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Physical turn-offs

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan over a year ago

Norwich

Not really, although not a big fan of tattoos, especially extensive ones. Or drastic piercings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bald men and men that look like Extras in breaking bad with teeth missing x

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By *haron StonerTV/TS over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Skin tags, like an abundance of them.

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Funky toes and feet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Finding out he’s got no leg hair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funky toes and feet

I quite happily tell men they can keep their socks on! Lol x

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By *D of funCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Hairy people

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"Bald men and men that look like Extras in breaking bad with teeth missing x"

This made me spit out my coffee so thanks for that.

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple over a year ago

Darlington

Excessively skinny like skeletor needing a sandwich is a massive turn of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Long or dirty nails, piano teeth or clearly visible hernias.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bald men and men that look like Extras in breaking bad with teeth missing x

This made me spit out my coffee so thanks for that. "

You are very welcome, unless you are wearing a white shirt of course and then you are fucked lol x

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

Women with fat belly’s hanging over there Fanny’s

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

A hairy back and/or bum cheeks.

In fact, copious amounts of body hair in general.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan over a year ago

Bradford

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?"

Its no physical but I had tramatic experience once in a nite club .

Saw most beautiful girl across the

room out eyes met we smiled I went over to talk with her .but the sound of her voice put me off .so I missed out on what could have been a nice girl or a fantastic fuck due to it .so the question is now I'm older I could tell her not to speak or wear earphones and listen to music .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Long fingernails, especially if they’re dirty.

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By *uksungCouple over a year ago

wednesbury

Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

If I like someone their body wouldn't put me off unless they weren't a fan of bathing or clipping their toenails.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

Feet or socks on feet or long dirty toe nails on feet

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think a lack of hygiene is the only thing that counts as a physical turnoff for me.

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By *luffy FairyWoman over a year ago

west LDN

"I think a lack of hygiene is the only thing that counts as a physical turnoff for me."

I’m with you on this one, if it’s got as far as being naked then I’ll be all in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a fan of skinny legs on a guy

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not a fan of the enhanced look, boobs, lips and anything else. Each to their own though, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poor hygiene. Absolute deal breaker.

Show up shower fresh and I’m yours.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Piercings

Long fingernails on a man

Manky toenails

Smelly people

Very hairy bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hygiene, feet and hairy backs

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Folks lacking a cranium always disturbs me somewhat…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Excessive stretch marks

Fat women with small tits

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

If we've got to the stage of being naked together the only thing that would make me hesitate would be a huge Prince Albert piercing. I'm guessing a guy with one would say so before anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just lack of hygiene and not looking after themselves well is a tun off for me

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

beards .... yuk

hygiene or should i say lack of it and you'll be surprise how many dont take it seriously ...or try and mask it with deodorant or aftershave / perfume

nails on hands and feet

bad teeth / breath

foreskins that do not retract or look tight / red / raw / unhealthy

vagina's that have that smell that some think is natural and its not ..it really is not

now apart from the beards the rest is pretty rare and have been more so in clubs rather than private meets why i dont know ..

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

oh forgot cock or ball piercings i value my teeth and not only that they look yuk and get in the way

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

A lot of the things mentioned would be noticed before you got your clothes off though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys.... "

There was always a risk it could turn into one of "those threads"... Bad hygiene is something that anyone should be able to put right though.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Also my personal opinion is that just because it's not for you being unkind about it isn't necessary

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By *lueFireCouple over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys.... "

I thought the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also my personal opinion is that just because it's not for you being unkind about it isn't necessary "

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By *amyrrefMan over a year ago

dundee

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys.... "

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

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By *ottom charlieMan over a year ago

washington

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?"
a mass of untidy matted pubes that look like a hedge gone crazy,,

well kept groomed is fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eyebrows, nasal hair, dirty and or long finger/toe nails

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bald men and men that look like Extras in breaking bad with teeth missing x"

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

I thought the same"

Indeed. Granted they are preferences, which is fine, but some (no I'm not calling everyone out) seem to love stating them in a way that twists the knife to.

