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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think wearing condoms on here is a must x i know that everyone prefers bareback x but it's ok with your partner or wife or someone you know well x it's like taking a bath with your socks on lol. But each to their own x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Safe or bare? I ask if they've been tested recently regardless either way, and if they have proof. Condoms are not a magic failsafe to prevent some sti's. It's so easy to self test at home these days via free NHS/bought kits that nobody has an excuse. Although I've heard many  |
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Bare back with anyone unknown or in gangbang are you MAD ?
I hate to see updates asking for as many men as possible at once all bareback ! Yuch HELL NO
Safe sex always
The only time I personally would deem safe is in a relationship or regular partner with same ideals as me and then I would suggest we got tested together before it happened, even though I've NEVER had intercourse without a condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bare back with anyone unknown or in gangbang are you MAD ?
I hate to see updates asking for as many men as possible at once all bareback ! Yuch HELL NO
Safe sex always
The only time I personally would deem safe is in a relationship or regular partner with same ideals as me and then I would suggest we got tested together before it happened, even though I've NEVER had intercourse without a condom."
What, never?  |
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By *lackroses85Woman
over a year ago
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The majority of the time I play safe and insist on condoms, however, I'm not perfect and I have got carried away in the moment.
Usually I only play bare with regulars who I know are tested regularly.
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"The majority of the time I play safe and insist on condoms, however, I'm not perfect and I have got carried away in the moment.
Usually I only play bare with regulars who I know are tested regularly.
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u are absolutely perfect x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all depends on what the lady wants "
This kind of attitude worries me, for fab meets always a condom and should never be a question, in my opinion anyway, should always be assumed, any guy that I meet and gets to that point and doesn't start reaching for a condom (or asks about it just before with that one eye open) and assumes be can just slide in, I start getting the "icks" and I lost interest because if you are willing to shove it in with me, whoelse have you been poking bare?
Up to the individuals of course, all adults here but safe for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gosh fab has changed
People obviously meet in different ways but I get a bit sad when people are a bit horrified about trusting a person off here. You are meeting a person to get down and dirty with and share all sorts of body parts and actions and fluids but dont trust they arent riddled with disease and ailments at the same time and are disgusted about the thought of going bare with them.
I understand the mechanics behind it all obviously and the risks and yes a quick meet or club meets when you dont have time to talk and gage someone before hand fair enough. But if you've chatted a good long while and built up a bit of a thing with someone. It just feels a bit strange to think well yes I think you are probably diseased but I'll fuck you anyway but with a condom 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gosh fab has changed
People obviously meet in different ways but I get a bit sad when people are a bit horrified about trusting a person off here. You are meeting a person to get down and dirty with and share all sorts of body parts and actions and fluids but dont trust they arent riddled with disease and ailments at the same time and are disgusted about the thought of going bare with them.
I understand the mechanics behind it all obviously and the risks and yes a quick meet or club meets when you dont have time to talk and gage someone before hand fair enough. But if you've chatted a good long while and built up a bit of a thing with someone. It just feels a bit strange to think well yes I think you are probably diseased but I'll fuck you anyway but with a condom
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It's a trust thing for me, yes we may have chatted for a good while but at the same time it's a swinging site and not a dating site (I mean a proper one) and while they might seem into you, they probably are chatting to others too, saying the same thing to them, so before you know it one bareback meet leads to mutilple and down the line one of those is gonna back fire.
Also, I have had experience with the above, guy I was chatting to for ages, everything felt "good" everything was sound, we get to the act as we both touched on safety beforehand, he asks when about to enter with one eye closed and asked "condom?". I then find out by going on a social with someone mutual that he fucked her bare, while saying "safety first" was the top of his list. So no, as much as I'd love to trust people, even those I have been connecting with for a while, I don't. |
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Safe sex only with anyone other than hubs unless it's a long term thing and all parties are within the same boundaries - if with another man/couple they aren't doing it bare with others. There's a lot to it for that though.
One offs always safe sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gosh fab has changed
People obviously meet in different ways but I get a bit sad when people are a bit horrified about trusting a person off here. You are meeting a person to get down and dirty with and share all sorts of body parts and actions and fluids but dont trust they arent riddled with disease and ailments at the same time and are disgusted about the thought of going bare with them.
I understand the mechanics behind it all obviously and the risks and yes a quick meet or club meets when you dont have time to talk and gage someone before hand fair enough. But if you've chatted a good long while and built up a bit of a thing with someone. It just feels a bit strange to think well yes I think you are probably diseased but I'll fuck you anyway but with a condom
It's a trust thing for me, yes we may have chatted for a good while but at the same time it's a swinging site and not a dating site (I mean a proper one) and while they might seem into you, they probably are chatting to others too, saying the same thing to them, so before you know it one bareback meet leads to mutilple and down the line one of those is gonna back fire.
Also, I have had experience with the above, guy I was chatting to for ages, everything felt "good" everything was sound, we get to the act as we both touched on safety beforehand, he asks when about to enter with one eye closed and asked "condom?". I then find out by going on a social with someone mutual that he fucked her bare, while saying "safety first" was the top of his list. So no, as much as I'd love to trust people, even those I have been connecting with for a while, I don't."
