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Is a handjob a dying art these days?
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I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."
And that is why the brattiest of tentacles, you're a wise woman.
Handjobs are never great in my experience  |
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It's not a dying art, but if you avoid the use of mouth, you definitely shouldn't avoid the use of spit, and lots of it. Drool it on, massage it into the balls, work that cock with one hand and massage the balls with the other, maybe even a finger in the bum. |
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."
I prefer a hand job over oral anyday, it's so much better when someone else is doing it especially if we are in such a position that I can be fingering her or rubbing her clit at the same time |
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"It's not a dying art, but if you avoid the use of mouth, you definitely shouldn't avoid the use of spit, and lots of it. Drool it on, massage it into the balls, work that cock with one hand and massage the balls with the other, maybe even a finger in the bum."
No gobbing on my throbbing, please.  |
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral.
And that is why the brattiest of tentacles, you're a wise woman.
Handjobs are never great in my experience "
Obvs never been at the hands of a handjob artist does involve surrendering yourself though mind you. Noone can give you a great experience if you're not willing to receive it. Being tied is helpful to some. |
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."
Oh, it is so different! I almost melt when Alice's hands touch my cock.
And when one then moves to the balls!  |
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"It's not a dying art, but if you avoid the use of mouth, you definitely shouldn't avoid the use of spit, and lots of it. Drool it on..."
Nope!
I guess that just goes to show that we are all different. Never one is ever spitting on me, or drooling onto me. Turns me right off. |
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A handjob can be very erotic in the right setting.
The teasing, the hand sliding over the bulge, the sliding your fingers in through the zip thumb sliding over the wet tip,the sensual kiss, the eye contact. The anticipation.
A lost art.
Shaz x
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By *luboyoMan
over a year ago
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"It’s definitely not a dying art OP. Especially if you’re looking directly in their eyes as you pleasure them  "
I love a hand job. Lying together kissing and just being wanked off. Heaven |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Interesting thread and taking notes as I'll intersperse some hand action with oral but I rarely give a 'standalone handy' on the basis that I'm never going to match the honed technique of the guy's own hand. |
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I adore receiving a good hand job. What makes it good is the slow sensual build up, with stroking of balls, inner thighs etc thrown in, as well as plenty of lube and oil. For the ladies saying it's nothing the guy can't do better himself, while we definitely know how to get ourselves off, having a woman do it, where I don't know how she's going to touch me, or when she's going to change pace, or tease me, is way more exciting than anything I can do to myself. |
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."
This. Interesting thread. |
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."
It's always better when it's someone else's hand. There's so many different ways/angles and they all feel different. When it's good I don't want to climax, I want it to keep going and keep changing building up until it can't be held any longer (or your wrist hurts like fuck then just finish already)  |
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"I cannot remember ever receiving a handjob? Although; I was once offered cash if I let a guy wank me off….  "
Really? Growing up you didnt have that year where you'd moved past kissing but not to oral yet so a girl would just clumsily do her best? |
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Sometimes I enjoy a handjob from Alice more than penetrative sex. It's just mind-blowing.
When my little fella is performing well and it just goes on and on it's almost *too* good. The other week she had to pause half way through because she was laughing too hard when my eyes apparently rolled back into my head like I was having a religious experience! |
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"I cannot remember ever receiving a handjob? Although; I was once offered cash if I let a guy wank me off….
Really? Growing up you didnt have that year where you'd moved past kissing but not to oral yet so a girl would just clumsily do her best?"
No? I suppose the closest I got was having my cock stroked while I drove a gf home one time? Girls just want a cock inside them, in my experience  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Oh hell no - I adore giving my partner a hand job. I love to feel him harden in my hands, watch the head throb as I tease him- I especially love kneeling between his legs at seeing him watching my arousal as I touch him. Listening to the moans that come from him, those little twitches as he gets more turned on - fuck it makes me wet just thinking about it! |
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"I don't think I'm very good at them so it probably puts me off.
I agree though that they can be really hot.
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One delightfully intimate way around this is if your partner initially gently takes and holds your hand around his cock and performs the motions with your hand. That way he can both show you exactly how he likes it (the speed, the grip strength etc) and you can both bask in the incredible sexual intensity that such an act bequeaths |
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"I always feel when giving a hand job that it's not anything they couldn't do for themselves, and probably better since they know exactly what works for them and theres not much to be gained from being able to approach from different angles. So I do tend to move quickly on to the oral."
This ^ |
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Just a hand job, meh. But using my hands to explore and tease until he either comes or has to be inside me right now? That's something else entirely
I like it when we're kissing side by side and from that angle my hand is upside down which means I can use the side of my knuckle just *here* and the pad of my *thumb* just there and tease only the head. And, whoops, is that bit really sensitive and makes him catch his breath? I might have to do that again. Because it's not something he can easily do for himself.
Or I'm kneeling between his thighs using both hands covered in oil or lube to create the sensation of never-endingness. And then sliding one hand up, then over and back down again and seeing him squirm with pleasure.
Definitely not a dying art and now I've got empty hands and the horn!
J |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
I was with someone recently that gave me an incredible handjob, she was watching a Lingan massage video while she did it and copied what they did and used it like a training video, but it was pretty amazing. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Just a hand job, meh. But using my hands to explore and tease until he either comes or has to be inside me right now? That's something else entirely
I like it when we're kissing side by side and from that angle my hand is upside down which means I can use the side of my knuckle just *here* and the pad of my *thumb* just there and tease only the head. And, whoops, is that bit really sensitive and makes him catch his breath? I might have to do that again. Because it's not something he can easily do for himself.
Or I'm kneeling between his thighs using both hands covered in oil or lube to create the sensation of never-endingness. And then sliding one hand up, then over and back down again and seeing him squirm with pleasure.
Definitely not a dying art and now I've got empty hands and the horn!
J"
This is just... |
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"Just a hand job, meh. But using my hands to explore and tease until he either comes or has to be inside me right now? That's something else entirely
I like it when we're kissing side by side and from that angle my hand is upside down which means I can use the side of my knuckle just *here* and the pad of my *thumb* just there and tease only the head. And, whoops, is that bit really sensitive and makes him catch his breath? I might have to do that again. Because it's not something he can easily do for himself.
Or I'm kneeling between his thighs using both hands covered in oil or lube to create the sensation of never-endingness. And then sliding one hand up, then over and back down again and seeing him squirm with pleasure.
Definitely not a dying art and now I've got empty hands and the horn!
J"
my oh my.
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I adore a good hand job, whether it be the beginning of something more, the main attraction, or the grand finale .
So many good variations, the change of tightness of the grip, added oil, different positions and angles. It may be a slightly dying art due to people rushing for oral or penetration, but a good hand job can bring on extremely intense orgasms and some glorious sensations. |
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