It goes beyond "I don't find X appealing" almost like it is intended to insult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad teeth or it looks like they have been eating rocks like apples and not a fan of smoking .

Sometimes though I just remember beggars can’t be choosers as I’m sure I have a few physical turns offs for others .

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys.... "

It's okay to not appeal to everyone though.

I know my shortcomings. I'm fat, my tits are small, I'm too tall and I don't have all my teeth. And it's okay for people to not be into me for those or any other reasons, as long as they're not assholes about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy."

What I want to say to you would get me banned

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By *amyrrefMan over a year ago

dundee

We all have our likes/dislikes and we can’t help our physicality's or what we’re born with. But the delusional, I’m better than you, full of demand profiles , that all are too frequent on here , definitely have that turn off factor.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman over a year ago

Wherever

"Also my personal opinion is that just because it's not for you being unkind about it isn't necessary "

I think many people have misinterpreted turn offs for preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all have our likes/dislikes and we can’t help our physicality's or what we’re born with. But the delusional, I’m better than you, full of demand profiles , that all are too frequent on here , definitely have that turn off factor. "

Too true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A cock..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any sort of self harm scars,

Met a lovely girl but they just put me off. All over her thighs. Couldn't go through with it.

Felt even worse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women who smoke put me off too

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

Hairy backs and facial tattoos are a no for me

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Overly coiffured pubes, or totally left to the wilderness!

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Men with bigger boobs than me.

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

Taliban-esque beards, ultra skinny women

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

Black teeth bad breath

Unkempt bush!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men with bigger boobs than me."

Nearly spat out my coffee reading that

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys.... "

Nothing irrelevant people on here say has any effect on my confidence. They aren't people I'd be attracted to, and I don't get offended easily.

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By *inkForLifeCouple over a year ago

North Shields

Cocks where the foreskin is tight and doesn't pull back over the head. I just can't bring myself to put it in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone’s physique wouldn’t turn me off. Someone’s behaviour would.

I am turn on by cleanliness though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"beards .... yuk"

Your loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad skin conditions

Really fat women with guts overhanging

Really bad teeth

Stink minge

A girlfriend once had a real whiff about her worse in bed

I did the sniff test it was a rank dirty infected belly button eerrgghhh

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

"beards .... yuk

Your loss

its really not

plenty of nice clean shaven guys out there

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By *lueFireCouple over a year ago

just somewhere around here

People who feel they are perfect in everyway put me (Mrs R) off, just be kind! There are diplomatic ways of saying things rather than being down right nasty.

We all like different things otherwise life would be very very very boring

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Oh dear. Mr KC is pretty slim (some might say skinny). I have a tummy overhang and "excessive" stretch marks. Looks like we're fucked then. Or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Overly coiffured pubes, or totally left to the wilderness!"

Picky. Is modest topiary acceptable..?

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By *lueFireCouple over a year ago

just somewhere around here

Lol, Hubby has a beard and bald head, we both have tattoos and piercings....seems we are doomed too! However......it hasn't stopped us having REALLY good meets and sexy fun yet. Don't let opinions hold you back, someone for everyone out there

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By *ay9971Man over a year ago

Manchester

"Finding out he’s got no leg hair

That’s a first lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear. Mr KC is pretty slim (some might say skinny). I have a tummy overhang and "excessive" stretch marks. Looks like we're fucked then. Or not

Haha your not the only ones

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

Smoking (the smell and taste of), or B.O.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Finding out he’s got no leg hair

That’s a first lol"

I know

and it’s quite literally the only thing that would make me say actually I need to go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bad skin conditions

Really fat women with guts overhanging

Really bad teeth

Stink minge

A girlfriend once had a real whiff about her worse in bed

I did the sniff test it was a rank dirty infected belly button eerrgghhh "

What a absolutely lovely thing to say about your ex girlfriend. Bet she’s gutted she’s an ex now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys.... "

Sounds like most of people are looking super models

defo need some reality check.

