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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts…. |
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"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts…."
What is your sample size for this? I can assure you, whatever it is, it isn’t enough.
Unless your source is “trust me bro” |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts….
What is your sample size for this? I can assure you, whatever it is, it isn’t enough.
Unless your source is “trust me bro”"
Trust me bro, my source isn’t “trust me bro” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To answer your question though, you might be right, which is sad 
I love it, but feels like some guys feel like it's cheating or not enough of a performance piece. I've guided many a hand between my legs only for them to jump to some more porn-worthy but less apealing action! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I old? What in the bejimminy is GOAT?
Greatest Of All Time - GOAT "
Oh I've learned something new today! Thank you OP.
Yes, sometimes I wish men would just slow down and enjoy the sensation of fingering me, you know, slowly exploring my lips, dipping their fingers in and telling me to taste myself off them. Not fingerblasting me from the off! |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Am I old? What in the bejimminy is GOAT?
Greatest Of All Time - GOAT
Oh I've learned something new today! Thank you OP.
Yes, sometimes I wish men would just slow down and enjoy the sensation of fingering me, you know, slowly exploring my lips, dipping their fingers in and telling me to taste myself off them. Not fingerblasting me from the off!"
This is what I’m saying, because it’s not in mainstream porn people think it’s not the dome thing anymore… sad really |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Am I old? What in the bejimminy is GOAT?
Greatest Of All Time - GOAT
Oh I've learned something new today! Thank you OP.
Yes, sometimes I wish men would just slow down and enjoy the sensation of fingering me, you know, slowly exploring my lips, dipping their fingers in and telling me to taste myself off them. Not fingerblasting me from the off!"
I always thought GOAT was - 'God of all things'. Every day is a school day.
OP - what if someone is fingering away whilst eating ass?
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Am I old? What in the bejimminy is GOAT?
Greatest Of All Time - GOAT
Oh I've learned something new today! Thank you OP.
Yes, sometimes I wish men would just slow down and enjoy the sensation of fingering me, you know, slowly exploring my lips, dipping their fingers in and telling me to taste myself off them. Not fingerblasting me from the off!
This is what I’m saying, because it’s not in mainstream porn people think it’s not the dome thing anymore… sad really "
There’s plenty if you search for it directly, but not often a significant part of general ‘sex’ in porn. I guess maybe it’s boring to watch if you’re not into it..? Love seeing a long video with talented hands! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I old? What in the bejimminy is GOAT?
Greatest Of All Time - GOAT
Oh I've learned something new today! Thank you OP.
Yes, sometimes I wish men would just slow down and enjoy the sensation of fingering me, you know, slowly exploring my lips, dipping their fingers in and telling me to taste myself off them. Not fingerblasting me from the off!
This is what I’m saying, because it’s not in mainstream porn people think it’s not the dome thing anymore… sad really
There’s plenty if you search for it directly, but not often a significant part of general ‘sex’ in porn. I guess maybe it’s boring to watch if you’re not into it..? Love seeing a long video with talented hands! "
Yes, watching that finger dexterity is incredibly hot isn't it. And feeling it too. I'm going to log off here soon to look up fingering porn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)"
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you? |
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you? "
I like it one focus at a time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, watching that finger dexterity is incredibly hot isn't it. And feeling it too. I'm going to log off here soon to look up fingering porn. "
You are such a delicious tease, Meli  |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
your wildest dreams, |
"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you? "
Oh please tell me he is. Not enough men able to multi task |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I old? What in the bejimminy is GOAT?
Greatest Of All Time - GOAT
Oh I've learned something new today! Thank you OP.
Yes, sometimes I wish men would just slow down and enjoy the sensation of fingering me, you know, slowly exploring my lips, dipping their fingers in and telling me to taste myself off them. Not fingerblasting me from the off!
This is what I’m saying, because it’s not in mainstream porn people think it’s not the dome thing anymore… sad really
There’s plenty if you search for it directly, but not often a significant part of general ‘sex’ in porn. I guess maybe it’s boring to watch if you’re not into it..? Love seeing a long video with talented hands!
Yes, watching that finger dexterity is incredibly hot isn't it. And feeling it too. I'm going to log off here soon to look up fingering porn. "
Me too! Can't believe I've never searched that before |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Oh please tell me he is. Not enough men able to multi task "
Oh it's annoying!! Just pick one already. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes, watching that finger dexterity is incredibly hot isn't it. And feeling it too. I'm going to log off here soon to look up fingering porn.
You are such a delicious tease, Meli "
Ooo I like this. A lot. So are you.  |
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you? "
Nooo, done properly it's all about the double action technique  |
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Nooo, done properly it's all about the double action technique "
Not up the bum though |
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
your wildest dreams, |
"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Oh please tell me he is. Not enough men able to multi task
Oh it's annoying!! Just pick one already. "
I like all the things, all at once. Render me helpless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Nooo, done properly it's all about the double action technique "
No no no no no 
It's guaranteed to just annoy me. |
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Nooo, done properly it's all about the double action technique
No no no no no
It's guaranteed to just annoy me. "
Noted no clit lick with middle finger action |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely enjoy fingering and often find myself guiding my partners fingers to were I need it the most.
