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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thursday night.
Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep  |
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"Thursday night.
Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep "
I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.
As long we can sleep after lol |
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."
You have my vote for president/priminister   |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yesterday
Mine was yesterday too 
She’s never gonna shag you you know
She already has
Where’s the proof?
In your verifications  "
Wait.
You were Mr Didn't Appreciate The LBD for very long at all?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thursday night.
Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep
I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.
As long we can sleep after lol"
I'm sure he'd have something to say when he's up at 3am for work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."
I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."
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Do ya, do ya, do ya, do ya (ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-ah)
Know what your doing, doing to me? (Ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-ah)  |
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"Thursday night.
Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep
I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.
As long we can sleep after lol
I'm sure he'd have something to say when he's up at 3am for work "
Then he should be woken at 2:30 and allow you to sleep after :P |
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.
I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok. "
Im not saying I'm it, but yours obviously having the wrong sex.
Coffee and sex is my survival |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yesterday
Mine was yesterday too
She’s never gonna shag you you know
She already has
Where’s the proof?
In your verifications
Wait.
You were Mr Didn't Appreciate The LBD for very long at all? "
Oh I absolutely did appreciate it, she looked stunning! However......she'd hidden a chocolate hobnob in her underwear that I had to get out before it melted everywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.
I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok.
Im not saying I'm it, but yours obviously having the wrong sex.
Coffee and sex is my survival "
I'm more coffee and snacks. |
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Not since I joined Fab well over a year ago. I am yet to meet anyone on here. No violin necessary however as I realise it's the same for most single guys across all apps.
Won't lie it annoyed me at first but after gaining a more solid understanding of the dating market and it's heavily skewed ratios I no longer feel so bad.
I think a small percentage of guys on here get all the action whilst the rest of us are invisible. Meh, it is what it is! Learn to live without it and you'll be a lot happier, takes a little internal re-wiring but not impossible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"February just before covid - that's when FWB would not all a Matt Hancock and after that she lost her libido. So coming up to three years."
* 'allow' not 'all' (sodding typing) |
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.
I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok.
Im not saying I'm it, but yours obviously having the wrong sex.
Coffee and sex is my survival
I'm more coffee and snacks. "
What snacks will have you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yesterday
Mine was yesterday too
She’s never gonna shag you you know
She already has
Where’s the proof?
In your verifications
Wait.
You were Mr Didn't Appreciate The LBD for very long at all?
Oh I absolutely did appreciate it, she looked stunning! However......she'd hidden a chocolate hobnob in her underwear that I had to get out before it melted everywhere "
Love the sound of that, great motivation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has been about 7 mths ish. This is about the longest I have ever been without I think, but it is making me realise what I do and dont want.
What I do want is sex |
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2020.
I wouldn't call myself deprived coz I could get it if I wanted it simply by posting a meet (that's not to say it would be a good or safe meet mind)
I just ain't been in the headspace to want sex. It almost feels to me like access to my body is the only thing in this world I have any control over, and I'm too afraid to let it go. |
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Not deprived as such but full proper bumping uglies was October (and it had an added extra) just quick fumbles since.
Life has just got in the way with work, studies, commitments etc (although the act is not the be all and end all of everything) we'll certainly make up for it though when we do 
Tinder x
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"2020.
I wouldn't call myself deprived coz I could get it if I wanted it simply by posting a meet (that's not to say it would be a good or safe meet mind)
I just ain't been in the headspace to want sex. It almost feels to me like access to my body is the only thing in this world I have any control over, and I'm too afraid to let it go."
That’s a good way to think about it to be honest
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
Ongoing; about 10+ years of two, maybe three times a year.
"I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok."
Is it possible to learn this power? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in a long term drought
It’s been forever n a day since 
Just wondering when was your last time ?
How long is your longest drought  "
Your 8th Feb 2019 photo is making me wild |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last August I think. I get plenty of offers on here, I just don’t like most people enough to want to meet them  Last few times I’ve met up with people it’s been people I’ve met previously. A fair few years since I’ve met someone new. |
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"I’m in a long term drought
It’s been forever n a day since
Just wondering when was your last time ?
Still in it not had any since before last summer shame to say
How long is your longest drought "
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy."
Please tell my partner gave up asking lol |
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"April last year.
I am back to virgin hood.
They call me Marie :-/"
same it's killing me especially over the summer when folks wore hardly any clothes and when I go to gym and see sweaty bodies doing various moves it not fun at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!
Oooh who did you screw boo?!
You, in my dreams you total stud! "
Would love to have that booty smacking back into me to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!
Oooh who did you screw boo?!