Mrs

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

I think a lot of people are mixing up preference as the majority of things mentioned you can see with clothes on

If we liked everything about them as in body size etc with clothes on then we would like them with clothes off also..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a lot of people are mixing up preference as the majority of things mentioned you can see with clothes on

If we liked everything about them as in body size etc with clothes on then we would like them with clothes off also..

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Yeah they're missing the point. It's when you're ready to have sex then what puts you off.

Some things mentioned you wouldn't have got that far...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?"

I wouldn’t be naked with that person if I wouldn’t like him/her. As far I’m aware, all parties needs to confident in their own body’s to move forward. But I will say-body is just a compliment to person’s character

Mrs

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve never experienced a guy with a pierced pecker, so if he didn’t tell me about it and I just saw it I think I’d be a bit wary.

Obviously cleanliness etc and good oral hygiene are important.

I’m not a fan of men with long fingernails as the little finger nail that is looooong is usually the nose picker giveaway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like any piercings anywhere. Bad Hygiene, long dirty nails, long nose hair

I like reading the comments that are...Blunt it makes my confidence actually go up as I know I'm a great person that has flaws and glad I'm more me than like them.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

People can be really awful in the way they express themselves on here

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

"Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy.

Harsh ...fat being lazy...could be a number of things excess weight

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

It's okay to not appeal to everyone though.

This! Going by this thread there's a fair few who will not find us appealing or be turned off if they got naked with us, but that's ok! Yes some aren't very diplomatic in the way they state things, but as long as it's not in our inbox then they can carry on to their hearts content, its called scrolling on by. We know we're not everyone's cup of tea, life would be boring if everyone liked everyone

Tinder xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow, some of the comments in here are quite nasty. It's the way they 're said rather than the actual turn off itself. You can make your point across but still say things in a polite manner.

Personally, I'm not super fassy. The only thing I dislike is bad hygiene (physical and oral) and excessive hair.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Over the past few years, I have really surprised myself with some of the people I have met that did NOT fit my criteria and it was fine, we had a good time.

In my head, I absolutely and totally love a good beard but would not turn somebody down because they did not have one.

Thinking really hard here... only bad hygiene including dental hygiene would be a turn off. And that is something people can actually do something about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy.

Harsh ...fat being lazy...could be a number of things excess weight

Agree and very ignorant…could be aswell it’s because they are happy in their own body’s.

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By * WillisMan over a year ago

London

An unborn twin attached at the hip

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy.

Harsh ...fat being lazy...could be a number of things excess weight

Agree and very ignorant…could be aswell it’s because they are happy in their own body’s.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to avoid these kind of threads as I see them as ‘negative’. Not constructive.

Not condemning them - just saying they’re not for me.

But what do I see is SOME (not all) people are happy to bodyshame others but when they see someone mentioning a negative trait they see in themselves, well they don’t like.

Also body weight always seems to hit the biggest nerve.

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

see beards to me are like spiders to some ive always disliked them but anything else is hygiene related i like people squeaky clean i also as said above dislike piercings cock n balls/pussy i find they are not good for teeth and they just get in the way

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

i should not of said beards ...yuk i should of said i dislike beards .. thats my bad and did not mean to offend if i have ... no one should be shamed for how they look

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

"People can be really awful in the way they express themselves on here

Indeed, however boosted my block list nicely x every cloud and all that...

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

5 fingers 8 toes no teeth

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"I tend to avoid these kind of threads as I see them as ‘negative’. Not constructive.

Not condemning them - just saying they’re not for me.

But what do I see is SOME (not all) people are happy to bodyshame others but when they see someone mentioning a negative trait they see in themselves, well they don’t like.

Also body weight always seems to hit the biggest nerve. "

There are ways to express preference. Saying that fat people are all lazy or using words or emojis that are linked with disgust is just unnecessary.

I'm fat. However, I rarely find myself attracted to larger guys. But it's not to say I'll never find a larger guy attractive, it depends entirely on the individual and so it's not a "turn off".

The only true cast iron turn offs for me on 100% of occasions is poor hygiene or lack of comprehension of consent.

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By *rlandoMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?"

your opening a can of worms and inviting unpleasant comments ?

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By *host63Man over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere.

