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"They moan about it on the forums " Only because their wives don't listen though.. | |||
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"They moan about it on the forums Only because their wives don't listen though.." Technically not a single guy then | |||
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"They moan about it on the forums Only because their wives don't listen though.." Tbf, neither do we | |||
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"I just socialise on the forums, zero expectations of getting a nosh & a personal rule of not messaging first. Saves the hassle AND doesn’t get lost in 6K messages. " Exactly this. The only people I talk to off here are people from the forums, that I’ve met at socials and my mates ex who I see out in town occasionally | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " 5000 of those messages are from me! | |||
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"how do the other 95% stay positive?" From the friends we make. | |||
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"I just enjoy the forums and perving and now and then the occasional nice surprise meet. I've made good friends here so I'm happy " Exactly this. I know the odds aren't great, but but if you're not an asshole and make an effort, you'll be rewarded eventually | |||
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"To be honest, the best way to meet people these days is by NOT using Fab for it! There are plenty of other online/app options for meeting nice play partners. Fab is predominantly social media for people nowadays." Also this If I'm horny and/or want to meet someone new, Fab is the last place I would go for that. This is just where all my pals are. | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " You have to become 1 of the 5% If you build it they will come. Apparently there isn't distorted ratios or lack of single women on here. Thanking you supporting our case OP. | |||
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"6000? It's either an exaggeration or she just isn't interested in meeting. If someone genuinely wants to meet but has anywhere near that volume of messages then its unsustainable. Obviously little to no filters are in play and as such anyone and everyone can message. If they're really that 'hot' (haven't looked tbh) and they wanted to meet then the easiest solution would be to block incoming mail and contact the guys she fancies. Unlikely they'd respond negatively and would result in meets with compatible people. But hey. That kind of proactivity doesn't stroke the ego so maybe that's a factor.......... A" Seen people with 6000 fabs on the hot pics. It is not unrealistic that figure. | |||
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"To be honest, the best way to meet people these days is by NOT using Fab for it! There are plenty of other online/app options for meeting nice play partners. Fab is predominantly social media for people nowadays." Would be interested in which apps you mean? | |||
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"To be honest, the best way to meet people these days is by NOT using Fab for it! There are plenty of other online/app options for meeting nice play partners. Fab is predominantly social media for people nowadays. Would be interested in which apps you mean? " I'd love to help out, but it'll get me banned if I mention other sites on here | |||
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"6000? It's either an exaggeration or she just isn't interested in meeting. If someone genuinely wants to meet but has anywhere near that volume of messages then its unsustainable. Obviously little to no filters are in play and as such anyone and everyone can message. If they're really that 'hot' (haven't looked tbh) and they wanted to meet then the easiest solution would be to block incoming mail and contact the guys she fancies. Unlikely they'd respond negatively and would result in meets with compatible people. But hey. That kind of proactivity doesn't stroke the ego so maybe that's a factor.......... A Seen people with 6000 fabs on the hot pics. It is not unrealistic that figure." 6000 fabs bears no relation to message volumes. If someone chooses to seek attention from the entire site, despite not wanting to meet or fuck 99% of them then that's their choice. Just making their own lives harder and not beneficial to them or anyone trying to contact them. The alleged 'top 5%' will be lost in with all the trash. A | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " I'd say for every 10 messages sent I get 1 reply. Knowing that you are one in a 1000 guys trying is essential. Rejection is part of being a man. Suck it up and keep trying. Some of my best experiences have come from fab. I've had ffm and mmf threesomes, met several couples and single girls. Be positive and respectful is my advice. | |||
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"6000? It's either an exaggeration or she just isn't interested in meeting. If someone genuinely wants to meet but has anywhere near that volume of messages then its unsustainable. Obviously little to no filters are in play and as such anyone and everyone can message. If they're really that 'hot' (haven't looked tbh) and they wanted to meet then the easiest solution would be to block incoming mail and contact the guys she fancies. Unlikely they'd respond negatively and would result in meets with compatible people. But hey. That kind of proactivity doesn't stroke the ego so maybe that's a factor.......... A" It's not always ego stroking. I tried blocking single guys and hunting but I'm all about the face. It's one thing for a guy to message me, I ask for a face pic then say no thanks. It is quite another for me to message a guy, provide a pic of my face, ask for one in return then reject. It's awkward so I have reverted back to then messaging me. My choice and I'm not going to moan about the volume of messages as a consequence. Quality is another matter! | |||
