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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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My heart speaks loudly. I listen to it, embrace it quite often. It's foolish, soft but guarded.
I trust my heart.
My head is prone to overthinking, to being too critical and doubting on myself. For a centre of rationality it can be really rather daft.
When I'm uncertain about things, I stop and listen to my heart. I think it always knows, deep down. |
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Until I met Cherry my head and my heart have always disagreed and when that happened I devolved all decision making to my head. No need with Cherry though. My head, my heart and my cock are all screaming the same thing..
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To be honest I trust both - it just depends on the circumstances as to which I use. If it involves money or has a cost to me then I try to use my head. If the decision is not clear or requires a leap of faith then I will often go with my gut. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"my head is screaming all day every day, but i don't trust either. Px  "
Same. I'm an overthinker so I'm being pulled constantly.
Unfortunately sometimes both head and heart can get it so very wrong, just as they can get it right. If you listen to one exclusively you may miss out on so much and end up hurt. |
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Mostly I just listen to my cunt 
In honesty, it's always a balance. The heart wants things that are impractical. The head is entirely pragmatic and would result in using people for what they provide rather than actually enjoying them fully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My heart speaks loudly. I listen to it, embrace it quite often. It's foolish, soft but guarded.
I trust my heart.
My head is prone to overthinking, to being too critical and doubting on myself. For a centre of rationality it can be really rather daft.
When I'm uncertain about things, I stop and listen to my heart. I think it always knows, deep down. "
This is exactly the same for me. I've been learning to listen to my heart and gut instinct more - and so far that has been the right thing to do, rather than being at the mercy of my overthinking wee head
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a dilemma many years ago. I went with my heart even though my head was saying the opposite. It's worked out as the best thing I ever did.
I think the heart is what makes you happy so go with that. |
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