I’m a proud owner of one. If someone doesn’t like it, it’s their problem, not mine.
Plenty athletic people on here, so kindly pass me by, please.
That’s what I think and hope you enjoy your new lingerie, as you do. |
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Completely understand and agree with OP.
My mum tum is such a turn off,for me,hate seeing it.
Nothing can be done so I just try to pretend it's not there
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof  "
Apart from the fake women. They aren't real *nods sagely*  |
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over a year ago
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies? "
Love it  Who cares what anyone else thinks though, just be you and rock that mum bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men clam to be a bums or boobs fan, I’m a run fan, and nope it’s just just a flat stomach that gets me going- show me a mum Tim any day the week! "
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies? "
Embrace it , it’s a sign of having lived a life , Shirley Valentine |
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I was worried too but when I was at Chams on Saturday there were loads of ladies with wobbly bits and they just looked gorgeous because they were so confident and sexily dressed. Own it and love yourself. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I was worried too but when I was at Chams on Saturday there were loads of ladies with wobbly bits and they just looked gorgeous because they were so confident and sexily dressed. Own it and love yourself. "
You're certainly owning that outfit in your avatar.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When tums get in the way of being able to get a good view of someone's tongue or fingers in pussy.
It's embarrassing having to flatten the raised tummy with hands.
Also when squatting on a face, the tum obscures the view from below and above.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either"
If you have that then this position must be a definite No no..poor you
Gorgeous profile photos BTW  |
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies? "
I feel this a lot after having my two. I hate it less now after rejoining fab surprisingly. If someone doesn't like it, their loss! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a mum tum before I even had a baby. I had stretch marks and I've always had a little pouch.
I used to be very mean to myself about my tummy, and that reflected a lot in my confidence and how upset I'd get looking at myself naked. I embraced it one day, and now I absolutely love it. I like that it's not completely flat. I love how soft it is and I think it's pretty cute. I'm not afraid to show it off.
Be kind to yourself. You're your own worst enemy when it comes to this kind of thing.  |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I had a mum tum before I even had a baby. I had stretch marks and I've always had a little pouch.
I used to be very mean to myself about my tummy, and that reflected a lot in my confidence and how upset I'd get looking at myself naked. I embraced it one day, and now I absolutely love it. I like that it's not completely flat. I love how soft it is and I think it's pretty cute. I'm not afraid to show it off.
Be kind to yourself. You're your own worst enemy when it comes to this kind of thing. "
,, you have figure men love,, |
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"Bane of my life. Having diastasis doesnt bloody help either
If you have that then this position must be a definite No no..poor you
Gorgeous profile photos BTW "
Thank you xxx. Yeah its a kicker and i only happened to find out by chance and then realised all my planks and crunches were doing more harm. Hopefully will be able to repair the damage without surgical intervention x |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof "
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law. |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law."
Absolutely no need for comments like that |
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"I was worried too but when I was at Chams on Saturday there were loads of ladies with wobbly bits and they just looked gorgeous because they were so confident and sexily dressed. Own it and love yourself. "
Own it and love yourself....
Amen to this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely hate my Mum tum, plus the ugly operation scar I have above my Mum tum. Both really horrible so I avoid getting totally naked in a club or on a meet if I can.
The strange thing is though, a Mum tum on other women, I think absolutely nothing negative about them, in fact I rarely notice them. It's just mine I have a problem with. |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.
Absolutely no need for comments like that"
Truth not welcome on the forum? |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.
Absolutely no need for comments like that
Truth not welcome on the forum?"
Transphobia most certainly isn't. |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.
Absolutely no need for comments like that
Truth not welcome on the forum?
Transphobia most certainly isn't."
Not a transphobe, just have an opinion, to which I am entitled. As you are to yours. |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.
Absolutely no need for comments like that
Truth not welcome on the forum?
Transphobia most certainly isn't.
Not a transphobe, just have an opinion, to which I am entitled. As you are to yours."
That's not even what the thread is about though, so why bring it up? You obviously have an issue with it. |
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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies? "
Mum Tums are great woman worry too much about their figures. Curvy girls are the best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone (mainly everyone!) For all your comments, low self esteem not helping and try as I can to feel sexy I'm struggling! I do love curves on ladies and don't notice on others but I am my worst critic.
Need to learn how to pose!! Xx |
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies? "
If I like the woman, I like her body.
I'm sure the lingerie looks great on you, OP. But for me, I say only wear stuff you feel good in; if something makes you feel self conscious, I wouldn't wear it as you won't feel confident, no matter how much someone else says it looks great. |
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies?
If I like the woman, I like her body.
I'm sure the lingerie looks great on you, OP. But for me, I say only wear stuff you feel good in; if something makes you feel self conscious, I wouldn't wear it as you won't feel confident, no matter how much someone else says it looks great."
You are right, if it doesn't make you feel good then don't wear it. Thank you for reminding me x |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
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I've got a post C Section x 3 mum tum belly ledge going on....nowt I can really do about it so fuck it is my view ...
OP just be you, men rarely care about it anyway from my experiences  |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I've got a post C Section x 3 mum tum belly ledge going on....nowt I can really do about it so fuck it is my view ...
OP just be you, men rarely care about it anyway from my experiences "
.. dead right we dont,, |
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies?
If I like the woman, I like her body.
I'm sure the lingerie looks great on you, OP. But for me, I say only wear stuff you feel good in; if something makes you feel self conscious, I wouldn't wear it as you won't feel confident, no matter how much someone else says it looks great.