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

That woman from The Grudge.

See, I can’t be doing with all that gurgling shit and freaky creeping and being chased around the house and stuff.

Might do her from behind though…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere."

See. This is one of the "unnecessary" comments. Just say you don't like overweight women. That's enough.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow "

Wanna share some cake on the couch

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That woman from The Grudge.

See, I can’t be doing with all that gurgling shit and freaky creeping and being chased around the house and stuff.

Might do her from behind though…

Hahah I had nightmares for years over her

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Judgemental, rude people are turn offs! As is anyone who take up disabled toilets to take pictures for online swinging sites (which is a lot of people, it would seem).

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere."

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all objects?"

If I met somebody that has a misfortune that was a turn-off. I would ignore it. Because I'm with the person who I like. Sadly, in today's society, it's all about how you look. Looks are not important. They are desirable, but not important. You could be in bed by the most attractive person on the planet, but they could be shit in bed.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS over a year ago

Carlisle

Everyone has types but no need to belittle others! I don't think it's healthy some of the comments.

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere."
,, i dont think theres any need for that,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow

Wanna share some cake on the couch

Tinder"

Gimme gimme!

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow

Wanna share some cake on the couch

Tinder"

Can I have some cake? Don't need to join on the couch, but cake would be really good right now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow

Wanna share some cake on the couch

Tinder

Gimme gimme!

"
you have fab boobs... Thats from a gay guy

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere."

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow

Wanna share some cake on the couch

Tinder

Gimme gimme!

you have fab boobs... Thats from a gay guy

"
,, i agree,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having been on the forums a couple of months I think if that old adage of ‘saying nothing if have nothing nice to say were employed it would lead to quite a lot of very threadbare threads.

As soon as you post you open yourself up to all kinds of comeback/comments etc. If no rules are being broken then this won’t change.

So it’s going to be a case of post and use the forums and don’t whinge or stop using them.

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By *host63Man over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere.

Ffs"

The question was asked I answered it. Isn't this what a forum is for?

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

Manky teeth and long dirty nails (on a man)……..obviously can see before naked.

When naked……

Tiny cock and overly hairy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Having been on the forums a couple of months I think if that old adage of ‘saying nothing if have nothing nice to say were employed it would lead to quite a lot of very threadbare threads.

As soon as you post you open yourself up to all kinds of comeback/comments etc. If no rules are being broken then this won’t change.

So it’s going to be a case of post and use the forums and don’t whinge or stop using them. "

I agree. I don’t understand how much people take what someone says so personally. Just think well me and that person definitely wouldn’t be compatible and scroll on or make a private note.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere.

Ffs

The question was asked I answered it. Isn't this what a forum is for? "

Ypu could have stopped after the first three words that's the point, no need for the followed insult

Tinder

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By *o and peepCouple over a year ago

falkirk

"Men with bigger boobs than me."

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

"Men with bigger boobs than me.

"
i have a lovely pair of boobs,,

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Intimate piercings, a guy didn't tell me about his... I went home.

Hairy backs.

I think anything else you'd probably know about if you've met them.

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By *luffy FairyWoman over a year ago

west LDN

The question was after seeing someone naked soooooo if they had manky teeth or, were to some peoples preference, overweight you wouldn’t even entertain a meet.

Funny thing is a certain someones profile states they don’t discriminate any size or shape hahahahahaha and that everyone deserves respect. But going on his grammar and punctuation I’d expect nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turn of ignorant people..people who think there above other people…where all here for same thing sex and good sex….be lucky Fabbers x

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere.

See. This is one of the "unnecessary" comments. Just say you don't like overweight women. That's enough. "

Forums can be a great filter.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman over a year ago

tf1

Big fat bellies ??

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By *agerMorganMan over a year ago

Canvey Island

Have we had fat blokes yet? General feeling I get here (on fab) is large women ok, large blokes not ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s surprising how some people’s profiles totally contradict what they have said on this thread. Especially when you look at their verifications

Still, it’s been useful.

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Intimate piercings, a guy didn't tell me about his... I went home.

