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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If we place a blindfold on our eyes, iron and gold appear the same. It’s intense hope that makes us try, so we go on and play the game."
Thank you. A wise genuine answer. Bravo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is the example always that someone pretty is innately bad inside?
How about use an example of someone ugly who is also ugly inside?
I always get the feeling that these kinds of sayings are ways of trying to put people down |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is the example always that someone pretty is innately bad inside?
How about use an example of someone ugly who is also ugly inside?
I always get the feeling that these kinds of sayings are ways of trying to put people down"
Because fuck ugly people anyway, they never matter! |
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"Why is the example always that someone pretty is innately bad inside?
How about use an example of someone ugly who is also ugly inside?
I always get the feeling that these kinds of sayings are ways of trying to put people down"
I don't understand it either. It's as if it's not possible to be a good person if you have a pretty face.
I think that possibly these kind of opinions are meant to compliment the less than attractive people but it's actually vastly insulting to almost everyone |
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"If we place a blindfold on our eyes, iron and gold appear the same. It’s intense hope that makes us try, so we go on and play the game."
Yet if some see just an iron bar then it’s value is a meer few quid.
If forged into pins it is worth a few hundred.
But if made into watch parts and works in some of the best, they are worth thousands.
It’s not what you’re made of, but how much you’re valued.
Never let people see you as a bar |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why is the example always that someone pretty is innately bad inside?
How about use an example of someone ugly who is also ugly inside?
I always get the feeling that these kinds of sayings are ways of trying to put people down"
All a state of mind opinion experience's etc.
We a vert visual esp in the fast paced tech world we live in.
Theres no right nor wrong.
All to do with perception,and angle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is the example always that someone pretty is innately bad inside?
How about use an example of someone ugly who is also ugly inside?
I always get the feeling that these kinds of sayings are ways of trying to put people down
I don't understand it either. It's as if it's not possible to be a good person if you have a pretty face.
I think that possibly these kind of opinions are meant to compliment the less than attractive people but it's actually vastly insulting to almost everyone "
Yes there are many pretty and good people and all other dimensions and varients. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?"
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we place a blindfold on our eyes, iron and gold appear the same. It’s intense hope that makes us try, so we go on and play the game.
Yet if some see just an iron bar then it’s value is a meer few quid.
If forged into pins it is worth a few hundred.
But if made into watch parts and works in some of the best, they are worth thousands.
It’s not what you’re made of, but how much you’re valued.
Never let people see you as a bar"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?"
Nope!!
Itsxfull on actions of us that really tell on us what and who we are. Not just what we say!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality?"
Thats acceptable. We all have our opinions.
But based upon what? Fact? |
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality?"
 damned me with faint praise you mean. |
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
Nope!!
Itsxfull on actions of us that really tell on us what and who we are. Not just what we say!
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So what you were saying was that it's what's on the inside that counts, is that right?
I think in the world of casual sex it's not always possible to find out what someone is really like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is the example always that someone pretty is innately bad inside?
How about use an example of someone ugly who is also ugly inside?…
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Donald trump. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality?
damned me with faint praise you mean."
Nope. Far from it. You are who and what you are,in the form you are at present.  |
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality?
damned me with faint praise you mean.
Nope. Far from it. You are who and what you are,in the form you are at present. "
I can't argue with that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
Nope!!
Itsxfull on actions of us that really tell on us what and who we are. Not just what we say!
So what you were saying was that it's what's on the inside that counts, is that right?
I think in the world of casual sex it's not always possible to find out what someone is really like"
Casual sex is like fast food. Maybe it looks ok, smells okish,tastes okish.
The morning after ,sat sqauted ,makes you think what the choices were ) lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality?
damned me with faint praise you mean.
Nope. Far from it. You are who and what you are,in the form you are at present.
I can't argue with that"
If your happy,thats what matters most. The mirror dont lie! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled. |
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled."
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going |
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going "
I suppose what individuals are looking for in the "looks" department is different though. There are lots of Hollywood actors that female friends wax lyrical about. They obviously have no idea about their personality, only looks. I look at the same actors and have absolutely zero sexual interest in them. To each, their own  |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside. "
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!  |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind! "
I have a petty face |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face "
This is true!  |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face
This is true! "
My typo was deliberate |
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
I suppose what individuals are looking for in the "looks" department is different though. There are lots of Hollywood actors that female friends wax lyrical about. They obviously have no idea about their personality, only looks. I look at the same actors and have absolutely zero sexual interest in them. To each, their own "
Very true and what individuals look for in the personality department differs too. I find myself having to keep my trap firmly shut sometimes when someone is being praised by the majority of my friends as a 'lovely person' because I just can't see it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled."
Filled fully! Or half full heh lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind! "
I agree 110% . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face "
Yes very angelic at that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
I suppose what individuals are looking for in the "looks" department is different though. There are lots of Hollywood actors that female friends wax lyrical about. They obviously have no idea about their personality, only looks. I look at the same actors and have absolutely zero sexual interest in them. To each, their own
Very true and what individuals look for in the personality department differs too. I find myself having to keep my trap firmly shut sometimes when someone is being praised by the majority of my friends as a 'lovely person' because I just can't see it"
Yes i understand, some agree to people please atimes.
