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I really dont know what to do

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

My dad has just had a crytical heartattack, hes just arrived at the hospital and is still breathing but they have told us to be prepared. His wife has gone over and ive just got to sit by the phone. Idont know what to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My dad has just had a crytical heartattack, hes just arrived at the hospital and is still breathing but they have told us to be prepared. His wife has gone over and ive just got to sit by the phone. Idont know what to do"

I'm so sorry to hear this, my heart goes out to you, I so hope everything will be ok ((hugs)) x

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Can you get a cab to the hospital. Call me if you want to talk.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

can you go see your mum or son... have someone with you..

remember your medication etc etc so any news is received when you are your fittest.

post here for support

xx all the best, what will be will be xx

he is in good hands tho..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How far away do they live? Have you spokrn to the hospital, dont give up hope. I am a cardiology nurse, so pm me if you want.

I will pray for your dad and send hugs to you xx

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By *edbagioMan over a year ago

ripon

best of luck;been there

be strong

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

Oh dear .. if you are able to get to the hospital be with him and his partner .. dont sit at home waiting.. Take care xx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

I'll be thinking of you and hope he's ok!

Xxx big hugs xxx

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

Oh no, how awful, dont know what to say but ....... Im sure everyone here has you in their thoughts. xxx (((hugs)))

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would get to the hospital to be with him and his partner, just in case of the inevitable.

Thinking of you!

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

If you can go to the hospital, go. If I remember, I'm not that far from you. I have a car and nothing better to do than watch telly tonight. PM me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Big hugs.

thinking of you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our thoughts are with you at these difficult times, we hope your dad pulls through to make it a great 2013

all our love xxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock"

You are posting in here for support and a bit if normality....it's not a bad thing to do. We are a supportive group of people and will be here for you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im sure they are doing everything humanly possible for him. You posted here for support, make sure you look after yourself as op said xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock"
when i had mine i wanted my family there just incase and i think you should be with him aswell if not you could regret it in the long run hun get off here ang to him he needs you right now

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

You know he is in the very best hands. Thinking of you and your Dad x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh no that's terrible news, how far away is the hospital? If you can go then go, just get there safely. I hope he pulls through xxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Karen I am thinking of you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not easy to k ow what to do, go with your instinct as you can't turn back time later, hope he is comfortable and all the best for you both

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

Sending hopes prayers and some magic dust your way. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear this news Get a lift to hospital, prepare yourself. Be with Your dad n family I hope hes ok.

God bless xxx

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Always regretted no being at the hospital when my Dad died but I was fast asleep and didn`t know it was happening. Up to you but if it were me I`d go as soon as I could.

My heart is with you.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Karen, we dont know where your Dad is in hospital and we know you dont drive, so if you cant get there just remember they will be looking after him and he really is in the best hands x

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

From my own experience, I'd a heart attack in 2001. From what I learnt afterwards, as family started to arrive, they too were told to expect any result, as it is always the first few hours that are the most difficult to predict.

But I was grateful to have family drop everything and travel from wherever they were in the UK to be at my bedside - that gave me reassurance and such a boost!

Go to the hospital, be with your family and support each other too.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

Awwww thats just awful news for you and your family

Do you want to go to the hospital? can someone take you if you need to get there?

Sending love and hope to you all xxx

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By *inkershoes69Woman over a year ago

maidstone

massive hugs karen ((((((xxxx))))) go to the hospital xxxx

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive decided im going just waiting for my mum to take me

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive decided im going just waiting for my mum to take me

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

I am so very sorry to hear this Karen, I truly hope things work out well.

Thinking of you and your family xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"Ive decided im going just waiting for my mum to take me"

I think thats the best thing,you will tear your hair out with worry if you don't xxxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ive decided im going just waiting for my mum to take me"

Good. As View has said, take your meds and make sure you look after yourself too. A big hug xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hugs from me too. Xxxxxx

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

Big hugs from me and Jason xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My thoughts and prayers ate with you at this sad time. If he's a fighter like you, then he'll make it. X x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go to the hospital. My thoughts are with you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sending your dad healing tonight take care and our thoughts are with u and your family here if u need anything xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck & god bless. xxx

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

sorry to hear this karen,thinking of you.

take care.

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By *ercedes62Woman over a year ago

Northampton

I wouldn't stay at home.

