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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've recently just rejoined fab and noticed quite a few have left private parts
Spiderwoman,peachy,walkingtaff,Dockofthebay to name a few
And loads of new face
So question is who do you miss seeing around the forums? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jag. Is the most recent I’ve missed from the forums.
Years ago there was a lady called Autumn, I see she’s no longer here too.
Others I just assume have just logged of and will probably return.
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I find that people I think are new on the forum turn out to be people that disappeared months or years ago .....
It's all ether to me. I don't miss many if any and any I generally miss were inclusive humorous or unique people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that people I think are new on the forum turn out to be people that disappeared months or years ago .....
It's all ether to me. I don't miss many if any and any I generally miss were inclusive humorous or unique people.
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Granny you are to kind? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh."
Are you possibly taking this environment a little too seriously? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jag. Is the most recent I’ve missed from the forums.
Years ago there was a lady called Autumn, I see she’s no longer here too.
Others I just assume have just logged of and will probably return.
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Aww Autumn. I knew her so well.  |
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"I don't know those you mention, OP (but I've only really used the forum this year). But I miss seeing Keyser, Steve, Timber and NECouple around these parts..."
Pretty sure keyser just has another name and NE are now antndec I think
Tg x |
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"I don't know those you mention, OP (but I've only really used the forum this year). But I miss seeing Keyser, Steve, Timber and NECouple around these parts...
Pretty sure keyser just has another name and NE are now antndec I think
Tg x"
Yeah, Keyser came back but went again I think...had forgotten that about NE, but maybe I've just not noticed them around as much in their new guise!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
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After reading this, I’ve changed my preferences. I no longer want a FB or FWB or FAF. I want a Fine fun acquaintance!  that type of person sounds awesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.
Are you possibly taking this environment a little too seriously?"
Nope, not at all
Just have no time for fake anything so I keep moving and pay it no mind
Not going to post weepy messages to folk who won't care or read for the PR on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"….
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
After reading this, I’ve changed my preferences. I no longer want a FB or FWB or FAF. I want a Fine fun acquaintance! that type of person sounds awesome. "
They really are
They say what they mean
They mean what they say...
Best of all, they show up  |
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"Jag. Is the most recent I’ve missed from the forums.
Years ago there was a lady called Autumn, I see she’s no longer here too.
Others I just assume have just logged of and will probably return.
Aww Autumn. I knew her so well. "
Yeah she was a fox, and occasionally sent me a delightful message, oh well.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.
Are you possibly taking this environment a little too seriously?
Nope, not at all
Just have no time for fake anything so I keep moving and pay it no mind
Not going to post weepy messages to folk who won't care or read for the PR on here"
Not even a pair of snide Jimmy Choos shoes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jag. Is the most recent I’ve missed from the forums.
Years ago there was a lady called Autumn, I see she’s no longer here too.
Others I just assume have just logged of and will probably return.
Aww Autumn. I knew her so well. "
Is that Shakespeare? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.
Are you possibly taking this environment a little too seriously?
Nope, not at all
Just have no time for fake anything so I keep moving and pay it no mind
Not going to post weepy messages to folk who won't care or read for the PR on here
Not even a pair of snide Jimmy Choos shoes?"
Is that supposed to mean something? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I would only miss those I chat to to be honest. Besides, they all come back eventually.
I can’t keep up with name changes so I don’t bother. It all clicks into place in my head, eventually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know those you mention, OP (but I've only really used the forum this year). But I miss seeing Keyser, Steve, Timber and NECouple around these parts...
Pretty sure keyser just has another name and NE are now antndec I think
Tg x"
He did but he’s gone again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.
Are you possibly taking this environment a little too seriously?
Nope, not at all
Just have no time for fake anything so I keep moving and pay it no mind
Not going to post weepy messages to folk who won't care or read for the PR on here
Not even a pair of snide Jimmy Choos shoes?
Is that supposed to mean something?"