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"6000? It's either an exaggeration or she just isn't interested in meeting. If someone genuinely wants to meet but has anywhere near that volume of messages then its unsustainable. Obviously little to no filters are in play and as such anyone and everyone can message. If they're really that 'hot' (haven't looked tbh) and they wanted to meet then the easiest solution would be to block incoming mail and contact the guys she fancies. Unlikely they'd respond negatively and would result in meets with compatible people. But hey. That kind of proactivity doesn't stroke the ego so maybe that's a factor.......... A Seen people with 6000 fabs on the hot pics. It is not unrealistic that figure. 6000 fabs bears no relation to message volumes. If someone chooses to seek attention from the entire site, despite not wanting to meet or fuck 99% of them then that's their choice. Just making their own lives harder and not beneficial to them or anyone trying to contact them. The alleged 'top 5%' will be lost in with all the trash. A" Single women are rarely proactive, especially a new lady. Won't know how to use the site yet. They will find the people they like, Others guys might have to try again another time. We rest our case. | |||
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"To be honest, the best way to meet people these days is by NOT using Fab for it! There are plenty of other online/app options for meeting nice play partners. Fab is predominantly social media for people nowadays." Pretty much this, fab is no longer the only place in town (though it never really was). The problem with fab isn’t so much the ratio but because of the way it’s set up which has led to single guys, for the most part having to make 80% of the effort to make the connection. Now this isn’t a subtle “fab is crap” post, it’s just that it doesn’t really have tools to connect people beyond messaging (“no hi’s, read my profile, compose a soliloquy, put “pink giraffe” in your first message, send face pic, do my obstacle course”), winks are viewed poorly, “fabbing” someone’s pic makes no odds. When you just want to meet people to have a bit of fun with (even the word “fun” is frowned upon by some of fab), the barriers to that connection seem to be a little too high, when I can go on another site, see who likes me, see that I like them too and thus we are connected. So why am I still here? Because sometimes fab is great, every now and then I connect with people and it’s “fun”, and a hunter with only one arrow in his quiver will go hungry. | |||
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"6000? It's either an exaggeration or she just isn't interested in meeting. If someone genuinely wants to meet but has anywhere near that volume of messages then its unsustainable. Obviously little to no filters are in play and as such anyone and everyone can message. If they're really that 'hot' (haven't looked tbh) and they wanted to meet then the easiest solution would be to block incoming mail and contact the guys she fancies. Unlikely they'd respond negatively and would result in meets with compatible people. But hey. That kind of proactivity doesn't stroke the ego so maybe that's a factor.......... A It's not always ego stroking. I tried blocking single guys and hunting but I'm all about the face. It's one thing for a guy to message me, I ask for a face pic then say no thanks. It is quite another for me to message a guy, provide a pic of my face, ask for one in return then reject. It's awkward so I have reverted back to then messaging me. My choice and I'm not going to moan about the volume of messages as a consequence. Quality is another matter! " But that's the important difference. If you're not moaning about it then all is good! You're doing what you think works best for you. It's the people that moan about the volume they receive and how it makes their lives difficult, yet do nothing to help themselves. And sometimes it's definitely about the ego. Much like the begging for fabs. A | |||
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"To be honest, the best way to meet people these days is by NOT using Fab for it! There are plenty of other online/app options for meeting nice play partners. Fab is predominantly social media for people nowadays. Pretty much this, fab is no longer the only place in town (though it never really was). The problem with fab isn’t so much the ratio but because of the way it’s set up which has led to single guys, for the most part having to make 80% of the effort to make the connection. Now this isn’t a subtle “fab is crap” post, it’s just that it doesn’t really have tools to connect people beyond messaging (“no hi’s, read my profile, compose a soliloquy, put “pink giraffe” in your first message, send face pic, do my obstacle course”), winks are viewed poorly, “fabbing” someone’s pic makes no odds. When you just want to meet people to have a bit of fun with (even the word “fun” is frowned upon by some of fab), the barriers to that connection seem to be a little too high, when I can go on another site, see who likes me, see that I like them too and thus we are connected. So why am I still here? Because sometimes fab is great, every now and then I connect with people and it’s “fun”, and a hunter with only one arrow in his quiver will go hungry. " I concur with this - Fab is no longer a contact site in essence, but there are much better contact site options out there which are waaaay less toxic, and the people are much friendlier. The culture on Fab has sadly declined to the point of frustration overtaking the fun of it all. | |||