You are right, if it doesn't make you feel good then don't wear it. Thank you for reminding me x"
Sorry, I didn't mean for it to sound like you shouldn't wear anything you want to. You should! But feeling confident in something is key, I think (for me anyway, but I know it's easier for guys)  |
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I was talking about mine this evening. About how I can't stand how I look when I'm dressed, but can stand naked and proud in front of people. We decided that it must be because people have seen what I look like, so I have nothing to worry about |
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"Love 'em. Indisputable proof you're a real woman. It's a beautiful thing to see, and touch.
Erm, all women are real, they don't need proof
Sadly, these days, womanhood is a state of mind, a personal choice regardless of biology. Total bollocks imo, but that's the law.
Absolutely no need for comments like that
Truth not welcome on the forum?
Transphobia most certainly isn't."
You do realise that throwing around silly accusations like this just dilutes the actual meaning of the word dont you? |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx"
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be. |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be. "
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't "
I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?
Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't "
I think from this thread we can see that slim and fit isn't the only body type desirable but rather some do like curves and a little something to hold on too.
Personally although I might question myself I've looked at a lot of the profiles from the ladies who have posted and each have very beautiful pictures but above that have personalities that shine xx |
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Mum tums and dad bods I think there are more of them on FAB than athletic!
Do I know it is there? Yes. Does it bother me? No. It is an old cliché but it is about what is inside that counts.
I understand and sympathise with all the mum tums out there. But love your body, because it is you, that mum tum gave you wonderful children (I get not all of have had children). Next time you look in the mirror look at your mum tum and say thank you, you did me proud, you looked after my baby for 9 months. I know you are not perfect or even what I want but you are mine and I love you for that.
If you have not had children be equally grateful, you are you and you look great!
You have to love yourself before you can love others. Love that beautiful body of yours and tell yourself every day! |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't
I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?
Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me "
The media dont influence us to be attracted to anyone, they promote those who are attractive already. They wouldnt do it if the body type in question wasnt in demand already, otherwise nobody would buy/read/click whatever they're peddling |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't
I think from this thread we can see that slim and fit isn't the only body type desirable but rather some do like curves and a little something to hold on too.
Personally although I might question myself I've looked at a lot of the profiles from the ladies who have posted and each have very beautiful pictures but above that have personalities that shine xx"
They are so many men that appreciate a woman with a fuller figure. We all have different tastes, so don't worry about it at all, embrace your body. X |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't
I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?
Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me
The media dont influence us to be attracted to anyone, they promote those who are attractive already. They wouldnt do it if the body type in question wasnt in demand already, otherwise nobody would buy/read/click whatever they're peddling"
Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. |
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Another fan, even mention it so in my profile.
A mum tum and tiger stripes are just as attractive if not more so than without.
To me it shows the dedication, commitment and love to produce a child and I think that's way more sexy than a duck face and fake lashes.
Keep it real, real is sexy |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't
I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?
Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me
The media dont influence us to be attracted to anyone, they promote those who are attractive already. They wouldnt do it if the body type in question wasnt in demand already, otherwise nobody would buy/read/click whatever they're peddling
Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. "
More than one |
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't
I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?
Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me
The media dont influence us to be attracted to anyone, they promote those who are attractive already. They wouldnt do it if the body type in question wasnt in demand already, otherwise nobody would buy/read/click whatever they're peddling
Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. "
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"Another fan, even mention it so in my profile.
A mum tum and tiger stripes are just as attractive if not more so than without.
To me it shows the dedication, commitment and love to produce a child and I think that's way more sexy than a duck face and fake lashes.
Keep it real, real is sexy"
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"Mum tums are the best be confident in yourself xx
Easier said than done, when you've been conditioned by societal norms that to be fat and with a wobbly tummy and saggy boobs is unattractive. Throughout my teen years, we were bombarded with images of Kate Moss et.al. "Heroin chic", they called it. That was the size women were "supposed" to be.
Well thats what most men find attractive, or at least did in her day. Now they probably prefer a little bigger, but still slim and fit.
This is nothing to do with 'societal norms', this is purely down to what body type is generally desirable and what isn't
I think people assume (rightly or wrongly) that whatever aesthetic is being promoted widely e.g. in the media, that this is what people find attractive?
Anyway, despite being a great fat lump with saggy boobs, I've been happily married for 13.5yrs and we've been together 19yrs, so that'll do for me
The media dont influence us to be attracted to anyone, they promote those who are attractive already. They wouldnt do it if the body type in question wasnt in demand already, otherwise nobody would buy/read/click whatever they're peddling
Well, whatever is in the media, one whole other person on this earth found me attractive and it is/was reciprocal, so that's all I need to know. "
Oh im sure theres plenty more than one. My comments are relating to your body |
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"Eurgh.. just bought some sexy underwear but the mum tum isn't helping the sexy vibe!
What do you think of ladies with bellies? "
The way your body looks is not so important. Its how you use it in bed that matters.
I've had some stunning girls in my life who couldn't give a decent blowjob and I've had some chunky girls with mummy tummy who gave me the ride of my life.
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"Thanks everyone (mainly everyone!) For all your comments, low self esteem not helping and try as I can to feel sexy I'm struggling! I do love curves on ladies and don't notice on others but I am my worst critic.
Need to learn how to pose!! Xx "
Maybe get someone else to take the pics for you. and you post them. The resulting positivity helps with loving yourself.
I hated my post child spaniel ears for years, until a man I adore took pics of me. I posted them when I first joined here, and off to page 2 hotpics I went 
That helped loads to overcome my dislike and realise that men did find them attractive and I now love my saggy spaniel ears x |
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