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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
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From the is sucking cock difficult
Is the art of licking pussy difficult
So many different things you see
Some like it fast and furious others slow and sensual, some like a nibble others give you a slap on the head you bite the hooded jewel
So ladies What do you like
Is it true that a lady licks the beaver better
You tell us ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Taking bets now on long before a fella (hoping to impress) boasts that they can do it for hours….. "
That would just bore me. Id end up reading a kindle book on my phone.
If he can do it for hours, he is doing it wrong |
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Dam my experience of this varies so much. The best oral I had is when they have a big fat wet tongue and genuinely seek to be selfless. All they seem to want to see me satisfied. Where alot of men just lick to make clit wet for entering. Shame as I love to cum at least 4 times during oral to make me really wet for entering. |
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"Taking bets now on long before a fella (hoping to impress) boasts that they can do it for hours…..
or can breathe through his ears "
The fabled skill of many a chap
(alternatively I use a snorkel whilst down there) ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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I find the best thing to do is hold one off they hands while doing it
That way you can gauge what’s working and what’s
Not by the way her hand moves and stuff
Ie
If her hands all relaxed in your hand then you know your not hitting the right spot or speed
So change it up
If she trying to close her hand or gripping it thighly then you know your hitting the exact right spot and keep going |
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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP you probably know my answer. But giving head to a beautiful lady is one of my greatest pleasures. It literally makes my day
I do indeed LittleBird xx
Oh… I knew you would know that "
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"Dam my experience of this varies so much. The best oral I had is when they have a big fat wet tongue and genuinely seek to be selfless. All they seem to want to see me satisfied. Where alot of men just lick to make clit wet for entering. Shame as I love to cum at least 4 times during oral to make me really wet for entering."
4 times!
Do you offer lessons? I love giving oral pleasure, but 4 times!?
I really need to get out more ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Dam my experience of this varies so much. The best oral I had is when they have a big fat wet tongue and genuinely seek to be selfless. All they seem to want to see me satisfied. Where alot of men just lick to make clit wet for entering. Shame as I love to cum at least 4 times during oral to make me really wet for entering."
Before men are given their Man License, the should be given a test:-
1. Put down the toilet seat.
2. Always show respect.
3. Read and follow this advice on licking pussy.
If they fail on these 3 items they need to have their Man License revoked. |
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My ex was a master at it. I genuinely couldn't even tell you what it was he was doing down there as it was explosive! Bit gutted that it's pretty much ruined me now though as it's a high bar for anyone else to meet. |
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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
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"My ex was a master at it. I genuinely couldn't even tell you what it was he was doing down there as it was explosive! Bit gutted that it's pretty much ruined me now though as it's a high bar for anyone else to meet. "
Never say never young lady |
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I don't think it's difficult as long as you can read the person you're with and how they're reacting. Every person is different, and not everyone is a constant in themselves.
I'm a fickle bitch, what I want one day I won't want another. I'm lucky to have partners who know how to read my body language and react accordingly. Not that I wouldn't use my words if they didn't.
There's no magic one size fits all formula on how to. But at the end of the day as long as I cum and get to taste it on their lips I'm happy. |
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"I myself have pioneered what I call, The Times cunnilingual Crossword technique.
One simply moves one’s tongue around to spell out the answers to the days puzzle.
It’s never the same twice "
….unfortunately I’ve never yet managed to solve the bloody thing however… ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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"I don't think it's difficult as long as you can read the person you're with and how they're reacting. Every person is different, and not everyone is a constant in themselves.
I'm a fickle bitch, what I want one day I won't want another. I'm lucky to have partners who know how to read my body language and react accordingly. Not that I wouldn't use my words if they didn't.
There's no magic one size fits all formula on how to. But at the end of the day as long as I cum and get to taste it on their lips I'm happy."
I always used to worry about kissing after the lord mayor's show. An old fb cured me of that though, when after I had her gushing she was all over me! I miss her. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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"I always used to worry about kissing after the lord mayor's show. An old fb cured me of that though, when after I had her gushing she was all over me! I miss her. "
There aren't many things I am absolutely always in the mood for. But that's one of them. |
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"I always used to worry about kissing after the lord mayor's show. An old fb cured me of that though, when after I had her gushing she was all over me! I miss her.
There aren't many things I am absolutely always in the mood for. But that's one of them."
