised one which is the complete opposite of what they actually wanted from fab. Luckily I use notes so I won't forget.
But why others feel the need to point out what they see that they don't like is beyond me. Just make a note, block or at very least just move and forget about them and concentrate on others that you do like. It makes everyone's journey so much easier I find.
Do you understand what forum means?
Why others feel the need to tell a person how to handle something that has nothing to do with them personally is beyond me.
A person is allowed to share an experience they have encountered bad or good it makes others aware of what is going on
Goodness me girl
Thank you but I perfectly understand what a forum is about and I gave my opinion on it,just like everyone else who posts on here.
I didn't tell anyone how to behave. I said I don't understand why people have to point out what others have on their profiles just because they don't like or agree with it.
Of course people are allowed to share experiences but I don't know how what someone I wouldn't have any interest in, could be considered to be a bad experience on here. But then neither would I agree to share their user names in pms either just because I don't like a profile bio.
But everyone does fab their own way and it's doesn't really matter in the long run as we will all just connect with like-minded people anyhow.
Have a lovely evening girl. "
Since you know what a forum is keep that.
Why question they way a person does something not having anything to do with you that's a but daft to me
People have said they can't form their own judgement without seeing the profile so again stop jumping to conclusions
You can give your opinion on the topic that's what the post is about a topic of a profile that has surprised me much
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"You're free to feel whatever way you want to about the profile. Without any of us actually seeing it I don't think any of us can give a valid opinion of though. It could be written with tongue firmly in cheek and it's just a mismatch of sense of humor, it could be fantasist bs, or it could be true, who knows? I certainly don't. "
Yes but whatever they put or don't put reveals alot about that person. I see it like a CV, gives me an good insight about someone. If the profile makes me naturally drawn to them and their messages sound sincere and down to earth, I usually chat then meet. Being the way that person was makes a great filter |
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"You're free to feel whatever way you want to about the profile. Without any of us actually seeing it I don't think any of us can give a valid opinion of though. It could be written with tongue firmly in cheek and it's just a mismatch of sense of humor, it could be fantasist bs, or it could be true, who knows? I certainly don't.
Yes but whatever they put or don't put reveals alot about that person. I see it like a CV, gives me an good insight about someone. If the profile makes me naturally drawn to them and their messages sound sincere and down to earth, I usually chat then meet. Being the way that person was makes a great filter "
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women"
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others? |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others? "
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here? |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others?
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here?"
He means that if someone is a knobber, isn't it better that it's plain to see rather than obfuscated by a cookie cutter tick box profile. |
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You're not obliged to meet him.
But instead you come on here with the little forum clique who never fail to shit spout their useless advice and opinion.
Block the boy and move on. |
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"You're not obliged to meet him.
But instead you come on here with the little forum clique who never fail to shit spout their useless advice and opinion.
Block the boy and move on."
Your not obligated to comment on what others say.
If it is not aimed at you why are you that invested in It?
Clearly you have issues with allowing people to be themselves
You don't dictate what goes on here your not a moderator
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others?
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here?"
How would I know what someone is boasting of in his profile if I haven't seen it and as such why would I have an issue with it?
Lots of people boast about things that aren't true.
I see lots of red flags and in all my time here have never chatted to a fake account, been catfished or had a no show so I'm very good at seeing red flags thanks.
Telling others what you think they should have in their own profile is also a red flag.
It's much better to let them appear as unsavoury rather do others can avoid them rather than give them ideas for the perfect profile where people don't see the true person until they actually meet. |
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I prefer people without much on their profile. Too many pics and text makes it all too regimented.
I want to meet *people*, not some sexual tick box.
I don't want to see veris or pics of them fucking other people.
I want them to have their profile how they want it, not how some random group of strangers dictates it should be.
If it's not what I want to see, we're just not compatible. |
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others?
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here?
How would I know what someone is boasting of in his profile if I haven't seen it and as such why would I have an issue with it?
Lots of people boast about things that aren't true.
