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I have to say OP in my humble, and somewhat brutally honest opinion, this is a silly question. However! It depends on what for you constitutes a cuddle.
For example; if I was to give my partner a damn good seeing to where we’re both hot and sweaty afterwards and we lay or sat next to each other and I placed my arm around them and held them close then of course! Cuddles are brilliant.
If, on the other hand after the same scenario my mountainous size was to swamp them in an embrace so crushing, with my arm pit hair tickling their nostrils, then no. Cuddles are very encroaching.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it. I even like the thought of cuddling her after she's been with another man or after a meet.
Didn't think I'd ever say this before I joined this site. |
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I'm not a cuddler.
With the important people I do like to bask in the afterglow for a while beside each other, either talking shit or in that peaceful silence that doesn't need to be filled, fingers tracing and teasing with no real intent beyond to make sure that the moment we part is the moment the need is right back.
But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not a cuddler.
With the important people I do like to bask in the afterglow for a while beside each other, either talking shit or in that peaceful silence that doesn't need to be filled, fingers tracing and teasing with no real intent beyond to make sure that the moment we part is the moment the need is right back.
But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part."
Nope, sorry! I'll be laying there just talking to you none stop in a very close embrace.
Heaven for you, I know. |
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"I'm not a cuddler.
With the important people I do like to bask in the afterglow for a while beside each other, either talking shit or in that peaceful silence that doesn't need to be filled, fingers tracing and teasing with no real intent beyond to make sure that the moment we part is the moment the need is right back.
But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part.
Nope, sorry! I'll be laying there just talking to you none stop in a very close embrace.
Heaven for you, I know. "
It's a good job I'm a masochist really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not a cuddler.
With the important people I do like to bask in the afterglow for a while beside each other, either talking shit or in that peaceful silence that doesn't need to be filled, fingers tracing and teasing with no real intent beyond to make sure that the moment we part is the moment the need is right back.
But mostly I want people to fuck off after the fun part.
Nope, sorry! I'll be laying there just talking to you none stop in a very close embrace.
Heaven for you, I know.
It's a good job I'm a masochist really "
I’d fuck off after you lick my starfish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ? "
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely! |
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Intriguing.
I'm quite surprised with some of the answers on here.
I rarely deny my tactile tendencies. A sharing of a post-coital cuddle or — dare I say it — pillow talk is quite benign in comparison when two people have shared the effects of copulation, sweat, pheromones and breath. |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!"
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after. "
I'd give them a hug goodbye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.
I'd give them a hug goodbye. "
With a bueno ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.
I'd give them a hug goodbye.
With a bueno ? "
I have to supply parting gifts? |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ? "
The reason I don't cuddle our casual partners is because everyone we've met has made it very clear that they don't want to engage in cuddling with me. After several attempts by me to have a post coital embrace with different guys I stopped to save myself from further rejection. I think the question is probably
'aren't I worthy?' |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.
I'd give them a hug goodbye.
With a bueno ?
I have to supply parting gifts? "
Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job? |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
The reason I don't cuddle our casual partners is because everyone we've met has made it very clear that they don't want to engage in cuddling with me. After several attempts by me to have a post coital embrace with different guys I stopped to save myself from further rejection. I think the question is probably
'aren't I worthy?'"
Aw, that makes me sad 
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!"
There's this too.
I don't know if men find it awkward in front of my partner or they just don't want the intimacy that a cuddle implies in case I 'get the wrong idea' I don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after.
I'd give them a hug goodbye.
With a bueno ?
I have to supply parting gifts?
Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?"
I could stretch to a mini mars bar. That's it. |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
The reason I don't cuddle our casual partners is because everyone we've met has made it very clear that they don't want to engage in cuddling with me. After several attempts by me to have a post coital embrace with different guys I stopped to save myself from further rejection. I think the question is probably
'aren't I worthy?'
Aw, that makes me sad
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I'm not sad  but I am a realist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So... to cuddle or not to cuddle... that is the question? "
I find this really odd (just my opinion). Cuddles and kisses are for your partner? I couldn't be affectionate with a stranger, I find that kind of intimacy a personal thing, and not saying it's wrong , as each to their own. Personally it's a no for us x |
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"I'd give them a hug goodbye.
With a bueno ?
I have to supply parting gifts?
Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?
I could stretch to a mini mars bar. That's it. "
Ah.
I'm gonna pretend I don't keep a snack drawer stocked with my favourite people's favourite chocolate bars specifically for parting gifts then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
Cuddles like kisses are intimate and for partners not for casual hook ups which lets be honest this site is predominantly about surely!
Oh yes, I am not disagreeing with that perspective at all.
I was just interested in the reasons behind wanting to give yourself sexually to someone but refusing that same person a cuddle after. "
I think it's different for guys if I'm honest, most guys are happy to fuck and go, as I'm sure some ladies are. But isn't the whole point of swinging the fun without the strings? When cuddles and affection are in the mix, maybe the lines become blurred, just a theory x |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
The reason I don't cuddle our casual partners is because everyone we've met has made it very clear that they don't want to engage in cuddling with me. After several attempts by me to have a post coital embrace with different guys I stopped to save myself from further rejection. I think the question is probably
'aren't I worthy?'
Aw, that makes me sad
I'm not sad but I am a realist. "
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My invitation to Claridges still stands (in horizontal fashion  ) |
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"With my partner cuddles please, even if there's been no sex. With casual partners not thank you.
Aren’t they worthy enough ?
The reason I don't cuddle our casual partners is because everyone we've met has made it very clear that they don't want to engage in cuddling with me. After several attempts by me to have a post coital embrace with different guys I stopped to save myself from further rejection. I think the question is probably
'aren't I worthy?'
Aw, that makes me sad
I'm not sad but I am a realist.
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My invitation to Claridges still stands (in horizontal fashion )"
You've restored my faith in human nature |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've always cuddled after. I'm quite affectionate and tactile, doesn't mean I've started to run through the seating arrangements of the wedding (okay, I lied) but I like having that little bubble extended for a bit longer.
It's intimate and rather sweet. I like people who are comfortable sharing that side of themselves with me, knowing it's not going to lead to declarations of love but enjoying the moment for what it is. |
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"I'd give them a hug goodbye.
With a bueno ?
I have to supply parting gifts?
Wait. Is it not standard to provide a parting snack if they did a good job?
I could stretch to a mini mars bar. That's it.
Ah.
I'm gonna pretend I don't keep a snack drawer stocked with my favourite people's favourite chocolate bars specifically for parting gifts then "
Secretly you fly around the room on a ladder picking sweets like the candy man from willy wonka... haha |
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