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"Another thing I've noticed in recent months is also that there are a lot of content creators using Fab as a jump-off point for their content. They have a profile with photos and talk of meeting up, but when you message them, they eventually direct you to all their 'socials' and try to sell you content." Then you should report them | |||
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"Another thing I've noticed in recent months is also that there are a lot of content creators using Fab as a jump-off point for their content. They have a profile with photos and talk of meeting up, but when you message them, they eventually direct you to all their 'socials' and try to sell you content. Then you should report them" That's a bit like playing whack-a-mole. Pointless and time consuming. If I did that, how would I find the time to waste sending 25 lovely messages out to people who block me?! | |||
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"Well they have to give it a shot. They might get lucky " Talking of which, how you doin'? | |||
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"They usually ignore those who play the unread message numbers popularity game. " I often wonder if these women ever read ANY of their messages. Men are often accused of seeking an ego boost, but I wonder just how many women get off on the number of messages they receive - but with no real intention of meeting anyone. Granted, it's probably just a handful, but it does make you wonder | |||
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"Another thing I've noticed in recent months is also that there are a lot of content creators using Fab as a jump-off point for their content. They have a profile with photos and talk of meeting up, but when you message them, they eventually direct you to all their 'socials' and try to sell you content." Loads use this as a fishing exercise for their OF acount. | |||
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"They usually ignore those who play the unread message numbers popularity game. I often wonder if these women ever read ANY of their messages. Men are often accused of seeking an ego boost, but I wonder just how many women get off on the number of messages they receive - but with no real intention of meeting anyone. Granted, it's probably just a handful, but it does make you wonder" If they read any, they then mark them unread and never delete them. Of course it is an ego boost, same as having hundreds or thousands of fabs on a photo is an ego boost. Not a bad thing, but if you want the ego boost and are seeking it, own that. Don't moan about it. | |||
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"What about the middle group? -Or is it top 5% enjoy fab -The rest don’t! I’m not walking around with girls hung onto my legs as I walk, but I get to talk to some lovely people and have my ego boosted with the odd smooch but I certainly don’t hang around here because I might get to shag someone off the page 1 of hot pics page and I wouldn’t leave because I’m not getting jumped every night. That’s why I bother! " | |||
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"6000 messages!? I'm lucky if I get 60! Surely that's an exaggeration, no matter how hot she is?" Wouldn't say its an exaggeration at all! If she's young and hot! I can sometimes have over 2000 unread ! At moment it's only 727 and I'm old and probably not that hot lol x | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’. | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’." My favourite one was a typo I saw that read, "need help with this massive loaf". | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’. My favourite one was a typo I saw that read, "need help with this massive loaf"." We’d be far more interested in that than the alternative! | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’. My favourite one was a typo I saw that read, "need help with this massive loaf". We’d be far more interested in that than the alternative!" I messaged him and asked if he was a baker. He did not get the joke. He did block me. | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’. My favourite one was a typo I saw that read, "need help with this massive loaf". We’d be far more interested in that than the alternative! I messaged him and asked if he was a baker. He did not get the joke. He did block me." Should have asked if he was a master-baker | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’." Ahh those smooth talking bastards | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. " It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. | |||
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"I do feel for those poor single guys who can’t accommodate, but happen to love outdoor sex and can meet in very specific time spots in the daytime. I especially feel for the ones who post statuses like ‘need to empty my load’. My favourite one was a typo I saw that read, "need help with this massive loaf". We’d be far more interested in that than the alternative! I messaged him and asked if he was a baker. He did not get the joke. He did block me. Should have asked if he was a master-baker " Wahey! You're winning this morning | |||
