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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship?

So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep.

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By *ack688Man  over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I have one person that I feel has become a close friend on here that I talk to very regularly, we have long conversations on the phone about anything and everything, from fab related things to stuff about our lives and families. We have only met in person a couple of times due to distance but will be able to get dinner together in a couple of weeks which I’m looking forward to.

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By *amierebelMan  over a year ago

nae danger.

I have a mate of 11 years on here but we've never actually met however she is freaking awesome genuinely just an amazing laugh it's hard find people with such a good sense of humour and she has it in bundles however its strictly always been a friendship and actually see her as like a little sis (I know bit weird having never met for real)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I met one of my best friends on here years ago. And I've also got a couple of other friends who I'm close to x

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I have one person that I feel has become a close friend on here that I talk to very regularly, we have long conversations on the phone about anything and everything, from fab related things to stuff about our lives and families. We have only met in person a couple of times due to distance but will be able to get dinner together in a couple of weeks which I’m looking forward to. "

Aww that's really lovely! I hope you enjoy spending time with them.

Being able to talk about any and everything really can bring you closer, can't it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

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By *aucasian GhandiMan  over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Few close friends, no reply acquaintances I'm OK with it how it is.....my truth is many I probably woundnt want to be around in person

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman  over a year ago

lancashire

Yes I have made good friends with a few guys I have chatted to from the moment I first joined here, have met them too, due to long distances we don't get to see each other as much as we'd like but always in contact away from Fab..

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By *acktopervMan  over a year ago

Stourport-On-Severn

I have one very close friend on FAB. We first met in 2010 when he was part of a couple, she died earlier on this year, a sad time for us all but devastating to him and in it's own way devastating to me as well.

We talk regularly by phone now and actually celebrate her life more than become teary eyed about it. We laugh and remember all her Kinks........and ours. A true FAB friend you can do that with....................someone you just add as a friend you can't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't have any close friends from Fab yet, but I'm open to it if it feels right.

Outside of fab, I have few good friends but only one best friend. She is just amazing human being.

She is bubbly, loyal,smart, caring and kinky, just the way I like it. We can talk absolute nonsense for hours and still don't get bored of each other. I appreciate she was there for me in my toughest times and I actually love her like my own sister.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I have a couple of good friends I've made through here. There's a couple more I think could be good friends that I'm looking forward to meeting eventually

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By *oco_marsWoman  over a year ago

Stockport

I have a couple of good friends on here, plus someone I've known from another online community for many years over a few different platforms! And I expect I'll always know that person

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By *ocketrocket80Man  over a year ago

Walsall

Ive met and made some good friends on here that I chat to regularly.

I think there are a lot of genuine and friendly people on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't really have any friends, close or otherwise.

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By *ertslady1984Woman  over a year ago

Herts

I met a few people that were cool when I was part of a mf couple a few years ago.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I have a mate of 11 years on here but we've never actually met however she is freaking awesome genuinely just an amazing laugh it's hard find people with such a good sense of humour and she has it in bundles however its strictly always been a friendship and actually see her as like a little sis (I know bit weird having never met for real)"

I don't think that's weird at all, rather lovely to be honest. I don't think you need to have met someone to consider them a friend - one of my closest we online chatted for years before we met. Wherever you find that friendship - it's valid.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I met one of my best friends on here years ago. And I've also got a couple of other friends who I'm close to x"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I did/do/have made a friend, it’s not so out of the ordinary for me to like someone.

But, I think because of the theme of the site, there’s always that, wanting more vibe about it all. Which I no longer ignore, if I fancy a friend, I kinda tell ‘em

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did/do/have made a friend, it’s not so out of the ordinary for me to like someone.

But, I think because of the theme of the site, there’s always that, wanting more vibe about it all. Which I no longer ignore, if I fancy a friend, I kinda tell ‘em "

And anyway, what better way to get with someone for a sexy tumble on a bed than with so robe you think is a friend already?

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine

I'll let you know

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By *r_PinkMan  over a year ago

london stratford

I wish I had a friend.....

but I am PinkyNoMates

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve met a few friends on here. One I was just talking to yesterday and they were saying about not imagining life without us as friends. That’s nice. They have been one of my biggest supports for just about over a year now.

Also there’s one person I have only met once but have known since my very first fab account. And she’s been probably the only thing that keeps me sane on here. A ream gem.