You said I have no time for fake anything to which, I rather wittily replied not ev..............it’s gone now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh."
I get what you are saying. .. although I often build relationships via DMs... And the often these are deeper than just flirting. But often when ppl to unlos it's a quick decision. And there isn't the gap to act in a more considered way (at least, that's my history. It's from a bad experience or a sudden moment of realisation I need a time out from fab and SM
In summary: give me yr telegram early !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would only miss those I chat to to be honest. Besides, they all come back eventually.
I can’t keep up with name changes so I don’t bother. It all clicks into place in my head, eventually. "
MsV is right. I only remember their old names, changes never work.
MrB |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"I would only miss those I chat to to be honest. Besides, they all come back eventually.
I can’t keep up with name changes so I don’t bother. It all clicks into place in my head, eventually.
MsV is right. I only remember their old names, changes never work.
MrB "
Your memory is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.I get what you are saying. .. although I often build relationships via DMs... And the often these are deeper than just flirting. But often when ppl to unlos it's a quick decision. And there isn't the gap to act in a more considered way (at least, that's my history. It's from a bad experience or a sudden moment of realisation I need a time out from fab and SM
In summary: give me yr telegram early ! "
I know that when guys disappear unannounced from a chat, or from fab altogether, that sends me a very very clear message of the value and place our interaction has held for them and I file them under B accordingly.
It filters out those who are wishy-washy or who use fab as free wank material.
And those who lie about looking something more than a fuck&go.
And those who are hiding a relationship in their 'real life' and get an attack of the guilts.
You get the picture...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would only miss those I chat to to be honest. Besides, they all come back eventually.
I can’t keep up with name changes so I don’t bother. It all clicks into place in my head, eventually.
MsV is right. I only remember their old names, changes never work.
MrB
Your memory is good "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.I get what you are saying. .. although I often build relationships via DMs... And the often these are deeper than just flirting. But often when ppl to unlos it's a quick decision. And there isn't the gap to act in a more considered way (at least, that's my history. It's from a bad experience or a sudden moment of realisation I need a time out from fab and SM
In summary: give me yr telegram early !
I know that when guys disappear unannounced from a chat, or from fab altogether, that sends me a very very clear message of the value and place our interaction has held for them and I file them under B accordingly.
It filters out those who are wishy-washy or who use fab as free wank material.
And those who lie about looking something more than a fuck&go.
And those who are hiding a relationship in their 'real life' and get an attack of the guilts.
You get the picture...
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Perhaps people sometimes have things going on in their life that trumps the importance of a sex site forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.I get what you are saying. .. although I often build relationships via DMs... And the often these are deeper than just flirting. But often when ppl to unlos it's a quick decision. And there isn't the gap to act in a more considered way (at least, that's my history. It's from a bad experience or a sudden moment of realisation I need a time out from fab and SM
In summary: give me yr telegram early !
I know that when guys disappear unannounced from a chat, or from fab altogether, that sends me a very very clear message of the value and place our interaction has held for them and I file them under B accordingly.
It filters out those who are wishy-washy or who use fab as free wank material.
And those who lie about looking something more than a fuck&go.
And those who are hiding a relationship in their 'real life' and get an attack of the guilts.
You get the picture...
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there are definitely other reasons for unlos I agree. Just sharing a less cynical (although I agree frequent) way the same events can arise from different motivations. I would agree teh majority are in the camp you describe. And you often have an idea if someone you are DMing is on the brink of an unlos too... Although you may not know how close |
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"DuchessB seemed to go UNLOS directly after attending one of the London socials - hopefully we weren’t that bad!  "
I imagine those that unexpectedly go Unlos have hooked up with someone exclusive. Maybe they’ll return in a couples profile, but good luck to them. |
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.I get what you are saying. .. although I often build relationships via DMs... And the often these are deeper than just flirting. But often when ppl to unlos it's a quick decision. And there isn't the gap to act in a more considered way (at least, that's my history. It's from a bad experience or a sudden moment of realisation I need a time out from fab and SM
In summary: give me yr telegram early !