I do understand fully yes, perhaps what I am thinking then is that we are having sex with people we dont fully trust. Which can't really be good for us on some level 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gosh fab has changed
People obviously meet in different ways but I get a bit sad when people are a bit horrified about trusting a person off here. You are meeting a person to get down and dirty with and share all sorts of body parts and actions and fluids but dont trust they arent riddled with disease and ailments at the same time and are disgusted about the thought of going bare with them.
I understand the mechanics behind it all obviously and the risks and yes a quick meet or club meets when you dont have time to talk and gage someone before hand fair enough. But if you've chatted a good long while and built up a bit of a thing with someone. It just feels a bit strange to think well yes I think you are probably diseased but I'll fuck you anyway but with a condom
It's a trust thing for me, yes we may have chatted for a good while but at the same time it's a swinging site and not a dating site (I mean a proper one) and while they might seem into you, they probably are chatting to others too, saying the same thing to them, so before you know it one bareback meet leads to mutilple and down the line one of those is gonna back fire.
Also, I have had experience with the above, guy I was chatting to for ages, everything felt "good" everything was sound, we get to the act as we both touched on safety beforehand, he asks when about to enter with one eye closed and asked "condom?". I then find out by going on a social with someone mutual that he fucked her bare, while saying "safety first" was the top of his list. So no, as much as I'd love to trust people, even those I have been connecting with for a while, I don't.
I do understand fully yes, perhaps what I am thinking then is that we are having sex with people we dont fully trust. Which can't really be good for us on some level
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That's a good thought process. 100% agree.
I look at it this way, I don't meet someone unless I am absolutely sure they are for me and who wouldn't love bareback sex and while I trust them enough to meet them, if they are also having bareback sex with others and I am doing the same, somewhere in-between getting tested etc, might lead to something nasty and I would like to protect myself and my playing partner as much as possible.
The only time I would do bare, besides my husband of course if it was an exclusive fwb situation and we are both tested prior, that's the only time. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think it's a good idea to assume that people will lie/omit details in order to have sex with you.
So take responsibility for your own sexual health. Even if it means insisting on condoms. |
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB"
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB"
Let me just say, there's no way I would go BB, what I wrote is what anyone could say, so they got tested, clear, but in the mean time they've had sex with 4/5 guys, all BB, are they all clean, they won't know if you are and you won't know if they are |
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !"
Ok the top bit read yea but ! Lol
Simply put no chance im fucking anyone bb without being in a relationship and tested together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use a mix of gloss paint and hand sanitiser so the bugs just wash away as i also disinfect her anuaanus ffs grrrrr"
I thought it was the plural of anus  |
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !"
I think she was trying to prove a point . Although I could be wrong. It does happen occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !"
Read my last quote, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !
I think she was trying to prove a point . Although I could be wrong. It does happen occasionally. "
You're right I was, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its one of those where cock says no but brain says yes . think most guys follow their cock if poss and take the chance  "
I’m taking no chances . Fuck that …
I’m not gonna give to a next one something from the past . Never .
If the path ain’t clean I ain’t walk in it . Simple as that .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condoms always, unless it's my partner. Even with condoms being used I show my meets my test results and ask to see theirs too due to some STI's being transmitted orally.
Nell |
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !
I think she was trying to prove a point . Although I could be wrong. It does happen occasionally.
You're right I was, "
Sorry but it didn't read like that, didn't mean offence, but I stand by my statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !
I think she was trying to prove a point . Although I could be wrong. It does happen occasionally.
You're right I was,
Sorry but it didn't read like that, didn't mean offence, but I stand by my statement "
You read it the way you were supposed to read it, and you're right with your statement,no one knows who's telling the truth, so for me it's always a condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !"
I hope when you did get tested you were fine |
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"So, I got test 2 weeks ago, came back clear, who wants to fuck me BB
Yea but how many bb fucks you had since then ?????
Also hiv and something else cant be tested for until 6 months after the event !
I know this after years ago having a tattoo and then hearing they had been shut down for bad health practices went to get tested, first thing they asked was how long ago as takes a min of 6 months to show up !
I hope when you did get tested you were fine"
Yes thank you, was years ago but all was ok |
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Depends.
I have a lady friend that I don't wear a condom with.
And with everyone else I wear a condom.
If you're talking about what I'd prefer, I'd be much happier if I never had to wear one because sex feels better without.
I don't want babies or infections though, so slightly shitter sex is a small price to pay for some relative peace of mind
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"The majority of the time I play safe and insist on condoms, however, I'm not perfect and I have got carried away in the moment.
Usually I only play bare with regulars who I know are tested regularly.
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Same |
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"What say you ? 
I prefer the naked and intimate feeling of bare, but sadly we need to respect what women want."
Sadly you need to respect what women want? Sadly? SADLY?
Poor you, having to respect consent  |
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"Depends on situation! If it’s a random meet then I’m deffo wrapping before I’m tapping "
This! Plus I prefer regular sex and I stay tested plus keep a test kit for those that can't show me a recent test. |
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"Regardless of BB or Condoms, I just wish people would get themselves tested regularly and not be ashamed or afraid to talk about their sexual health."
Exactly!! testing 2 years ago but fucked 7 randoms since then means nothing!! |
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"Regardless of BB or Condoms, I just wish people would get themselves tested regularly and not be ashamed or afraid to talk about their sexual health."
Exactly this. Can’t believe how much stigma is still there around the sexual health. |
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