I see lots of red flags and in all my time here have never chatted to a fake account, been catfished or had a no show so I'm very good at seeing red flags thanks.
Telling others what you think they should have in their own profile is also a red flag.
It's much better to let them appear as unsavoury rather do others can avoid them rather than give them ideas for the perfect profile where people don't see the true person until they actually meet."
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others?
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here?
How would I know what someone is boasting of in his profile if I haven't seen it and as such why would I have an issue with it?
Lots of people boast about things that aren't true.
I see lots of red flags and in all my time here have never chatted to a fake account, been catfished or had a no show so I'm very good at seeing red flags thanks.
Telling others what you think they should have in their own profile is also a red flag.
It's much better to let them appear as unsavoury rather do others can avoid them rather than give them ideas for the perfect profile where people don't see the true person until they actually meet."
What are you on about?
Stating what is a shock is exactly that
Whose spoken of perfect profile?
Stick to the topic please or leave it alone
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others?
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here?
How would I know what someone is boasting of in his profile if I haven't seen it and as such why would I have an issue with it?
Lots of people boast about things that aren't true.
I see lots of red flags and in all my time here have never chatted to a fake account, been catfished or had a no show so I'm very good at seeing red flags thanks.
Telling others what you think they should have in their own profile is also a red flag.
It's much better to let them appear as unsavoury rather do others can avoid them rather than give them ideas for the perfect profile where people don't see the true person until they actually meet.
What are you on about?
Stating what is a shock is exactly that
Whose spoken of perfect profile?
Stick to the topic please or leave it alone
"
You either want opinions or you don't.
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"What a bellend!
Absolutely
Its supposed to be about attracting others towards you I thought at least loool
I would love to wind him up though  "
Maybe his profile IS a wind up though. You can't know that until you've seen it. |
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"What a bellend!
Absolutely
Its supposed to be about attracting others towards you I thought at least loool
I would love to wind him up though
Maybe his profile IS a wind up though. You can't know that until you've seen it."
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
I haven't read most of this thread because I know there won't be any surprises in it but if that's how he wants to present himself what's the issue?
If you think you aren't compatible just pass on by.
I've seen lots of profiles here that don't present themselves in a way I find attractive but I don't engage with any of those.
Advice threads are a really bad idea because people then change their profiles to tick all the boxes and they end up not being a true representation of the person behind the profile.
If someone isn't capable of writing a decent bio what hope is there of them being able to maintain a persona based on the opinions of others?
You don't need to read the thread to understand what the thread is about.
There's a guy proudly boasting to be the cause of 4 marriages on his profile and you don't see an issue in that I worry for some of you on here that's more than just a red flag
None of this thread mentions anyone having to be someone they are not by keeping up a fake persona based off others opinions so what are you talking about here?
How would I know what someone is boasting of in his profile if I haven't seen it and as such why would I have an issue with it?
Lots of people boast about things that aren't true.
I see lots of red flags and in all my time here have never chatted to a fake account, been catfished or had a no show so I'm very good at seeing red flags thanks.
Telling others what you think they should have in their own profile is also a red flag.
It's much better to let them appear as unsavoury rather do others can avoid them rather than give them ideas for the perfect profile where people don't see the true person until they actually meet.
What are you on about?
Stating what is a shock is exactly that
Whose spoken of perfect profile?
Stick to the topic please or leave it alone
You either want opinions or you don't.
If you wanted everyone to agree with you you should have said that at the start. "
A question was asked for clarification there was no room for opinions its either yes or no
People don't have to agree how ever the thread was not structured in that way.
So again it's on you how you interpretate it however daft when it's plain to see the message in simple basic English |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right"
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side. |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side."
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated "
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now. |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated "
They did numerous times and you've mocked them for saying it.
No one else is making it complicated. |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now."
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?"
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried. |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
They did numerous times and you've mocked them for saying it.
No one else is making it complicated. "
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried. "
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments. |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
They did numerous times and you've mocked them for saying it.