As a woman that spent a few years doing it alone due to long distance relationship I know what I like when it comes to the fingers. |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I definitely enjoy fingering and often find myself guiding my partners fingers to were I need it the most.
As a woman that spent a few years doing it alone due to long distance relationship I know what I like when it comes to the fingers. "
Bang on  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Like Yellow Pages: I let my fingers do the talking.
(I have the touch)
Do you have a copy of Flyfishing by JR Hartley?"
No.
However, what started of as a piece of fictitious advertising copy, then became a bit of genuine literature.
Hope that helps.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iYSwXrKoTs
Abebooks have about 77 of them
Hardcover
ISBN 10: 0060182326 ISBN 13: 9780060182328
Publisher: Harpercollins, 1993 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like Yellow Pages: I let my fingers do the talking.
(I have the touch)
Do you have a copy of Flyfishing by JR Hartley?
No.
However, what started of as a piece of fictitious advertising copy, then became a bit of genuine literature.
Hope that helps.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iYSwXrKoTs
Abebooks have about 77 of them
Hardcover
ISBN 10: 0060182326 ISBN 13: 9780060182328
Publisher: Harpercollins, 1993"
^He IS like the Yellow Pages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I practice 4 to 5 times a day on boo for at least 90 mins a session so my skills are reasonable and I've no intention of giving it up any time soon (be) "
Hold on a sec. You’re fingering your partner boo for at least 6 hours A DAY?!  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Definately not, you just need to find someone with good strong nice looking fingers....
Guitarists "
Bakers
Masseurs
Cyclists
Pianists
Physios and the the like
Potters such finesse too, think of the internal caressing!
and of course
free climbers: trust me, their lives depend on it (I've had a go myself) |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Like Yellow Pages: I let my fingers do the talking.
(I have the touch)
Do you have a copy of Flyfishing by JR Hartley?
No.
However, what started of as a piece of fictitious advertising copy, then became a bit of genuine literature.
Hope that helps.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iYSwXrKoTs
Abebooks have about 77 of them
Hardcover
ISBN 10: 0060182326 ISBN 13: 9780060182328
Publisher: Harpercollins, 1993
^He IS like the Yellow Pages."
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"Does nothing come in-between the fingering and ass eating?
Seems like a bit of a leap.
I imagine the GOAT gets in the way a bit  "
Well as GOAT is a basketball term, a big leap may not be surprising..... |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I practice 4 to 5 times a day on boo for at least 90 mins a session so my skills are reasonable and I've no intention of giving it up any time soon (be)
Hold on a sec. You’re fingering your partner boo for at least 6 hours A DAY?! "
Crikey, I don’t see these kinda jobs advertised on indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I practice 4 to 5 times a day on boo for at least 90 mins a session so my skills are reasonable and I've no intention of giving it up any time soon (be)
Hold on a sec. You’re fingering your partner boo for at least 6 hours A DAY?!
Crikey, I don’t see these kinda jobs advertised on indeed "
Try LinkedIn. I saw hiring post for unicorns the other day
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"If you're bashing your fingers around in my trying to get me to squirt then stop it right there
Some men really need to learn alot of women don't like that"
Yup. Digging for gold up there will just draw blood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're bashing your fingers around in my trying to get me to squirt then stop it right there
Some men really need to learn alot of women don't like that"
I'm more of a sensual fingerer |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I practice 4 to 5 times a day on boo for at least 90 mins a session so my skills are reasonable and I've no intention of giving it up any time soon (be)
Hold on a sec. You’re fingering your partner boo for at least 6 hours A DAY?!
Crikey, I don’t see these kinda jobs advertised on indeed
Try LinkedIn. I saw hiring post for unicorns the other day
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On it, cheers Hoss |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"If you're bashing your fingers around in my trying to get me to squirt then stop it right there
Some men really need to learn alot of women don't like that"
Affirmative…but fingering in general, just because Rocco Siffredi doesn’t do it on camera doesn’t me everyone doesn’t have to do it |
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"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts…."
Hope not been practicing the way of the finger for 30 years |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"If you're bashing your fingers around in my trying to get me to squirt then stop it right there
Some men really need to learn alot of women don't like that"
and some of them can come just from having their forearms stroked. |
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"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts….
What is your sample size for this? I can assure you, whatever it is, it isn’t enough.