I found it very intimate and the sex seemed more "deep" as well. Not just in a physical sense either ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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Follow her lead. Ask her what she likes. She will let you know. Mix things up a bit.
I tend to start with long slow licks and light kisses to the outer lips, interspersed with sharp flicks over clit. Gently suck on clit until it really starts to get warm, then move out and lightly blow. Usually gets a result. |
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"Follow her lead. Ask her what she likes. She will let you know. Mix things up a bit.
I tend to start with long slow licks and light kisses to the outer lips, interspersed with sharp flicks over clit. Gently suck on clit until it really starts to get warm, then move out and lightly blow. Usually gets a result."
My goodness. This sounds totally explosive ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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I start with neck kissing, making my way down paying attention to her breasts, nipples.
Soft kisses on her inner thighs, I let my lips graze against her lips and clit.
I love to hear her moan with the teasing, I lick either side of her clit to prolong the teasing a little more. Tasting every inch of her.
I know myself I love a person using the tip of their tongue, swirling it around, flicking my clit, I do enjoy clit sucking but love just the tongue flicks to orgasm, let the air get at the clit
Just yum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good communication is the key.
If you’re giving then ask what they like.
If you’re receiving then tell them what you like and if what they’re doing feels good.
The above applies to all sexual activity. Everyone likes different things, think of it as a learning curve and we’re never too old to learn! |
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No it's not difficult. As others have said it's about technique and paying attention to the lady's body and how she responds. Whatever you do, don't lick a pussy like you're eating a '99'! |
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John is the best i had. Most guys do not listen to you when you try to tell them how you prefer it. My mr from the off did not assume id prefer it a certain way he just asked me straight out. Now it's nothing to get several orgasms off oral alone before he steps it up to the more intermit part. I wish guys would listen to their sex partners who know their own body far more than anyone else will by just going in blind and ham fisted. |
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"From the is sucking cock difficult
Is the art of licking pussy difficult
So many different things you see
Some like it fast and furious others slow and sensual, some like a nibble others give you a slap on the head you bite the hooded jewel
So ladies What do you like
Is it true that a lady licks the beaver better
You tell us "
Well I haven't had a lady on my beaver and probably best not to try. My brain is stuck on cis-hetero and doesn't like change.
A lot of men go in with too much pressure and desensitize the whole thing.
I do not like my vaginal entrance licked or the tongue stuck in.
My preference is for a man to tease the whole area both inner and outer lips and clit until I'm dripping and then suck the clit.
when I'm super horny preference goes out the window. lol!
men should watch " a yoni massage and then imagine doing that with their tongue.
I do the corresponding lingam massage with my tongue when I'm giving men oral..no complaint about that technique...just a few men said their foreskin was a little bit more sensitive to be pulled all the way back.
You have to explore the body of the person you are with. That's part of the interesting fun for me. |
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"Wish i could sleep. Dam insomnia "
I resort to drugs ( prescribed ones) or ridiculously long bedtime routines...my brain has forgotten where the off switch is.
I just took my meds so I'm off to trick my brain into sleep. |
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"I like to kiss the inside of the thighs kiss my way to moist pussy and start to kiss and lick it rub the clit getting pussy wet and then start to lick and finger fuck at the same time xx"
I love to be licked and fingered at the same time...most men don't seem to know how to do that....but maybe because bloody porn doesn't show that often!! |
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Been told its my best skill and I love doing so think those things are joined
For me it's about attention and listening and feeling how she moves but sure there's 1000s of different ways
Like it riding my face but could also stay down there as long as someone will have me there or get so wound up they have to have another part of me
Any ladies in SE or London want to fuck my mouth or have me pleasure them drop me a message |
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"I like to kiss the inside of the thighs kiss my way to moist pussy and start to kiss and lick it rub the clit getting pussy wet and then start to lick and finger fuck at the same time xx
I love to be licked and fingered at the same time...most men don't seem to know how to do that....but maybe because bloody porn doesn't show that often!!"
No they don't know. I taught my ex husband in the end that technique and he made me cum 23 times in one night because he was a good student lol. I think female oral can be quite complicated to get right. Only afew men I met can do it amazingly well |
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I prefer women to go down on me they just seem to get it.
