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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, we don’t block unless the person is being annoying, disrespectful or getting caught lying to us.
In that case is an absolute no-no and a total ban.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes. Don't really see the point in having them keep popping up in searches if they're not interested, and saves me from messaging them again if I forget |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
Leeds + Newcastle |
"No it's childish
No, it's not childish.
It's self preservation. It's final. It's definite.
Or you know, you can just unblock them.."
It's a good way to end a stream of messages though  |
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There has been a couple of people (males) I should block, but finding it fascinating how mentally unhinged some are, and borderline obsessive.
I’d be quite concerned if I was female the amount that come across predatorily stalkerish |
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By *burns7Man
over a year ago
walsall |
"There has been a couple of people (males) I should block, but finding it fascinating how mentally unhinged some are, and borderline obsessive.
I’d be quite concerned if I was female the amount that come across predatorily stalkerish "
When you say you ain’t interested and they still message again like same week? Fucking annoying ain’t it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…
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I want to steal that hooters outfit. Wrong thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if I annoy an 'fabbers'
By putting up odd 'thread' on the (forums) for discussion? lol.  "
Don't worry about it. 
I like your unusual posting style. It's cool. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"No it's childish
Many people block everyone who they are not going to meet, it prevents them from showing in their searches."
Yes, exactly this. I block if I got polite no thanks,
not for me. And it’s not because I am angry or annoyed and don’t want them to see my profile. It’s because I don’t want them to appear in my search or local updates so I won’t contact them in a few months again. Should there be a feature on this site like mark profile as “not interested” that stops it from search and local updates - my block list probably would be empty.
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No, I block very few people. Only those who are annoying me (or if I know from their forum posts that we wouldn't get on!)
I don't message many people, so if I get a "no thanks" I'll remember without the need to block. |
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I only block those that aren’t on same wavelength as us and are particularly rude when we say no thank you or if they post endless pics of something not for us. Not because we don’t like them just because we don’t want to see it frequently |
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"No it's childish
No, it's not childish.
It's self preservation. It's final. It's definite.
Or you know, you can just unblock them..
It's a good way to end a stream of messages though "
This for me- the chatting to themselves in our inbox, waste of time reading it. Persistent messaging after saying no thank you also annoys me. |
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"There has been a couple of people (males) I should block, but finding it fascinating how mentally unhinged some are, and borderline obsessive.
I’d be quite concerned if I was female the amount that come across predatorily stalkerish
When you say you ain’t interested and they still message again like same week? Fucking annoying ain’t it "
Exactly that, it gets to the point you wonder when it will actually sink in |
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"No. Some are on forums & it ruins some of the game threads. It’s possible to still chat & have fun…
,, this,,"
The private note function is perfect for this situation. Well, as long as you are the type of person who reads a profile before sending a message 
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"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"
We use blocking to filter it just stops us from seeing content we’re not interested in. It’s not that anyone has annoyed us just not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"
It's been said before but yes, I block, it stops the same message one or two weeks later, where the sender has forgot or i get a second message asking why? Then a third asking but you never know? Try me out, then a forth message with a cock pic.....
I dont need to explain myself my profile explains it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block if there's no pic, intro, or if they've not read my bio. It's not personal per se. I get a lot of traffic and find it a necessary strategy. Also, taking no for a final answer isn't fashionable around here ime... I'll often respond politely first though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block if..
They don't appeal
They don't entice
They have a shit profile
They're too far away
They clearly haven't read my profile
They annoy me just by messaging
They don't have a profile pic
They have a profile pic I don't like
They send a crap message
They barely send a message
They wink repeatedly
They have new/I've noted often profiles
They live too far
They don't accomadate
They sound like a knobhead
I don't like their body
They have veris I don't like
They're too new
They live too close
They live too far
I'm just plain old fuckin not interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block if..
They don't appeal
They don't entice
They have a shit profile
They're too far away
They clearly haven't read my profile
They annoy me just by messaging
They don't have a profile pic
They have a profile pic I don't like
They send a crap message
They barely send a message
They wink repeatedly
They have new/I've noted often profiles
They live too far
They don't accomadate
They sound like a knobhead
I don't like their body
They have veris I don't like
They're too new
They live too close
They live too far
I'm just plain old fuckin not interested "
* I do actually meet folk |
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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago
Kent |
"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"
No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking
Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?
No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking
Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block
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Curious why it takes a lot to block though? Surely if there is no interest for a 1st message, why wait on a 2nd? |
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"I block if..
They don't appeal
They don't entice
They have a shit profile
They're too far away
They clearly haven't read my profile
They annoy me just by messaging
They don't have a profile pic
They have a profile pic I don't like
They send a crap message
They barely send a message
They wink repeatedly
They have new/I've noted often profiles
They live too far
They don't accomadate
They sound like a knobhead
I don't like their body
They have veris I don't like
They're too new
They live too close
They live too far
I'm just plain old fuckin not interested
* I do actually meet folk "
Totally agree with this list.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?
No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking
Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block
Curious why it takes a lot to block though? Surely if there is no interest for a 1st message, why wait on a 2nd? "
And I've noted I've been blocked before even messaging if I've posted something on the forums that's clearly huffed someone
Which is nuts.. As I'd probs not even message them anyways, and it doesn't mean my forum comments aren't shown |
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"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?