There’s many others I love hanging out with. Some that I’ve recently met and are literally the most beautiful humans I’ve ever interacted with. And others I hope to be able to buy a drink for or some other social activity. Lots of lovely people I’m happy are in my life.

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By *omtom7Man  over a year ago

Tralee

I have so many friends but no real "friend". I'd make a bad friend, I know myself. I'm always here for people and help out financially, emotionally or physically in anyway I can, both for individuals and the community. But I don't keep contact with people, I so easily detach and I'm immensely comfortable in my own company.

So as I said a huge number of acquaintances but I'm not the guy who you'd say was your closest friend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We don't have any close friends on here.

We've tried for years to find people we can trust and really call them friends, but alas, all people want to do is fuck, be fucked or just be wierdos.

We don't bother anymore as it's all just a waste of time. We'll read a few stories but that's about it.

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have made some friends on here. I'm not someone who needs a lot of friends or those who are superficial either in my life.So those I consider to be friends are actual friends.

My closest is someone I chat to daily and has been there for me through a hell of a year. He doesn't judge me or belittle me. He always is there if I need him and that works both ways and he has no issues telling me if he thinks I'm being a twat either I really don't need to tell him on here how much his friendship means to me though as I've told him several times in person.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship?

So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep.

"

I have a couple of close friends on here, yes. Friends are my chosen family and soul connections, so very important to me: something I admire about one of them - his care and authentic love for me, and I for

him. He loves me for me, flaws and all and makes me feel seen.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I didn't expect to make friends when we joined here. I'm not sure what I expected but it definitely wasn't that. Even in the short time we've been on here I would say there are some folks who have become good virtual friends with the potential to be become good real life friends.

J

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship?

So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep.

"

The questions answered in turn

No

Yes

They genuinely care about you.

Their personality.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS  over a year ago

London

Haven't made any friends from here, never really thought about it tbh. I've only ever used it to meet for hookups and I prefer not to know hookups very well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Over the years I've never made actual friends. But there has been several people who have looked out for me/got my back kind of thing. I've found that I care about some people.

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By *iasubTV/TS  over a year ago

Ilkeston

Not from here but in clubs met loads of amazing friends who i keep in touch on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, I have a few friends I've made on here. One I've spoken to everyday for over a year

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By *ansoffateMan  over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I love friendship. A casual acquaintance is someone I know for some kind of reciprocal functional purpose. E.g. business etc. It can be friendly, but it's surface.

Friendship, for me, is a relationship where we can be ourselves with each other. Enjoy sharing time together and appreciating each other. I think I can say there's some friendships forming with people on here.

Choose one to admire - that's mean of you op! She is so open with her thoughts and feelings - whether silly, deep or otherwise - always feels authentic.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you... "

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan  over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it. "

Real friends don't judge I now mine don't no matter what madness I bring to them

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it.

Real friends don't judge I now mine don't no matter what madness I bring to them "

Ah, I'm being liberal with the usage of the word judge - quite often we see judging as being something negative - that connotation that if they do they'll some find part lacking.

I mean judge in terms of - they'll form an opinion of my behaviour at times. Like telling me Meli, get your arse out and have fun.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I have one very close friend on FAB. We first met in 2010 when he was part of a couple, she died earlier on this year, a sad time for us all but devastating to him and in it's own way devastating to me as well.

We talk regularly by phone now and actually celebrate her life more than become teary eyed about it. We laugh and remember all her Kinks........and ours. A true FAB friend you can do that with....................someone you just add as a friend you can't."

I think friendships on Fab can transcend Fab. They become so much more, get under your skin in the best way.

Celebrating her life is a beautiful way of remembering your friend.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me there is a difference between friendship and being a true friend.

I have friends but really they are acquaintances, we may be friends on social media and our lives will entwine at some point.

But real friends, the ones who you don’t even have to ask because they know you well enough there’s an issue I can honestly say maybe 2/3.

I saw a great thing once. It was something along the line of-

We may be friends on social media but my real friends have my phone number

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By *aucasian GhandiMan  over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it.

Real friends don't judge I now mine don't no matter what madness I bring to them

Ah, I'm being liberal with the usage of the word judge - quite often we see judging as being something negative - that connotation that if they do they'll some find part lacking.

