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Should fab close
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This site needs remamimg to club&couples.com... the amount of fakes or time wasters or folk that chat n text for weeks but never meet this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
Not to mention the blank accounts that some how pass security anf the onky fans promoters
Covid destroyed this site with it being flooded by people
Is there any other active sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you don't like it, why are you here OP?
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Can somebody turn the lights out please? |
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My rant thread is available for your grievances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a real boy |
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Your too Eager op, just relax a bit |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Site membership is optional.
There are plenty of men having a ball on here.
If you're not - why hang around. No point in getting frustrated and if it's not meeting your needs then leave.
This isn't an airport.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab Close sounds like a wonderful place to live. Good suggestion, OP.
Vive le cul de sac. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where else would you get a site that is free for everything that matters and comes with very useful things like verification? Sure, there's a lot of dross out there, but it comes with the territory. |
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"This site needs renaming to club&couples.com... "
To be fair; aren’t couples looking for couples the ‘real’ swingers? |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
No, fab shouldn't close.
There are a lot of people who do meet, they're just maybe not quite the people you want to meet, or people who want to meet you, for whatever reason.
I think being locked down gave a lot of people a different outlook on how they interact socially, be that online or in person, and perhaps random hookups without knowing the person you're getting sexy with is less appealing to some now. I don't know, just a thought.
Posh  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"I’m a real boy "
Me too  |
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"Fab Close sounds like a wonderful place to live. Good suggestion, OP.
Vive le cul de sac."
^^ That’s Spanish for ‘nice ballbag OP’ |
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There should be a FAB strike for better conditions.
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"I’m a real boy
Me too "
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending……  |
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"Fab Close sounds like a wonderful place to live. Good suggestion, OP.
Vive le cul de sac."
My god, just imagine the bed hopping in that street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure renaming it would make any difference??
And why do you think any other site would be any different?
Personally i think its one of the best. Others ive been on are far worse.
And, from what ive seen on here, loads of members have been on here for years, and still enjoy it.
Its obvious lots of people have successful meets too.
And most seem to be able to spot fake/spam profiles.
If its that bad, have a Google search for other sites and happy hunting. |
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I don’t think this thread will last long before it’s deleted but hey…
I agree Fab did get inundated with fakes and time wasters during the dark days of Covid. People were bored at home isolating and I do think that explains one of your points. We have found it increasingly difficult to meet genuine people and have considered leaving too. But we haven’t because it’s the best site out there for swinging.
But as for Fab closing, hell no. It’s just a case of you staying positive, filtering through the above weirdos while the website and admin team play their own part to curtail the problems you cite.
Final point is that if it bothers you so much, leave. Job done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab Close sounds like a wonderful place to live. Good suggestion, OP.
Vive le cul de sac."
Like a kinky, depraved Brookside?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ya gotta love a person that is forced to stay places they do t want to be don't ya. Ohhh no wait...you could leave mate ...your not a tree..move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Site membership is optional.
There are plenty of men having a ball on here.
If you're not - why hang around. No point in getting frustrated and if it's not meeting your needs then leave.
This isn't an airport.
A"
Not a airport, but could it be the Hotel California of hookup sites. |
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"I’m a real boy
Me too "
I want what you have |
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The reason that so few women respond on here is due to them all catching the feels for me - im sorry OP you just have to be a bit more awesome and they will be throwing their dirty knickers at you!!
In the meantime i’ll keep them all warm for you…. And no Fab shouldn’t close but people coming on here should manage their expectations  |
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Perhaps manage expectations differently?
I’m a single bloke, I’ve spoke to numerous couples & ladies without issue and without the expectation of meeting up.
Fab is what you make of it.  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
The site is whatever anyone who joins it wants it to be as long as it is within the rules.Just because you are having no luck does not mean it is like that for everyone else on here.
As for fakes,yes there are fake accounts but most are easy to spot and if you are being taken in by them a lot,then maybe change how you vet people you chat to.
The simple rule I follow is if it's not enjoyable anymore take a break for a while. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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Another one expecting far too much in very little time... Unless you are looking for other men, it's rarely how you think it will be! |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"I’m a real boy
Me too
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending…… "
I know that. We can go to great lengths to create a fake profile
(Ron from Penge)
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"This site needs remamimg to club&couples.com... the amount of fakes or time wasters or folk that chat n text for weeks but never meet this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
Not to mention the blank accounts that some how pass security anf the onky fans promoters
Covid destroyed this site with it being flooded by people
Is there any other active sites "
Can I make a couple of suggestions?
