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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "lets find out shall we? | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always
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"It depends " On what? I want proper answers and explanations! | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "Yes I change my thought process and pretend I'm laying on the beach with sun shining and the sound of waves | |||
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"It depends On what? I want proper answers and explanations! " Lots different factors | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "you stop, easy as that  | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always
lets find out shall we?
I’ve just realised who you are "long overdue dont you think? | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*." What like in a “ok you can cum now” kinda way? | |||
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"It depends On what? I want proper answers and explanations! " yes most definitely can stop myself from coming by changing position also slowing down x | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always
Yes I change my thought process and pretend I'm laying on the beach with sun shining and the sound of waves "Do you actually though? Does it really work thinking of something else? | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*." You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. | |||
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"For me at least, there’s a point wherein when reached, there is no return so to speak. By this I imply that I can feel the orgasm coming a few seconds prior and even if I were to immediately desist from whatever act that may be precipitating it, it would still be too late to stop the ejaculatory eruption." Do you always know just before you get to that point though? | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. What like in a “ok you can cum now” kinda way? " I'm trying to work out how I can phrase this politely and not do my usual high libido waffle. Erm, sort of. He has enough control that he asked me to say when I wanted him to early on and then it happened when said. Exactly at that point. I'm deliberately making it sound quite sterile. | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "Nora, can you ask the people with Willie's what happens if they laugh or sneeze as they ejaculate? Does it stop go stop go | |||
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"Additionally, I know that many men enjoy the act of edging but it isn’t for me; Nay, I want to spray my dirty waters out into the world! "I’d be kicking and screaming if someone tried that with me | |||
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"I've a friend who used to do times tables in his mind if he was trying not to. I'm not sure how well it worked though "12x12 =142  | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it." Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. | |||
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"Sometimes if I take my mind away from what I'm doing but does not always work. I'd rather just let the first one go have a 10 min chat or play and then get back to it "Some people are a one time only though. Can most men go again do you think? | |||
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"For me at least, there’s a point wherein when reached, there is no return so to speak. By this I imply that I can feel the orgasm coming a few seconds prior and even if I were to immediately desist from whatever act that may be precipitating it, it would still be too late to stop the ejaculatory eruption. Do you always know just before you get to that point though?" A good question. Certainly I couldn’t put a time on it as it varies greatly but there is prior warning in effect, as experienced by the sensation of a ‘build up’ of energy centred around the loin region. It’s most exquisite indeed  | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. " I can't control it, nor do I want to. But I don't think I could if I wanted to. So I haven't tried. | |||
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"These type of questions should be saved for Manchester social so you can get a demonstration. Not this weekend though I’m busy. If I use my mind anymore objects might start levitating. " I won’t be there | |||
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"I bloody love your random questions "Haha. I’m very inquisitive | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*." I am very much here in a pervy capacity.. Sorry not sorry. This has just reminded me of someone I dated years ago who did actually do a countdown. I actually remember finding it really sexy. | |||
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"There was a time where I couldn't cum at all, could go for ages, now if F looks at me I've pretty much already came "But I can control by slowing down or stopping sometimes I get the twitch as if I've cum but without ejaculating and then that means I can carry on as long as necessary | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. " You tell him Meli. They are! | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. I can't control it, nor do I want to. But I don't think I could if I wanted to. So I haven't tried." Thank you. 