I mean judge in terms of - they'll form an opinion of my behaviour at times. Like telling me Meli, get your arse out and have fun. "

I understand the Liberal usage, my experience of friends not judging on the postive or negative side of things, is that they let me get on with things, they won't give me suggestions until I bring something to them, then it becomes very solution focused. That tends to be due to the fact in life I'm taught to be proactive through awareness, it's my responsibility to get out there and explore life and have a postive locus of intrest in my own life

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I have a very small circle of friends both here and in general.

Some of my closest friends, both male and female, are people I've met through here and although most of them are no longer on the site we are still in regular touch and meet up socially.

I have a couples profile with my fab bestie and we are very much on the same page and focus as much on the friendship as we do on the benefits.

We are there for each other through very difficult times and have no secrets at all.

We tell each other how much we value our friendship and I know she feels safe stepping out of her comfort zone with me.

Trust is the biggest aphrodisiac there is.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it.

Real friends don't judge I now mine don't no matter what madness I bring to them

Ah, I'm being liberal with the usage of the word judge - quite often we see judging as being something negative - that connotation that if they do they'll some find part lacking.

I mean judge in terms of - they'll form an opinion of my behaviour at times. Like telling me Meli, get your arse out and have fun.

I understand the Liberal usage, my experience of friends not judging on the postive or negative side of things, is that they let me get on with things, they won't give me suggestions until I bring something to them, then it becomes very solution focused. That tends to be due to the fact in life I'm taught to be proactive through awareness, it's my responsibility to get out there and explore life and have a postive locus of intrest in my own life "

I think we're kind of talking about the same thing... my friends aren't going to off the bat say something, I'm more than able to and happy to get on with things. But if I'm saying "oh hi Bob, I'm feeling a bit low about this", they'll offer their opinion. If I'm being a twat they'll say.

I don't want an echo chamber of a friendship, I like hearing different views of the world, of life. And sometimes it's nice to have that unconditional support. I value that a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship?

So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep.

If you was my friend my life would be complete x

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I don't have any close friends from Fab yet, but I'm open to it if it feels right.

Outside of fab, I have few good friends but only one best friend. She is just amazing human being.

She is bubbly, loyal,smart, caring and kinky, just the way I like it. We can talk absolute nonsense for hours and still don't get bored of each other. I appreciate she was there for me in my toughest times and I actually love her like my own sister."

Friends are the family we choose, definitely and you can read how much you value and love your best friend.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman  over a year ago

kendal

My ex Dom is on here (it isn't where I found him) and despite no longer being in a dynamic,we r really close, we speak every day, meet up regularly for lunch etc. He's the person I go too if I need advice, and it was him who recommended here to me, to explore and find out what I like.

One of my very best mates (since waaaay before I started swinging etc) is also here too.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I did/do/have made a friend, it’s not so out of the ordinary for me to like someone.

But, I think because of the theme of the site, there’s always that, wanting more vibe about it all. Which I no longer ignore, if I fancy a friend, I kinda tell ‘em "

Aww Woody you softie.

Do you think there's always a wanting more vibe about it? I'm not sure.

One of my closest friends on here, we adore each other. Tell each other we love each other because we do. And yeah sure, we flirt from time to time. I'd never fuck up the friendship by entertaining anything more with him though. I think he's a lifelong one.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I have a couple of good friends I've made through here. There's a couple more I think could be good friends that I'm looking forward to meeting eventually "

Potential is a beautiful thing, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's a couple of people on here who I'd definitely class as friends, unfortunately, I have been terrible at keeping in touch though..

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By *aucasian GhandiMan  over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it.

Real friends don't judge I now mine don't no matter what madness I bring to them

Ah, I'm being liberal with the usage of the word judge - quite often we see judging as being something negative - that connotation that if they do they'll some find part lacking.

I mean judge in terms of - they'll form an opinion of my behaviour at times. Like telling me Meli, get your arse out and have fun.

I understand the Liberal usage, my experience of friends not judging on the postive or negative side of things, is that they let me get on with things, they won't give me suggestions until I bring something to them, then it becomes very solution focused. That tends to be due to the fact in life I'm taught to be proactive through awareness, it's my responsibility to get out there and explore life and have a postive locus of intrest in my own life

I think we're kind of talking about the same thing... my friends aren't going to off the bat say something, I'm more than able to and happy to get on with things. But if I'm saying "oh hi Bob, I'm feeling a bit low about this", they'll offer their opinion. If I'm being a twat they'll say.

