FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Question to married people

Question to married people

Jump to: Newest in thread

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why did you get married?

(Asking for a friend)

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

This is going to sound weird! We got married because we love each other

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Carlisle

"This is going to sound weird! We got married because we love each other

"
ewww

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"This is going to sound weird! We got married because we love each other

ewww

We’re just so out there

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Soon to me married and because I want to get fucked in my wedding dress obviously

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *andy 1Couple over a year ago

northeast

because we where young and daft now we r old and daft 52 lovely years

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because being in a couple gets me more interest on here than being a single male

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *tirling89Man over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Thought it would make us happy. Can’t build a stable home on wonky foundations.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not because you can live with them, but because you can't live without them...

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/11/22 08:30:35]

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I seen him and thought, I have to keep him forever.

How can I do that? Ahh I know , make him sign a legally binding contract promising he’ll never leave

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *an4funMan over a year ago

london

"Soon to me married and because I want to get fucked in my wedding dress obviously

Will hubby be watching?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I seen him and thought, I have to keep him forever.

How can I do that? Ahh I know , make him sign a legally binding contract promising he’ll never leave

And if he tries to leave, you get the house

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *eard and TattsCouple over a year ago

Cwmbran

I'm not married and resent the accusation

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

I tried that back in the early 70s! Not for me though! Won't b trying that again! X

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *arcosaMan over a year ago

London

Because her dad owned a shotgun.

Joking, actually because we loved eachother. But these things don't always work out for the best.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Because we wanted to

Why can't your friend ask, are they shy?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *eard and BoobsCouple over a year ago

Portstewart

To make sure that noone else could have us

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To make sure that noone else could have us "

You met a guy 3 weeks ago on fab

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because we wanted to

Why can't your friend ask, are they shy?"

He's scared to forum mods

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Because we wanted to

Why can't your friend ask, are they shy?

He's scared to forum mods "

And rightly so.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is going to sound weird! We got married because we love each other

The l word! Where’s the sick emoji at?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage? "

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ugarbonkCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

Honest answer is to conform.

Everyone expected it but we got married on our terms 25yrs ago in one of our favourite and also remote places.

It didn't change our relationship one bit but then we never expected it to. It was just nice to have a party!

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *urbo TedMan over a year ago

Stansted

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, but Elvis as a vicar marrying two blokes so paralytic d*unk they can't stand whilst Marilyn Monroe sings....

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *host63Man over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I tried that back in the early 70s! Not for me though! Won't b trying that again! X"

Did you get the house though?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Honest answer is to conform.

Everyone expected it but we got married on our terms 25yrs ago in one of our favourite and also remote places.

It didn't change our relationship one bit but then we never expected it to. It was just nice to have a party!"

Did you become swingers before or after the marriage?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, but Elvis as a vicar marrying two blokes so paralytic d*unk they can't stand whilst Marilyn Monroe sings....

Are you trying to sound/look intelligent?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *urbo TedMan over a year ago

Stansted

"What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, but Elvis as a vicar marrying two blokes so paralytic d*unk they can't stand whilst Marilyn Monroe sings....

Are you trying to sound/look intelligent? "

On the contrary, I do daft quite well although I have got a handful of GCSEs and can say hello in several different languages

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket) "

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, but Elvis as a vicar marrying two blokes so paralytic d*unk they can't stand whilst Marilyn Monroe sings....

Are you trying to sound/look intelligent?

On the contrary, I do daft quite well although I have got a handful of GCSEs and can say hello in several different languages

Here is a piece of advice for you (put your fucking phone down)

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it. "

You have summed it nicely, as always.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it.

You have summed it nicely, as always. "

But then why people get married?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

Because we love each other

Because we wanted a stable family base for our (my) son

Just....... because

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *elshcouple18Couple over a year ago

Cardiff

She was a very fit young lady, and now a very fit older lady.. Best buddies, oh, and I happened to ger her pregnant.. child bride..

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *urbo TedMan over a year ago

Stansted

"What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, but Elvis as a vicar marrying two blokes so paralytic d*unk they can't stand whilst Marilyn Monroe sings....

Are you trying to sound/look intelligent?

On the contrary, I do daft quite well although I have got a handful of GCSEs and can say hello in several different languages

Here is a piece of advice for you (put your fucking phone down)"

Appreciate the advice, I'll ponder it, but you really should say please and also use a full stop at the end of a sentence.