Hairy backs.

I think anything else you'd probably know about if you've met them."

Forums can be a great filter guys

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

"Bald men and men that look like Extras in breaking bad with teeth missing x

This made me spit out my coffee so thanks for that. "

•

I wasn't amused.

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By *lueFireCouple over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"Taliban-esque beards"

What a stupid phrase

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Extremely overweight women squeezed into sticking and suspenders or bidystockings with fat oozing out everywhere."

I think it’s time you changed your bio on your profile….. many women are going through the menopause which causes us to ‘gain weight’

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting. "

There's a way of saying things.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow "

Udder madness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a fat belly oops I must be a lazy cow

Udder madness. "

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Intimate piercings, a guy didn't tell me about his... I went home.

Hairy backs.

I think anything else you'd probably know about if you've met them.

Forums can be a great filter guys

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By *yresMan over a year ago

Midland town

"Lol, Hubby has a beard and bald head, we both have tattoos and piercings....seems we are doomed too! However......it hasn't stopped us having REALLY good meets and sexy fun yet. Don't let opinions hold you back, someone for everyone out there

"
that is beautifully said!.....x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All I can say is that if you've got a repulsive personality it shines through in the flesh. And that would completely put me off. I see lots of great examples above. ^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has the thread been closed yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anything that looks infectious. Otherwise I'm quite forgiving.

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By *iss MaverickWoman over a year ago

Porthcawl

Sloping shoulders in men

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By *elshcouple18Couple over a year ago

Cardiff

Lack of eye contact when they speak to us.. met a guy once, who would not look when speaking..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funky toes and feet

Yeah, this for me too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sloping shoulders in men

*Adjusts posture*

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By *iss MaverickWoman over a year ago

Porthcawl

"Sloping shoulders in men

*Adjusts posture*

"
yours look good from this angle

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By *ilks xXxWoman over a year ago

East Mids

"A hairy back and/or bum cheeks.

In fact, copious amounts of body hair in general. "

This ^

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Leprosy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sloping shoulders in men

*Adjusts posture*

yours look good from this angle

Those are the angles I'm willing to show in public

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a kiss doesn't feel right well then it's wrong , kissing would be a big thing for me , l think it shows you how much a person wants you .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sloping shoulders in men

*Adjusts posture*

yours look good from this angle

Those are the angles I'm willing to show in public

Can we have more?

Pretty please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All I can say is that if you've got a repulsive personality it shines through in the flesh. And that would completely put me off. I see lots of great examples above. ^"

Good job lm below your comment so

...

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things. "

I guess so but I see it as a way to see who I definitely wouldn’t be interested in, either because they wouldn’t be into people like me or they’re just downright nasty. So just private note or block for those who block.

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

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By *ecky and justCouple over a year ago

Godalming

We wouldn’t put ourselves in that position hopefully, having had socials and discussions to ensure we’re compatible.

The one thing that put us both off a while back is certain tattoos.

We’re a fan of tattoos but the male of this couple had a tattoo of his daughter, at a young age, on his midriff. It was off putting.

There have also been others with tattoos of pistols in their waistbands etc.

That and poor feet hygiene. Can’t be doing with socks on during sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My face is enough to turn off Blackpool illuminations...

But seriously... Not a great fan of all-over tats, lip filler & other artificial augmentations.

Much prefer all natural look.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy. "

And to be honest if I did put a body stocking on there would be fat oooozing out everywhere. Its a fact! Not sure why someone stating they don’t like that would upset me though. It’s different to someone saying to someone personally “god you look horrendous in that body stocking”. That may sting a bit.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy.

That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

I can't speak for everyone but as far as I know most don't mind that somebody is not attracted to a certain trait or appearance. It's the follow up comment on some of them with the clear intention to insult and belittle those with that appearance. At that point it goes beyond a turn off and is actually a simple bullying tactic.

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

"Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy."

Could you not tell they were fat before getting naked then?

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

After reading some of the comments here and then checking out the posters profiles LMFAO!!!!

