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the hands off he's mine verify.

By *ob and Dee OP Woman over a year ago

crook

meaby its me but i hate veries from women who meet a guy then leave a verify that includes 'dont want to share' or 'hands off he's mine' does this mean the man in question-if he meets another female does he not want a verify in case of hassle from the hands off lady? Or meaby its a manner of speaking? I dont and wont ever verify a guy with that. The guy can meet who he wants and when he wants. What do others think here?

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan over a year ago

Lymington

I think once you've found a great experience that fulfilled you, you worry that the availability will be diluted and want to keep them more exclusive for your own enjoyment

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t like sharing but I am perfectly aware that my FWBs can meet anyone they like and any negative feelings I may have are just mine and for me to work on.

Now, like Chicago and Taylor Dayne would say, explain that to my heart…

OMG SO CHEESY.

Need to lay off the Bacardi haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a swingers site so I'm totally happy with people meeting lots of different people. I don't get why people joined a swingers site if they don't want to share.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I don't think those verifications are supposed to be taken at face value. I see them as being a style of compliment that implies the meet the author had was of such high pquality that they would be reluctant to share the person with anyone else.

Unless you or anyone else has actually experienced a past meet getting arsey every time you receive a new verification.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is a swingers site so I'm totally happy with people meeting lots of different people. I don't get why people joined a swingers site if they don't want to share."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of anybody left us this type of verification we would block them instantly.

Short term loan not long term bone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s the ones who don’t obviously state it that you ought to be wary of. They lie in wait and pounce when you approach ‘their’ prey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I read them as tongue in cheek /slightly sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones "

That’s just reverse psychology to lull people into thinking it’s true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones

That’s just reverse psychology to lull people into thinking it’s true.

I am a crap shag though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones

That’s just reverse psychology to lull people into thinking it’s true.

I am a crap shag though

Yeah, I know. * taps finger on nose, wink, wink

Say no more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones

That’s just reverse psychology to lull people into thinking it’s true.

I am a crap shag though

Yeah, I know. * taps finger on nose, wink, wink

Say no more.

Great another non believer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones

That’s just reverse psychology to lull people into thinking it’s true.

I am a crap shag though

Yeah, I know. * taps finger on nose, wink, wink

Say no more.

Great another non believer

See, it works. They’ve got you all to themself now.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Comments like that are thinly designed as humour but not everyone reads it that way.

Some will see it as a challenge and others will complain to the local council about the state of the lampposts and suggest changes to public urination laws.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"meaby its me but i hate veries from women who meet a guy then leave a verify that includes 'dont want to share' or 'hands off he's mine' does this mean the man in question-if he meets another female does he not want a verify in case of hassle from the hands off lady? Or meaby its a manner of speaking? I dont and wont ever verify a guy with that. The guy can meet who he wants and when he wants. What do others think here?"

It says a lot about the man who will display such a veri. Best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I much prefer the "you can have him. He's crap" ones

That’s just reverse psychology to lull people into thinking it’s true.

I am a crap shag though

Yeah, I know. * taps finger on nose, wink, wink

Say no more.

Great another non believer

See, it works. They’ve got you all to themself now.

I doubt it will be a problem for me as I doubt I'll ever get verified

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I Ignore lamp post pissing veris, I am here to share and will meet with compatible people with me. Any miscommunication is between them and I will stay out of their relationship. Luckily I haven't had any "Hands Off" instructions whilst I've chosen and shared men on here

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By *hogun300Man over a year ago

Dundee

I don't think anything to be honest when I read that. I look at it as similar to treat her well/with respect or one of the good ones. Also think they don't mean it literally at least in most cases. At the end of the day it's up to them what they say and how they fun their profile and veris.

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By *jorkishMan over a year ago

Seaforth

Just think it's meant as a compliment, nothing sinister

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought that it was an innocent remark, tongue in cheek kind of thing until I was warned off!!!

Very unpleasant experience and I'm very weary.

I will usually avoid someone who meets another fabber regular to avoid any potential drama.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bitch... What am I? A horse to be owned by someone?

Also it's not that serious. You choose to display veris so I assume they like it to display it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

What surprised me most was swingers clubs some of the other half's of men! they clearly don't want to share if the looks are anything to go by if their man pays any attention to other women! Was very surprised x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

WB Dee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What surprised me most was swingers clubs some of the other half's of men! they clearly don't want to share if the looks are anything to go by if their man pays any attention to other women! Was very surprised x"

I had personal experience of this in a club a few years ago. The woman ran out the room crying and shouting after having played in group play. Talk about awkward. Those type of people should not be swinging.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

It's the ones that say don't miss out with the undertone of but he's mine that make me chuckle

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see it as a warning, like they may have an STD. So hands off kind of thing.

Red flags galore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see it as a warning, like they may have an STD. So hands off kind of thing.

Red flags galore."

Hands off he's mine ^

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By *ellhungvweMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think that if someone says “hands off he’s mine” then all they are really saying is that he was bloody good in bed. I don’t think you should read anything more into it than that. It’s only a veri after all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see it as a warning, like they may have an STD. So hands off kind of thing.

Red flags galore.

Hands off he's mine ^"

This is exactly what I mean

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Think this happens when the woman of the couple are maybe talked into going to a club! Few times I've been some of the women really look as if they don't want to be there x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Figure of speech.

I.e You have some nice food ,hands off it’s mine… it’s a ‘child’ like in all of us

Nothing serious.

And also a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think that if someone says “hands off he’s mine” then all they are really saying is that he was bloody good in bed. I don’t think you should read anything more into it than that. It’s only a veri after all."

Exactly…it’s not literal

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Remember that the person has to expoicitly choose to show that verification, so in my opinion it says just as much about them as the lerson who wrote it.

They want to feel in demand, a hot commodity, fab royalty or some other ego boosting nonsense!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think those verifications are supposed to be taken at face value. I see them as being a style of compliment that implies the meet the author had was of such high pquality that they would be reluctant to share the person with anyone else.

Unless you or anyone else has actually experienced a past meet getting arsey every time you receive a new verification. "

Yep, pretty much my thoughts exactly

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