Having been there go to the hospital at least you will be able to find out what is happening and possibly be with your father as your close family.

I do hope things are ok and stay positive.

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By *av1970Man over a year ago

Tattershall

Don't know the op but best wishes to her and her Dad, and fingers crossed for the best of outcomes.

To all the posters above your remarks make me

this is the osrt of thread that makes you realise you're in a 'community' that cares xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this happened to my mother afew years ago now. she was rushed to hospital and we were told the next 24hrs were critical. be prepared for the worst

was the longest 24hrs of my life but my mums a battleaxe and she pulled through. after the triple bypass she is good as new and fighting fit

be prepared for which ever outcome but know theres always hope and ur dad can come out of this stronger than before

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

Love and hugs honey. I've got everything crossed.

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By *ursevampsWoman over a year ago

bucks

go e with him im sure mum would appreciate the support hun and you would feel a lot better being ther etrust me i see a lot at work you feel better if you wer ther eeven ahand hold helps go e there for the two of them x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Taking care of you and being there for your dad equally important... Sending good vibes. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would go ...its your Dad and we only have one .. each day that pass i miss my Dad .. ((( Big Hugs)))))

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By *acciWoman over a year ago

leeds

Take care hun thinking about you and you dad, hope all is ok. Feel free to pm me if you want to chat hun love n hugs xxxx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

Thinking of you at this difficult time. Take care xxxx

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

Hope it goes ok Karen. Fingers crossed for your dad x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only just read this, I'm so sorry your dad's so ill Karen. Thinking of you xx

I would've gone to the hospital too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been through this, except my grandad was abroad and I didn't get a chance to be there. Definitely go to the hospital if you can.

Hope he gets better soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have only just read this Karen,

We are thinking of you and your family, glad your going to go to the hospital, and as _iew said remember to take your meds. If you need a chat just give me a ring. Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both thinking about you and we too have everything crossed

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By *o-jCouple over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Sorry to hear the bad news .

Joanne xXx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh im sorry xxxx

dont know what else to say xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

However it turns out we wish you peace.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry to hear this , got my fingers crossed for you , stay strong xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sending healing thoughts your way tonight. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keeping everything crossed for you! xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck and god be with your dad and your family xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope everything is ok for you. My mum passed of a ruptured aneurism 3 days ago, its a horrible time. If you want to talk message me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear what awful news. Best wishes to you and hope the news will be positive. Take care x

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By *aceytopWoman over a year ago

from a town near you

go to your Dad love,take care thinking of you xxx

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By *els_BellsWoman over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Hope you are ok.

Massive hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sending you much love Karen.

Ruby xxxxxxxx

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Fingers crossed for a positive outcome Karen, thinking of you and your Dad and hoping for the best xxxxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

you need to be there..

hope all is as well as it can be

best wishes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good Luck Karen, hope everything is ok - pm me if u need me

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thankyou thankyou thanyou everyone. Im just back as cant do anything else. Hes in a coma and they have lowered his body temperature. Its not looking good but if he can hold on the next 72 hours they will start to bring him out the coma, if he makes no sign of recovery then the doctor will talk to us. The biggest danger is him being brain damaged. I was in shock earlier. I also didnt know that because he and his wife arnt actually married(by law) im his next of kin.

Thankyou to everyone and especially those that offered lifts. You can always rely on people on herexxxxxxxx

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thankyou to everyone and especially those that offered lifts. You can always rely on people on herexxxxxxxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Thankyou thankyou thanyou everyone. Im just back as cant do anything else. Hes in a coma and they have lowered his body temperature. Its not looking good but if he can hold on the next 72 hours they will start to bring him out the coma, if he makes no sign of recovery then the doctor will talk to us. The biggest danger is him being brain damaged. I was in shock earlier. I also didnt know that because he and his wife arnt actually married(by law) im his next of kin.

Thankyou to everyone and especially those that offered lifts. You can always rely on people on herexxxxxxxx"

I'm glad you went, especially as it would have been more of a shock if you were suddenly faced with having to make decisions not realising you are next of kin. Try and get some sleep tonight as the hard work will start when they bring your father out of the coma.

