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To be a Gentleman..
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By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago
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Pulling this from what was brought up in another discussion..
How do you define what a gentleman is?
Is there a code/rulebook to follow?
what attitudes, actions and behaviours brings you to think of that person as such?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treats me like a lady (I am!) In public.
Fucks me like a whore in private.
Hardworking.
Smells nice!
Stands up for others.
Intelligent.
Respectful but not a push over.
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"Pulling this from what was brought up in another discussion..
How do you define what a gentleman is?
Is there a code/rulebook to follow?
what attitudes, actions and behaviours brings you to think of that person as such?
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Manners, integrity, respect, consideration, support, chivalry, charm, honesty and loyalty
And asking nicely if you can blow your cocksnot up their fartpipe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.
Mrs "
And get derided as a white knight for your trouble…. |
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Everything mentioned above with the caveat that a gentleman doesn't have to tell anyone that he is one.
In doing so he is obviously presenting a different image and as such needs to reinforce in people's minds that he is indeed a gentleman rather than allow his actions to speak for themselves.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Pulling this from what was brought up in another discussion..
How do you define what a gentleman is?
Is there a code/rulebook to follow?
what attitudes, actions and behaviours brings you to think of that person as such?
Manners, integrity, respect, consideration, support, chivalry, charm, honesty and loyalty
And asking nicely if you can blow your cocksnot up their fartpipe."
That's hot  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Everything mentioned above with the caveat that a gentleman doesn't have to tell anyone that he is one.
In doing so he is obviously presenting a different image and as such needs to reinforce in people's minds that he is indeed a gentleman rather than allow his actions to speak for themselves.
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That's true |
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A list of things a man should be doesn't make them a gentleman. I've seen my grandad covered in cow poo and god knows what else and he had manners and kindness etc. But I doubt anyone would have said he was gentleman 
So to me I guess it means someone with old fashioned manners and isn't a scruff bag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.
Mrs
And get derided as a white knight for your trouble….
You've read yesterday's thread  "
I came to this conclusion long before yesterday. Long before I joined fab, which is @10 years ago |
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How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).
Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?
Yes, I am that person with XX chromosomes who doesn't want anyone (gender irrelevant) to open doors, bring my coat, pull out a chair or anything else, unless they'd equally do it for one of their male amigos.
But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.
Mrs
And get derided as a white knight for your trouble…."
Not by those that matter x |
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"How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).
Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?
Yes, I am that person with XX chromosomes who doesn't want anyone (gender irrelevant) to open doors, bring my coat, pull out a chair or anything else, unless they'd equally do it for one of their male amigos.
But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc). "
But gentleman do do it regardless of the gender |
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"How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).
Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?
Yes, I am that person with XX chromosomes who doesn't want anyone (gender irrelevant) to open doors, bring my coat, pull out a chair or anything else, unless they'd equally do it for one of their male amigos.
But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc). "
I was raised to be like this to everyone.
Also regardless to gender or age. |
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"How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).
Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?
Yes, I am that person with XX chromosomes who doesn't want anyone (gender irrelevant) to open doors, bring my coat, pull out a chair or anything else, unless they'd equally do it for one of their male amigos.
But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc).
I was raised to be like this to everyone.
Also regardless to gender or age."
Good stuff. I've never seen a guy offer to pull their mate's chair out at dinner, unless it's to pull a practical joke. Nor help with coats, unless it's their elderly father or something.
Basically, I prefer to do things for myself and if I really need help, e.g. move something in a café because my wheelchair won't fit, then I'll ask someone, politely  |
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A barrow boy or a rag n' bone man can be a gentleman.
Being a gentleman is a matter of choice. Politeness, civility, patience and kindness above all else.
A man will hold back his tears for the sake of bravado; a gentleman isn't afraid to cry.
Is it about being a differentiator? A man assumes he knows where the clitoris is; a gentleman isn't ashamed to ask.
A gentleman will give with no expectation of anything in return. For example: he will carefully hold back her perfectly coiffured hair as she throws up following a night of over-indulgence.
He may even instinctively drop to the floor to locate her missing earring.
There is no right or wrong answer. On this Fab fora only the women can (mostly) gauge which one of us is a Gentleman by the way we conduct ourselves on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clean, smells nice and well dressed.
Presentable - beard trimmed or clean shaven depending on preference. Hair styled nicely.
Talks without swearing every other word (I talk without swearing unless around friends , was a strict upbringing)
Chivalrous- opens doors for you, pulls chair out for you etc.
The biggest one by far - treats everyone with respect and how the gentlemen would like to be treated .
There’s probably more to it but that’s what I think a gentleman is.
Please don’t shoot me for my opinion!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treats me like a lady (I am!) In public.
Fucks me like a whore in private.
Hardworking.
Smells nice!
Stands up for others.
Intelligent.
Respectful but not a push over.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.
And never wears brown shoes after 6pm what about boots"
The only boots that a gentleman should wear are white, black or green. White for cricket, black for riding or green wellies.
Bess x
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"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.
And never wears brown shoes after 6pm what about boots
The only boots that a gentleman should wear are white, black or green. White for cricket, black for riding or green wellies.
Bess x
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lol so what we are supposed to believe here that the only Gentleman in existence here are British???
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"A gentleman just is. There are different types of gentlemen but when you meet one you just know
Em x"
I agree they didn't have to tell any one He his but when others describe him they fescribr him as a gentlr6 |
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