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face
This is true!
My typo was deliberate "
I didn't spot it. I need to work on my mind... |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face
This is true!
My typo was deliberate
I didn't spot it. I need to work on my mind... "
Soz n stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we place a blindfold on our eyes, iron and gold appear the same. It’s intense hope that makes us try, so we go on and play the game."
I bet if you licked it you could tell the difference |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think it's true for women on here.
There will be some who aren't nice people, but, turning someone down they aren't attracted to doesn't make them ugly inside.
Ugly men are ugly inside for constantly rolling out that old trope. |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face
This is true!
My typo was deliberate
I didn't spot it. I need to work on my mind...
Soz n stuff
It's ok. I'm pretty so my brain doesn't matter! "
You are rather handsome  |
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"If it is void of a heart and q beutiful mind.
A pretty face,is ugly because of the dark inside.
The not so deemed as non good looking,is far prettier once you hage the within is sound!
How true here? And the wider world. Yet many work hard on the outside.
A lovely sentiment. But not going to lie: I do love a pretty face. You can work on your heart and mind!
I have a petty face
This is true!
My typo was deliberate
I didn't spot it. I need to work on my mind...
Soz n stuff
It's ok. I'm pretty so my brain doesn't matter!
You are rather handsome "
Doh, I'd deleted that as the cringe was too strong!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going "
A deeper connection of a beutiful mind,then connectiins of the heart, give it fullfillement,
With trust,respect value,worth and more.
When people can allow other's. Male/femail dynamic and energy to grow mentally and physically without judgement,fully liberated then you will have a balance of growth beyond our minds limit we place upon ourselves,and what society place on us.
Then we can feel some wholesome and peace,love etc.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So if someone on here compliments me on my looks they actually think I'm really a nasty person but if they tell me I'm a nice person they really think I'm plug ugly?
What about if I said you were okayish in both looks and personality?
damned me with faint praise you mean.
Nope. Far from it. You are who and what you are,in the form you are at present.
I can't argue with that"
Most,welcome |
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By *yresMan
over a year ago
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
A deeper connection of a beutiful mind,then connectiins of the heart, give it fullfillement,
With trust,respect value,worth and more.
When people can allow other's. Male/femail dynamic and energy to grow mentally and physically without judgement,fully liberated then you will have a balance of growth beyond our minds limit we place upon ourselves,and what society place on us.
Then we can feel some wholesome and peace,love etc.
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thought provoking and beautiful! |
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
A deeper connection of a beutiful mind,then connectiins of the heart, give it fullfillement,
With trust,respect value,worth and more.
When people can allow other's. Male/femail dynamic and energy to grow mentally and physically without judgement,fully liberated then you will have a balance of growth beyond our minds limit we place upon ourselves,and what society place on us.
Then we can feel some wholesome and peace,love etc.
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Yeah. But you missed the bit about the pretty face? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My whole putlook om life has changed. At 14 yrs of age. I went imto a coma
Near death experience.
Iam so lucky to be alive today tbh.
I work for the Ambulance with all types and levels of people withcill health.
I feel deep and amongst many but alone at the same time.
Heh ho still alive and kicking,take each day as it comes.
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
A deeper connection of a beutiful mind,then connectiins of the heart, give it fullfillement,
With trust,respect value,worth and more.
When people can allow other's. Male/femail dynamic and energy to grow mentally and physically without judgement,fully liberated then you will have a balance of growth beyond our minds limit we place upon ourselves,and what society place on us.
Then we can feel some wholesome and peace,love etc.
Yeah. But you missed the bit about the pretty face? "
Who's pretty fac? Lol. Am i slow,or tpo fast ahead!
Help me?? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
A deeper connection of a beutiful mind,then connectiins of the heart, give it fullfillement,
With trust,respect value,worth and more.
When people can allow other's. Male/femail dynamic and energy to grow mentally and physically without judgement,fully liberated then you will have a balance of growth beyond our minds limit we place upon ourselves,and what society place on us.
Then we can feel some wholesome and peace,love etc.
Yeah. But you missed the bit about the pretty face? "
Beuty's within the eye of the beholder? Heh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh so true and it applies pretty much to everyone in life. So many people miss out by only focusing on looks. But I guess it doesn't matter as much when all you want is your asshole filled.
Do people miss out by focusing on looks? What are they missing out on?
I'm not asking argumentatively, rather I'm interested in why it's commonly held that most people are only interested in what people look like. When I look around in the street or in shops and cafes there are all sorts of shapes, sizes and facial types with partners.
I can understand on fab why people go for looks but I'm not sure in the wider world that someone's looks are what keeps their relationships going
A deeper connection of a beutiful mind,then connectiins of the heart, give it fullfillement,
With trust,respect value,worth and more.
When people can allow other's. Male/femail dynamic and energy to grow mentally and physically without judgement,fully liberated then you will have a balance of growth beyond our minds limit we place upon ourselves,and what society place on us.
Then we can feel some wholesome and peace,love etc.
thought provoking and beautiful! "
Thank you kindly!
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Just shareing some life experiences,thoughts and views. |
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