You, in my dreams you total stud!
Would love to have that booty smacking back into me to be fair "
It makes ripples everytime it bounces back n forth ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 weeks ago after a social night out and its killing me..... I need another go!
Oooh who did you screw boo?!
You, in my dreams you total stud!
Would love to have that booty smacking back into me to be fair
It makes ripples everytime it bounces back n forth ha ha "
I love a galaxy ripple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My last time was around 10am today.
I have gone 2 years without
*raises a glass. "
I have nothing to do with this by the way, I’m just happy for someone. |
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.
I don't know, I find other things a lot more pleasurable. If someone told me I'd never have sex again, meh, I think I'd be ok. "
We are all different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 6 years, I think. It was soul-destroying. Completely eroded my self-confidence, self-worth, everything. yes I've felt like that for years."
Ditto. |
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"About 6 years, I think. It was soul-destroying. Completely eroded my self-confidence, self-worth, everything. yes I've felt like that for years.
Ditto. "
This was whilst being married, which felt worse. Every single day was a fresh rejection. Not only a rejection. A rejection by the person who supposedly wanted you more than anyone else in the world, so if she didn't want you...
Plus, of course, it meant no one else could have you, even if they did want you (which they wouldn't because see above), because you were married.
I've never felt so lonely in all my life as when I was never alone. |
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"Last time was mid November. I'm fine with that.
My longest drought was five years. That bothered me a lot.
Why would it bother you so much ?"
Because I felt invisible and undesirable. Because I want sex like many people do. |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
Smallville |
"Thursday night.
Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep
I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.
As long we can sleep after lol"
I would. I love my sleep that much so. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Thursday night.
Pretty disappointed my husband didn't wake me up lastnight when he wanted sex, because I went to bed wanting it too but I knew he was tired so let him sleep
I don't think any man would be upset to be woken up for sex.
As long we can sleep after lol
I would. I love my sleep that much so. "
Nothing better than waking up to a blowjob |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Yesterday
Mine was yesterday too
She’s never gonna shag you you know
She already has
Where’s the proof?
In your verifications "
Is this like peeing on your lamp post
Next you'll be rubbing your ass across the carpet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"6 weeks has been the longest I've been without since turning legal age, that was just due to childbirth.
I seriously would hate to have to live without an active sex life. Sex is a pleasure everyone should be able to enjoy.
Please tell my partner gave up asking lol"
You need to have a talk with your partner and ask them why they no longer want sex and how they think it's fair on you to go without sex if you still want it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in a long term drought
It’s been forever n a day since
Just wondering when was your last time ?
How long is your longest drought "
Since (1984) when we first saw the 'Ethiopians' on TV, lol. |
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Last Sunday morning with one of my tenants when her heating packed up. It wasn't just the electric heaters that got things warmed up between us that day as always. Let's see what today brings when I go to check the new boiler installation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in a long term drought
It’s been forever n a day since
Just wondering when was your last time ?
How long is your longest drought "
18 long ass months!! |
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Due to my partners prostate cancer .. it’s been well over 4 years !!!
I’ve supported his total erectile situation ( as a result of the cancer removal) ..& can’t say it hasn’t been very hard to abstain from sex totally
But after over 4 years .. he’s realised that it isn’t fair to me … that I also have to not have a
So with his blessing fully … & his best wishes
I’m now back on this fab |
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Due to my partners prostate cancer .. it’s been well over 4 years !!!
I’ve supported his total erectile situation ( as a result of the cancer removal) ..& can’t say it hasn’t been very hard to abstain from sex totally
But after over 4 years .. he’s realised that it isn’t fair to me … that I also have to not have a
So with his blessing fully … & his best wishes
I’m now back on this fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Due to my partners prostate cancer .. it’s been well over 4 years !!!
I’ve supported his total erectile situation ( as a result of the cancer removal) ..& can’t say it hasn’t been very hard to abstain from sex totally
But after over 4 years .. he’s realised that it isn’t fair to me … that I also have to not have a
So with his blessing fully … & his best wishes
I’m now back on this fab"
That's a nice story x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Highly active, only time had to abstain was when having contracted a STI and had to take course of antibiotics to make sure cleared of symptoms and wait to get retested before resuming play. 2-3months, otherwise play most weekdays and weekends.
Yes get myself tested regularly and am on PrEP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time was mid November. I'm fine with that.
My longest drought was five years. That bothered me a lot.
Why would it bother you so much ?
Because I felt invisible and undesirable. Because I want sex like many people do."
I want sex too but you shouldn't feel undesirable. I look at it like this.. it's a game and I don't always get invited. It's no loss. |
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