Set your filters so that new or unverified accounts can't contact you also exclude those without public pictures. If you see an account that looks as if it isn't genuine or is promoting their premium account elsewhere, report it, admin will take a look. If you contact someone and the chat goes on longer than you'd like without a meet being arranged being the conversation to a close, sometimes it's good to arrange a quick coffee soon after messaging, it seems out the people who're a bit reluctant shall we say.
Nobody will mention other sites as its against forum rules but you good try a search engine.
Good luck |
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My expectation that _ornycouga15 is going to message me directly with pics of her stripping… not like stripping paint or wallpaper - like the taking clothes off type … is still top of my wishlist ( unless you count meeting Timmy Mallett - showbiz superstar and the girls from 80’s pop Sensations ‘ tight fit!’ ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm actually a woman with a size 10 figure and long blonde hair down to my bum
But got fed up of all the messages so I now pretend to be an overweight 59 year old
Hey presto! No messages lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if you don't like it, why are you here OP?
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As u can see iv onky been back a short tine and il be going ocne my subscription ends
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The solution to your problem lies within the your account section.
Follow the steps for delete my account.
Hey presto problem solved. |
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Just another "I've been here for literally weeks and no-one's thrown themselves at me, it's not fair" post... |
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"I’m a real boy
Me too
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending……
I know that. We can go to great lengths to create a fake profile
(Ron from Penge)
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Covid was great for people to learn how to use photoshop (other falsifying photo apps are available)
(Felicity from Nantwich) |
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I’m probably one of those time wasters you are referring to, only my profile could not be clearer so if people don’t read it that’s their problem.
I like having this space to share this side of me that I can’t on dating apps, I’m not putting these pics on tinder no one would take me seriously!
So many guys on dating apps are just after sex anyway, at least here they are much less likely to lie about it |
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Yawn - if you don’t like things OP then you are welcome to find pastures greener. I think the site works well. |
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So Fab isn't working for you, so you want it to go away?
On that basis let's ban gambling. It only works for the house and a tiny minority of people. And costs, typically, an awful lot more than Fab |
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Yawn. Sorry, OP, not directed at you necessarily. I'm just grumpy today, but we've been round this buoy a few times.
I don't think Fab should close: working just fine for me, but that could be my dick talking as I've got the hots for this guy from Penge. Agree though the interface is a bit dated, but part of its charm for me! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
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if you don't like it, why are you here OP?
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As u can see iv onky been back a short tine and il be going ocne my subscription ends
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Op. If you aren't enjoying it, why not quit now. It'll be like throwing away £1.75 depending on how much longer your subscription lasts.
By the way, your profile talks about being a genuine gentleman and then asks " are you one?"
Maybe this confused people.
You are aware that people can look at your profile in ninja mode, so you wouldn't know.
Maybe adjust your expectations or just tootle off. You have the power to choose. |
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"This site needs remamimg to club&couples.com... the amount of fakes or time wasters or folk that chat n text for weeks but never meet this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
Not to mention the blank accounts that some how pass security anf the onky fans promoters
Covid destroyed this site with it being flooded by people
Is there any other active sites "
They are all flooded with people, people are a nightmare aren't they, especially people wanting sex, i mean sex 24/7,its impossible I'm gonna become a  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahhhhh, its all clear now.
I see his issue. Just read his status.
He's taken his vows and becoming a man of the cloth.
Apparently he's "..maybe leaving for God this time"
Bless you, my child. |
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I could be wrong but isn’t this the biggest most popular swinging site?
It’s not a dating site.
Women and couples are in more demand than single guys, clubs will agree.
There are time wasters and fakes in lots of walks of life. Don’t forget Fab can be free or have paid membership (probably more likely to have less fakes). But it’s also about what you put into Fab, the more effort you put in is likely to help.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vive le cul sec |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect the OP has chosen religion over swinging. His status says "Time to leave again, this time maybe for GOD" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
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I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with people"
At least he got a reply lol |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"This site needs remamimg to club&couples.com... the amount of fakes or time wasters or folk that chat n text for weeks but never meet this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
Not to mention the blank accounts that some how pass security anf the onky fans promoters
Covid destroyed this site with it being flooded by people
Is there any other active sites "
Are you okay OP? |
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with people"
He was he wanted sex and a date lol |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"Yawn. Sorry, OP, not directed at you necessarily. I'm just grumpy today, but we've been round this buoy a few times.
