To be fair these threads never go well for the poster. You'd be better using the search function and seeing what advice previous posters have been given regarding the subject. My answer along with many others would be go to a club night and meet people face to face. It's a lot easier to meet nice people that way and people will get more of a feel for your personality that you won't get via trying to inbox someone as your message may be lost amongst the many that most women get daily. |
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Check out local socials too and get to know people. Your public pic is lovely but you've chosen a profile pic that isn't public and won't appeal to non-smokers. Think about your profile as your shop window. There's another 100 shops on the high street- what are you offering that's unique? Who are you wanting to attract?
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"I'm just shy at first so a club is daunting but I'd like to try one "
Clubs aren’t a panacea if you’re shy. A gentler step into the scene could be to attend some organised socials first.
However, you’ll need to be brave and make the effort to mingle and be social with other guests.
Look in the Meet Requests and Parties forum for something that suits you.
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"I would I have upto date photos I have a verification from recently I have a membership I'm not pushy or creepy"
Personally I like to read a verification. I am suspicious of what it says if it's hidden. |
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"I would I have upto date photos I have a verification from recently I have a membership I'm not pushy or creepy"
It made me laugh. If I was looking I'd offer to meet you. 
The ratios of men to women is huge, especially when you factor in how many women aren't meeting. Good luck.  |
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One and a half lines on your profile isn’t really telling a story of who you are.
Women need to understand if you’re a axe murderer by how you come across.
That limited info means you haven’t been discredited |
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If we received a message from you it would be deleted.
On the plus side, no dick pic, but you do need more photos to show off who you are.
More text about you, to show more of your personality. What you like, what interests you.
In the message, we'd want to see that you had read our profile, and mention something about it that appeals to you.
I think the majority of fabbers would suggest similar. |
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Make sure your profile is the best it can be and if you're genuinely interested in swinging and don't just join here expecting a quick easy shag, then get yourself along to swinging social events and clubs. As with such a lot in life, effort put in often equals the rewards reaped. |
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