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"Yes. I go and make a nice cuppa" Haha. Bet that pleases your partner | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. I am very much here in a pervy capacity.. Sorry not sorry. This has just reminded me of someone I dated years ago who did actually do a countdown. I actually remember finding it really sexy. " So am I really (we're really quite similar with some things!) but I also really want to read more men so this is my last post. It is sexy. Ridiculously so. I also like men whose orgasm catches them by surprise and they utter an 'Oh fuck, I'm going to come'. Or men where they're really into you and they can't hold back and just embrace it. I think I just love men coming. In a really big way. | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. I am very much here in a pervy capacity.. Sorry not sorry. This has just reminded me of someone I dated years ago who did actually do a countdown. I actually remember finding it really sexy. So am I really (we're really quite similar with some things!) but I also really want to read more men so this is my last post. It is sexy. Ridiculously so. I also like men whose orgasm catches them by surprise and they utter an 'Oh fuck, I'm going to come'. Or men where they're really into you and they can't hold back and just embrace it. I think I just love men coming. In a really big way." I do too. I love it | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. I can't control it, nor do I want to. But I don't think I could if I wanted to. So I haven't tried." Could you please try and report back? Just for me | |||
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"I had a conversation with a porn star about this many years ago. He was telling me that he could delay as long as needed, and also come on command. I didn't believe him so I put it to the test...it was true "Maybe lots of sexual experience helps. I suppose it could do. | |||
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"You can to a degree, especially with practice. I think it's to do with clenching the kegels. I can get myself to the edge and stop mutilple times. Did this on and off for 8 days once." I don’t have that kind of willpower | |||
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"Like with anything, there are always exceptions to the rule. There are no hard and fast rules but more so mind and body control. It’s very hard to control something your body naturally wants to do but practice during the act coupled with subconsciously telling yourself “no don’t cum” or thinking of something will help take your mind off. Likewise there are women you hardly have to touch or lick to send the flood gates opening, and others you have to go to town on and pull out all the tricks. Practice and control is everything. " True. This is why I was interested as people really are so different and it’s nice to hear different views etc | |||
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"I had a conversation with a porn star about this many years ago. He was telling me that he could delay as long as needed, and also come on command. I didn't believe him so I put it to the test...it was true
Maybe lots of sexual experience helps. I suppose it could do. "Lots of getting shouted at by directors probably helped too
I was really quite impressed...he told me to count down from 3 to one whenever I felt like it, and he came as I got to 1! | |||
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"I had a conversation with a porn star about this many years ago. He was telling me that he could delay as long as needed, and also come on command. I didn't believe him so I put it to the test...it was true
Maybe lots of sexual experience helps. I suppose it could do.
Lots of getting shouted at by directors probably helped too
I was really quite impressed...he told me to count down from 3 to one whenever I felt like it, and he came as I got to 1!"That is impressive! I’ve met someone who can make himself cum without any touching. It’s amazing to watch. | |||
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"Sometimes if I take my mind away from what I'm doing but does not always work. I'd rather just let the first one go have a 10 min chat or play and then get back to it
Some people are a one time only though. Can most men go again do you think?"Not all could I think but there is stuff out there that would help them. I think first time with a new person if you where with them all night it would be a lot more than twice | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. I can't control it, nor do I want to. But I don't think I could if I wanted to. So I haven't tried. Could you please try and report back? Just for me "I will give it my best shot. Eventually. | |||
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"Sometimes if I take my mind away from what I'm doing but does not always work. I'd rather just let the first one go have a 10 min chat or play and then get back to it
Some people are a one time only though. Can most men go again do you think?
Not all could I think but there is stuff out there that would help them. I think first time with a new person if you where with them all night it would be a lot more than twice "Do you think it’s easier to go again if you cum quickly the first time. Like easier than if you’ve gone for an hour or so then want to go again? | |||
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"I'm not here in a pervy capacity at all. I didn't know until very recently that some men can actually come... on demand. To the point you can almost count them in. Not actually count them down because that'd be weird. But my mind was *blown*. You wait until they play the Countdown music as they do it. Ha! I've missed your wit. I might do that next time. But JP, you've not answered Nora's questions. They're important. I can't control it, nor do I want to. But I don't think I could if I wanted to. So I haven't tried. Could you please try and report back? Just for me
I will give it my best shot.
Eventually." I see what you did there. And Thankyou. I shall await the results | |||
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"Actually OP, you seem to have a pretty good handle on this. Yes, on occasion it can be possible to have some control over when we cum. Sometimes we're able to prolong it - but it comes after a lot of practice. Yes, it depends on who you're with, what you're doing - even a change of position can make a difference. Some positions can enhance things and make us cum faster. Like a lot of things, communication is very important. For example, you could be riding me hard and doing such a fine job that I might need to ask you to pause for a moment, to let the sensation disperse a little before letting you carry on - or say nothing and having a little erruption before I really wanted to" Thanks. This is the kind of thing I was wondering about. | |||
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"I am pretty good at controlling it. I think that is more to deal with practice. I think it's different maybe because I'm circumsised. If the woman is really wet after an hour or so it's not as sensitive. Upside is you can fuck for ages. Usually I stop for a bit then the sensitivity comes back and because I have held off for so long the orgasm is very intense" Ah never thought of that. That being circumcised could make a difference. I’ve actually never been with anyone who is circumcised so have no idea there. | |||
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"I’ve heard also that if you stop yourself too many times it can actually make it difficult to actually cum at all in the end. Is this true?" Not that I’m aware of, but that’s just me. Tantric sex is pleasurable because when when can hold and then release… well. | |||