I don't think Fab should close: working just fine for me, but that could be my dick talking as I've got the hots for this guy from Penge. Agree though the interface is a bit dated, but part of its charm for me! "
Ron has some underlay in the back of the Vivara for your comfort and convenience |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with people"
Boom.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol "
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought if you messaged someone it was guaranteed that they’d meet up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vive le cul sec "
I said this. |
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Op the public have have spoken I think it’s a no fab should not close the votes been counted |
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it?"
But the point is "should fab close" i think not i like it here hey we are like minded lol we know that guys are here for sex the clever ones get it by deceit, the not so clever ones are transparent they never get it and the honest ones well they get it if theyre handsome  |
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"I’m a real boy
Me too
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending…… "
They really don’t! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it?"
A man lying about his true intentions, scandalous. Maybe he's looking for sympathy messages offering sex for him to stay on the back of this thread.. |
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A lot of people do really well on here so the site works perfectly if you use it right.
If it’s not working for some then you aren’t using the tools that FAB provides you to ensure you get the best out of your FAB experience.
It’s not the site, it’s you…
Good luck
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"I’m a real boy
Me too
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending……
They really don’t! "
nice rope work how did you get yer boxers off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it?"
So if I wanted a shag n bag, all I need to do is ask you? I’m getting this right? |
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So because OP isn't enjoying it, close it down for everyone. OK.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you don't like it, why are you here OP?
P.
As u can see iv onky been back a short tine and il be going ocne my subscription ends
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Only one thing to say to that. Hasta la vista, baby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it?
A man lying about his true intentions, scandalous. Maybe he's looking for sympathy messages offering sex for him to stay on the back of this thread.. "
Form an orderly queue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a real boy
Me too
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending…… "
True of - I would think - every adult/dating site. Not unique to fab |
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So, reading between the lines OP, you want the site changing so it is only for people who are in a couple or those who attend clubs.
This would wipe out a massive proportion of it's members, me included.
If you lower your expectations of the site and don't take it too seriously you would probably enjoy it an awful lot more.
I've been on here for a few years now and met some lovely people. Not had any bad meets but that is probably because I make a point of chatting and getting to know someone first which by the sound of your post is something else you wouldn't approve of.
It may not be a dating site but I like to make sure I feel safe before I meet someone, as do most women, for me that includes a little getting to know you time and more than a couple of message.
Sorry if the site is not working for you but it does for thousands of others so I can't see it changing just for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it?
A man lying about his true intentions, scandalous. Maybe he's looking for sympathy messages offering sex for him to stay on the back of this thread..
Form an orderly queue "
Little confused how i lied ? I did say ultimately id like to date ? However i dont waste peoples time saying i wanna meet and then chatting for weeks and then not meet thats disingenuois ..
My comment said this isnt a dating or chat site it is infact a sight peiple joing to have sex ... if u want to "chat" then join a chat site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m having a great time "
As am I, think some people just expect to be given sex because their on a swingers website aha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m a real boy
Me too
A lot of single female profiles do turn out to be a guy pretending……
They really don’t! "
Oooo they really do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" this isnt a dating or chat site u want attention when ur bored go one the other siteslike tinder and twitter .
I find this part particularly interesting, as you messaged me off the back of a dating thread, pretending you wanted to date, then all you could talk about was sex.
Maybe change your approach and actually be honest and upfront with peopleHe was he wanted sex and a date lol
He just wanted to shag and bag, which is fine but why he disingenuous about it?
A man lying about his true intentions, scandalous. Maybe he's looking for sympathy messages offering sex for him to stay on the back of this thread..
Form an orderly queue
Little confused how i lied ? I did say ultimately id like to date ? However i dont waste peoples time saying i wanna meet and then chatting for weeks and then not meet thats disingenuois ..
My comment said this isnt a dating or chat site it is infact a sight peiple joing to have sex ... if u want to "chat" then join a chat site "
If you can’t see using the guise of one thing to get something else as lying, then I can’t help you.
Some of the messages you sent were very full on, bordering on scary. Which another lady you messaged at the same time confirmed.
Again, maybe change your approach, you might get further if you’re up front about what you want….. and less creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread gave me couple giggles - too many ti quote - thanks y'all needed that
Yeah I've had a few wobbles and considered leaving, but I realized something, wasn't fab that has issues... It was me.
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