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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.
Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off |
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"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.
Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"
I think you'll be in the majority....it does nothing for me either. Makes me roll my eyes, thats about it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.
Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"
Totally hate it, if we wanted to see each other injured we would cut each others brake lines.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't like it with someone I've not met but I'd love hearing it from someone I know well if they were going to fuck me hard enough that I felt ruined  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't like it with someone I've not met but I'd love hearing it from someone I know well if they were going to fuck me hard enough that I felt ruined "
I agree. So I’d never say it to a stranger or in the context off a one off / swinging , thats just weird.
But when you’ve got that relationship that allows you to be fun/cheeky, or just total deviant kinky - I’ll say things like that and much filthier! women make me do it actually , they play up purposely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !"
….I’d wear you like a feed bag!….  I mean, that’s got to have you dropping your knickers or I give up.
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"A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !
….I’d wear you like a feed bag!…. I mean, that’s got to have you dropping your knickers or I give up.
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Someone actually said this to me once
Safe to say it never happened
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A total turn off. The I’ll pound you for hours and I’ll eat your arse and pussy like there groceries! Really !
….I’d wear you like a feed bag!…. I mean, that’s got to have you dropping your knickers or I give up.
Someone actually said this to me once
Safe to say it never happened
Mrs "
Haha. There’s surely a better way to say how much you desire someone or how much they get your heart racing when you see them and they have you aching for a kiss when you look at them.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Erm...
It's rare I like it. Sometimes it's kind of sexy, if they whisper in to your ears while you're out and you've just handed them your knickers. Actually that's not kind of sexy. That's a full on yep, let's go.
If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Erm...
It's rare I like it. Sometimes it's kind of sexy, if they whisper in to your ears while you're out and you've just handed them your knickers. Actually that's not kind of sexy. That's a full on yep, let's go.
If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that."
Note to self - bookmark Matt Berry/Hugh Grant films  |
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I find if said by the right person at the right time then they become just words.
Surely in the heat of the moment, half dressed if your partner/s let a phrase slip you wouldn't go marching out in a huff with your clothes under your arm? Would you? |
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"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.
Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"
terms like this are in the moment things not that i ever say them guys that say them outside of this just stop it will you  |
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"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.
Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off"
If it's said by a random on here in a message to us = block. Or anyone with a profile name or profile mentions of back door smasher or similar = blocked.
However if my man said something like this is, at the beginning or middle of sex between us. My knickers would hit thr floor instantly. Well they would if I was wearing any. I would know I'm in for a rough and animalistic session. |
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If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that."
Matt Berry does have a great voice. Like the secret love-child of Brian Blessed and Kenneth Williams
But even he had better never dare with the smashing or doors or ruining. In the choice of fight, flight or fuck - that just gives me instant fight. Possibly I’m a little aggressive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe need some kinda sex talk retreat or similar but I've generally found keeping it simple with pleasurable moans, 'I want you so bads', 'you feel amazings' work and leave little room for awkwardness.
Anything as mentioned is usually said very tongue in cheek and we know it's playful. |
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When Hades, home after a long day at work, horny because I've been teasing him all day with photos and messages that had his pulse racing and cock throbbing, closes the front door, looks at me with dark, lustfull eyes and says 'oh Babygirl, I am going to ruin you...' well that just has my dam breaking 
A message from a random telling us he wants to ruin me just makes me laugh! Does absolutely nothing apart from turn me right off!
Cherry x  |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"Just watching a bbc documentary called planet sex. Really good.
Made me think...am I the only woman who hates the terms...ruin you,smash your back doors in or similar. I find it a total turn off
If it's said by a random on here in a message to us = block. Or anyone with a profile name or profile mentions of back door smasher or similar = blocked.
However if my man said something like this is, at the beginning or middle of sex between us. My knickers would hit thr floor instantly. Well they would if I was wearing any. I would know I'm in for a rough and animalistic session. "
That, exactly!! But it's a favourite thing for me to tell him too.. Once I have him tied to the bed and as I tighten my harness   O:- |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When Hades, home after a long day at work, horny because I've been teasing him all day with photos and messages that had his pulse racing and cock throbbing, closes the front door, looks at me with dark, lustfull eyes and says 'oh Babygirl, I am going to ruin you...' well that just has my dam breaking
A message from a random telling us he wants to ruin me just makes me laugh! Does absolutely nothing apart from turn me right off!
Cherry x "
Oh the dream  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm...
It's rare I like it. Sometimes it's kind of sexy, if they whisper in to your ears while you're out and you've just handed them your knickers. Actually that's not kind of sexy. That's a full on yep, let's go.
If they sound like Matt Berry/Hugh Grant, I'm definitely on board with that."
*nods in agreement |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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When I'm pinned against something by my boyfriend as he growls how he's going to ruin me and leave me a useless mess on the floor.... Instant arousal
Randomer on the internet as a first message?  |
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"I find if said by the right person at the right time then they become just words.
Surely in the heat of the moment, half dressed if your partner/s let a phrase slip you wouldn't go marching out in a huff with your clothes under your arm? Would you? "
Depending on what they said, yes. That might well stop play! Really annoys me that people think they can get away with saying/doing things on the heat of the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me.. Mr O, will sometimes use that term, but in a funny satirical way and only once I’ve got to know the lady. If you knew my sense of humour, you’d understand.
In a totally Keith Lemon sort of way |
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