Much love to you Karen xxx

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Plenty of hugs for you here. You look after yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fingers firmly crossed and you and your family are in my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thankyou to everyone and especially those that offered lifts. You can always rely on people on herexxxxxxxx"

Glad you went Karen, going to keep everything crossed for you and your dad! Try and get a bit of rest, your going to need your energy over the next few days, do you have someone there with you? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh no sorry to hear this. Big hugs hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im so sorry a bout your dads heart attack, im thinking of you at this very difficult time, and hope he pulls through,

i cant think of anything else to say but feel free to chat if need be

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By *ilk69Man over a year ago

city.

i will say a prayer for you in your time of need, lots and lots of big hug's.xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

karen ive never chatted to you but god bless and hope your dad gets better take care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope u can rest well now Karen and that everything is brighter and positive for u in the morning. Look after yourself too mind as he will need u fighting fit when he's better, got everything crossed that he makes a speedy and full recovery xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope your dad is ok and makes a fast recovery x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

Lets hope the 72 hrs give his body a fighting chance to recover and repair xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My thoughts are with you and your family and I'm glad you decided/were able to go see him. When it comes to tough decisions, I always think, will I regret this more if I do it or if I don't? xxx

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By *he Original TTMan over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Thinking of you Karen and hope that your dad pulls through fine. The next 72 hours will be hard I am sure, but he really is in good hands and in the best place. You have friends on here and can count on many of us for help and support.

Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My thoughts are with you.

Hope all goes well xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wishing you and your dad all the best karen, hope he makes a good recovery. D has been there before with her dad so understands how you must be feeling. Will be thinking of you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry to hear that Karen, thinking of you and your Dad and family.

Wishing him a speedy recovery.

If we can help as we are near, let me know.

Julie and M, xxxx

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had bout 3 hours sleep not heard from the hospital since 3am so im taking no news is good news. Shall ring them about 8am. He was succesfully transferred to the heart hospital

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By *heekychezzaWoman over a year ago

warrington

Thinking about you Karen.....look after yourself....and fingers crossed that the next few days will pass quickly for you, and see your dad on the road to recovery.

((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))))))))

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had bout 3 hours sleep not heard from the hospital since 3am so im taking no news is good news. Shall ring them about 8am. He was succesfully transferred to the heart hospital"

Glad you managed to get a few hours sleep. Where is the specialist hospital?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my goodness, fingers crossed all is okay, hugs and kisses to you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thinking about you Karen xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thinking of you and your Dad

Red&Nick x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear your sad news......thinking of you and your dad....prayers n thoughts x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your dad princess. Just try to keep your chin up, as hard as it may be. Try and stay with him if you can, you will be amazed at how much the presence of your own children can help boost recovery.

Make sure you look after yourself too. Wish you and your family all the best. And hope for a speedy recovery.

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By *umsuckMan over a year ago

Gateshead

Wish I had the words that could comfort you. I haven't,all I can say is my thoughts are with you. God bless x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope all goes well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hoping everthing goes well x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only just logged in and seen Karen's bad news. I don't know you Karen but my deepest thoughts and sympathies go out to you and your family. I sincerely hope that the next 72hrs will be the hours that count the most towards your Dad's recovery.

No words can ever express anyone's thoughts for you all.

I wish your Dad a full recovery and being brought back to the bosom of his loving family.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

They put stents in his archeries in the night and apparently they are going to try and warm him up later today. Hes exactly the same as last night and they cant say anymore until they try to wake him

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They put stents in his archeries in the night and apparently they are going to try and warm him up later today. Hes exactly the same as last night and they cant say anymore until they try to wake him"

Fingers and all else crossed for your Dad. Let's hope it's good news.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Fingers crossed for you and your pops!

Hang in there xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do hope everything works out well for your dad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my best wishes. I hope your father pulls through and makes a good recovery. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock"

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Having been through the dodgy ticker bit myself I hope I`m right in saying they do give him hope enough to put the stents in. Mum had a triple by-pass at the age of 80 and they said it wasn`t the age that was a factor but the life expectancy.

Fingers crossed for your Dad!

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

You have many friends on here who will be thinking of you and your family, Karen.

Best wishes and lots of love xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can sympathise fully as I too have experienced a parent being very poorly over the Festive period (not that it is nice at any time of year).

Your mind will be all over the place until you get some light at the end of that tunnel.

I was forthwright and controlled on the surface and a jibbering wreck in private.