Someone can throw me round a room that's fine I'm no China doll but my vagina and clit have these things called nerve endings haha. I much prefer a gentler touch there. |
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"100% every body is different. Some don't want fingers. Some insist. I also find some have no idea what they really want until you experiment together "
They probably don't want fingers as some fingers are very rough. Some women still need to learn more about their pussy. Masturbating and playing with toys helps the woman to really understand what turns them on |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer women to go down on me they just seem to get it.
Someone can throw me round a room that's fine I'm no China doll but my vagina and clit have these things called nerve endings haha. I much prefer a gentler touch there. "
Wonder if this is what all the bi and gay men are talking about on here then .. if you think a woman does it better on a woman .. these guys say they can do it better than a woman .. maybe they are right |
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"I prefer women to go down on me they just seem to get it.
Someone can throw me round a room that's fine I'm no China doll but my vagina and clit have these things called nerve endings haha. I much prefer a gentler touch there. "
Shame I'm not bi. I bet women are amazing at doing it as they know more about the vagina than a man. |
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"I prefer women to go down on me they just seem to get it.
Someone can throw me round a room that's fine I'm no China doll but my vagina and clit have these things called nerve endings haha. I much prefer a gentler touch there.
Wonder if this is what all the bi and gay men are talking about on here then .. if you think a woman does it better on a woman .. these guys say they can do it better than a woman .. maybe they are right "
I believe so it's just understanding how the genitals work. Generally Men just are just too rough with pussies and think licking in one place will do it and usually it's no where near the clit ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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That for me is why guys have to ask and learn and watch how she reacts and what she likes rather than bashing away. Gives her more pleasure and for me, more pleasure in seeing her liking it
I'll openly admit I'm quite selfless in bed at times so love giving oral or being fucked on my face....stockings too either side of my head....ouch |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer women to go down on me they just seem to get it.
Someone can throw me round a room that's fine I'm no China doll but my vagina and clit have these things called nerve endings haha. I much prefer a gentler touch there.
Wonder if this is what all the bi and gay men are talking about on here then .. if you think a woman does it better on a woman .. these guys say they can do it better than a woman .. maybe they are right
I believe so it's just understanding how the genitals work. Generally Men just are just too rough with pussies and think licking in one place will do it and usually it's no where near the clit "
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I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?! |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?! "
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly . |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly ."
Oooft. Do men?… what am I saying? Of course they would, theyd know exactly what to do. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly ."
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?! "
Whe you're done make sure you wake her up. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Whe you're done make sure you wake her up. "
She cans sleep when I’m counting each one out loud.
ONE lick TWO lick THREE lick… ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I prefer women to go down on me they just seem to get it.
Someone can throw me round a room that's fine I'm no China doll but my vagina and clit have these things called nerve endings haha. I much prefer a gentler touch there.
Shame I'm not bi. I bet women are amazing at doing it as they know more about the vagina than a man."
They just seem to have a gentler touch and I much prefer that myself. All women like different things but in my experience I've never had a women be bad at it but I've definitely had men that will not listen or take my body cues. Willfully blind I think ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!! "
Haha so anti men |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!!
Haha so anti men "
Anti dickheads.
There's a difference. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!!
Haha so anti men
Anti dickheads.
There's a difference."
(Men are shit at well most things) your quote .. didn't say dick heads was .. said men |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!!
Haha so anti men
Anti dickheads.
There's a difference.
(Men are shit at well most things) your quote .. didn't say dick heads was .. said men "
I shall be more specific in future. Just for you.
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By *otsMan
over a year ago
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"Dam my experience of this varies so much. The best oral I had is when they have a big fat wet tongue and genuinely seek to be selfless. All they seem to want to see me satisfied. Where alot of men just lick to make clit wet for entering. Shame as I love to cum at least 4 times during oral to make me really wet for entering."
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!!
Haha so anti men
Anti dickheads.
There's a difference."
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"From the is sucking cock difficult
Is the art of licking pussy difficult
So many different things you see
Some like it fast and furious others slow and sensual, some like a nibble others give you a slap on the head you bite the hooded jewel
So ladies What do you like
Is it true that a lady licks the beaver better
You tell us
Well I haven't had a lady on my beaver and probably best not to try. My brain is stuck on cis-hetero and doesn't like change.
A lot of men go in with too much pressure and desensitize the whole thing.