I know that when guys disappear unannounced from a chat, or from fab altogether, that sends me a very very clear message of the value and place our interaction has held for them and I file them under B accordingly.
It filters out those who are wishy-washy or who use fab as free wank material.
And those who lie about looking something more than a fuck&go.
And those who are hiding a relationship in their 'real life' and get an attack of the guilts.
You get the picture...
Perhaps people sometimes have things going on in their life that trumps the importance of a sex site forum."
Ahhhh the 'it's a sex site, so you are less deserving of common decency and manners' argument.
Love it. A popular choice tbf.
Indeed people do have 'real life' issues to deal with often,as do I, often.
I use the option to set my profile to private as is necessary.
I somehow manage to deal with those life things and still manage to be respectful of friendships and people I'm in regular chat with ....by giving them a heads up that I'll be offline etc. It's not rocket science.
It's these blasted manners people keep looking for.
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"DuchessB seemed to go UNLOS directly after attending one of the London socials - hopefully we weren’t that bad!
I imagine those that unexpectedly go Unlos have hooked up with someone exclusive. Maybe they’ll return in a couples profile, but good luck to them. "
I love seeing these  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ShittyJeans was wonderful. I do miss him, he made me laugh a lot.
Also Retweet was someone I got on with really well. I think he was in a relationship with someone and they both left.
Also the Scottish woman... can't remember her original username but think she came back under Beryl or something. She was funny.
ErectJim kind of breaks my heart.
Sometimes I think they have come back as I see some comments around the forums that remind me of them, but I think I'm just overthinking it. 
A recent few I liked have left recently but I'm fairly confident they'll be back soon enough. The others I've mentioned feel more permanently gone.
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"DuchessB seemed to go UNLOS directly after attending one of the London socials - hopefully we weren’t that bad!
I imagine those that unexpectedly go Unlos have hooked up with someone exclusive. Maybe they’ll return in a couples profile, but good luck to them.
I love seeing these "
I know. They make me smile and fill me with hope for all those that look for something more than NSA. |
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I'm torn against my better judgement to add a comment on here when it comes to name-checking. I find most of the forumites on here extremely pleasant and congenial. It's a happy platform.
But I do miss... "Appletree" and "Moon Grey Cat". |
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I miss seeing City Jeans about the place, Keyser Soze Steve. Often wonder how Annie Wilkes is getting on, I hope she has found what it was she was looking for |
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I'm often surprised at some of the name dropping in threads like these because although I'm not heavily invested in the forums generally my recollection of some people's contributions is anything but positive and their absence is often a good thing. |
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"I'm often surprised at some of the name dropping in threads like these because although I'm not heavily invested in the forums generally my recollection of some people's contributions is anything but positive and their absence is often a good thing. "
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I would miss you in a heartbeat. |
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"I miss seeing City Jeans about the place, Keyser Soze Steve. Often wonder how Annie Wilkes is getting on, I hope she has found what it was she was looking for
No, he went a while back. "
Who? |
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"I'm often surprised at some of the name dropping in threads like these because although I'm not heavily invested in the forums generally my recollection of some people's contributions is anything but positive and their absence is often a good thing. "
There is also the issue of suggesting to newcomers that the forums were so much better when these people where here.
It's like saying, good goal but Shearer was better. |
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"I miss seeing City Jeans about the place, Keyser Soze Steve. Often wonder how Annie Wilkes is getting on, I hope she has found what it was she was looking for
No, he went a while back.
Who?"
Sorry replied to wrong one ! I was referring to Moon Cat who was mentioned. |
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"I think that if they put value on people they supposedly called 'friends' on here they'd not be randomly regularly unlos, they'd be putting effort in to nurturing those friendships and not treating them as disposable toys.
If they're friends off of fab then I expect that those interactions will still carry on beyond here even if they go unlos so different scenario there.
