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How do you seduce?
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"Tea and cake  "
An impressively English answer. 
Seducing and being _educed are flip sides of one coin, at least for me. Nothing more heady and hotly seductive as mutual attraction and mutual intent to please & be pleased.
Obviously I also rely on the effects of vintage Krug, and the dreamy context of my dance moves, in white tie and tails, on the roof terrace of my estate overlooking Lake Como.*
(*Serving suggestion only. Reality may resemble frayed jeans, cupcakes and prosecco at a down-market semi-detached in Slough.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cast out my imaginary fishing rod from across the room and stare intensely into their eyes while I’m reeling them in, Gets them every time 
Do you use a little worm as bait?  "
I find dangling an unopened condom off the end works best  |
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By *_elie LAL OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Tea and cake
An impressively English answer.
Seducing and being _educed are flip sides of one coin, at least for me. Nothing more heady and hotly seductive as mutual attraction and mutual intent to please & be pleased.
Obviously I also rely on the effects of vintage Krug, and the dreamy context of my dance moves, in white tie and tails, on the roof terrace of my estate overlooking Lake Como.*
(*Serving suggestion only. Reality may resemble frayed jeans, cupcakes and prosecco at a down-market semi-detached in Slough.)"
I've never liked cupcakes, and yet in a previous incarnation I was Non-vanilla cupcake  |
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"I cast out my imaginary fishing rod from across the room and stare intensely into their eyes while I’m reeling them in, Gets them every time
Do you use a little worm as bait?
I find dangling an unopened condom off the end works best "
Skyn I hope |
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"How do you seduce your mate/date?
How do you like to be _educed?"
Differently, every time - maybe that depends on whether there’s instant chemistry, or something evolves over a slightly longer period.
I don’t have a plan, or stick to any winning formula, never have… |
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By *_elie LAL OP Woman
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I cast out my imaginary fishing rod from across the room and stare intensely into their eyes while I’m reeling them in, Gets them every time
Do you use a little worm as bait?
I find dangling an unopened condom off the end works best "
Don't forget the latex free type. |
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I don't know. I honestly don't. I'm kind of trying at the minute to flirt and seduce some dad I've got a little crush on, but I'm fucking awful. I think it’s working a bit... but I'm not as smooth as a cucumber when it comes to seducing. I tell terrible jokes and throw in some random dance moves. And maybe a bit of innocent touching to build some tension.  |
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"In a really dorky, waffling kind of way. If I fancy someone I'm more likely to let them see the nerdy side. And send them voice notes. Only close friends or those I fancy get those."
I want a voice note Meli, brighten up my telegram inbox, with your dulcet tones |
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"I don't know. I honestly don't. I'm kind of trying at the minute to flirt and seduce some dad I've got a little crush on, but I'm fucking awful. I think it’s working a bit... but I'm not as smooth as a cucumber when it comes to seducing. I tell terrible jokes and throw in some random dance moves. And maybe a bit of innocent touching to build some tension. "
I hope that's all at the same time. |
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I don't think I've ever _educed anyone. Seduction seems to me to sound a bit sly, almost like you're forcing someone to like you? I'll just settle for mutually falling in love, which we did back in 2004  |
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By *_elie LAL OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't think I've ever _educed anyone. Seduction seems to me to sound a bit sly, almost like you're forcing someone to like you? I'll just settle for mutually falling in love, which we did back in 2004 "
To me seduction is something someone does to get you into the proverbial bed... A stimuli for lust. |
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I've never _educed anyone I wasn't already in a relationship with. Never tried, and if I did I'm sure it would have failed.
With someone who already finds me attractive, it's usually holding their gaze longer than usual, then a slow smile, then a slow nod, then sometimes, though this is gilding the lily, a deliberate, careful, subtle licking of my lips. But all of that would merely evince at best laughter, and at worst disgust, in those who don't already know what I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The offer of cans of Monster / other energy drinks... And the promise of me talking bollocks
This would totally do it for me tbf "
* Stocks up on cans of monster |
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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago
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"Blue Steel....... Sometimes Ferarri or La Tigra. Oh and on a rare special occasion - Magnum."
If the smellies don’t work you buy them an ice cream? I like it: I can do that but I would start with the ice cream, it’s safer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There sure is an Art-form
Many wont know. Nor is it taught to the masses.
Esp now a diff form has taken over and is amongst us Daily.
The smart ass phone. The weak wink. The message. Then go missing and lost,ghost. Ignore. Then the sea of allure yet another pings up.
Intentions = real actions = not just mere words.
This new formed show will go and carry on.
The real Art-form is lost! Because the very people whom kept it alive are no longer here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lick of the lips and a wink 
Wait what were you doing in that video then?
I was winking from the arsehole "
You and your A-Holes of late. On my forum posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been in a pub and caught the eye of a stunning lady who was with someone
I waited until she waited until she was at the bar then walked up behind her , placed my hand on her waist and leaned over to grab a straw.
I made sure my chest gently brushed against her shoulder. Turned to face her smiled and apologised then walked away.
Worked a treat as when I came back from the loo , she left her number on beer mat. True story too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I turn up, open my mouth.
Many hours later, their underwear just falls off.
Exhaustion, a lack of will, maybe an attempt at distraction.
Possibly all of them.
But it works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you seduce your mate/date?
How do you like to be _educed?
1) How do you?
2) how do you?
I'm old fashioned, over dinner with lots of flirting, giggling, touching, eye contact."
i see,i see. A classic style at heart! |
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