I do not like my vaginal entrance licked or the tongue stuck in.
My preference is for a man to tease the whole area both inner and outer lips and clit until I'm dripping and then suck the clit.
when I'm super horny preference goes out the window. lol!
men should watch " a yoni massage and then imagine doing that with their tongue.
I do the corresponding lingam massage with my tongue when I'm giving men oral..no complaint about that technique...just a few men said their foreskin was a little bit more sensitive to be pulled all the way back.
You have to explore the body of the person you are with. That's part of the interesting fun for me." you are not telling no lies. Everyone follow this |
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Like all good things in life, it cums down to a good level of communication and understanding. Read the body language & groans well and you'll make them gush like Niagara falls. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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I think it's all down to the reaction of the person who is being licked. I can usually tell I am doing it right if Cee is bucking her hips and grinding herself onto my tongue with her hand on the back of my head ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"Follow her lead. Ask her what she likes. She will let you know. Mix things up a bit.
I tend to start with long slow licks and light kisses to the outer lips, interspersed with sharp flicks over clit. Gently suck on clit until it really starts to get warm, then move out and lightly blow. Usually gets a result.
My goodness. This sounds totally explosive "
It's served me well over the years. Spent a long time practicing ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
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The number one thing from this is to communicate
Same as everything else listen and you will learn
I'm pretty selfless when it comes to oral an generally prefer to give than receive. |
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I'm assuming the correct answer is who cares? 30sec mandatory tongue to clit contact for qualifiy for the return of head box ticked...well licked but you get it |
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"Taking bets now on long before a fella (hoping to impress) boasts that they can do it for hours…..
or can breathe through his ears
The fabled skill of many a chap
(alternatively I use a snorkel whilst down there) "
Snorkel technique is flawed, mouth occupied with snorkel - of course you could just be using your nose, new definition of being nosey ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
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"I doubt anyone has used a snorkel but who knows
You get them to sit on the snorkel and then you blow while twirling them on top.
Who hasn't done that"
As long as it's not one of the full face snorkel you see now
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I've not met a huge number of guys, and so far, a few who said "I can breathe through my ears, I love it, can do it for hours" etc, didn't do it at all, and some were really, really bad at it, like they were chewing corn on the cob.
For me personally, if it's not the clit you're paying attention to, it's not going to work. The sure fire way to get me to explode very quickly is to focus solely on the clit, licking and sucking with either a toy, or a couple of fingers inside me at the same time.
One of the most frustrating things for me is if the guy has me squirming all over the bed with some excellent clit and finger work and then stops to lick the labia etc, it stops the building orgasm dead in its tracks.
Done correctly, I cum embarrassingly quickly and repeatedly. Done badly and my poor foof feels likes it's been bashed with a meat hammer. |
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over a year ago
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I’d say both are just as difficult as each other , no two people are the same. A lot claim to be “the best” at giving oral but very few are actually good at it. Putting the effort in and truly enjoying what you are doing is what matters. |
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By *tlwMan
over a year ago
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"I’d say both are just as difficult as each other , no two people are the same. A lot claim to be “the best” at giving oral but very few are actually good at it. Putting the effort in and truly enjoying what you are doing is what matters. "
I couldn't agree more - being a selfless giver is what matters the most. |
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over a year ago
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Wonder if this is what all the bi and gay men are talking about on here then .. if you think a woman does it better on a woman .. these guys say they can do it better than a woman .. maybe they are right "
Why don’t you try it and let us all know as we’re (apparently) so bad at getting it right. |
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It can be but it depends on the woman. If they just like clit stimulation, then it's not too bad as I can focus on that and then read the body language in terms of how much pressure to put on, how fast to go etc.
It becomes difficult when they like fingers inside as well firstly, because einfthe angles and also having to focus on two different things at once.
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I'm just enthusiastic and will follow the reactions from the woman. One girl I saw went absolutely still and silent when she was close, but then would let out a huge moan and her body spasmed like crazy.
Ride my face, relax and let me go down and do my thing, whatever. Just love making women cum with my mouth ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
When a woman loves it, and comes repeatedly and hard , it is genuinely my favourite thing. Sometimes if I’m in the mood I’m happy to be there for hours if she’s enjoying it and you do know, certain physical things just can’t be faked. Experiencing that is often all I need and it’s also far less physically demanding than fucking for hours.