I wish you well and have my fingers (and toes) crossed that your Dad makes a full recovery x

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hoping for the best outcome for all of you. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

best of luck to your dad karen hunny,hang in there and we hope everything works out well for you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh My Goodness, I pray your dad will be OK and you have your loved ones with you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock. "

Not wanting to cause an argument or having a go but as the OP is a well loved member of the forums, and has given her fair share of support to many people over the short time I've been here, it's perfectly normal for her to post about it here.

Yes it's a swinging site, but it's more than that to a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sending wishes things turn out well and your father makes a successful recovery….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock. "

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thinking of you Karen, and fingers crossed for your Dad too xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock. "

In The Lounge you can discuss ANY subject - not just Swinging-related. Many members find it useful to offload their problems and anxieties in an anonymous forum like this and, if the responses help them get through it, long may it continue....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

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I have recently started training for a volenteer post with a listening organisation. It seems that people who share their worries and concernes (in what ever mode) seem to have reassurance and can look at their concerns with the help of others...........I think K is right to turn to those she counts as friends and I do hope her dad will be ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

Long may it continue defintely. Bit like the Samaritans on here and may they long continue as well.

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too. "

Would it be different if it were mumsnet forum????

A forum is a bit of a community in my opinion and though I've never met many of the posters, I've had support and advice off them at times where I've been feeling low - this is one of those times for Karen and I hope it helps her to get through this time knowing many forumites are wishing her Dad a speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too. "

Karen has made some really great friends on here who accept her for who she is and we hope she gains support from it. In times like this it is really important that you have all the support you can get. We appreciate you see this as just a sex site but many of the rest of us have found wonderful supportive and non judgemental friends on here. People regularly post things on Facebook to keep friends informed ago why are you questioning this. Unfortunately it does tend to reassert the idea that many single fellas have absolutely no empathy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too. "

youre definately in the minority - says on your profile you are respectful - show it please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just read this and send you lots of hugs x

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too. "

I have met many people of the forums, ive made some close friends. I live alone. This community here has helped many in a time of need. If you could see my inbox you would probley be as humbled as i am with the offers and responses i have had.

Yes this is a swinging site but we are also a community.

Hope you have a good chistmas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too.

and

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too.

Yes this is a swinging site but we are also a community.

Hope you have a good chistmas"

Merry Xmas to you too hun, and fingers are crossed for your dad x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too.

Would it be different if it were mumsnet forum????

Entirely agree with you. I had a mini-crisis in my personal life a little while ago, and a fellow fabster kept me going through her understanding and supportive emails. Don't know what I'd have done without her. Great people on here, all here with the obvious in mind but when things get tough the very same people are wonderful friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too. "

Your going to find that you are in the minority.

Just because its a swingers site doesn't mean that we can't all support each other in good and bad times!

And at the moment Karen needs some support, I am actually shocked at you comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too.

Your going to find that you are in the minority.

Just because its a swingers site doesn't mean that we can't all support each other in good and bad times!

And at the moment Karen needs some support, I am actually shocked at you comment "
+1

the majority of us are all here for you if you need to chat to someone karen xxxx

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By *amslam1000Man over a year ago

willenhall

"Ive spoken to the hospital, they have said hes still breathig but very very poorly. There is nothing i can do until i here some news. Dont know why im posting on here think im in shock

I agree,I find it very strange that you're posting this on a swinging site,but as you say,you May be in shock.

im in shock over your reply - this is in the lounge where we chat about anything -

hope everything is ok - wish i could a wish to come true for you xx

I too hope everything is ok,I just find it strange that you would share this kind of news with the rest of the country thru a sex site. I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking this too.

Your going to find that you are in the minority.

Just because its a swingers site doesn't mean that we can't all support each other in good and bad times!

And at the moment Karen needs some support, I am actually shocked at you comment +1

the majority of us are all here for you if you need to chat to someone karen xxxx

+1 me too hope you have good news for us soon

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"This community here has helped many in a time of need. If you could see my inbox you would probley be as humbled as i am with the offers and responses i have had"

You're accountable to no one for your actions

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By *ig jugsWoman over a year ago

somewhere

I think Karen did the right thing.This is a great site for help and support.Do you have to have met someone to give them a few kind words or some hope?

I for one find certain individuals on here to be negative and that's is why I do'nt post often but I always read posts.Its a shame that fear is there.

Good luck to your dad hunny and if we can help you get through it then we will.I for one will be going into hospital myself to have bladder removed and I will post on here for strength courage and it will keep me going at a time where strangers all unite.So well done fab.Do'nt let the minority spoil it.