If you dip in and out discretely as life dictates, well that's normal adulting, I'd consider you a fine fun acquaintance and chat away on that level.
Anyone using unlos as a gimmick is a bit silly & isn't my cup of tea. And coming back as the fêted hero etc rings empty and false. I use these as filters.
Can't be arsed with that nonsense tbh.I get what you are saying. .. although I often build relationships via DMs... And the often these are deeper than just flirting. But often when ppl to unlos it's a quick decision. And there isn't the gap to act in a more considered way (at least, that's my history. It's from a bad experience or a sudden moment of realisation I need a time out from fab and SM
In summary: give me yr telegram early !
I know that when guys disappear unannounced from a chat, or from fab altogether, that sends me a very very clear message of the value and place our interaction has held for them and I file them under B accordingly.
It filters out those who are wishy-washy or who use fab as free wank material.
And those who lie about looking something more than a fuck&go.
And those who are hiding a relationship in their 'real life' and get an attack of the guilts.
You get the picture...
Perhaps people sometimes have things going on in their life that trumps the importance of a sex site forum."
Exactly! If I’ve had enough or I can’t be bothered anymore I leave. If I fancy coming back I come back. There really is nothing more to it! . These threads make me chuckle |
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"I'm often surprised at some of the name dropping in threads like these because although I'm not heavily invested in the forums generally my recollection of some people's contributions is anything but positive and their absence is often a good thing.
There is also the issue of suggesting to newcomers that the forums were so much better when these people where here.
It's like saying, good goal but Shearer was better. "
That second part, I agree with. The forum, like any other similar place, will constantly evolve. There is no "golden era". But saying you miss someone's contribution because they made you laugh, or you liked ogling their pics, doesn't mean you're saying you like current posters any less. I love Ian Wright and Gabriel Jesus. |
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"I'm often surprised at some of the name dropping in threads like these because although I'm not heavily invested in the forums generally my recollection of some people's contributions is anything but positive and their absence is often a good thing. "
This is true yes! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm often surprised at some of the name dropping in threads like these because although I'm not heavily invested in the forums generally my recollection of some people's contributions is anything but positive and their absence is often a good thing.
There is also the issue of suggesting to newcomers that the forums were so much better when these people where here.
It's like saying, good goal but Shearer was better.
That second part, I agree with. The forum, like any other similar place, will constantly evolve. There is no "golden era". But saying you miss someone's contribution because they made you laugh, or you liked ogling their pics, doesn't mean you're saying you like current posters any less. I love Ian Wright and Gabriel Jesus."
I wonder who will be your "holy ghost" ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also miss that angry fucking scouser.
Gerry and the Gerbils?"
Didn't his gerbils die?
I can only presume the angry scouse guy got permanently banned or is in jail for touching girls in the gym.
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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I think for much of the 15 years I've been on and off here, forumites have been lamenting the loss of other forumites and yes there's a few I miss but i think the regular turnover of posters is what keeps the forums relatively fresh.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I also miss that angry fucking scouser.
Gerry and the Gerbils?
Didn't his gerbils die?
I can only presume the angry scouse guy got permanently banned or is in jail for touching girls in the gym. "
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over a year ago
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"I think for much of the 15 years I've been on and off here, forumites have been lamenting the loss of other forumites and yes there's a few I miss but i think the regular turnover of posters is what keeps the forums relatively fresh.
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If I thought you guys were boring fuckers. I’d have fucked off ages ago. … possibly making some happy it appears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I liked Tom play/of the beard as he was quite upbeat and positive.
Annie wilkes/grotbags as she was mad as a box of frogs and stored shit up
And Sexy cat Kylie grealish, not sure if she's gone but not seen any posts. She would always take time to reply to comments.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rubidoux cracked me up and phwoooaaaar
Insatiable nymph she was such a lovely woman and a great wank buddy
And the one who i cannot name are who i miss talking to |
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"I liked Tom play/of the beard as he was quite upbeat and positive.