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"I am pretty good at controlling it. I think that is more to deal with practice. I think it's different maybe because I'm circumsised. If the woman is really wet after an hour or so it's not as sensitive. Upside is you can fuck for ages. Usually I stop for a bit then the sensitivity comes back and because I have held off for so long the orgasm is very intense Ah never thought of that. That being circumcised could make a difference. I’ve actually never been with anyone who is circumcised so have no idea there. " I would be happy to provide you with such an experience - purely for research purposes of course | |||
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"I am pretty good at controlling it. I think that is more to deal with practice. I think it's different maybe because I'm circumsised. If the woman is really wet after an hour or so it's not as sensitive. Upside is you can fuck for ages. Usually I stop for a bit then the sensitivity comes back and because I have held off for so long the orgasm is very intense Ah never thought of that. That being circumcised could make a difference. I’ve actually never been with anyone who is circumcised so have no idea there. " Lol, I've never not been circumsised just feedback I've had on how it was different but that could also just be my idocincracies | |||
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"I am pretty good at controlling it. I think that is more to deal with practice. I think it's different maybe because I'm circumsised. If the woman is really wet after an hour or so it's not as sensitive. Upside is you can fuck for ages. Usually I stop for a bit then the sensitivity comes back and because I have held off for so long the orgasm is very intense Ah never thought of that. That being circumcised could make a difference. I’ve actually never been with anyone who is circumcised so have no idea there. Lol, I've never not been circumsised just feedback I've had on how it was different but that could also just be my idocincracies " It’s probably not. I have heard similar before. | |||
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"Sometimes if I take my mind away from what I'm doing but does not always work. I'd rather just let the first one go have a 10 min chat or play and then get back to it
Some people are a one time only though. Can most men go again do you think?
Not all could I think but there is stuff out there that would help them. I think first time with a new person if you where with them all night it would be a lot more than twice
Do you think it’s easier to go again if you cum quickly the first time. Like easier than if you’ve gone for an hour or so then want to go again?"Maybe bur only if she has cum at least once first or you will feel a bit of a failure till your ready to go again. As I said a new person I don't see it being difficult to go loads that night as you won't won't to keep your hands off them | |||
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"I am pretty good at controlling it. I think that is more to deal with practice. I think it's different maybe because I'm circumsised. If the woman is really wet after an hour or so it's not as sensitive. Upside is you can fuck for ages. Usually I stop for a bit then the sensitivity comes back and because I have held off for so long the orgasm is very intense Ah never thought of that. That being circumcised could make a difference. I’ve actually never been with anyone who is circumcised so have no idea there. I would be happy to provide you with such an experience - purely for research purposes of course "Haha. Just too kind | |||
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"I am pretty good at controlling it. I think that is more to deal with practice. I think it's different maybe because I'm circumsised. If the woman is really wet after an hour or so it's not as sensitive. Upside is you can fuck for ages. Usually I stop for a bit then the sensitivity comes back and because I have held off for so long the orgasm is very intense" True. As we all know men and women are different when it comes to sex, a man needs more in order to get to the point where he understands himself and knows his triggers in order to control his ability to cum. | |||
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"I can mostly control it and think it's down to watching the German channels on old skool sky when I was a teen. I love pleasing the person I'm having sex with and also love the feeling of the intimacy. I make myself last longer to prolong these feelings but it means I need a partner who can have multiple penetrative orgasms. I sort of think ”you're not cumming now” and the feeling goes away for a bit. When I'm ready I sort of feel myself pushing the cum out of me and it happens. I can't do a countdown though. Sometimes I do get mega excited and can't help myself but this is very rare and usually in doggy style due to the friction. Plus the view. I've also never cum from a blowjob " Thanks for commenting. Another interesting response x | |||
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"Nora, personally I find its easier or more difficult to control when there is a sexual chemistry or not. " So easier if it’s a wham bam one off or easier if there’s chemistry? | |||
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"Tie a knot at the end, you need to get it right upto the pubes though or it end up like the bubble you get when you stand on a hose. The mr " | |||
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"Surely no one can pull back once they reach the vinegar strokes/billy mill roundabout " I think as someone said above there apparently is a point where it’s impossible | |||
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"… Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "Okay, so Compy’s curious and Nora’s intrigued. Got it. Basic question first. Can I control when I cum? No. Not really. Not control. Influence, maybe? Yes. Sometimes. Not all the time. (And I’m never sure whether to write cum or come. I think I prefer come. But I’m going with cum because that’s how you put it in the question …) I’m pretty sure that slowing it, or holding back, should be a mind thing. It really should. But I’ve always gone with changing the physical instead. Ever since I was a teenager enjoying my first fumbling fucks. If we’re fucking and it feels great (and good god, it always feels great) and I start to feel an orgasm building, I need to make a conscious choice. Do I succumb to it, enjoy the moment, and let it happen? Or do I change things up - delay tactics? Now, sometimes I’m too far gone. My conscious brain is out the window because I’m lost in the moment and the feeling. But when I’m present, and I’m thinking … I’ll slow down. Or change rhythm. Or decide it’s time to change position. Maybe even pull out and spend some time going down on you. Anything to just make a change. That’s enough to put me back to square one, to start building up all over again. Sometimes I don’t want to slow it down. Sometimes it’s just time to cum. As for positions, feelings, moments … there’s no magic combo that’s guaranteed to make me cum or not cum. Every time with every person is different. But whatever’s happening on my end of things … you’ll know about it. I’m not quiet or shy about letting you know. | |||
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"If she’s an 8 or above then I can’t control it, anything below then she gets what she’s given "I’ll take what I’m given then. No bum love though Rex. Not even by accident | |||
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"… Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always
Okay, so Compy’s curious and Nora’s intrigued. Got it.