No one else is making it complicated. "
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over a year ago
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women"
Wow
Helps with filtering I guess? |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments."
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider. |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider."
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"Hello all hope you're having a lovely day in this weather
I wanted to speak about the way a person presents their profile shouldn't it be half about themselves and also what they are looking for in others that wish to have a sexy encounter with?
A gentleman winked at me and has given me a shock his profile speaks of himself on a high pedal stood
Saying he's been a gift for hen parties, the surprise for the Mrs and he even said he's been the cause of 4 divorces unfortunately and he's not for the faint hearted or jealous
To me that is screaming I think I'm God's gift to women
Wow
Helps with filtering I guess? "
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few "
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool"
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there "
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool"
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you "
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along "
Thank the lord for that |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that "
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers "
I was going to ask where in my posts I've been a "hypocrite" but your childish repertoire is boring me now |
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers
I was going to ask where in my posts I've been a "hypocrite" but your childish repertoire is boring me now "
Its worrying (not for me) that you don't remember your own words. You said it's up to an individual what they write on their profile then tell the forum what's on mine
Your preacher needs to die along with your bitchy behaviour. If a person wants to be ignorant with me I can match that no problem.
When they go low, I go lower then it gets turned into being called childish
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers
I was going to ask where in my posts I've been a "hypocrite" but your childish repertoire is boring me now
Its worrying (not for me) that you don't remember your own words. You said it's up to an individual what they write on their profile then tell the forum what's on mine
Did I say you couldn't tell anyone what someone has written...I don't think so...maybe you need to check yourself
Your preacher needs to die along with your bitchy behaviour. If a person wants to be ignorant with me I can match that no problem.
When they go low, I go lower then it gets turned into being called childish
Your comment above just proves my thoughts.
Don't dish out what you can't receive back "
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers
I was going to ask where in my posts I've been a "hypocrite" but your childish repertoire is boring me now
Its worrying (not for me) that you don't remember your own words. You said it's up to an individual what they write on their profile then tell the forum what's on mine
Did I say you couldn't tell anyone what someone has written...I don't think so...maybe you need to check yourself
Your preacher needs to die along with your bitchy behaviour. If a person wants to be ignorant with me I can match that no problem.
When they go low, I go lower then it gets turned into being called childish
Your comment above just proves my thoughts.
Don't dish out what you can't receive back
What is there to receive back??"
I don't spoon feed idiots sorry
I'm sure there are other threads for you to join
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers
I was going to ask where in my posts I've been a "hypocrite" but your childish repertoire is boring me now
Its worrying (not for me) that you don't remember your own words. You said it's up to an individual what they write on their profile then tell the forum what's on mine
Did I say you couldn't tell anyone what someone has written...I don't think so...maybe you need to check yourself
Your preacher needs to die along with your bitchy behaviour. If a person wants to be ignorant with me I can match that no problem.
When they go low, I go lower then it gets turned into being called childish
Your comment above just proves my thoughts.
Don't dish out what you can't receive back
What is there to receive back??
I don't spoon feed idiots sorry
I'm sure there are other threads for you to join
Run along now "
I have given you enough of my time, maybe someone else will feed you the attention so you clearly crave...and tbh you aren't worth a forum ban.
Hopefully the hole you've dug for yourself isn't too deep for you to climb out off.
I wish you all the luck in the world as you continue your swinging journey...after this thread, you are going to need it.
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"I think it should be up to the individual what they put on their profile. If you don't like what's written then block, move on and forget instead of posting a thread about it.
I think you should take a piece of your own advice with the forums also.
You neither I gets to tell a person what to post and not post a thread about.
If a thread is not to your taste move on, you don't have to comment against it if your not with it.
You made that choice
It's not common I come across a person who displays such arrogance, I stated a man boasting about 4 divorces he is proud he caused and there you are with such nonsense "It's up to an individual what they post"
Everything OK with you on your side?
You condone that do you?