There is one woman who I have a fun relationship with and will say come over and sit on my face , she’s more than happy to ride my face all night, she’s loves it and gets very little pleasure from a cock in there so I dint even bother anymore and as long as I can get air and the occasional time out I’m very happy and want nothing in return other than a constant supply of sticky cum all over my face as she grinds into me moaning and pulling my hair for hours and hours….
Techniques differ so much from woman to woman , I’ve had it where they want left to right over the clit but not right to left , or slow circles, up and down, short or long strokes , clit sucking, labia licking or sucking ,lots of pressure, fingers involved or not, and sometimes the least pressure possible so just the very tip of your tongue is barely touching just the tip of the clit in tiny but precise circular movements . Others like a deep hard tongue fucking inside with two or three fingers in the bum as well.
It’s just Pure joy
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!!
Haha so anti men "
My preference is to tie the naughty bad oral man up/down and just tell him to stick out his tongue and sit on his face. Lol! That way I control how much or how little and what area he licks. Lol!
I promise not to smother or drown...um..unless that's what he wants?!
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"I'm just enthusiastic and will follow the reactions from the woman. One girl I saw went absolutely still and silent when she was close, but then would let out a huge moan and her body spasmed like crazy.
Ride my face, relax and let me go down and do my thing, whatever. Just love making women cum with my mouth "
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"From the is sucking cock difficult
Is the art of licking pussy difficult
So many different things you see
Some like it fast and furious others slow and sensual, some like a nibble others give you a slap on the head you bite the hooded jewel
So ladies What do you like
Is it true that a lady licks the beaver better
You tell us
Well I haven't had a lady on my beaver and probably best not to try. My brain is stuck on cis-hetero and doesn't like change.
A lot of men go in with too much pressure and desensitize the whole thing.
I do not like my vaginal entrance licked or the tongue stuck in.
My preference is for a man to tease the whole area both inner and outer lips and clit until I'm dripping and then suck the clit.
when I'm super horny preference goes out the window. lol!
men should watch " a yoni massage and then imagine doing that with their tongue.
I do the corresponding lingam massage with my tongue when I'm giving men oral..no complaint about that technique...just a few men said their foreskin was a little bit more sensitive to be pulled all the way back.
You have to explore the body of the person you are with. That's part of the interesting fun for me.you are not telling no lies. Everyone follow this"
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"When a woman loves it, and comes repeatedly and hard , it is genuinely my favourite thing. Sometimes if I’m in the mood I’m happy to be there for hours if she’s enjoying it and you do know, certain physical things just can’t be faked. Experiencing that is often all I need and it’s also far less physically demanding than fucking for hours.
There is one woman who I have a fun relationship with and will say come over and sit on my face , she’s more than happy to ride my face all night, she’s loves it and gets very little pleasure from a cock in there so I dint even bother anymore and as long as I can get air and the occasional time out I’m very happy and want nothing in return other than a constant supply of sticky cum all over my face as she grinds into me moaning and pulling my hair for hours and hours….
Techniques differ so much from woman to woman , I’ve had it where they want left to right over the clit but not right to left , or slow circles, up and down, short or long strokes , clit sucking, labia licking or sucking ,lots of pressure, fingers involved or not, and sometimes the least pressure possible so just the very tip of your tongue is barely touching just the tip of the clit in tiny but precise circular movements . Others like a deep hard tongue fucking inside with two or three fingers in the bum as well.
It’s just Pure joy
"
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"I myself have pioneered what I call, The Times cunnilingual Crossword technique.
One simply moves one’s tongue around to spell out the answers to the days puzzle.
It’s never the same twice
….unfortunately I’ve never yet managed to solve the bloody thing however… "
9 letters, I_C_MM_NG
Can't seem to figure out the last 3 letter
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"I myself have pioneered what I call, The Times cunnilingual Crossword technique.
One simply moves one’s tongue around to spell out the answers to the days puzzle.
It’s never the same twice
….unfortunately I’ve never yet managed to solve the bloody thing however…
9 letters, I_C_MM_NG
Can't seem to figure out the last 3 letter
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"I like to kiss the inside of the thighs kiss my way to moist pussy and start to kiss and lick it rub the clit getting pussy wet and then start to lick and finger fuck at the same time xx
I love to be licked and fingered at the same time...most men don't seem to know how to do that....but maybe because bloody porn doesn't show that often!!