Basic question first. Can I control when I cum? No. Not really. Not control. Influence, maybe? Yes. Sometimes. Not all the time.
(And I’m never sure whether to write cum or come. I think I prefer come. But I’m going with cum because that’s how you put it in the question …)
I’m pretty sure that slowing it, or holding back, should be a mind thing. It really should. But I’ve always gone with changing the physical instead. Ever since I was a teenager enjoying my first fumbling fucks.
If we’re fucking and it feels great (and good god, it always feels great) and I start to feel an orgasm building, I need to make a conscious choice. Do I succumb to it, enjoy the moment, and let it happen? Or do I change things up - delay tactics?
Now, sometimes I’m too far gone. My conscious brain is out the window because I’m lost in the moment and the feeling.
But when I’m present, and I’m thinking … I’ll slow down. Or change rhythm. Or decide it’s time to change position. Maybe even pull out and spend some time going down on you. Anything to just make a change. That’s enough to put me back to square one, to start building up all over again.
Sometimes I don’t want to slow it down. Sometimes it’s just time to cum.
As for positions, feelings, moments … there’s no magic combo that’s guaranteed to make me cum or not cum. Every time with every person is different. But whatever’s happening on my end of things … you’ll know about it. I’m not quiet or shy about letting you know."Thank you. Perfect answer | |||
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"I can mostly control it and think it's down to watching the German channels on old skool sky when I was a teen. I love pleasing the person I'm having sex with and also love the feeling of the intimacy. I make myself last longer to prolong these feelings but it means I need a partner who can have multiple penetrative orgasms. I sort of think ”you're not cumming now” and the feeling goes away for a bit. When I'm ready I sort of feel myself pushing the cum out of me and it happens. I can't do a countdown though. Sometimes I do get mega excited and can't help myself but this is very rare and usually in doggy style due to the friction. Plus the view. I've also never cum from a blowjob Thanks for commenting. Another interesting response x" I concur. When with someone I really connect with I love the kissing and intimacy so I do everything I can to make it last as long as possible. I also rarely cum from a bj.i can fuck for hours then something just clicks usually her getting really excited and cumming or sometimes just a super passionate snog. I usually have to be kissing to cum hence not so much with bjs I think. | |||
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"I can mostly control it and think it's down to watching the German channels on old skool sky when I was a teen. I love pleasing the person I'm having sex with and also love the feeling of the intimacy. I make myself last longer to prolong these feelings but it means I need a partner who can have multiple penetrative orgasms. I sort of think ”you're not cumming now” and the feeling goes away for a bit. When I'm ready I sort of feel myself pushing the cum out of me and it happens. I can't do a countdown though. Sometimes I do get mega excited and can't help myself but this is very rare and usually in doggy style due to the friction. Plus the view. I've also never cum from a blowjob Thanks for commenting. Another interesting response x I concur. When with someone I really connect with I love the kissing and intimacy so I do everything I can to make it last as long as possible. I also rarely cum from a bj.i can fuck for hours then something just clicks usually her getting really excited and cumming or sometimes just a super passionate snog. I usually have to be kissing to cum hence not so much with bjs I think. " Kissing cumming and eye contact is the best altogether | |||
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"I've a friend who used to do times tables in his mind if he was trying not to. I'm not sure how well it worked though 12x12 =142 "12 x 12 = 144.... | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "1) if we don't wanna cum yet, we gotta stop 2)think about Margerat Thatcher 3) Only if we catch it quick enough. You get kind of a boiling feeling in your balls, so we use that as a sign 4) Mixture of mental and physical. I can easily just slow down as I can only cum if I'm pounding 5) I can cum quicker if I have a good mental and emotional connection. If I don't have those, I last ages. Not built for quickies | |||
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"I can mostly control it and think it's down to watching the German channels on old skool sky when I was a teen. I love pleasing the person I'm having sex with and also love the feeling of the intimacy. I make myself last longer to prolong these feelings but it means I need a partner who can have multiple penetrative orgasms. I sort of think ”you're not cumming now” and the feeling goes away for a bit. When I'm ready I sort of feel myself pushing the cum out of me and it happens. I can't do a countdown though. Sometimes I do get mega excited and can't help myself but this is very rare and usually in doggy style due to the friction. Plus the view. I've also never cum from a blowjob Thanks for commenting. Another interesting response x I concur. When with someone I really connect with I love the kissing and intimacy so I do everything I can to make it last as long as possible. I also rarely cum from a bj.i can fuck for hours then something just clicks usually her getting really excited and cumming or sometimes just a super passionate snog. I usually have to be kissing to cum hence not so much with bjs I think. Kissing cumming and eye contact is the best altogether "Stop it please you'll make me cum | |||