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"I've had about 1000 messages AND im old AND my profile is a big fuck off AND single guys still ignore the big "fuck off she's not looking for single guys" pop up.They don't care they'll message anyone. So yeh I can well imagine a newbie getting 6000 it's a numbers game for a lot on here, scattergun approach, fire off as many messages someone will reply." Got a M134 mini gun here like Arnie in T2. | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. " If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A" No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. " Good for them. I’ll Carry on talking to all those that don’t give a shit. | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. Good for them. I’ll Carry on talking to all those that don’t give a shit. " If the 'top 5%' need to pounce on the 'new and unexposed' fresh meat before the general population ever gets to contact or meet them then that probably explains why so many profiles leave so quickly. I knew there was a reason..... A | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. Good for them. I’ll Carry on talking to all those that don’t give a shit. If the 'top 5%' need to pounce on the 'new and unexposed' fresh meat before the general population ever gets to contact or meet them then that probably explains why so many profiles leave so quickly. I knew there was a reason..... A" | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. Good for them. I’ll Carry on talking to all those that don’t give a shit. If the 'top 5%' need to pounce on the 'new and unexposed' fresh meat before the general population ever gets to contact or meet them then that probably explains why so many profiles leave so quickly. I knew there was a reason..... A" If you can't beat them join them. It is a good strategy if you are experienced and meeting new and unexposed. It carries weight. | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. " It's not a competition...I don't care who they are meeting. | |||
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" If the 'top 5%' need to pounce on the 'new and unexposed' fresh meat before the general population ever gets to contact or meet them then that probably explains why so many profiles leave so quickly. I knew there was a reason..... A" Top 5%????? Joined in last 5 Days option in search???? Coincidence???? I think not!!!!! | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. It's not a competition...I don't care who they are meeting. " Told you before as a single guy it's a competition whether you like it or not. It's dog eat dog. People will drink all your milkshake and you leave you the dregs. | |||
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"…. If the 'top 5%' need to pounce on the 'new and unexposed' fresh meat before the general population ever gets to contact or meet them then that probably explains why so many profiles leave so quickly. I knew there was a reason..... A If you can't beat them join them. It is a good strategy if you are experienced and meeting new and unexposed. It carries weight. " Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " Have multiple fishing holes | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. It's not a competition...I don't care who they are meeting. Told you before as a single guy it's a competition whether you like it or not. It's dog eat dog. People will drink all your milkshake and you leave you the dregs. " While I don't agree with the analogy or the phrasing, for the most part I do agree with the point being made. No honour among thieves is very much a thing on here for the majority of men when it comes down to it. | |||
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"…. If the 'top 5%' need to pounce on the 'new and unexposed' fresh meat before the general population ever gets to contact or meet them then that probably explains why so many profiles leave so quickly. I knew there was a reason..... A If you can't beat them join them. It is a good strategy if you are experienced and meeting new and unexposed. It carries weight. Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. " It is not the only strategy, it is just another avenue. Cover all bases, find that edge. | |||
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"…. Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. It is not the only strategy, it is just another avenue. Cover all bases, find that edge. " That’s not an answer to what I asked. … that’s like an MP…... Do you message every new user that pops on here? Do you use that strategy? Because that screams desperation to me. *just my opinion. | |||
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"This top 5% thing is a load of crap. It's not, you see a lot of the same guys meeting the same people through the verification trail. If the 'top 5%' are all just meeting eachother then that's great. Because it means they have no interest in meeting the other 95% which leaves the majority of site members free and available to meet eachother. Plenty to go round. Effectively the 5% have no influence on the rest of the site and don't affect it in any way. Because.....well....logic! A No the top 5% are meeting the new and unexposed others too. You just see a lot of familiar names. It's not a competition...I don't care who they are meeting. Told you before as a single guy it's a competition whether you like it or not. It's dog eat dog. People will drink all your milkshake and you leave you the dregs. " I can see how some people would view as such ... But I'm not Interested in racking up numbers or veris. I terms of presenting yourself properly and your approach...then yes your competing against others. But I'm certainly not scouring fab for freshmeat.... | |||
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"…. Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. It is not the only strategy, it is just another avenue. Cover all bases, find that edge. That’s not an answer to what I asked. … that’s like an MP…... Do you message every new user that pops on here? Do you use that strategy? Because that screams desperation to me. *just my opinion. " Only if they are photo verified, have pics and are average, slim or athletic body type and no taller than 5 foot 7. Works with couples too. | |||