No they don't know. I taught my ex husband in the end that technique and he made me cum 23 times in one night because he was a good student lol. I think female oral can be quite complicated to get right. Only afew men I met can do it amazingly well"
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
My tongue was totally knackered the next day after it - it had been a longggggggggg time .
I wasn’t down there hours, honest!
Colleague at work: “Why are you talking funny, Sock?”
Me: “Erm, ah, erm……”
I think a tongue workout routine is needed .
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When you love what you do, it is no question of difficulty but more so how to translate your passion for it into meaningful action.
I guess practice and feedback helps. And understanding that what works for one, may not work for the someone else. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"When a woman loves it, and comes repeatedly and hard , it is genuinely my favourite thing. Sometimes if I’m in the mood I’m happy to be there for hours if she’s enjoying it and you do know, certain physical things just can’t be faked. Experiencing that is often all I need and it’s also far less physically demanding than fucking for hours.
There is one woman who I have a fun relationship with and will say come over and sit on my face , she’s more than happy to ride my face all night, she’s loves it and gets very little pleasure from a cock in there so I dint even bother anymore and as long as I can get air and the occasional time out I’m very happy and want nothing in return other than a constant supply of sticky cum all over my face as she grinds into me moaning and pulling my hair for hours and hours….
Techniques differ so much from woman to woman , I’ve had it where they want left to right over the clit but not right to left , or slow circles, up and down, short or long strokes , clit sucking, labia licking or sucking ,lots of pressure, fingers involved or not, and sometimes the least pressure possible so just the very tip of your tongue is barely touching just the tip of the clit in tiny but precise circular movements . Others like a deep hard tongue fucking inside with two or three fingers in the bum as well.
It’s just Pure joy
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Erm hi. We've not met before but if you have the time I'd love for you to show me the joy you feel. Don't think I've ever experienced it. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"When a woman loves it, and comes repeatedly and hard , it is genuinely my favourite thing. Sometimes if I’m in the mood I’m happy to be there for hours if she’s enjoying it and you do know, certain physical things just can’t be faked. Experiencing that is often all I need and it’s also far less physically demanding than fucking for hours.
There is one woman who I have a fun relationship with and will say come over and sit on my face , she’s more than happy to ride my face all night, she’s loves it and gets very little pleasure from a cock in there so I dint even bother anymore and as long as I can get air and the occasional time out I’m very happy and want nothing in return other than a constant supply of sticky cum all over my face as she grinds into me moaning and pulling my hair for hours and hours….
Techniques differ so much from woman to woman , I’ve had it where they want left to right over the clit but not right to left , or slow circles, up and down, short or long strokes , clit sucking, labia licking or sucking ,lots of pressure, fingers involved or not, and sometimes the least pressure possible so just the very tip of your tongue is barely touching just the tip of the clit in tiny but precise circular movements . Others like a deep hard tongue fucking inside with two or three fingers in the bum as well.
It’s just Pure joy
Erm hi. We've not met before but if you have the time I'd love for you to show me the joy you feel. Don't think I've ever experienced it. "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"When a woman loves it, and comes repeatedly and hard , it is genuinely my favourite thing. Sometimes if I’m in the mood I’m happy to be there for hours if she’s enjoying it and you do know, certain physical things just can’t be faked. Experiencing that is often all I need and it’s also far less physically demanding than fucking for hours.
There is one woman who I have a fun relationship with and will say come over and sit on my face , she’s more than happy to ride my face all night, she’s loves it and gets very little pleasure from a cock in there so I dint even bother anymore and as long as I can get air and the occasional time out I’m very happy and want nothing in return other than a constant supply of sticky cum all over my face as she grinds into me moaning and pulling my hair for hours and hours….
Techniques differ so much from woman to woman , I’ve had it where they want left to right over the clit but not right to left , or slow circles, up and down, short or long strokes , clit sucking, labia licking or sucking ,lots of pressure, fingers involved or not, and sometimes the least pressure possible so just the very tip of your tongue is barely touching just the tip of the clit in tiny but precise circular movements . Others like a deep hard tongue fucking inside with two or three fingers in the bum as well.
It’s just Pure joy
Erm hi. We've not met before but if you have the time I'd love for you to show me the joy you feel. Don't think I've ever experienced it.