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"Imagine if you will a long session of all that entails, say three minutes, the first thirty seconds all that’s going on in the guys head is as follows 1) wait what? I can’t believe I’m doing this, look how fit she is The next 60 seconds is 2) how did I get here, Jesus she’s going to think I’m shit if I come now, I need to make her think I’m Jesus, I know think of something else Did you know it’s illegal in Switzerland to own one Guinea pig as they are social creatures and aren’t allowed to be left alone (this is a whole fab forum post in its own, I must post that later) The next 90 seconds are a combination of Fuck I’m doing well here Why are my socks still on Wait she’s smiling, has she come ? Have I come? If Guinea pigs aren’t allowed to be on their own why are we, isn’t that systematic abuse at a state level, why isn’t this asked on question time ……. Oh Fiona Bruce And that’s it all done, now I can’t tell you ladies if you have reached orgasm by then because I’m too concerned with what’s gone through my head, long story short, to delay, invent existential crisis, it adds a good thirty seconds to your repertoire, thank me later " | |||
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"It depends On what? I want proper answers and explanations! yes most definitely can stop myself from coming by changing position also slowing down x" Same here. Have to be quick though or......pow!  | |||
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"It depends On what? I want proper answers and explanations! yes most definitely can stop myself from coming by changing position also slowing down x Same here. Have to be quick though or......pow! "Does that pow come with a little growl? | |||
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"I can mostly control it and think it's down to watching the German channels on old skool sky when I was a teen. I love pleasing the person I'm having sex with and also love the feeling of the intimacy. I make myself last longer to prolong these feelings but it means I need a partner who can have multiple penetrative orgasms. I sort of think ”you're not cumming now” and the feeling goes away for a bit. When I'm ready I sort of feel myself pushing the cum out of me and it happens. I can't do a countdown though. Sometimes I do get mega excited and can't help myself but this is very rare and usually in doggy style due to the friction. Plus the view. I've also never cum from a blowjob Thanks for commenting. Another interesting response x I concur. When with someone I really connect with I love the kissing and intimacy so I do everything I can to make it last as long as possible. I also rarely cum from a bj.i can fuck for hours then something just clicks usually her getting really excited and cumming or sometimes just a super passionate snog. I usually have to be kissing to cum hence not so much with bjs I think. Kissing cumming and eye contact is the best altogether
Stop it please you'll make me cum "Can you try and stop it please and let us know how you got on | |||
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"Years ago there was a comedy show called Hale & Pace, one of the characters tried to stop himself from cuming by thinking of the most boring thing possible and went "Arsenal, Arsenal, George Graham, Arsenal". That might have worked with the old boring boring Arsenal, but the current young thrusting exciting Arsenal team are more likely to make you go up and over like a pan of milk." Haha I remember hale and pace | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always
I would say it's a yes to all of the above"HahaI’m obviously too knowledgeable on the men cumming thing. Nothing to add? | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "Yes it depends who youre with and yes its a mind thing... But also a physical thing and yes i can control it.. Stoo myself for a while... 5 or 6 times... Trouble is if i stop myself too often, then i cant come at all... Which actually isnt that bad. The journey is always better than the destination anyway. | |||
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Yes it depends who youre with and yes its a mind thing... But also a physical thing and yes i can control it.. Stoo myself for a while... 5 or 6 times... Trouble is if i stop myself too often, then i cant come at all... Which actually isnt that bad. The journey is always better than the destination anyway. "Yeah I mentioned that above. I’ve heard that can happen too when you stop too often. | |||
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I would say it's a yes to all of the above
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I would say it's a yes to all of the above
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I would say it's a yes to all of the above
HahaI’m obviously too knowledgeable on the men cumming thing. Nothing to add?