Merry Xmas x

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Karen, as usual you have retained your dignity and humanity and offer all of us support as we try to offer you some.

I hope things look a little brighter this evening as the hospital prepares to bring your father from the medical coma. I am sure they would not have bothered to fit the stents if they thought there was no hope.

My thoughts are with you.

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By *ursevampsWoman over a year ago

bucks

h ihun how DAD they manage to tent him that sgreat hun t will help massively he night have to hvae tabs for rest life but there so much they can do for hearts these days i know hun my ex hd heart attack i know enought o know it scary to have no knlowedge and be tolsd was at work today and was thinking baout you just not long got in from work thought i would mesage you but cant sory but was wondering if ya was ok today hugs from a random supporter xxx nurse vamps x

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thankyou again everyone, still know change, they are going to start bringing his temperature up at about 2am. Hopefully he will start to wake up and they will know whether there has been or how much brain damage there is. They cant commit anyway until theyve raised his temperature.

My son is going to sit with him tomorrow, thats what he wants to do.

Im not sure if you all realize just how overwhelmed i am by you all and if anyone has pmed me and i havent replied im truelly sorry, im trying to keep up with them all, it really is overwhelming.

I also hope that everyone else who is going through difficult time either being ill or has someone who is ill gets a positive outcomexxxkarenxxx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Your son is a good man... You have done well with him and I know you are proud.

All the best over the next few days...

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By *ursevampsWoman over a year ago

bucks

hun im glad r that he ok for now he stable and that the condition they need him in the body can repair whilst it like that which is great glad your ok as well hun

keep us updated as well if ya can please hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Karen - if nothing else, this thread proves that another one running at the moment asking if it is 'sad' to log on to Fabs on Xmas Day is, to be kind, wide of the mark...

Your son is s credit to you, and his Grandad.

xxxxxx

and

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So good to see that kindness is still in abundance in this crazy world apart form off random bods!?

Glad dad is doing well atm and long may the improvements continue, wish there was a magic wand I could wave to help u all through this but at least u have the support and friendship of the forum xxxxx

Fingers and toes and everything else crossed for u Karen

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

Fingers crossed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is a really testing and scary time for relatives and it is a waiting game. The hospital will be doing all they can to give him the best possible care. The chances are he will come through this and be well again soon.

As for the posting about it on a sex site, well people deal with things in very different ways, we are all individuals and all of us have different coping mechanisms.

If you're in a house on your own and you want immediate human contact, then in this electronic age why not reach out to people who you spend regular time with, be that over the internet.

It doesn't make a difference whether this is a sex site or a caravan enthusiast site, all of us have things to offer other than our genitals and many will be kind, supportive and offer help, as has been shown on this thread.

People will often find it easier to talk to non family members about a crisis because there won't be the same level of grief and the advice/help will be objective rather than emotional.

I hope all is well very soon for your family Karen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a really testing and scary time for relatives and it is a waiting game. The hospital will be doing all they can to give him the best possible care. The chances are he will come through this and be well again soon.

As for the posting about it on a sex site, well people deal with things in very different ways, we are all individuals and all of us have different coping mechanisms.

If you're in a house on your own and you want immediate human contact, then in this electronic age why not reach out to people who you spend regular time with, be that over the internet.

People will often find it easier to talk to non family members about a crisis because there won't be the same level of grief and the advice/help will be objective rather than emotional.

I hope all is well very soon for your family Karen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Karen has offered me support previously on a non swinging related issue and that wascthru the forum on this veryvsex site, the nature of this site is irrelevant as its all about community.

My thoughts are with her and her family on this Christmas Day and all my family's prayers will include her family xxx

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sadly we had the news this morning there is 99% that he wont wake up, it is only the ventilator keeping him alive. His organs are going. They are going to try and raise him out the coma tomorrow and if its the same reaction they are taking him for a head scan to confirm what they all ready know.

Its been a very difficult day bt i dont know how i got through it. Imseeing the doctor tomorrow afternoon

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family. Losing a loved one is always hard but even harder at this time of the year. Big huuuuuuggggs to you.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Sadly we had the news this morning there is 99% that he wont wake up, it is only the ventilator keeping him alive. His organs are going. They are going to try and raise him out the coma tomorrow and if its the same reaction they are taking him for a head scan to confirm what they all ready know.