You go girl! Speak it into existence."
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"If you can’t bring a lady to orgasm orally within 30 mins, then the situation is not working.
Either she is not relaxed/into it enough or perhaps more homework’s needs to be done."
Maybe , but not all women orgasm easily. Some seem to get very close but the final hurdle can seem to take forever and requires constant increased intensity rather than just more of the same or a different technique or then not being relaxed enough, it’s just harder for them in general to orgasm and you need to be extremely tenacious and really pin them down almost dominating the vagina |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"When a woman loves it, and comes repeatedly and hard , it is genuinely my favourite thing. Sometimes if I’m in the mood I’m happy to be there for hours if she’s enjoying it and you do know, certain physical things just can’t be faked. Experiencing that is often all I need and it’s also far less physically demanding than fucking for hours.
There is one woman who I have a fun relationship with and will say come over and sit on my face , she’s more than happy to ride my face all night, she’s loves it and gets very little pleasure from a cock in there so I dint even bother anymore and as long as I can get air and the occasional time out I’m very happy and want nothing in return other than a constant supply of sticky cum all over my face as she grinds into me moaning and pulling my hair for hours and hours….
Techniques differ so much from woman to woman , I’ve had it where they want left to right over the clit but not right to left , or slow circles, up and down, short or long strokes , clit sucking, labia licking or sucking ,lots of pressure, fingers involved or not, and sometimes the least pressure possible so just the very tip of your tongue is barely touching just the tip of the clit in tiny but precise circular movements . Others like a deep hard tongue fucking inside with two or three fingers in the bum as well.
It’s just Pure joy
Erm hi. We've not met before but if you have the time I'd love for you to show me the joy you feel. Don't think I've ever experienced it. "
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My husband is amazing with me but like I said on the bj post it’s due to the fact he knows exactly the way I like it .
Women do seem to have a softer touch with me which I enjoy.I think it’s due to the fact that us women know the majority of us don’t like it to go on for hours as it becomes slightly boring and our minds wander . |
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"My husband is amazing with me but like I said on the bj post it’s due to the fact he knows exactly the way I like it .
Women do seem to have a softer touch with me which I enjoy.I think it’s due to the fact that us women know the majority of us don’t like it to go on for hours as it becomes slightly boring and our minds wander ."
Seems like a regular partner is the way forward or a man with amazing technique. It happens handful times in my life where their skills blew me away. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"My husband is amazing with me but like I said on the bj post it’s due to the fact he knows exactly the way I like it .
Women do seem to have a softer touch with me which I enjoy.I think it’s due to the fact that us women know the majority of us don’t like it to go on for hours as it becomes slightly boring and our minds wander .
Seems like a regular partner is the way forward or a man with amazing technique. It happens handful times in my life where their skills blew me away." Where did you end up? |
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"I don't think it's difficult as long as you can read the person you're with and how they're reacting. Every person is different, and not everyone is a constant in themselves.
I'm a fickle bitch, what I want one day I won't want another. I'm lucky to have partners who know how to read my body language and react accordingly. Not that I wouldn't use my words if they didn't.
There's no magic one size fits all formula on how to. But at the end of the day as long as I cum and get to taste it on their lips I'm happy."
This, very much so! I love oral, it relaxes me so much whilst giving me immense waves of pleasure. I have been lucky to have had men who were really good at it and I never wanted them to stop . But sometimes there is way too much pressure put on the clit or the person just keeps missing "the beat". Therefore, I will repeat it: listen to the clues the woman's body is giving you! |
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"I suppose if blow jobs is ‘hard work’ … licking pussy is a matter of taste. …
Can it be difficult to do it wrong? Just stick your tongue out and pretend to lick 2000 postage stamps?!
Hardly any women know how to suck cock properly .
Women are shit at blow jobs.
Men are shit at, well most things.
Masturbation is the way forward!!!
Haha so anti men
My preference is to tie the naughty bad oral man up/down and just tell him to stick out his tongue and sit on his face. Lol! That way I control how much or how little and what area he licks. Lol!
I promise not to smother or drown...um..unless that's what he wants?!
Being a switch is so fun. "
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"No it's not difficult. As others have said it's about technique and paying attention to the lady's body and how she responds. Whatever you do, don't lick a pussy like you're eating a '99'! "
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