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I would say it's a yes to all of the above
HahaI’m obviously too knowledgeable on the men cumming thing. Nothing to add?
For me it's a state of mind depending on the act and sometimes the urge just becomes overwhelming
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always
I would say it's a yes to all of the above
HahaI’m obviously too knowledgeable on the men cumming thing. Nothing to add?
For me it's a state of mind depending on the act and sometimes the urge just becomes overwhelming
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Overwhelming is very good
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"Speaking from my own experience [Mr here!].. It's a combination of factors.. 1. Mind control.. Sex is really in the mind isn't it.. So you can[if you want to] control the heightening euphoric build up to orgasm... And I don't mean by thinking or Margaret Thatcher naked or anything like that! It's hard to explain.. But I sort of see it as taking myself out of the situation for a minute or two, as if I am observing myself in the action.. This sort of 'resets' the orgasm timer.. as it were. 2. Physical methods.. In addition to the above, slowing down, pulling out, flipping her over.. Changing it up to give her some oral or finger fun.. or lying together and kissing all work two. " This is pretty much the kind of answer I expected to be honest. God I’d love to be man for a day to find out for myself | |||
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[what is it guys put on profile 'verified repeater'..] and can come more than once in a session.. But it's never as good as the first time, and of course there is the law of diminishing returns! So I have always really enjoyed holding out for as long as possible before allowing myself to orgasm.. For me it results in the most intense, amazing feeling. But each to their own.. | |||
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"It can be managed and sometimes it can't ... a lot of it is mental / psychological triggering less so physical. In our swinging lifestyle we are passionate, erotic and energetic ... but we leave any expectations at the door. x George ps lovely profile " Thank you George x | |||
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"Can you control when you cum? How do you stop yourself if you want to last longer? Can you stop yourself? Is it a mind thing or a change of what you’re doing physically at the time? Does it depend on who you’re with/the sexual act happening at the time? Ok that was more than one question. Intrigued as always "To an extent. Stopping, squeezing the head, whacking it with a toffee hammer all work temporarily as does imagining the MIL naked being shagged by Bojo, whilst cheered on by octogenarian nuns. Sometimes it's easier than others, but if you've abstained for a while it's pretty much impossible if your OH is doing her best to make you cum. A | |||
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"Are you writing "a dummies guide to cocks" Nora? I’m upset you called me a dummy . I liked you too. I’d do the crying emoji if I knew how to. "Technically, you'd be the expert as you're the author. The "dummies" would be the ones reading it, aka the men trying to figure out how it works. You're providing a service! Not that kind...  | |||
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"Are you writing "a dummies guide to cocks" Nora? I’m upset you called me a dummy . I liked you too. I’d do the crying emoji if I knew how to.
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I would say it's a yes to all of the above
HahaI’m obviously too knowledgeable on the men cumming thing. Nothing to add?
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Overwhelming is good though . I think so anyway
Overwhelming is very good
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"I’ve heard also that if you stop yourself too many times it can actually make it difficult to actually cum at all in the end. Is this true?" I can control cuming and hold off for hours on end. Circumcision as a child helped, and in the early days of sex I used to use maths or even read a book left open on the bedside. Then I learnt to relax my genitals so that the lovely sensations produced by a mouth, pussy or bum was simply out of my mind. It is strange thinking about it. It is almost as if I am not connected to my cock, like it is a dildo. It is similar to doing very fine work with your hands, your fingers become very sensitive whilst your feet and legs seem to fade away. Luckily my cock stays hard but I only get say, 20 to 25%, of the sensations. After a few hours though it gets quite hard to cum. The erection is still there but it takes a concerted effort to get him to ejaculate. The key and most important point is however, by then, the lady is usually satisfied. | |||
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"Once I’m past the point of no return I can’t stop it. Why would I want to? The quicker I cum the quicker I can roll over and go to sleep "Youre awake for it? | |||
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 how many hours our session woust to last
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