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"As a.memeber of the 95 per cent and not a member of the 5 per cent elite shagger club...the positivity comes from, there is still 95 per cent of the site left, who are generally good ppl. I'd rather be a pool with diversity rather than a pool with the 5 per cent. I'll take thr 95 per cent over the 5 per cent any day.. Where do these figures come.fron....as my top 5 per cent will be different to any body else" I think the elite shaggers club is self selecting... | |||
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"…. Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. It is not the only strategy, it is just another avenue. Cover all bases, find that edge. That’s not an answer to what I asked. … that’s like an MP…... Do you message every new user that pops on here? Do you use that strategy? Because that screams desperation to me. *just my opinion. Only if they are photo verified, have pics and are average, slim or athletic body type and no taller than 5 foot 7. Works with couples too. " Ah. The EBAY strategy. I like it Search. Find. Bid. …. Hope to win at least one of them. We all use fab in different warmups, and view swinging and the people who swing differently too. I’m sure you’ll find people that much up with you that way. And the people who don’t do what you do… maybe the 95 percent who are having a blast with the other 95 don’t do it that way. I’d hate to be a minority. | |||
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"…. Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. It is not the only strategy, it is just another avenue. Cover all bases, find that edge. That’s not an answer to what I asked. … that’s like an MP…... Do you message every new user that pops on here? Do you use that strategy? Because that screams desperation to me. *just my opinion. Only if they are photo verified, have pics and are average, slim or athletic body type and no taller than 5 foot 7. Works with couples too. Ah. The EBAY strategy. I like it Search. Find. Bid. …. Hope to win at least one of them. We all use fab in different warmups, and view swinging and the people who swing differently too. I’m sure you’ll find people that much up with you that way. And the people who don’t do what you do… maybe the 95 percent who are having a blast with the other 95 don’t do it that way. I’d hate to be a minority. " You can search for members who are new in the last 5 days. Fab are obviously aware of the strategy too. | |||
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"As a.memeber of the 95 per cent and not a member of the 5 per cent elite shagger club...the positivity comes from, there is still 95 per cent of the site left, who are generally good ppl. I'd rather be a pool with diversity rather than a pool with the 5 per cent. I'll take thr 95 per cent over the 5 per cent any day.. Where do these figures come.fron....as my top 5 per cent will be different to any body else I think the elite shaggers club is self selecting..." It seems that way, and self proclaiming | |||
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"…. Is this what do? Is it working? What’s your conversation rate? Asking for a friend. It is not the only strategy, it is just another avenue. Cover all bases, find that edge. That’s not an answer to what I asked. … that’s like an MP…... Do you message every new user that pops on here? Do you use that strategy? Because that screams desperation to me. *just my opinion. Only if they are photo verified, have pics and are average, slim or athletic body type and no taller than 5 foot 7. Works with couples too. Ah. The EBAY strategy. I like it Search. Find. Bid. …. Hope to win at least one of them. We all use fab in different warmups, and view swinging and the people who swing differently too. I’m sure you’ll find people that much up with you that way. And the people who don’t do what you do… maybe the 95 percent who are having a blast with the other 95 don’t do it that way. I’d hate to be a minority. You can search for members who are new in the last 5 days. Fab are obviously aware of the strategy too. " Always try message when they are online too. If they're not put them in your hotlist and wait till you see the online with the blue dot. | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Both I usty think like this I just opened my mind and decided I have no standards and realise am more happy if entertain those who entertain me and if they don't who care im not they dad can't make them Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit?" Yes. It really is. | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit?" You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. " I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. | |||
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"Another thing I've noticed in recent months is also that there are a lot of content creators using Fab as a jump-off point for their content. They have a profile with photos and talk of meeting up, but when you message them, they eventually direct you to all their 'socials' and try to sell you content. Loads use this as a fishing exercise for their OF acount. " If you fab it you can fuck it | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. " The only time I've ever seen a pattern of veris is when they're on the profile of someone who frequents the same club regularly or attends organised socials. I guess you have to be in the 5% to be able to see them, eh. Chances are they hide from mere mortals. A | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. " Some are worth keeping track of in your hotlist. The most valuable commodity I know is information. I know that the moment I verify a new person, the vulchers will be onto her too. Because the smart 1s are tracking you