Annie wilkes/grotbags as she was mad as a box of frogs and stored shit up
And Sexy cat Kylie grealish, not sure if she's gone but not seen any posts. She would always take time to reply to comments.
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Yes I miss kylie and Annie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also miss that angry fucking scouser.
Gerry and the Gerbils?
Who is this Gerbil guy? His name keeps popping up."
He held a belief that one day all the gerbils in the world would be reincarnated.
Possibly as waterboys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must be coming up to something like 10 years now since I first joined Fab (can’t remember exactly tbf) and as ever with nostalgia, you always get misty-eyed over those you remember and got on well with back in the day but who have now left.
In that time and a few UNLOSes and reincarnations of my own I think it’s fair to say that most people come back at some point, it’s rare someone leaves and stays left unless they get that email of death that says they’ve got a permanent forum ban.
There’s been some good names already mentioned, I guess the three who appear to have gone gone rather than just gone who I miss the most are JenniJ/Nips & Lips (my all time Fab bestie  ), ClassyLaydee/RoxiAnne (lovely lass) and my first *proper* Fab meet NaughtyWoman who was only rarely on the forums but I’ll never forget met me at her door, took hold of my hand, and marched straight up to the bedroom. I only thought I was going for coffee … |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also miss that angry fucking scouser.
Gerry and the Gerbils?
Who is this Gerbil guy? His name keeps popping up.
He held a belief that one day all the gerbils in the world would be reincarnated.
Possibly as waterboys."
That’s a lot of waterboys. I would have liked him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also miss that angry fucking scouser.
Gerry and the Gerbils?
Who is this Gerbil guy? His name keeps popping up.
He held a belief that one day all the gerbils in the world would be reincarnated.
Possibly as waterboys.
That’s a lot of waterboys. I would have liked him."
I think you two would have got on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also miss that angry fucking scouser.
Gerry and the Gerbils?
Who is this Gerbil guy? His name keeps popping up.
He held a belief that one day all the gerbils in the world would be reincarnated.
Possibly as waterboys.
That’s a lot of waterboys. I would have liked him.
I think you two would have got on."
Only if mama liked him. |
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There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Too many who've left to mention and if I did I suspect most wouldn't have a clue who they were.
But that's forum life. And every year there's new blood that contributes positively and old blood that moves on.
Others who take short or long breaks for their own sanity.
And some that have a revolving door fitted to the phone browser's and require a new identity on a frequent basis. They're the ones that confuse the fuck out of me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do "
This is strange to me though.
What would they be getting from lurking.
I realise there's a delay after joining until you are able to post so perhaps they are patiently waiting.
But many say they have alternate profiles ready before they pull the plug on the old.
So the notion of spontaneous meltdowns goes out the window for these.
And it all just seems very odd behaviour and a little unsettling that people are being so clandestine and contrived.
Just odd to me.
No doubt it serves a purpose for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss seeing City Jeans about the place, Keyser Soze Steve. Often wonder how Annie Wilkes is getting on, I hope she has found what it was she was looking for
No, he went a while back.
Who?
Sorry replied to wrong one ! I was referring to Moon Cat who was mentioned. "
I don't tend to think there's any nefarious reason for people leaving anyway, buy Moon Grey Cat is one person I'd love to know left because he'd found someone special he's a good guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do
This is strange to me though.
What would they be getting from lurking.
I realise there's a delay after joining until you are able to post so perhaps they are patiently waiting.
But many say they have alternate profiles ready before they pull the plug on the old.
So the notion of spontaneous meltdowns goes out the window for these.
And it all just seems very odd behaviour and a little unsettling that people are being so clandestine and contrived.
Just odd to me.
No doubt it serves a purpose for them."
Many of the names listed through the thread are suspended from using the forums, I guess they still use the site to keep in touch and meet, the site isn’t *just* about the forum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do
This is strange to me though.