Its been a very difficult day bt i dont know how i got through it. Imseeing the doctor tomorrow afternoon"

so sorry to read this and all the best for tomorrow.

if and when anything happens, at least it was not on Christmas Day, now that may be a strange thing for me to say but your son will have family in the future and the day should where ever possible be associated with happiness.

again, all the best for tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its been a very difficult day bt i dont know how i got through it. Imseeing the doctor tomorrow afternoon"

So sorry to read this news my heart goes out to u and your family xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its been a very difficult day bt i dont know how i got through it. Imseeing the doctor tomorrow afternoon"
My heart go s out to you ..And i really hope they can get him out of the coma ..I hope and pray thy can.

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

Our thoughts are with you. F n R xxx

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

My dad died just before Christmas a few years ago. These are the darkest days. They do get lighter.

You have my sympathies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry to hear this Karen, I am praying for you.

I lost my Dad 7 years ago just before Christmas, it is such a difficult time.

My thoughts are with you and your family,

Xxx

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By *amschwingerzCouple over a year ago

West

Its been a very difficult day bt i dont know how i got through it. Imseeing the doctor tomorrow afternoon"

These things really are sent to try us Miss Mistletoe..there is nothing you can do now..its in the hands of others, accept that...ride it out and follow your emotions..dont think the worse or 'what ifs' etc..just let everything take its course..

Expect to be hurt, but dont wait for it, it will come, your brain will tell you how you need to feel at the time

You did get through the day, well done..and you will get through others..I know its difficult, but try to take strength from the fact that you have coped so far and you will cope again..no matter how much hurt and sadness you feel.

Take it nice and easy, day by day..Perhaps a part of you wants to give up hope and accept its over to ease the pressure on yourself..or maybe you want to cling onto some hope, as thats whats keeping you going...your brain will know whats best...just follow your heart..

IT WILL ALL BE FINE IN THE END NO MATTER WHAT THE OUTCOME..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are here for u hen, our hearts are with u tonight,

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By *ursevampsWoman over a year ago

bucks

im glad you did go see him tho hun be posative babes huggles lots and lot x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thinking of you tonight Karen. Xxx hugs Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thinking of you karen god bless

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By *enithWoman over a year ago

closer than you think

Just read this post from the OP and want to send my best wishes for what must be a horrible time, never easy at any time but always harder at Christmas

I lost a dear friend of the family last Wednesday and know how Karen and her family must be feeling

My thoughts are with you, take care and be strong xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry, I'd only just noticed this.

Our thoughts are with you tonight.

hugs, Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its been a very difficult day bt i dont know how i got through it. Imseeing the doctor tomorrow afternoon"

what ever the outcome hunni you have all our admiration for the strength and courage you have shown and our most heart fealt wishes ..you are always around friends here and swing site or not we all try take care of those who need it when they need it .

big huggs sweetheart and just know your friends are here to help how ever we can xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whatever the outcome hunni you have all our admiration for the strength and courage you have shown and our most heart felt wishes.. you are always around friends here and swing site or not we all try take care of those who need it when they need it."

and

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My thoughts are with you and your family. It's never easy to lose a loved one but at this time of year it seems worse

Hugs XX

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Thinking of you and your family Karen xxx

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Sorry to hear of such sad news at this time of year

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By *acciWoman over a year ago

leeds

So sorry to read this hun,my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Like i siad before feel free to pm me if you need to chat xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

every time i log on i search out this thread to see how its going - i do worry about people xxxxxx

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By *ovetobenakedMan over a year ago

stotfold

so sorry to hear this bad news at this time my thoughts go out to you and your family may the love and messages from this comunity of fab help you through x

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not long back from the hospital. Hes still in a coma and the longer hes in it the worst it gets. They are giving him until the weekend if he hasnt woken up by then he will have a brain scan and then decisions will be made.

You lot have helped get me through the last few days

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Not long back from the hospital. Hes still in a coma and the longer hes in it the worst it gets. They are giving him until the weekend if he hasnt woken up by then he will have a brain scan and then decisions will be made.

You lot have helped get me through the last few days"

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You lot have helped get me through the last few days"

Thanks for the update and know that if you need help it will be there for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im sorry to read the news Karen.

if you need to chat contact me anytime love xx

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By *essesCouple over a year ago

nottingham

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