Nothing wrong with anyone saying when something is not right
It seems as though unless someone agrees with you, you are quite dismissive in your replies!
Where in my paragraph have I condoned the man's behaviour??
From what you've said, he does come across as an arrogant prick but I'd rather see that on a profile than have him hide that side.
Make it make sense
I said isn't a profile supposed to be half about yourself and also state what you are looking for in a play mate?
I then said it was a shock to see a person boast of being the cause to numerous relationships breaking up and divorces.
People have said they would need to see his profile :/ why would anyone make that up?
Someone spoke about me ridiculing a person and then another exaggerated about a perfect profile.
So how do you get it to "IF a person doesn't agree you dismiss them"?
People should stop taking what is written out of context for a start and then dramatising it on top
I'm speaking for clarity and stated my surprise to come across a profile from a person who winked
Of course anyone would want to see an escape route rather than dressing up making arrangements then find that out but half of the responses here have been very unnecessary.
I would have thought people would have said yeah ideally it would be nice for a profile to be like that OR no a profile doesn't have to say what they are after either. Loooool It's really not that complicated
There comes a point when the irony goes from cringe to painful. I think we're long past it now.
Your referring to exactly?
I could explain but your reactions lead me to think you'd be unwilling to consider any thing I'd point out. Many more diplomatic and gentler than I have tried.
If you understood things from my perspective it would be clearer to see reasons behind my reactions
If that's impossible for you to do that's ok but I would say you would not need to make unnecessary comments.
I think 'unnecessary comments' are those you don't want to consider.
At least the OP hasn't named the guy in question on the forum...unlike on her profile where she has named and shamed a few
What a hypocrite
Miss Dull go contact the said guys on my profile and hook up with them I won't stop you loooool
"I won't stop you"...arrogance right there
Take it however you interpret it, you the hypocrite that needs a life.
Anyone who has made a comment on here, I haven't gone on to their profile to see what they have written.
Shame a woman of your age and even adults can't stick to their words. Clearly preach but don't practice them I can't take you seriously so do whatever to amuse yourself and get yourself through the night or week perhaps loooool
I think someone has PMT. Very tetchy..you seemed easily triggered. Bless you
I'm laughing at you, only weak individuals act like you. You have your definition of a triggered person and I have mine.
We are not the same so move along
Thank the lord for that
I can tell your not a believer so best not to speak of the Lord's name
You may as well continue to be a hypocrite and look at others profiles here
Keep the ugly muck tucked away cheers
I was going to ask where in my posts I've been a "hypocrite" but your childish repertoire is boring me now
Its worrying (not for me) that you don't remember your own words. You said it's up to an individual what they write on their profile then tell the forum what's on mine
Did I say you couldn't tell anyone what someone has written...I don't think so...maybe you need to check yourself
Your preacher needs to die along with your bitchy behaviour. If a person wants to be ignorant with me I can match that no problem.
When they go low, I go lower then it gets turned into being called childish
Your comment above just proves my thoughts.
Don't dish out what you can't receive back
What is there to receive back??
I don't spoon feed idiots sorry
I'm sure there are other threads for you to join
Run along now
I have given you enough of my time, maybe someone else will feed you the attention so you clearly crave...and tbh you aren't worth a forum ban.
Hopefully the hole you've dug for yourself isn't too deep for you to climb out off.
I wish you all the luck in the world as you continue your swinging journey...after this thread, you are going to need it.
Peace and "
Sparkle you picked what side you wanted to see me from me by your interaction on this thread.
People with sense will see that too and those with little to none would see my replied to you over how this began.
I'm not here for other's opinions and expectations but if an individual like yourself wants to try be nasty then you will get it back
You need all the peace and that way you will interact a lot better with others on the forum
I said ages ago to move along and you chose to stay.
No one is craving attention from you so get over yourself and see for yourself you asked for it
You don't need to admit it here it will bruise your pride but in future drop the ignorance and check how you come at people.
That's how you get a nicer side of a person
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