aswell. | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? Yes. It really is." Chad bullshit? I had disappointing curry once. | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit?" Yup | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. Some are worth keeping track of in your hotlist. The most valuable commodity I know is information. I know that the moment I verify a new person, the vulchers will be onto her too. Because the smart 1s are tracking you aswell. " Ah, man, you've hidden your profile and I was just about to swoop and prey on your veris, like the vulture I am! | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. The only time I've ever seen a pattern of veris is when they're on the profile of someone who frequents the same club regularly or attends organised socials. I guess you have to be in the 5% to be able to see them, eh. Chances are they hide from mere mortals. A" 'The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision' | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit?" It's bull bullshit | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. The only time I've ever seen a pattern of veris is when they're on the profile of someone who frequents the same club regularly or attends organised socials. I guess you have to be in the 5% to be able to see them, eh. Chances are they hide from mere mortals. A 'The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision' " Yeah, OK. I hear a lot of great advice on the forums. A lot of top tips for success. A lot of statements about using information and tools to achieve success. It's rare though that I see anything to back up these claims. All these elite shaggers and top 5%ers that are meeting all the hot young things and yet there never seems to be any supporting evidence of them hooking up. I'd love to see one of these profiles where the veri trails all lead to the same people. But try as I might it never happens. I mean the advanced search facility let's you browse anywhere in the country. You'd think with a bit of effort you'd be able to find these circular verification trails. But no. Why is that? A | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. The only time I've ever seen a pattern of veris is when they're on the profile of someone who frequents the same club regularly or attends organised socials. I guess you have to be in the 5% to be able to see them, eh. Chances are they hide from mere mortals. A 'The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision' Yeah, OK. I hear a lot of great advice on the forums. A lot of top tips for success. A lot of statements about using information and tools to achieve success. It's rare though that I see anything to back up these claims. All these elite shaggers and top 5%ers that are meeting all the hot young things and yet there never seems to be any supporting evidence of them hooking up. I'd love to see one of these profiles where the veri trails all lead to the same people. But try as I might it never happens. I mean the advanced search facility let's you browse anywhere in the country. You'd think with a bit of effort you'd be able to find these circular verification trails. But no. Why is that? A" Cuz it's a fallacy, a misnomer. Or in plan terms a load of bollocks | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " Zero expectations and just make some nice connections from socials or possibly the forums | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? 5000 of those messages are from me! " this made me chuckle | |||
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"Wtf does top 5 % mean, is that Chad bullshit? You must see familiar single guy names on other peoples verifications. Those guys. I rarely check veris other than to sense check a catfish. Ive never noticed a 5pc when I have... Other than maybe those who do do clubs. The only time I've ever seen a pattern of veris is when they're on the profile of someone who frequents the same club regularly or attends organised socials. I guess you have to be in the 5% to be able to see them, eh. Chances are they hide from mere mortals. A 'The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision' Yeah, OK. I hear a lot of great advice on the forums. A lot of top tips for success. A lot of statements about using information and tools to achieve success. It's rare though that I see anything to back up these claims. All these elite shaggers and top 5%ers that are meeting all the hot young things and yet there never seems to be any supporting evidence of them hooking up. I'd love to see one of these profiles where the veri trails all lead to the same people. But try as I might it never happens. I mean the advanced search facility let's you browse anywhere in the country. You'd think with a bit of effort you'd be able to find these circular verification trails. But no. Why is that? A" There are 9 men that I currently have in my hotlist in the northwest that I haven't even met or spoken too. That I consider in the 5% You can cross reference and see some have met the same people. The most universally attractive and top tier of single women and couples they meet. Who can be established, new, only just breaching out into looking for single guys. Etc. | |||
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"6000 messages!? I'm lucky if I get 60! Surely that's an exaggeration, no matter how hot she is?" I was just thinking that myself must of been nice to get that many mrs m x | |||
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"I feel for the ugly ones, I really do." I’m a good looking and and still have no luck on here | |||