Unless your source is “trust me bro”
Trust me bro, my source isn’t “trust me bro” "
Now I don't know who to trust  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being fingered, but I’ll never let a first meet do it. I’ve had too many guys trying to use my pussy as a puppet and hurting me to allow an untested lovers fingers inside me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you? "
Thatss me! |
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Thatss me! "
I like that, though. Gentle fingers though please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its quite a nice lazy languishing sort of activity which I like. Can be done somewhere you wouldnt necessarily be able to have sex but just starts all the wheels in motion as it were. I like slow and wet  |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"I love being fingered, but I’ll never let a first meet do it. I’ve had too many guys trying to use my pussy as a puppet and hurting me to allow an untested lovers fingers inside me.
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Puppet classic ventriloquist going on |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Its quite a nice lazy languishing sort of activity which I like. Can be done somewhere you wouldnt necessarily be able to have sex but just starts all the wheels in motion as it were. I like slow and wet "
Bang on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I practice 4 to 5 times a day on boo for at least 90 mins a session so my skills are reasonable and I've no intention of giving it up any time soon (be)
Hold on a sec. You’re fingering your partner boo for at least 6 hours A DAY?!
Crikey, I don’t see these kinda jobs advertised on indeed "
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"I don’t like being fingered. My ocd and anxiety conjures questions like are his finger nails clean, has he trimmed his nails and won’t cut me etc "
Can give nasty urine infection if they are like that. Fingering not my fave unless they can do it well. Last guy made me cum in seconds with his magic fingers |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Are we talking pre squirting fingering?
Yes pre squirt fingeridge
So actual fingering, not let's find your bladder and give it a bashing.
Nice "
Yes we ain’t talking finger puppets…pre teasing finger lovin |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"And the amount of guys who finger because they want to make a woman squirt for the sake of their ego is just astronomical 
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you say that, but until I met my partner, I never never knew what squirting was all about.
Added to the fact that before then my previous weren't that keen on fingering
Just a simple morse code finger and thumb squeezing, tapping technique on the clitoris and G-spot can work wonders. |
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"Oh please tell me he is. Not enough men able to multi task "
This seems quite polarising. Bit like pineapple on pizza
Some “finger me and just focus on fingers”
Others “get the tongue in there too”
F**k I love variety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I mean the simple answer to this whole thread is...ask the woman how she likes it or what she wants.
Master everything like I have, traversing the world to learn ancient techniques, and then you should be ok whatever happens! |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I don’t like being fingered. My ocd and anxiety conjures questions like are his finger nails clean, has he trimmed his nails and won’t cut me etc "
just ask to see and feel them before hand, pun intended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t like being fingered. My ocd and anxiety conjures questions like are his finger nails clean, has he trimmed his nails and won’t cut me etc
just ask to see and feel them before hand, pun intended."
I chuckled at that and I'm ashamed of myself for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the amount of guys who finger because they want to make a woman squirt for the sake of their ego is just astronomical
you say that, but until I met my partner, I never never knew what squirting was all about.
Added to the fact that before then my previous weren't that keen on fingering
Just a simple morse code finger and thumb squeezing, tapping technique on the clitoris and G-spot can work wonders."
It’s not the case with all men, but it’s common! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts…."
Well, Mr can make me cum in about 3 minutes with his fingers, I love what he does to me. I enjoy being fingered as much as I love being fucked
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"I practice 4 to 5 times a day on boo for at least 90 mins a session so my skills are reasonable and I've no intention of giving it up any time soon (be)
Hold on a sec. You’re fingering your partner boo for at least 6 hours A DAY?! "
When your a carer you take your job seriously and I've been her carer for almost 25 years. Her illness has its good and bad days but at the end of the day she will always have it so why can't I make sure she enjoys herself and please to the quote if you need details on her illness get in touch and it's not transmitable before someone takes the pi55 |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts…."
I don't have any interest in ass eating..... Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, I think fingering is a dying art, too many people want to go straight to the ass eating (nothing wrong with eating ass may I add) but for me fingering is legit the GOAT. Like to know your thoughts….I don't have any interest in ass eating..... Just saying "
Good to know.
Yes I bumped the thread for that comment. BOOP |
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"It’s my favourite, provided it’s done well "
It’s one of the best things. Sliding fingers over and around and into a woman while kissing her …
And don’t forget how good it can be to include a finger or two while going down on a girl. Fingers inside while licking her clit …
I’m a fan. Can you tell? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Real pros finger AND eat ass at the same (puts on shades and walks into sunset)
You're one of these annoying guys that's uses his tongue and fingers at the same time aren't you?
Oh please tell me he is. Not enough men able to multi task "
Is that not the best plan? Start with the fingers...and slowly move to introduce the tongue. Usually get the best results that way i reckon |
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I think fingering is the best and usually the climax to one of my sensual massages. I love it far more than fucking, to the point where I would be happy to turn up to a couple, massage and finger the lady to the edge several times and then leave her husband to do the fucking.
Its worked well for me over the years in the clubs and all the young stags could never work out why the fit young women would come to me first.
Its not just and action its an art done properly and if you take your time. |
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