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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met plenty of men very happy to sit back and receive without any desire to give a woman pleasure.
Find it very dull mediocre sex when a man won't give pleasure. So no incentive to repeat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met plenty of men very happy to sit back and receive without any desire to give a woman pleasure.
Find it very dull mediocre sex when a man won't give pleasure. So no incentive to repeat. "
These ain’t men these are fools I’d say! Me personally would let the women go first and receive some foreplay till I’ve cummed and then it’s my turn to use my hands and mouth till she pushes my head away down there and then it’s round 2 with multiple different positions |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve "
As an occasional thing? Sure, why not.
Same as it would be good the other way round.
There's nothing wrong with treating a partner and making them the centre of attention at times, wanting nothing in return.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock
And nothing after?"
Occasionally. We’ll chat and I’ll ask when he’s next near me, and he’ll say ‘oh well not for a few weeks, I’m passing through in a few days but only passing’ and I’ll tell him to get his arse to mine so I can suck his dick. I love sucking cock so much, I’m amazing at it, and he loves getting his dick sucked. No complaints from any of us let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock
And nothing after?
Occasionally. We’ll chat and I’ll ask when he’s next near me, and he’ll say ‘oh well not for a few weeks, I’m passing through in a few days but only passing’ and I’ll tell him to get his arse to mine so I can suck his dick. I love sucking cock so much, I’m amazing at it, and he loves getting his dick sucked. No complaints from any of us let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way"
Well you must be draining him that good for him just to get that and leave. Like the way you are that confident in what you do as well fair play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock
And nothing after?
Occasionally. We’ll chat and I’ll ask when he’s next near me, and he’ll say ‘oh well not for a few weeks, I’m passing through in a few days but only passing’ and I’ll tell him to get his arse to mine so I can suck his dick. I love sucking cock so much, I’m amazing at it, and he loves getting his dick sucked. No complaints from any of us let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way
Well you must be draining him that good for him just to get that and leave. Like the way you are that confident in what you do as well fair play. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'd struggle with it. I don't like to think that they'd only be doing something for my enjoyment which is why I'd prefer being able to give as well as I get pleasure from giving it and get really turned on by hearing them enjoying themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock
And nothing after?
Occasionally. We’ll chat and I’ll ask when he’s next near me, and he’ll say ‘oh well not for a few weeks, I’m passing through in a few days but only passing’ and I’ll tell him to get his arse to mine so I can suck his dick. I love sucking cock so much, I’m amazing at it, and he loves getting his dick sucked. No complaints from any of us let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way
Well you must be draining him that good for him just to get that and leave. Like the way you are that confident in what you do as well fair play.
I know my strengths "
Exactly that! I’d say a lot of fellas on here now will be in your inbox after reading this lol |
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I’m more of a giver myself and would feel lazy not actively participating (a pillow Prince?).
Having said this, I DO love it when a lady rides me but even then, my hands, lips and tongue are hardly inactive….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always fun mixing it up, sometimes it’s great to lie back while she gets into a good rhythm and/or works her hips. Plus laying back while she goes to town with her mouth is also a turn on.
Don’t get me wrong though. It’s only pleasurable for me if she genuinely enjoys giving pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to do, quite happily lay back and enjoy.
I'm far too active now, I can't relax long enough for that.
I'm more a giver anyway, plus it's the woman that does it for me, rather than the physical sensation upon myself. |
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I'm ok with just receiving every once in a while, but I much prefer both to get some. I'd be happier spending most of my time giving though, the thing is, women have a much greater ability to have multiple orgasms than I do, so to me it makes sense, if I'm only getting one and she can have more I should be giving more. |
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"How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve "
Very happy |
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I'd rather give than receive, I don't often want anything back as I have a very limited libido. There's nothing wrong with a meet being 'one sided', if anything I'd say it was more weird to feel an obligation of sorts to do tit for tat.
I give presents at Christmas because I enjoy making people smile, not to get a gift in return; same principle. I'm not giving head to get it back, I just want to make the person happy. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Generally, I enjoy it when both are mutually chasing the others orgasm, from give & take roles (I give the way they like/ they take the way I like).
It could be perceived that I'm 'giving/ available for them only' if an observer doesn't understand the nuances, but it's also very much for my pleasure too in the ways chosen to take, which really turn me on
They would have to be considerate to my preferences too.
Also, my giving can be proactively doing to them or being thoroughly available for them to take, unless I'm being a bratty & making it a challenge for them to take me.
Not sure if this makes any sense
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"I struggle with it, so if Alice wants that she usually ties me up. "
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It's easier to prolong the playtime that way, as it stops him touching me as he's over excited, also it's really hot to ride him bound  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I struggle with it, so if Alice wants that she usually ties me up.
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It's easier to prolong the playtime that way, as it stops him touching me as he's over excited, also it's really hot to ride him bound "
Sounds fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve "
I would be ok with that, but I also like to give |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot."
But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.
But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do"
Then it wouldn't be 5 minutes. |
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"How happy are men to just sit back and recieve? They all say they want to give, buy what if the woman just wants to give. How happy are you with this? Just some post drink thinking. I would much rather give than recieve "
There is nothing sexier then a women who knows what she wants and wants to charge... im all for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.
But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do"
If its the same finger technique most men do, then I will have no vagina by the end of it. I'll take the 5 minutes and be grateful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A man I meet is more than happy for me to just suck his cock
And nothing after?
Occasionally. We’ll chat and I’ll ask when he’s next near me, and he’ll say ‘oh well not for a few weeks, I’m passing through in a few days but only passing’ and I’ll tell him to get his arse to mine so I can suck his dick. I love sucking cock so much, I’m amazing at it, and he loves getting his dick sucked. No complaints from any of us let him cum on my tits then send him on his merry way"
Sounds like a good time to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to give some nights I do just want to give the Mr a nice long bj and don't want anything back, he's happy to oblige
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Obviously it's not all I want but I really do love treating my man to what I say is a pretty good |
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If someone is genuinely in the mood to give, then allowing them to do so (and making one's appreciation known) is a way of giving back.
Not trying to excuse lazy selfishness or emotional obtuseness in other settings, but as so often its the emotional meaning of things that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men do prefer to receive, they give you 5 minutes sucking on that clit like a hamster on a water bottle and that's your lot.
But what if you had say 45 mins before with the good old finger technique and tongue everywhere would that 5 mins do
If its the same finger technique most men do, then I will have no vagina by the end of it. I'll take the 5 minutes and be grateful."
Hold on what’s the technique you are used to? Plus don’t say they don’t even use the tongue while slipping a finger in? |
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