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Are you a group fun person or not?
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I have no idea. I think I'd probably overthink the whole thing and end up sad while going through the motions, even if I was enjoying myself. Then take myself off alone and cry somewhere.
I don't know. |
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I’ve enjoyed it a lot in the past. But I think I’m happy leaving it there - in my past.
Threesomes in the future, yes please. Foursomes maybe. Bigger groups? I feel I’ve done enough of that for now. |
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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago
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Love group fun especially when everyone is getting into the swing of things. Sometimes it's fun to just step back from the fun and just take in the sights and sounds of people sucking, licking and fucking. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Scrabble, Monopoly or Dungeons & Dragons etc? Absolutely. I don't like the poorly contained competitive streak that's unleashed but fuck it.
In a sexual sense? No. I've adored the ffms I've had (never had a mmf or any version of that). I've couple swapped before but that's been separate rooms.
I don't think I'm a group sex sort of person. Probably because I'm not a swinger.  Maybe one day I'll dip my toe into it. |
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Yes we both do. But in our experience a lot does depend of the nature of the folk involved, the atmosphere and vibe. Sometimes there is just an electric free flowing energy and chemistry. But sometimes its just a bit lacking or feels a forced or a bit people going just through the motions and trying to look the part. |
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By *mily36C OP Woman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Love group fun especially when everyone is getting into the swing of things. Sometimes it's fun to just step back from the fun and just take in the sights and sounds of people sucking, licking and fucking."
...sounds like the ultimate in people watching  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do enjoy threesomes/foursomes but anymore than that I think I’d get really overwhelmed with too much going on. Like others have already said, it’s about who’s involved. Some are more relaxed and free flowing than others. |
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"Scrabble, Monopoly or Dungeons & Dragons etc? Absolutely. I don't like the poorly contained competitive streak that's unleashed but fuck it.
In a sexual sense? No. I've adored the ffms I've had (never had a mmf or any version of that). I've couple swapped before but that's been separate rooms.
I don't think I'm a group sex sort of person. Probably because I'm not a swinger. Maybe one day I'll dip my toe into it."
 how about an ffm sometime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out and out orgy is stuff of legends and I've been fortunate to find myself in the middle of one quite some time ago - my lasting memory of it was just how surreal it felt at the time.
We've done a sixsome with a couple and two separate singles which was a really cool number and vibe.
Foursome couple swap is very good but rare to find mutual availablity.
Threesomes are just the most amazing and intimate thing ever. Adding that one extra person ramps up the experience exponentially  |
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Well I am kind of selfish when it comes to group fun… I like to be “the only princess at the party”
I tend to sit at the edges when ever there are other girl girls of trans girls involved… probably too scared of treading on people’s fun, I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know in honesty - i think if i didn't know anyone and it was spontaneous and everyone was involved then i might be
But if i was with someone i knew, I'd be worried about upsetting them if i appeared to be enjoying myself too much or letting go.. I wonder if i might be jealous of them for exactly the same reasons haha
... Maybe I'm a 1:1 kinda girl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a good vibe crowd and I can have a real good time with good people around me, and for that reason I always assumed I’d be having a blast involved in some of that group sex we’ve all thought about.
But I’m also one of those people when I get on with someone a lot, I like to hide in a corner of the pub and have their undecided attention to really get to know them, a bit like being alone in a bedroom with a very sexy girl and I’m all hers and she’s all mine. 
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't know in honesty - i think if i didn't know anyone and it was spontaneous and everyone was involved then i might be
But if i was with someone i knew, I'd be worried about upsetting them if i appeared to be enjoying myself too much or letting go.. I wonder if i might be jealous of them for exactly the same reasons haha
... Maybe I'm a 1:1 kinda girl "
That's what I'd worry about, and then overthink it  |
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"Out and out orgy is stuff of legends and I've been fortunate to find myself in the middle of one quite some time ago - my lasting memory of it was just how surreal it felt at the time.
We've done a sixsome with a couple and two separate singles which was a really cool number and vibe.
Foursome couple swap is very good but rare to find mutual availablity.