No, takes a lot for us to bother blocking
Usually it’s repeatedly messaging after we’ve replied that it’s a no for us (politely) that ends in a block
Curious why it takes a lot to block though? Surely if there is no interest for a 1st message, why wait on a 2nd?
And I've noted I've been blocked before even messaging if I've posted something on the forums that's clearly huffed someone
Which is nuts.. As I'd probs not even message them anyways, and it doesn't mean my forum comments aren't shown "
Loads of men on the forum block me...I obviously have that effect on men   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never used to block people. I have taken to it since new year though, anyone that is an asshole and won't leave well enough alone after multiple clear no answers gets a block now."
I'm too old to be arsed to be 'nice' to some randomer I'm never gonna meet from the Internet |
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Just all single guys, way to many on here, none photo verified who have been on months on end.
People who don't have any verifications after months of being on here. Plus all the single guys acting like there in a couples relationship.
So we most definitely have a lost blocked list.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, we only block those that annoys us or have gone too far. I don’t see a reason to block someone who has been perfectly polite
Mrs"
This for us too
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not yet. Well except for blocking men from messaging me that is...
'I can turn you Gay if you give me a chance' was the last message I got of a 'guy' before I found the block button 
But individuals? Nope not needed too as of yet. Shocking I know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not yet. Well except for blocking men from messaging me that is...
'I can turn you Gay if you give me a chance' was the last message I got of a 'guy' before I found the block button
But individuals? Nope not needed too as of yet. Shocking I know "
But I really can though.
Give me a chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very
Very annoying "
Quite easily.
Especially weird messages
"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"
No. No and no.
And 3am requests to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very
Very annoying
Quite easily.
Especially weird messages
"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"
No. No and no.
And 3am requests to meet. "
Just don't open the messages. This is what I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very
Very annoying
Quite easily.
Especially weird messages
"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"
No. No and no.
And 3am requests to meet. "
Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very
Very annoying
Quite easily.
Especially weird messages
"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"
No. No and no.
And 3am requests to meet.
Just don't open the messages. This is what I do. "
Before anyone asks, this one was from me. |
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A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.
So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.
So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change."
Thank you. I can now perv again on your white ikea chest of drawers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t blocked anyone as of yet, but I would only block if they were rude or very
Very annoying
Quite easily.
Especially weird messages
"Big cock? Show me? Come now?"
No. No and no.
And 3am requests to meet.
Just don't open the messages. This is what I do. "
They don't bother me. Just no interest in talking to them and easier to trim the fat where possible |
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We got blocked yesterday as someone had sent us 3 exact same copy and pasted messages in the space of 2 weeks and after replying the first time to him saying he’s to far for us he continued to send we asked why he keeps sending the same message and he called us rude and blocked us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh sure. Love a block, me. Sometimes I can’t even remember why I’ve blocked someone. But there they are, blocked  "
Yup. I regret this one 
But my block list is sooooo loooooong, I’d never find you! |
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"Oh sure. Love a block, me. Sometimes I can’t even remember why I’ve blocked someone. But there they are, blocked
Yup. I regret this one
But my block list is sooooo loooooong, I’d never find you!"
I haven’t blocked anyone so don’t know how you would unblock, I guess I will have to just make another account  |
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"A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.
So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change.
Thank you. I can now perv again on your white ikea chest of drawers
Xx "
Oh you swine!!! Haha excellent spot but I’m afraid I’ve just sold them.
I’ll up my game next time!! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"When the person replies, saying
'not for me, thanks' or, words to that effect?"
You can make a private note to remind you why not to message them again.
Otherwise you could block to prevent them coming up in searches.
Or you could just block because they hurt your feelings! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few days ago I unblocked all the blocked folk from my profile.
So far it’s made absolutely no difference. I haven’t been inundated with stupid messages or dick pics and the status updates page isn’t annoying me. But that will change.
Thank you. I can now perv again on your white ikea chest of drawers
Xx
Oh you swine!!! Haha excellent spot but I’m afraid I’ve just sold them.
I’ll up my game next time!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only people I block are the ones who annoy me. I have very good patience so if you get blocked by me it's means you are extremely annoying "
Note: must try harder  |
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Only block people who interact inappropriately, have extreme views or leave their messages unread for long time even though they have been on several times. Why would people block someone just because they viewed their profile is not something I understand but each to their own.  |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
I block profiles that I have not interaction with if they appear in my local updates but we aren’t match e.g. profile says no bi guys, looking for black only, bbc or their pics are off putting to me. Nothing personal, I just don’t want them pop up in my updates and clear space for others
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I've only blocked a few people on here and normally it's for persistent messaging when I've made it clear im not interested etc (was before I realised you could filter messages from blokes) never blocked anyone based on there updates or interactions on forums or if locations make it highly unlikely I'd ever meet said person anyways as not a profile nosey arse tbh rarely check profiles here tbh even locals |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"I block if..
They don't appeal
They don't entice
They have a shit profile
They're too far away
They clearly haven't read my profile
They annoy me just by messaging
They don't have a profile pic
They have a profile pic I don't like
They send a crap message
They barely send a message
They wink repeatedly
They have new/I've noted often profiles
They live too far
They don't accomadate
They sound like a knobhead
I don't like their body
They have veris I don't like
They're too new
They live too close
They live too far
I'm just plain old fuckin not interested "
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