Peace out

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it.

You have summed it nicely, as always.

But then why people get married? "

I can't speak for anyone else but we got married because we wanted to. It wasn't something we were conflicted about

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it.

You have summed it nicely, as always.

But then why people get married?

I can't speak for anyone else but we got married because we wanted to. It wasn't something we were conflicted about "

So you are 100% happily married?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just on the other side of the fence, me and my partner chose not to get married. It doesn't make a difference to our relationship or how much we love each other, it's just not important for us to have a piece of paper set in stone. People's personal choice I guess.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Why did I get married?

First time around, because I wanted to throw a fucking awesome party.

Second time around, because I’m madly in love with my wife and I wanted to make the ultimate show of commitment to her. (And also throw an even more fucking awesome party.)

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it.

You have summed it nicely, as always.

But then why people get married?

I can't speak for anyone else but we got married because we wanted to. It wasn't something we were conflicted about

So you are 100% happily married? "

Is this a trick question?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *elshcouple18Couple over a year ago

Cardiff

"Why did I get married?

First time around, because I wanted to throw a fucking awesome party.

Second time around, because I’m madly in love with my wife and I wanted to make the ultimate show of commitment to her. (And also throw an even more fucking awesome party.)"
yet here you are, on a swingers site, looking for women.. ultimate show of commitment there.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"yet here you are, on a swingers site, looking for women.. ultimate show of commitment there. "

I don’t claim to be perfect.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Because it's all part of the spectacle.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why does your friend want to know op? Are the considering marriage?

I think he's just trying to comprehend the concept of marriage and why people do it

(A wise man once said why buy the cow when you can get the milk from the supermarket)

That man wasn't wise, he was simply incapable of imagining a relationship that wasn't held together by milk.

Tell your friend that marriage isn't for everyone, it's absolutely possible to have a commited and lasting relationship without it.

You have summed it nicely, as always.

But then why people get married?

I can't speak for anyone else but we got married because we wanted to. It wasn't something we were conflicted about

So you are 100% happily married?

Is this a trick question? "

Yes

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why did I get married?

First time around, because I wanted to throw a fucking awesome party.

Second time around, because I’m madly in love with my wife and I wanted to make the ultimate show of commitment to her. (And also throw an even more fucking awesome party.)yet here you are, on a swingers site, looking for women.. ultimate show of commitment there. "

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually think it’s quite an interesting question… and some interesting answers and discussion.

I am sympathetic to those who say they got married cos they love(d) each other, I get that people want to show a ‘public’ commitment, but there are loads of folk out there who happily live together ‘unmarried’, and I’d be sad to think we, as a society, would still judge them differently just because of a historical precedent…

If the rules had changed we would have had a civil partnership, but that wasn’t available to het couples at the time. Our thinking was marriage is patriarchal but we wanted a family and pragmatically there is more security for one another if one of us dies etc. really romantic eh?

I think it remains the case that if you wanted some of the legal arrangements that come “automatically” with civil partnerships/marriage it is pretty tiresome to replicate them outside of those contexts.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *sleWightCoupleCouple over a year ago

Ryde

Because we knew we were going to eventually. We are sickeningly in love, each other's missing piece and all that shit, and it was just making it official. And to stop relatives asking when it was going to be.

We had a really cheap wedding, and played the Queen's version of The Wedding March (from Flash Gordon) as the entrance music, and The Birdie Song on the way out. It wasn't about the spectacle or feeding egos - just that it was now all on the record. It hasn't changed the relationship at all, and the "married" status makes certain legal matters easier.

Being on the site it just for a little extra lenght... um... I mean fun...

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I find nowadays people are more judgemental of those who chose to marry than those who didn't.

There also seems to be an underlying feeling that certain things are more acceptable if you're not married to each other than if you are.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because we knew we were going to eventually. We are sickeningly in love, each other's missing piece and all that shit, and it was just making it official. And to stop relatives asking when it was going to be.

Being on the site it just for a little extra lenght... um... I mean fun...

Good to see you on fab swingers

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Because we wanted to

Why can't your friend ask, are they shy?"

It is more that the "friend" is blocked

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Because we wanted to

Why can't your friend ask, are they shy?

It is more that the "friend" is blocked

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Can posters remember that if you have a ban you can't use another profile to get round the ban, or that one gets banned too

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)