I don't want an echo chamber of a friendship, I like hearing different views of the world, of life. And sometimes it's nice to have that unconditional support. I value that a lot."

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

I'm more of a lone wolf. I don't really have friend friends. Sometimes that makes me a bit sad. But oh well. Life goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just want Meli to like me- just a little will do.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"It's a beautiful day and I thought - why not celebrate friendship?

So... do you have close friends on here? Are friends important to you? What makes them more than a casual acquaintance? And because I'm in a soft mood, tell me something you like/admire/respect about one of them - whether it's silly or deep.

I have a couple of close friends on here, yes. Friends are my chosen family and soul connections, so very important to me: something I admire about one of them - his care and authentic love for me, and I for

him. He loves me for me, flaws and all and makes me feel seen. "

Aww little star. And you answered the last question which makes me so happy. I hope that love continues flourishing and brings you all the happiness you deserve.

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By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

Less than 5 close friends. I was going to write loads but I’ll just leave it there

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I have a very small circle of friends both here and in general.

Some of my closest friends, both male and female, are people I've met through here and although most of them are no longer on the site we are still in regular touch and meet up socially.

I have a couples profile with my fab bestie and we are very much on the same page and focus as much on the friendship as we do on the benefits.

We are there for each other through very difficult times and have no secrets at all.

We tell each other how much we value our friendship and I know she feels safe stepping out of her comfort zone with me.

Trust is the biggest aphrodisiac there is. "

This is just... in a not patronising way, adorable. I'm not going to say you're lucky because I don't believe in luck when it comes to friendship. Having that trust and level of friendship is beautiful.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"We don't have any close friends on here.

We've tried for years to find people we can trust and really call them friends, but alas, all people want to do is fuck, be fucked or just be wierdos.

We don't bother anymore as it's all just a waste of time. We'll read a few stories but that's about it. "

There's a lot of weirdos on here.

Some of the best people on here are weirdos.

I'm sorry that's been your experience though - it's pretty crap. You shouldn't lose hope though. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The friends I've made are the best thing about fab. I have a couple who I'm particularly close to, can rabbit on about anything and everything with them, from frivolous rubbish to the life-altering serious shit. I love them.

Nell

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

I don't have friends on here, I find the written word too complex to start a friendship.

Away from here, I have some epic friends, some I've been around since we were bumps in our mothers bellies. My two best mates are amazing, they understand I disappear because I can get overwhelmed, but are totally there when the shit hits the fan. And we all send random voice messages saying we love each other, just because.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Close friendships have always been very important to me but most of my friends from the past are in different parts of the world now. Have made a few friends more recently but certainly none I can bare my soul to. None here yet, at least I haven't found anyone I can open up to. Maybe I'm too scared of judgement or too concerned about people's opinions and it can be lonely sometimes, even with people around you...

Those people you can open up to? The best people will tell you when you're being a grade A twunt. They might judge you, roll their eyes occasionally... but they're your friend through it. I think you can find your people on here OP - opening up can be scary but fuck is it worth it. "

Thanks Meli. I appreciate the encouragement and would love to meet such people. So, I'll give it some time and effort and see how things turn out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I have 1 … she’s cool

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a few friends on here. I won't explain each one but between them I have some I can confide in about a variety of things, and they can too in me. Friends that I can spend absolutely hours speaking to on the phone about all sorts of subjects, deep and personal or just plain garbage. Friends that I see in person from time to time regardless of distance. Friends that even though we may not speak for weeks or months at a time can still re ignite that connection like we only spoke yesterday. And my longest standing friend is a little quiet of late but they are very missed. I've always valued them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a few friends on here. I won't explain each one but between them I have some I can confide in about a variety of things, and they can too in me. Friends that I can spend absolutely hours speaking to on the phone about all sorts of subjects, deep and personal or just plain garbage. Friends that I see in person from time to time regardless of distance. Friends that even though we may not speak for weeks or months at a time can still re ignite that connection like we only spoke yesterday. And my longest standing friend is a little quiet of late but they are very missed. I've always valued them. "

Likewise

Always room for one or two more tho

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think i am a difficult person to form a friendship with and hold people at arms length, which comes from a complicated childhood