What would they be getting from lurking.
I realise there's a delay after joining until you are able to post so perhaps they are patiently waiting.
But many say they have alternate profiles ready before they pull the plug on the old.
So the notion of spontaneous meltdowns goes out the window for these.
And it all just seems very odd behaviour and a little unsettling that people are being so clandestine and contrived.
Just odd to me.
No doubt it serves a purpose for them.
Many of the names listed through the thread are suspended from using the forums, I guess they still use the site to keep in touch and meet, the site isn’t *just* about the forum!"
And maybe some have just tired of, or moved on from, actively posting here, or go through phases when I can’t be arsed quite often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss seeing City Jeans about the place, Keyser Soze Steve. Often wonder how Annie Wilkes is getting on, I hope she has found what it was she was looking for
No, he went a while back.
Who?
Sorry replied to wrong one ! I was referring to Moon Cat who was mentioned.
I don't tend to think there's any nefarious reason for people leaving anyway, buy Moon Grey Cat is one person I'd love to know left because he'd found someone special he's a good guy"
He is indeed a great guy. A mad workaholic too so that might be one reason he's gone. |
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"There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do
This is strange to me though.
What would they be getting from lurking.
I realise there's a delay after joining until you are able to post so perhaps they are patiently waiting.
But many say they have alternate profiles ready before they pull the plug on the old.
So the notion of spontaneous meltdowns goes out the window for these.
And it all just seems very odd behaviour and a little unsettling that people are being so clandestine and contrived.
Just odd to me.
No doubt it serves a purpose for them.
Many of the names listed through the thread are suspended from using the forums, I guess they still use the site to keep in touch and meet, the site isn’t *just* about the forum!
And maybe some have just tired of, or moved on from, actively posting here, or go through phases when I can’t be arsed quite often. "
And some were forced out for daring to challenge the status quo. They had their personal details shared here and their fab details posted on social media while others used the fictional passing of family members and partners to gain sympathy and build up a following before being found out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do
This is strange to me though.
What would they be getting from lurking.
I realise there's a delay after joining until you are able to post so perhaps they are patiently waiting.
But many say they have alternate profiles ready before they pull the plug on the old.
So the notion of spontaneous meltdowns goes out the window for these.
And it all just seems very odd behaviour and a little unsettling that people are being so clandestine and contrived.
Just odd to me.
No doubt it serves a purpose for them.
Many of the names listed through the thread are suspended from using the forums, I guess they still use the site to keep in touch and meet, the site isn’t *just* about the forum!
And maybe some have just tired of, or moved on from, actively posting here, or go through phases when I can’t be arsed quite often.
And some were forced out for daring to challenge the status quo. They had their personal details shared here and their fab details posted on social media while others used the fictional passing of family members and partners to gain sympathy and build up a following before being found out.
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It’s like a soap opera, isn’t it? So much dramarama!  |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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"There has been a fair few big personalities over the years I've been here, many of which are new profile new name lurkers now. Including many of the names listed in this thread
They will show themselves when they are ready, they always do
This is strange to me though.
What would they be getting from lurking.
I realise there's a delay after joining until you are able to post so perhaps they are patiently waiting.
But many say they have alternate profiles ready before they pull the plug on the old.
So the notion of spontaneous meltdowns goes out the window for these.
And it all just seems very odd behaviour and a little unsettling that people are being so clandestine and contrived.
Just odd to me.
No doubt it serves a purpose for them.
Many of the names listed through the thread are suspended from using the forums, I guess they still use the site to keep in touch and meet, the site isn’t *just* about the forum!
And maybe some have just tired of, or moved on from, actively posting here, or go through phases when I can’t be arsed quite often.
And some were forced out for daring to challenge the status quo. They had their personal details shared here and their fab details posted on social media while others used the fictional passing of family members and partners to gain sympathy and build up a following before being found out.
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And sometimes I'm so glad I'm oblivious to all of these goings on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my mate Posh but she knows this ..
