Met 2 people through here so far. Went to a club last week for the first time and it wasn’t what I expected at all, not sure if I’ll try others. Sort of want to but also a bit disillusioned!

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Mayfair

I have no desire for clubs.

I meet for one-to-one encounters only "solely through this site".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.

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By *omethingfun96Couple over a year ago

greater london

Only met in clubs so far but open to meeting from here now

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I done both and find meeting men on here easier

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I mix it up and have periods when it's more 1 than the other. I like to have a variety of experiences and home or hotel comforts can beat clubs. Though spontaneous meets in clubs and the environment, are great to enjoy

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By *asty tatsyMan over a year ago

london

I do want to go to a club just haven’t plucked the courage yet, I hear it’s a good way to interact with people

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

Only here, never been to a club..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met."

Oh, and I imagine 90% of the clubbers would be men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm saving up for my first club visit.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.

Oh, and I imagine 90% of the clubbers would be men.

No more like 60%

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met."

You can keep your clothes on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've only recently started visiting clubs and find I need to rely on this site less and less. Oddly enought though, I have had more interest from Fab since I started going. Not sure if there's a correlation there though"

That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only met in clubs so far, or had first meet in a club and then.had further meets privately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only met in clubs so far, or had first meet in a club and then.had further meets privately."

Always time to change that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.

You can keep your clothes on "

I would take my top off so quickly

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

This site.

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By *orphia2003Woman over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Most of my meets have been from here.

I have done a few clubs. Never had an issue going on my own, though is nice to go with someone too.

Usually find people to play / chat with, if the mood takes me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there

Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone

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By *ornycougaWoman over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there

Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone

Growing confidence too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.

You can keep your clothes on "

I guess not many clubs allow that. I read towels must be worn on another post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs and on here. I enjoy variety and different atmospheres.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there

Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone

Growing confidence too?"

Could be that as well. Thanks for letting me know, can't let that get out of control

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've gone through phases where I've fancied trying clubs or socials, then I've went right off the idea again. Never say never, but I'm not sure if it'd be my scene. Plus if I did go, I'd want it to be down south, not local.

Shorter answer: I just meet people through here ha

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

I just meet through here, I have no interest in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s really good to hear! I’d say there is a correlation there

Probably, to be fair it's also helped with my FOMO of having something to do relating to Fab on a Saturday night so definitely worth it for that alone

Yeah that’s great I’m happy you are getting out there! You’re near a club which is a bonus, enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only met in clubs so far, or had first meet in a club and then.had further meets privately.

Always time to change that! "

I am proactively looking to change it.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.

You can keep your clothes on

I guess not many clubs allow that. I read towels must be worn on another post. "

If it's a naturist club. And certain areas, clothing is not allowed. Tbh I saw many rules broken in clubs. Men walking around fully clothed with just their dicks hanging out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have this vision in my mind of attending a club and it being dirty inside and I wouldn't want to sit down anywhere.

Also I don't like the thought of being naked or towel wrapped around me with strangers who I've just met.

You can keep your clothes on

I guess not many clubs allow that. I read towels must be worn on another post.

If it's a naturist club. And certain areas, clothing is not allowed. Tbh I saw many rules broken in clubs. Men walking around fully clothed with just their dicks hanging out."

Sounds intriguing

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By *ackbydemandMan over a year ago

Leicester

Exclusively clubs, but dipping my toe back into social meets outside of clubs. Seriously doubt I'll play in a private house again though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For Tgirls and their admirers, there is a weekly event, Wednesdays at Touch Sauna in Swindon.

Just incase anyone is interested

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

Neither for me at the moment, though I have met through the site in the past.

I've also met from organised socials, but never from a club (not really my scene).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really want to go to my local club but I’ve not built the confidence to go yet…. They sound so good

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By *ull English with teaMan over a year ago

London

Bit of both, generally prefer home meets as I find them more comfortable.

Saying that…. Clubs are great fun to people watch and I like the social side, plus playing with a crowd / watching is fun. And there is an excitement in meeting someone in a club and making a connection to play. The downside is I don’t like the wipe down leather / lighting etc which all seems a bit naff..

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By *REEPALESTINEMan over a year ago

derby

Both

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

Both

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By *enelope2UWoman over a year ago

Fife

Through the site and depending on how we match we become regular clubs to add others to our mix.. I don't go to clubs to scout I e only met one couple I found equally desirable who matched our chemistry when I had a play partner.

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By *uddly GoblinMan over a year ago

Manchester

Both

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By *ornycougaWoman over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Both. Enjoy a club occasionally but not something I could see myself doing regularly

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By *lex46TV/TS over a year ago

Near Wells

Mostly on here but I like going to clubs but it's getting too expensive.

Most of them are miles away, meaning a hotel stay and lot's of fuel. I've spent £200-£250 before now, just to visit a club. It's not too bad if I can tie it in with something else.

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