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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.
I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.
What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.
I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.
What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. "
I agree with you - I think it's shocking behaviour. Profiles are there to be viewed. Just block the idiots who send abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that you’ve had that happened. I find it really bizarre myself, as I had a similar message from looking at a couples profile, that stated they weren’t looking for single men. Yet I wouldn’t know unless I looked… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that you’ve had that happened. I find it really bizarre myself, as I had a similar message from looking at a couples profile, that stated they weren’t looking for single men. Yet I wouldn’t know unless I looked…"
You’ve got to have a thick skin and be a mind reader to survive on here!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No need for nonsense like that.
Put yourselves in ninja mode and you can view til your hearts content without anyone knowing
This..
The site has the means..  "
Didn’t know about ninja mode, do now, thank you  |
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Hello O.P.
No one should send abusive messages.
You can look at any profile you like.
There is no need for them to message you but they may be just protecting themselves and saving your time.
It's ALL in YOUR hands.
View profiles in 'stealth mode'.
I'm always in stealth. No one knows if I have viewed them or not.
I blame you in part because you are going to say to me 'what's stealth mode' but if you took the time to read the site and use the tools you wouldn't be having this conversation 
STEALTH MODE. Find it. |
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"We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.
I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.
What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. "
Set your message filters to block single guys. Sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that you’ve had that happened. I find it really bizarre myself, as I had a similar message from looking at a couples profile, that stated they weren’t looking for single men. Yet I wouldn’t know unless I looked…"
I'm staggered that people have so little to do that they take time to message someone they don't want to meet  some people's arrogance and entitlement and tittle tattle is extremely off putting. I think that would earn a block from me 
Mine clearly states I'm not meeting at the moment.. Doesn't stop the deluge, but i just ignore it, it doesn't impact me in any way. Peeps need to chill! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.
I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.
What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. "
look in ninja which is easily changed in settings  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats bizarre, why would they even waste energy typing that we've never had that but my response would be "I'll look where I damn Well please hun " haha |
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...gotta love the ninja mode for avoiding abuse, surely that works??