A few other fun posters have UNLOS 'D but I'm going nowhere "
Has she left too? I just expected she had gone quite?  |
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"I miss my mate Posh but she knows this ..
A few other fun posters have UNLOS 'D but I'm going nowhere
Has she left too? I just expected she had gone quite? "
That's what I thought too...that's a real pity. |
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"I miss my mate Posh but she knows this ..
A few other fun posters have UNLOS 'D but I'm going nowhere
Has she left too? I just expected she had gone quite? "
She hasn't left no but no longer on the forums is kinda what I meant lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my mate Posh but she knows this ..
A few other fun posters have UNLOS 'D but I'm going nowhere
Has she left too? I just expected she had gone quite?
She hasn't left no but no longer on the forums is kinda what I meant lol "
Still. That’s a shamed, I thought she was cool on here. |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names"
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Memory-schmemory! These guys have got Excel spreadsheets to keep abreast of all the goings on!
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With regards Moon Grey Cat - he messaged me a few days before UNLOS"ing, lamenting about his frustrating work schedule. Poor chap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember "
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people. |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people. "
Ok |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
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"I've recently just rejoined fab and noticed quite a few have left private parts
Spiderwoman,peachy,walkingtaff,Dockofthebay to name a few
And loads of new face
So question is who do you miss seeing around the forums?"
Have dipped in and out over the years after various house moves to different parts of the UK and have had a few reincarnations before remembering that I can just hide my profile
Still read far too many obituaries, but tend not to post any of them here anymore.
Miss some of the banter, but I don’t post here so much, so that’s down to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok "
You have started threads like this before so surely you remember quite a few names cause you listed them a few months ago. |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok
You have started threads like this before so surely you remember quite a few names cause you listed them a few months ago. "
Omg really...Just goes to show you have a great memory |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok
You have started threads like this before so surely you remember quite a few names cause you listed them a few months ago.
Omg really...Just goes to show you have a great memory "
I do I have an identic memory so I can't forget things even if I want to. |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok "
I have chronic brainfog for various reasons. I'd remember the person but never the user name.
I struggle to remember what I went upstairs for most times but fairplay, I do envy people with good memory skills
Can vaguely remember having that a decade or so ago |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok
I have chronic brainfog for various reasons. I'd remember the person but never the user name.
I struggle to remember what I went upstairs for most times but fairplay, I do envy people with good memory skills
Can vaguely remember having that a decade or so ago"
Same here...sometimes it's a blessing though |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok
I have chronic brainfog for various reasons. I'd remember the person but never the user name.
I struggle to remember what I went upstairs for most times but fairplay, I do envy people with good memory skills
Can vaguely remember having that a decade or so ago"
It's a blessing and a curse. I rarely forget anything good or bad. |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok
I have chronic brainfog for various reasons. I'd remember the person but never the user name.
I struggle to remember what I went upstairs for most times but fairplay, I do envy people with good memory skills
Can vaguely remember having that a decade or so ago
Same here...sometimes it's a blessing though "
Do you know what...you're right.
I'm going to try and not think of it as a loss from now on |
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"You guys have some memory to be keeping track of all those odd names
Either that or they are that invested in the site to remember
Nah some of us just make really good connections with people.
Ok
I have chronic brainfog for various reasons. I'd remember the person but never the user name.
I struggle to remember what I went upstairs for most times but fairplay, I do envy people with good memory skills
Can vaguely remember having that a decade or so ago
Same here...sometimes it's a blessing though
Do you know what...you're right.
I'm going to try and not think of it as a loss from now on "
Best way I find x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss NSA chick, insatiable Nynpth, Queen leviosa, Cindi Dreams, RoxiAnne, Ignite my body and Dana. All bloody lovely and fun on the forums. "
I endorse this list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was going to say hotwifeseduction but she’s back
Guess who's back back
Back again "
You! You're back with a new name that only a woman can look good with |
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