Threesomes are just the most amazing and intimate thing ever. Adding that one extra person ramps up the experience exponentially "
Totally, my 20s were a huge sexual awakening. I attended a number of orgies, it felt less surreal every time but still huge fun. Then the scene seemed to dry up as hookup apps became the norm. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Scrabble, Monopoly or Dungeons & Dragons etc? Absolutely. I don't like the poorly contained competitive streak that's unleashed but fuck it.
In a sexual sense? No. I've adored the ffms I've had (never had a mmf or any version of that). I've couple swapped before but that's been separate rooms.
I don't think I'm a group sex sort of person. Probably because I'm not a swinger. Maybe one day I'll dip my toe into it.
how about an ffm sometime "
Smooth. I like it. |
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"Scrabble, Monopoly or Dungeons & Dragons etc? Absolutely. I don't like the poorly contained competitive streak that's unleashed but fuck it.
In a sexual sense? No. I've adored the ffms I've had (never had a mmf or any version of that). I've couple swapped before but that's been separate rooms.
I don't think I'm a group sex sort of person. Probably because I'm not a swinger. Maybe one day I'll dip my toe into it.
how about an ffm sometime
Smooth. I like it."
I’m very smooth! |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
In my 20s and early 30s groups were the big thing, what was known as the swinging 60s.
As the years rolled by the group thing faded away almost to almost nothing and that is where I am now, not interested in groups, hence my avoidance of clubs. |
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"It depends on the group and it depends on the fun. "
It’s one of those things where the concept might be better than the reality. Especially as I can be a bit backwards at putting myself forwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know in honesty - i think if i didn't know anyone and it was spontaneous and everyone was involved then i might be
But if i was with someone i knew, I'd be worried about upsetting them if i appeared to be enjoying myself too much or letting go.. I wonder if i might be jealous of them for exactly the same reasons haha
... Maybe I'm a 1:1 kinda girl
That's what I'd worry about, and then overthink it "
I'm an over thinker which is why my multiple parties are me and my sex toys in a dark bedroom
There was only one time where my wommie judged me for not being able to O after 30 mins (it may have been longer haha) and it promptly died |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve enjoyed it in the past. These days I’m not in the right kinda headspace for it. One on one, threesomes or 4 but that’s about it. It kinda loses any kind of intimacy and the kind of connection I want in my sexual partners these days |
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I vary in my interest levels. If the 10,20,39,40 most attractive people to me want group action, then definitely 100%. But it's easier to arrange sex with 1 other, than trying to get the right mix of people and interests together |
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"There was only one time where my wommie judged me for not being able to O after 30 mins (it may have been longer haha) and it promptly died"
Nothing worse than being let down by an inanimate object. |
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No, definitely not.
At a party once there was a woman bent over on the bed taking everyone and anyone, all bear back. Each to their own, it’s their life and it’s not for me to start preaching but it put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it happens organically then it can be the most sensual erotic experiences ever. Only in a club setting though. I feel I have dual personalities, one I save for a club and the more reserved me outside of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know in honesty - i think if i didn't know anyone and it was spontaneous and everyone was involved then i might be
But if i was with someone i knew, I'd be worried about upsetting them if i appeared to be enjoying myself too much or letting go.. I wonder if i might be jealous of them for exactly the same reasons haha
... Maybe I'm a 1:1 kinda girl
That's what I'd worry about, and then overthink it
I'm an over thinker which is why my multiple parties are me and my sex toys in a dark bedroom
There was only one time where my wommie judged me for not being able to O after 30 mins (it may have been longer haha) and it promptly died"
Bad Bitch felt alot like that to start with. It depends on the partner and the additional peoples dynamic. BB doesn't revel in seeing me with someone else until she is content with their agenda so intimate foursomes need to develop before she is happy for me to be actively intimate. I'm happy to move at her pace so it's all gravy.
In a group dynamic where it becomes more about the sex and hedonism the green eyes subside alot more and it becomes more about exploring the possibilities and broadening your horizons.
For the record if BB isn't thoroughly enjoying herself in our MMFs the guys getting shown the other side of the door as he's not doing it right |
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