I am very friendly tho, so i have people to chat with and catch up but very few know the real me.. In fact I'd say two people in my entire life really know 'me' ... I wish it was different, but if it looks like a leopard, it probably is a leopard (is that the saying )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No real friends from here. I thought a couple might be but I don't think I'm capable of making real friendships anymore. *shrugs* cat lady it is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think i am a difficult person to form a friendship with and hold people at arms length, which comes from a complicated childhood

I am very friendly tho, so i have people to chat with and catch up but very few know the real me.. In fact I'd say two people in my entire life really know 'me' ... I wish it was different, but if it looks like a leopard, it probably is a leopard (is that the saying ) "

Very much me too, except for the fluffball plays the leopard role

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By *ildbillkidMan  over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

She greets me with a smile

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

I have really close friends on here who I actually see in real life, not just chat to online.

I’ve had an amazing day out with one today. Seeing another on Saturday and an old Fabber on Sunday.

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No not really close theres folk i like and get on with people iv met and know but i no longer have real friends its much safer to have a barrier there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve been lucky enough to have found two of my best friends on Fab (females) and I know a couple who met off here before so it does happen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a few of friends on here, a couple I met elsewhere amd one I met on here.

Off fab I have a great group of friends that I am close to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have some great friends on here! Some the conversation just died which was a shame but there are one or two great people we talk to all the time

Mr

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

Trust. I've been betrayed a few times by people at work I thought were my friends.

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By *ibi692022Man  over a year ago

Mere

I was fortunate enough to have met someone on here some time ago now, but it was one of those pinch me moments, like wow she's amazing, so beautiful, and this was in a pub as a social before a swing meet.

And from that initial play, we have met a few times, and had some great fun. But our friendship has also become very important to me, she is someone who is always so kind and thoughtful and as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside, and I know I can talk to her about absolutely anything, with no judgement.

So from a swing date I feel I have got so much more.

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By *obilebottomMan  over a year ago

All over


"Trust. I've been betrayed a few times by people at work I thought were my friends."

That I am afraid happens in the workplace a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My best friend I found through fab. She means so much to me. I thought I had other very close friends but I found when I was no longer able to be a use to them they vanished which was sad but she's always been a constant

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

I've never managed to make friends on here, but I have a wonderful circle of close friends offline.

While I don't discuss my sex life with most of them, I have a friend I made on a porn forum and an ex-FWB who I can (and do) talk to about anything and everything.

My ex-FWB is also my safety person and has proven himself almost unshockable over the years, and I love him for his lack of judgement even when he's telling me that I'm choosing the wrong path to walk down.

My porn forum buddy has been an incredible force for good in my life and I love her light. I'd love to be the person she sees in me! We speak almost every day though don't manage to meet up more than every month or two.

Otherwise my closest friends are an ex-colleague from my first job, where we bond over work and family stuff and go for coffee every Sunday, and a girl I met in a ladies loos when we were both the worse for wear. Both of them support me but also challenge me, and they're such beautiful souls it makes me smile just to think about them.

Thanks OP, I'm going to message them now to tell them I love them

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes. A couple of them have made it through my barriers and are firmly rooted in my life

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By *oyahandrussCouple  over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Yes have a few friends which is really great.Would love to make more.

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"No real friends from here. I thought a couple might be but I don't think I'm capable of making real friendships anymore. *shrugs* cat lady it is "

Nah Scarlet, you've got too much life in you to be a cat lady just yet. I think you are. Even if you don't realise that at the moment.

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m Billy no-mates.

It’s awesome

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"I’m Billy no-mates.

It’s awesome "

As long as you're

a) happy with that

And

b) keep writing delightful threads that allow me a good outlet for my erotica, that's absolutely fine.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple  over a year ago

Staffordshire

We have a handful of close friends here.

One in particular we speak to very often

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I’m Billy no-mates.

It’s awesome

As long as you're

a) happy with that

And

b) keep writing delightful threads that allow me a good outlet for my erotica, that's absolutely fine. "

Oh you know I always LOVE your beautifully worded and incredibly arousing replies

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By *eli OP   Woman  over a year ago

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"We have a handful of close friends here.

One in particular we speak to very often "

That person is very lucky to have your wisdom filling their box so frequently.

Kind of envious but also love this for you.

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By *hrek101Man  over a year ago

Herts

My bestie is on here cause she's a naughty little minx. I love her to pieces cause she is the sweetest, kindest person I have ever met. We talk every day about random crap but I would miss it if we didn't.

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