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

I think there is some tongue in cheek going on here. People taking things too literally I think

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

I prefer to judge a person on their personality rather than their physical appearance, but good hygiene is a must for me!

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By *eard and BoobsCouple over a year ago

Portstewart

"Men with beards and fat women.its not healthy it's just lazy."

I will start by saying we know everyone is entitled to their opinion and we respect that. I have a beard for personal reasons and both mrs and I have been on at least one medication that the side effect is weight gain. But to judge without knowing the reasons behind isn’t really fair. Not everyone is going to be slim and trim and neither is everyone going to be overweight.

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By *andy2123Couple over a year ago

Portsmouth

Big women for us, just being honest. Got loads of female big girls, but! Not sexy to us. X

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By *andy2123Couple over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Big women for us, just being honest. Got loads of female big girls, but! Not sexy to us. X"

Big female friends I mean x

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy.

That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

We all see things and take things differently and that’s fine. Some may take it personally, I don’t. And if my comments make someone feel the same then i see that as a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad feet and bitten finger nails.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy.

That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

We all see things and take things differently and that’s fine. Some may take it personally, I don’t. And if my comments make someone feel the same then i see that as a good thing. "

And to add that you probably know that I’d be the first person to wade in if I thought it was bullying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unkept pubic hair

Hairy legs/toes

Third nipples

Warts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality, or lack of will put me off someone. Not physical attributes....Judgemental and nasty attitudes

We all have our flaws

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

Unhealthy people. Hanging fat bellies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy.

That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

We all see things and take things differently and that’s fine. Some may take it personally, I don’t. And if my comments make someone feel the same then i see that as a good thing.

And to add that you probably know that I’d be the first person to wade in if I thought it was bullying. "

But you'd agree or disagree that there are more tactful ways of saying some of these comments? I don't see bullying yet but i do see there's a way to write a comment without the cruel follow up. Is the rainbow right to show i dont like or want argument? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unkept pubic hair

Hairy legs/toes

Third nipples

Warts"

But you could use the pubic hair to floss after?

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

We all see things and take things differently and that’s fine. Some may take it personally, I don’t. And if my comments make someone feel the same then i see that as a good thing.

And to add that you probably know that I’d be the first person to wade in if I thought it was bullying.

There are more tactful ways, yes.

However the very fact that it takes more effort and thought process to state the cruel follow up shows that it is intentionally done to cause upset. Some very descriptive words used to twist the knife. It goes beyond poor word use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

We all see things and take things differently and that’s fine. Some may take it personally, I don’t. And if my comments make someone feel the same then i see that as a good thing.

And to add that you probably know that I’d be the first person to wade in if I thought it was bullying.

There are more tactful ways, yes.

I agree. I was asking another

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By *ornyone30Man over a year ago

ABERDEEN

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?

Its no physical but I had tramatic experience once in a nite club .

Saw most beautiful girl across the

For a short period of time I used to see a girl who was loud during sex, and I mean screaming loud, to the extent that it put me off while in the act. I'm sure neighbours would have thought I was doing her in.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Some of these are harsh

not so great for confidence boosting... I understand the hygiene ones as that's easily remedied but come on guys....

But the question is physical turn offs. Just because one might not like something doesn’t mean everyone will. I find these threads interesting.

There's a way of saying things.

These types of threads are great for filtering and finding compatability with a potential sexual partner

I think so too. Many a time I’ve quite liked someone then seen he’s not into big boobs/curvy women/larger women etc so I think they’re handy.

That's what a few of the comments have essentially done though.

We all see things and take things differently and that’s fine. Some may take it personally, I don’t. And if my comments make someone feel the same then i see that as a good thing.

And to add that you probably know that I’d be the first person to wade in if I thought it was bullying.

Oh definitely agree!

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By *s-two-75Couple over a year ago

"Are there any physical things (once seeing somebody naked) that could completely turn you off, no matter how much you like somebody? Or are you somebody where personality defeats all object?"

Big belly’s that roll over the shrivelled cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lack of hygiene. I'm no oil painting but you have to be attracted/attractive to each other. Probably miss out too often as I'm too picky.

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