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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I get that not everyone is going to respond to messages sent. It's about what that person looks like. But how do you stand out with a message and get the balance right?!? Something that's not too rude, crude, boring or mundane,
Any tips on sending that first message?  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Definitely not Crude for me op or you'd be deleted immediately
Read their profile and try and point out something about them in your message,it shows you've read it..
Saying that, if a profile doesn't appeal to me ,I don't tend to reply to a message ,unless it's a really well written one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look for the whole package. If i see a red flag i don't bother. Just be yourself, be polite, non pushy or chat sexual stuff and the right person will respond "
Good day, pretty lady (takes off hat) Say, I was just wondering whether you wanted to perhaps get some things off your chest? I'm a great listener, and would quite like to spend more time looking into your pretty eyes...
Like that right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I get that not everyone is going to respond to messages sent. It's about what that person looks like. But how do you stand out with a message and get the balance right?!? Something that's not too rude, crude, boring or mundane,
Any tips on sending that first message? "
You could have a beautiful message sent and not get a reply simply because the person you sent it to has no interest , you wonder why but you have no choice , the person you sent it to, it's they that decide. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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I can’t say any of this actually works for me, so take it with a pinch of salt, but keep it fairly short, though not the three word message type thing, just say hello, make it clear you have read their profile where relevant, maybe something chatty or funny, and enough to give someone something to reply to if they are interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I get that not everyone is going to respond to messages sent. It's about what that person looks like. But how do you stand out with a message and get the balance right?!? Something that's not too rude, crude, boring or mundane,
Any tips on sending that first message? "
Read their profile and try and integrate into your opening message and include a face pic (only if you’re comfortable doing so)!
Just don’t expect anything in return and you won’t be disappointed!! |
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Other than that, my cupboard is empty my friend. Don’t make it sexual would be my only advice. Not the opener. 
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