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"I feel for the ugly ones, I really do." Thanks appreciate the support | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " I'm stubborn so won't give up lol But as a gen single male it is hard on here | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. " Would 7 upset the balance to much | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " we enjoy torture | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. Would 7 upset the balance to much " have my slot. She knows my intentions now | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there." I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " I am 5,999 … I’m not last so there’s still hope - lol | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. Would 7 upset the balance to much have my slot. She knows my intentions now " Exploiting my weaknesses | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. Would 7 upset the balance to much have my slot. She knows my intentions now " You're always offering your slot to someone Waffle | |||
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"Just seen a hot newish girl on top pics, saying she has 6000 unread messages. We are a hot sexy (lol) couple and find meeting other suitable couples and single females tough enough. Obviously the top 5% of single guys might do okay, but how do the other 95% stay positive? Or are they just happy here for the perving anyway? " I'm fine with it. I'm quite happy with the people tgat I meet. Most that I see have a very highly inflated opinion of themselves in here that would be very unrealistic out there in everyday real life. I leave them to their fantasy that they are somehow incredibly hot and in demand. I prefer people with true personality myself. | |||
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" Most that I see have a very highly inflated opinion of themselves in here that would be very unrealistic out there in everyday real life. " You silver tongued Devil you. | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. Would 7 upset the balance to much have my slot. She knows my intentions now You're always offering your slot to someone Waffle " I'm an equal opportunities fella me. Just be gentle. | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there." You mean it’s not? Does it depend on what video game you play though? Damn… | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. Would 7 upset the balance to much have my slot. She knows my intentions now You're always offering your slot to someone Waffle I'm an equal opportunities fella me. Just be gentle. " I'm always gentle | |||
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"I get about 6 messages a day so I'll bother with all the single guys please. Would 7 upset the balance to much have my slot. She knows my intentions now You're always offering your slot to someone Waffle I'm an equal opportunities fella me. Just be gentle. I'm always gentle " Even with fish slices | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? " The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... " What video game? I might know a good strategy! | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... What video game? I might know a good strategy! " I think I'm still at Sonic the Hedgehog circa 1992 levels... | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... What video game? I might know a good strategy! I think I'm still at Sonic the Hedgehog circa 1992 levels..." I'm a wiz at 'Jet Set Willy'...... A | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... What video game? I might know a good strategy! I think I'm still at Sonic the Hedgehog circa 1992 levels... I'm a wiz at 'Jet Set Willy'...... A" Give me snake, now were talking | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... What video game? I might know a good strategy! I think I'm still at Sonic the Hedgehog circa 1992 levels... I'm a wiz at 'Jet Set Willy'...... A Give me snake, now were talking " I just like playing with my joystick. | |||
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"So many men seem to think getting sex is like a video game, you do these things in the right order and you get laid. No wonder there are so many incels out there. I've never got laid after completing a video game, who do I complain to? The real issue here is that I have never completed a computer game... What video game? I might know a good strategy! I think I'm still at Sonic the Hedgehog circa 1992 levels... I'm a wiz at 'Jet Set Willy'...... A Give me snake, now were talking I just like playing with my joystick. " The like that comes with two balls....I mean buttons | |||
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"Occasionally I find exciting, debauched individuals or couples and have a fine old time. I am a fairly low effort fabber though (I am afraid that fab hasn’t moved very well with the times and there are now other avenues that really cut down on the hoop jumping by making the connection process more intuitive), so I don’t really send messages and just manage my profile and let people make the first move (if they want too). I think if you’re the kinda guy that sends out lots of messages and really tries to connect with people, and get disappointed when you don’t, then fab is tough. I just tend to put up a “meet today” and see what happens, or the planned meet thingy (I.e. free this coming weekend, drop me a line sort of thing) , kinda put those out there and don’t be too disheartened if you don’t get a nibble, the effort you put in was minimal and better for your confidence and self esteem " If you just want lots of sex or dating yes, there’s much more efficient platforms, but for meeting lifestyle people there’s nothing like fab. Most of my free weekends are spent with women I’ve met in here not Tinder or Insta etc. the kind of people you can meet with and have fun regardless of who else you’re both seeing , I don’t think you find that on other sites | |||
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